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Iyaebe:
Are these men truly men of God?They are so materialistic,flashy and wealth conscious.I wonder if this is what Christ lived for.Humans should reach out to God directly and not through any medium(men of God) because there's no barrier between God and anyone and He needs no medium to seek him.Be wise.

Lol.. So poverty is a sign of being a true servant of God? Abeg, why do you go to work everyday?

athaboi:
Working or pressing his phone? What is his work exactly? As in director of a company or what?? Instead of her today he's posing for pictures she's there saying he's working.

His doing God's work. End Of Story!

Iyaebe:
Are these men truly men of God?

What kind of question is this? He was invited to the US for a program, his host lodged him in the Trump Towers, what under the heavens is wrong with that? If you as an individual strive to have a better life so as to have the good things of life, what's wrong with pastor's having the good things of life? Mind you Jesus Christ our savior said and I qoute " I became poor so that you might be rich" Stop all this unnecessary sentiment.

InfinityFabric:
Another used product detected. Keep exposing yourselves. Why can't you guys just accept a virtue is a virtue, always trying to bring the virtuous down.

You clearly don't understand English.

Hope your good? Jesus loves you! Tell him how you feel, it will help.

bepositive11:
Insecure man. Instead of worrying about not being better, believe that you can do better than everyone else. Communicate with her openly, honestly, and directly. Be open to learning what she likes and please her accordingly

Your virgin wife may even cheat on you because she felt that she missed out. You think she would be happy knowing that she's only slept with one man throughout her life? Keep fooling yourself

She no open leg before marriage when she get all the freedom, na after marriage she go just throw caution to the wind? The way some people reason is difficult to comprehend.

Truvelisback:
Haven't u done the same before? Haven't u fornicated before? I'm 100% sure that u av fornicated before.

Lol..I pray you get understanding.

shegun4sur:
So sex is a sin to whom

Fornication is a sin.

franklingud:
Of course it will sound trash to your lost ears.

These days we don't tell people to repent, we tell them to continue sinning let's watch the outcome.

So True. God will just have to show mercy Abeg.

Divoc19:
Even without marriage it still natural.
Marriage is just a commitment to fnuk one or 2 or more persons.

It's deeper than that. I pray you get the understanding.

shegun4sur:
Socially wrong is what you prefer

Absolutely!!! Don't follow the crowd to commit sin.

Yeah, that's true. But read again, I clearly wasn't forcing anyone. I was stating the obvious. Christ didn't force anyone to follow him, but he told them of their evil doings. We all know how God judged Sodom and Gomorrah for similar transgressions. Abeg Nigeria cannot survive that kind judgement we need to remind and rebuke ourselves, cause these days, no one wants correction, the devil is trying so hard to normalize sin. Thank you

Rosement:
That is because a lot of people are now preaching condemnation and not repentance, should people go and commit suicide because they made a mistake. There is a big difference between correcting and judging. Our own is to preach and leave the rest to the Holy Spirit, we can not force anybody to repent, if you want to preach to sinners there is a way you have to go about it, if God wanted to force people, he wouldn't have giving us freewill. God does not just want us to fear Him, He wants us to love Him that was why He sent Jesus to world to explain to us that the whole excess of the law is love.
I can follow the law without loving my neighbours but I can not love my neighbours without following the law. Sometimes, you might have to pick between love and law, the mid-wives picked love over law, they spared the lives of the Hebrew baby boys including Moses and lied to the king and God blessed them but a foolish Christian would have obeyed the king and killed the babies. Love is greater than the law.
For instance,
When you force people to do something, you are not instilling any values into them.
African mothers are strict but how many of them have been able to force their female children to remain a virgin till their wedding night, the best thing a mother can do is instill values into her kids because when she is not there those values will remain with them.
They would not say mummy can not know, they would say God is watching. That is why it is necessary for parent to spend time with their kids and not be hostile to them. Let your kids learn from other people's story, let them about people that took the wrong route and ended up failing, they won't want to follow the route that leads to destruction. Share people pregnancy stories with kids, take them to the hospital, let them see sick people.

Divoc19:
Sex is a natural thing.
Only cheating is wrong

it's natural in marriage.

There were 10 virgins in the Bible, 5 were wise and the other 5 were foolish. What made those 5 wise was cause the came with extra oil for their lamps. So in this context, let's say the extra oil was " character". You cannot be a virgin alone, it just doesn't work like that, you need to have some extra oil. That been said, I want you to know that being a virgin is a matter of the heart. It is a deliberate decision, a very conscious one at that. It takes a high level of discipline, self control and self constraint to keep your body in this generation bankrupt of morals.
Now, I'm not talking about those virginal virgins who have done everything sexual but haven't been penetrated. That's not virginity,that hypocrisy.
So in as much as character is essential, you need to know that it takes the same " character" to keep yourself. Some girls feel the can do and undo, but at the end of the day, console themselves with " I can cook, I can clean, I am not dirty, I know how to satisfy a man etc" Now that's their definition of character. And please let's stop trying to associate negativity with virginity.

Gee64:
RULE OF THE THUMB
*Knack the orthodox way if you must knack.

