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izaray:
This girl sef, Dec 6th, you posted this topic here...Today again the same thing...I fine it so difficult to understand why you are repeating this virginity issue over again. Haba!!

To lay emphasis.

Marshalxv:
I seriously don't understand your recent obsession with virgins. Haba, na person force u go break ur kpekus! sister,wetin don lose don lose ,get it straight and let our good virgins be.

On a serious note,virginity without a character amounts to trash.

haha!! we are saying the same thing.

O!! your story touched me. As christians, we have the assurance that when we stumble and fall, with the help of God we will get back on our feets. Many atimes, it has happened to me. When we feel so sorry abt our sin and the fact that we once went astray.. Its called Godly Sorrow. The fact that your sincere and for you to even speak out means ur truly sorry,and Christ is pleased. Just repent from your sins and mean it from the depth of your heart,ask for God's forgiveness and he will take it up from there. Pls find yourself a Bible Believing church,so as to have a spiritual covering over you and your family. Its neccesary. I wish you all the best in Jesus Name,Amen.

post=63216711:
In the same tone,
when it comes to pets/animals,.I don't trust Nigerians, they can eat anything!
No be so sis?!

Hahaha!!! na so o!!

When it comes to pets!! I salute the oyinbo's..The will do anything for them.

So, i opened up a thread with the subject "Most None-Virgins are jealous. Wo!!! I was attacked like crazy lol..That aside. Today i want to speak to the Virgins.
Honey, that your a virgin doesn't make u a Saint, you can't be crowned a "Good Girl" because u are keeping ur self, your character earns you that status. If i claim to be a virgin, and i have a terrible character its all TRASH! Your virginity can't keep a Man,your character will. If You are a Virgin with a BAD character!! My sis pls change..Your Husband is not just after the virgin in You,but he also longs for your Character.

marvin902:
op do me a favor and change the title of this thread..
it sounds as if your gloating over none virgins..
being a virgin is good buh those not make someone pure of heart...

O yes, a girl can't be tagged a Good Girl cause she is a virgin,your character earns you that status. I am only advicing virgins,not to give into pressure. I am also aware of the pain none-virgins go through because the lost it.

RickandMorty:
What an unnecessary write up, I think her message is clearly to inspire other virgins not to give into peer pressure, which make sense considering the kind of society we live in today. There is no place in her message where she puts down non-virgins - but of course you don't expect virgins to pressurize other virgins into having sex,that's the only context in which she had to mention NV's.

finally!!!! someone understands my point.

Gggg102:
what if I say I choose hell?

huh? its horrific.

Saraki looks up to Atiku,as his God father.

Seun:
No, the part of the bible you're talking about only applies to Jewish women. It includes a lot of other rules that Christians don't follow.

huh? the bible applies to everyone,not only to some people.

Gofwane:
Ammmeennn!! Halaluyah
Have a nice day, sister Nkechi abi na sister Chidalu sef.

Lol

Ginaz:
What you say doesn't make sense I'm sorry to say. So someone would force you to join them or not? You don't have a choice of saying yes or no? Would they kill you if you don't?

Your assessment doesn't hold ground. Peer pressure is rampant. I don't like makeup and don't like making my hair most times. When I was in school, you need to see the stares I got. I was tagged a plain girl, some said I don't have class right in my face . But did I say they were jealous?

No cos it's a peer pressure, they want you to be like them cos they don't have the guts to be like you.

Why I'm angry it's cos your tittle is not right. Non virgins jealous of virgins? Really? it is discriminating to those who had a rough start. Like that 15yr old girl

I should as well open a thread on makeup girls jealous over non makeup girls. Does it make sense?

ok, i understand.

Gofwane:
..... she be Sister Nkechi!

Na them dey get hymen wey strong like original American jeans. You will need a scissors before you can dis virgin them and Sometimes only scissors is not enough sef, you will have to add it with fasting and prayers

Lol...But thank u,and God bless.

shaybebaby:
The struggle is real. Even you with your black hat like a medieval witch's hat (only thing missing is a broom) too is saying "y'all"? When you aren't American.

Shows your struggle is internal, trying to feel better about about some of your choices or lack of.

Yous a virgin? Good for you. Thinking of losing it? Your choice. Want to keep it? Your business. Ultimately, only you get to decide what you do with your body. Mates might pressure you but if you do the do, it's all on you, your choice and no one else's fault. (except for rape)

Lol..But thanks anyway.

