₦airaland Forum

Interesting story. Must everyone lives in Abuja? Do you have any bussiness commitment there? Is this to garner symphaty? Must you stay in 20 million worth of house to be comfortable? Go for a smaller one and if its worst get back to your home town. General pls enjoy your retirement.

Though im not a fan of Ðaniel because Ogun state was the worst state during his tenure. He pratically did nothing to develop that state. But i think Amosun should temper mercy with justice. There a plenty of land in Ogun state that are crying for development. Vengeance is for God.

Is that any black guy that did anything outrageous is authomatically a Nigerian? Just Thinking aloud. And did this guy has parent? Guess i did it again. Sorry

To cut the long story short, facebook consumed 1.2 million. Interesting. Can only happen in Nigeria.

A lot of people keep their opinion to themselves because of some doubting Thomas and snide remarks. @ Mydd4. Pls leave an open mind, not every body is a desperado. @ Op. Just trying to be of help. No vested interest

Kudos and bravos. Nice one.

This is beyond our president. He needs urgent help before some innocent souls are wasted again. If the northern leaders forum can not talk reasons to their sons to stop this dastardly act, Nigeria will be better off divided. So they can have whatever they wants in their side

We should encourage those that have the courage to speak out and not demoralise them, @ kakatazz. We are still waiting for the president to do something. Hopefully something good might crops up. Joining the que for Abati's entourage list

Sahara Reporters did a good job by challenging Abati. Our government has always been known for wasteful expenditures. If each and every journalist can be putting the government on their toe like this, there might been some change. Atleast they know the people are watching. Sure Abati must be cooking some other defence strategy

Drop your e-mail or no and you will be amazed at the amount of matured women and ladies that will get in touch. The society does not permit them to be open.

If you really do love your husband and want to enjoy your marriage, you have to lock up all the pre conceived beliefs in a box and fling it away. Even if your husband is planning to do so, you can win him over by your love and sincerity of heart. Show him love, affection and respect. Its when you bottled all this negative thots that mistrust set it and you start seeing motives in whatever he is doing. Love conquers all

No offense intended but most of the contributors here are brash, judgemental and abusive. He needs help thats why he came here. Matured advice not abusive words. Many of us are into worst scenario than him. I am not saying he did well but rather than condemning and cursing him, he need words of encouragement and advice to get out of this problem. Christ said he that has no sin let him cast the first stone. Anything that has to do with emotion is very very delicate

Take time to sit and think it thru. Nobody is above mistake but what you need to avoid is the reccurrence of such. Firstly, put yourself in the other man's shoe. If you were to discover your wife is having an extramarital affair, how will you feel? Secondly, what did the other woman have that your wife did not? And have you thought about the future of your baby? Have find out if the woman desire you as much as you desire her? Is she willing to be your wife and not just having an affair with you. Yes love does go sour. The feelings, emotions and affection seems not to be there. You no longer desire each other and you tends to feel you are in bondage. It does happen. But the goodnews is that you can revive your marriage, you can love your wife more than before. It needs your effort. Marriage needs to be constantly worked at. Now is the time for you to start. Cheers