*Don't put your prick into every hole on the female body..go through the normal channel.

*If you are a female, don't knack with an animal; it is unethical.

*Even if you don't stimulate your organ to ejaculate, nature would still push out the fluid when your cup is over-flowing.

*Don't commit adultery.

*To avoid STI, use the condom appropriately.

*My dear, knacking is sweet.

I have no words�

batb:
I don't think so, I think this a beginning of a conversation on how sex is perceived, used, distributed and the right to have sex on your terms especially for women (men do this all the time and get away with it) without religion or cultural manipulations in our society!
I think people will start to see sex for what it is! Sex is just sex! There is no spiritual blessings or lack of it as a result of having sex or not having sex! Sex is basically physical pleasure and that is where it ends!
In addition, there is no Holy or Dirty sex except for sexual crimes or consent!

You have no idea what Sex means.
Go and read the BIBLE!

shegun4sur:
Just imagine what a woman is typing to demean her fellow woman.
Whatever you count as qualification for being worthy to be a partner is your choice, don't try to force it down everyone's throat.
Which useless shame sef
Na fúck she fúck. She steal una destiny ni??
What is abnormal there. Is she a minor

In your bid to be Socially Correct Abeg reserve some dignity somewhere.

Iamgrey5:
So the teachers and pastors don't have sex too.

Or was she having sex for Money? (Prostitution)


So because she is a star she shouldn't have sex again?

Let's rest Jare. She's wrong.
End of story!

CalabarPikin:
All diz noise for natural thing were person do oooh......cuz say her own kas

Fornication isn't natural! It's a SIN.

They clearly were hypnotized.

suffering:
OP heavily consumes porn.

lol.

Smartb0y:
kinda like most have given into their "inner hoe".
These days its tasking finding a decent lady.
pretenders everywhere lol.
you're doing good,keep it going!

Thank you.

Smartb0y:
wow thats deep .
not gonna pretend like i got a clue what you talking about lol.
for the most part,i was more fascinated that the thread was created by a lady.

Abi. Not all ladies fling wide their gates.

Smartb0y:
i admire what you're doing,i really do but where is this coming from.
whats the inspiration behind it

From a deep place.
I feel God's pain I guess.

*The comfortability we attach to sin.
*Lack of fear of God.
*Do whatever makes you happy, whatever rocks your boat.
*Intentionally going against the WILL of God and expecting him to understand etc. The list goes on and on. It's sickening and painful to watch, seeing how much God loves us and all he wants is the best for us, but we don't understand. SmartbOy

Smartb0y:
what are you hoping to get outta this

Lol. I'm making it clear to him that despite our differences he is not condemned.

Bluewitch:
Older generation did all these stuffs only that there was no social media to show it

True. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't caution ourselves.

MrBrownJay1:
i love you too brother, not because anyone commanded me to do so, but because i have no reason to hate you.

Likewise! A pleasant evening to you.

MrBrownJay1:
again...LOVE THY NEIGHBOR, not "love thy neighbor so long as they abide by your xtian teachings"

I love you brother just as Christ commanded. Do have a pleasant evening!

eebraa:
1.It's obvious that her sex partner recorded the clip with her consent because she was alive to her environment and would have noticed he was recording their intimate moment( if she can hold her shifted pantie the way she did, then she knew what was happening). Therefore the recording was with her consent.
2. I don't believe her sex partner uploaded it by mistake. He knew what he was doing. It's Snap chat abeg.
3.I just hope her young fans and followers won't emulate her by having unprotected sex and think it's normal.STDs and STIs are still killing people out there. I'll advise her to go for STD and STI test.

STDS na your wahala? What about sexually transmitted demons?

Elporo:
What news to you it ain't news to me %$^
What's blue to you it ain't blue to me #$#%

It seems I'm trying to spoil your career. Sorry, but the truth must be said.

MrBrownJay1:
banditry/murder is a crime, while fornication/promiscuity isnt... stop comparing apples with oranges.

The word of God is law. I pray you understand and know that this God created you. You didn't fall from the sky. So if he says it's a sin, it's a sin.


"your" god is "your" compass, other people's god is their compass. stop assuming that "your" god is the ultimate for every soul on this earth. stop assuming that your religion is the ultimate on this earth. there are many people out there who aint xtians and who therefore wont align with xtian laws, AND TEHRE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. its called freedom of choice (so long as it aint a crime nor against the law)

God is the ultimate.


thats not what you are doing though.... what you are doing is trying your shove your xtian views down people's throat and change them into being like you.

again, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with what you view as fornication/promiscuity. many people out there arent married yet have great families/lives and children. furthermore, many highly respected men of your so called holybook (Abraham, king David/Solomon) fornicated and had countless babymamas and mistresses, and they were never punished by your god. the only time one of them was punished was because he had sex with a "married" woman....but if a woman was single/unmarried, it was ok for any of these men to fornicate with her. duh!

Lol..I'm not shoving nothing. But as I said earlier, when I see a blind man, I try to show him the way. Now it's either he accepts or rejects. But if he rejects, we both know the end result.