[quote author=Ginaz post=63207823]Ya I do, everything in life is about choices. If you wanna marry you gat to make choices same with a smoker offering cigarette to someone that doesn't smoke. He has to make a choice if he wants to be a smoker or not.

Same with virginity. I am not saying being a virgin Is bad but you goading it over someone that is not, is wrong. A little girl in my hood has started sleeping around she is not yet 15. Her parent would beat her and drive her out of the house for days.

She didn't just decide to sleep around, lack of parental care and guidance was responsible. What she needs now is love and care not beatings!

What I am saying is, a lot of bad situations can messed up the mind. Hardships, hunger, starvation, lack of love and abuses are reasons some people made a choice of losing their purity. You can't judge them you don't know the pains.

I am not here to judge non-v, circumstances led to them loosing it. I understand the pain the also go through for being non-v.

All of a sudden this fulani men have so much confidence,two years ago the were in their bushes, no one was hearing abt them,but now....Wo!! the are bold!!

I'd like for ya'll to understand my point. A girl can't be crowned a Good Girl cause she is a Virgin, your character earns you that status. But ya'll can't deny the fact that some virgins are been tagged Old School cause of their choice for sexual purity. Go to higher institutions, a girl with non-virgin friends is often victimized by her peers, why? She has something the have lost,so its either she Joins them or she is out. What do u call that? Mind you, I said some Non-virgins not all.

[quote author=Ginaz post=63206585]Please this is so bad on all levels!

Virginity is a personal choice, just like life is a personal choice. Why do you think someone should be jealous of you for the fact you are a virgin? If your understanding of virginity is about being above others morally then you don't even have self worth but hide behind the walls of virginity to give you one.

Virginity signifies purity in a sexual sense! It ends there! It doesn't make you different from others cos believe me there are non virgins who have a heart of gold that I bet you don't have!

What of girls that lost their virginity through rapes? Or through mental abuses? Or those little girls in the north that had no say about their virginity being married off to men old enough to be their fathers? They should be jealous of virgins eh?

I guess u did not understand me. Am not trying to undermine non-v, moreover its tough being a V these days. What i meant what that out of guilt, SOME NOT ALL virgins feel jealous.

LoocheeManuel:
I'm going to hell,i watch things i do,but i stil sin very often,i don't want to miss heaven...i know i will die one day,or any moment,i want heaven

I love your sincerity, just make up your mind for christ, and i KNOW HE will help you.

donstan18:
I love the maturity you used in replying her.

They obviously proved your thread right by commenting with Jealousy and hate.

When you see pained non-virgins, you'll know, especially the ones that lost it because of okpa and nutri-C.

Being a Virgin is dope for those that cherish and loves it.
Being a non-virgin is also dope for those who ain't Jealous of virgins.

If you are truly a virgin.... Thumbs up, It ain't easy.


drops pen!

Thank u, am grateful.

zombieHUNTER:
Thanks dear... Do you like truthful guys

lol, was thanking u for the insult.

Honestly, lets say Jesus was to come today. Do you think you will make Heaven or Hell, with what your doing now.

Hedonistically:
See her Deeper Life cap sef. What are you doing in Nairaland's romance section? All these sex-starved dick loving fake SU hypocrites talking about virgin this and that. You should be fasting and praying as expected, rather than forming NL slayer with a fake moralistic opinion.

Thank u

QueenSekxy:
jealous you with that your cap
nne,,I envy intelligency not that smelly cùnt of yours. .

Thank u

Daddy Enenche be blessing us like daily!! Thank u Sir.

O o! Bobrisky be leading people astray.

zombieHUNTER:
You are ugly jare
Don't allow that guy to deceive you

Just waste my Mb

i don't need anyone to tell me how i look, because everything my God created is beautiful. So i'm ok with that. But thanks anyway.

danvon:
Referring to the nation

o no.

oooduancalmdown:
I am not a religious person. Though I was born into a Christain family, I have since left it.
I believe my destiny is in my hands.
I don't believe anybody is behind my success and failure.

Huh? without God,we are doomed!!

zombieHUNTER:
You are ugly jare
Don't allow that guy to deceive you

Just waste my Mb

Thank u

There is always Joy in the Morning.