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xendra:
But men been doing that since ages past and you didn't open thread for that. Nonsense. women are learning from the evil foundation most men have laid

Asin ehn ..yeye dey smell

We want happiness....

MrDvc:
Hello guys I don't masturbate but porn is my problem.
Whenever I watch porn I start releasing even without touching my private part.
And I want to stop it

It takes discipline to stop dearie....
Yhu have to try to cleanse yhur thoughts....the thought of anything sexual is what will push yhu to watch porn...

Draw closer to God...read yhur bible....
Always occupy yhur mind... avoid being idle and alone...
It'll help

Yhull have to come down from yhur high horses first...ma'am

boiz2men:
my question was about "REACTION TO PROVOCATION" ... sexual harrasment/nagging are just variables that could lead to provocation.. thats the point i was trying to make. the reaction is a slap (for instance) .. why is a slap for one justifiable but not the other.. this was my question...

p.s: anything that can lead to provocation is a variable e.g (insults,religion,sexual harrassment,tribalism,political views, nagging etc). i was looking at a general perspective. i hate that i had to break it down..

I totally understand what yhu meant ...and I still insist it doesn't fit the context because "sexual assault" is a different ball game of provocation all together...and yhu can't equate it with anything else...

Plus we were trying to draw a rational conclusion void of sentiments and emotions...
That example is a very sentimental one...

My point still then remains that provocation should not warrant violence.... because during our daily activities no matter how hard we try... because we deal with different people and personalities everyday... we'll get provoked whether we like it or not....but that doesn't mean we should resort to violence...

If everyone act based on provocation ...there will be total anarchy , chaos and loss of order...

What differentiates us from animals is our ability to rationalize and deal with issues(conflicts) sensibly...
If yhu feel a particular lady is too hot for yhu ...why not avoid her. ...and find another woman ...for yhur own peace of mind and sanity...

MrCork:
I got out of my BMW 2weeks ago on the motor way to do mr good Samaritan...help a lady with her kids change her tyres.she was driving golf convertible. She say thank u but did not even bother to giv me her nomba..
.Am now guessing she was waiting to giv me her nomba when next she see me in 10years time (Just like u say). This is really sad for women

but I didn't mention 10yrs nah....
I'm sure she was expecting yhu to ask her..but yhu didn't..why didn't yhu...

Don't yhu think it would have been weird if she had just given yhu her number like that... plus she doesn't know yhu or yhur intentions yhu get ....

MrCork:
bro did u read thread from Jodha?...did u see how she saying she will giv the guy her nomba when she sees him in 10 years time...so we have to wait 10years to get ordinary nomba(smh)

Jixox....after y'all will be saying that women are dramatic when yhu guys are the dramatic ones...

When did I call 10years? Chai

MrCork:
...^^^^ there u go..u see them?

..so u bump into the innocent guy 10 years later..U will give him your n0mba...correct? This is exactly wot my issue is..women disgracing men & humiliating us just because they have power. Black women naturally rude

Oga i don't understand yhu o....how am I rude nah? How are women disgracing and humiliating men?....

Since he didn't ask ....for me to offer to give it to him when next we meet...is that a bad thing?

boiz2men:
You didnt answer my question because you felt it was sexual and a different thing.

YOU and YHU
YOUR YHURE

madam, stop giving me headache trying to read your submissions..

Yhur question had nothing to do with our topic of argument it was out of the scope...
And here am i saying that if yhu have anything in mind to say in addition yhu should feel free....



If yhu don't want to say it ...then leave it now ..

Yhull have to ignore my "yhu" "yhur" "yhure" ...etc
That's how i type...

Ireoluwa480:
How do you quench your sexual urge?

Read yhur bible dearie....watch a movie...not a sexual one...
Listen to music...study yhur book or something...

Go skipping... jogging or running...


Too numerous to mention

boiz2men:
@bold you didnt leave a question for your opponent to answer

I would have said something about the sexual harassment but I will let it slip (You made me laugh, I lost my words)

SideNote: is YOU/YOUR too difficult to type.

I left a question...yhu chose not to answer it...

Don't let it slide....say it if yhu wanna say it ..
Lost which words.... I won jhoor

But on a serious note hope yhu get where I'm coming from and where I'm going? Cause I get where yhure coming from...but I'm clueless to where yhure going...

YES!!!! Too difficult for me

MrCork:
..how?..he didn't ask for yor nomba?....r u kidding me?.


Truss me..he gay!!

He's not gay ... he's a gentleman...and that's what attracted me to him...

If I see him again I'll offer him my number...

Redeakaa:
Am really sorry about, and as a peace offering am offering u recharge card of N200 if u are interested

But to be Frank.... I really saw improvements from your side....there are better days ahead.....I really wish u guyz gud luck.......Arsanal for a very long time were a team I never wanted Chelsea to play..... Cuz the match always puts me on my nerves.... Cheers though

Lool thanks but don't bother...

Every Chelsea fan hates Arsenal and vice versa.... don't say yhu never wanted Chelsea and Arsenal to play...yhu totally wanted it...

In fact yhu were praying that you'd beat us...and yhu guys did...

But I sha promise yhu...this is the last time....Never again...

Don't mind me sha Cheers...

kinzation:
don't tell them the history
they're waiting to poke fun at us.

COYG..

one love babe✌️

COYG mehn.... Up gunners... Arsenal 4 life 4eva ...
Don't mind them dearie... we'll laugh the last laugh for sure

boiz2men:
speaking of different light... you are failing to understand that theres somethg called cause and effect.

The majority of men who raise their hands dont do so over mere misunderstandings... They do so when the women escalate these misunderstandings and keep on nagging over the issue that may have been forgotten... such repeated nags results to provocation.



speaking about right to touch a lady...

if a random guy touches your boobs in public, and u slap him as a reaction to the provocation...do you have the right to slap? if yes, why? and how is your slap (result of a provocation) different from a mans slap (result of a provocation) on you



please let your submissions be objective and devoid of emotions and sentiments (most women run away from intellectual discussions that are devoid of emotions. I am assuming you are rational)

I totally understand cause and effect relationship...yhure the one bringing sentiments and masculine favouritism into this argument... I'm trying to be as rational as possible...

Majority of men? When and where did yhu do yhur research and yhure quickly running into conclusions...some men have major anger issues and lack basic conflict resolution skills ....plus even manner of approach in resolving conflict...
Women are outspoken beings ... we're meant to talk...I tell yhu personally the quiet ones are more deadly ..
Women express themselves through words ...they express their feelings.. thoughts...and everything..
Or are yhu trying to say all women are mad?...that we just go about ranting and nagging for no good course?...for a woman to nag seriously the man must have provoked get beyond her elastic limit....So how is expressing her disapproval something that warrant panelbeating from her husband?


Using sexual harassment in this context does not fit at all... we're talking about something totally different...so do not base yhur argument out of point...

Lemme use my own example...So if yhure on yhur way to work and yhu board a taxi or something....then yhu and the driver starts arguing about maybe change or something....
So if the driver starts using "annoying" words ..yhull beat him up right?... If yes then don't yhu think the world would be no place to leave in...if everybody starts fighting anyone that annoys them...


I believe my wording as been as objective as possible....hope yhu see from my point of view now ....hope I've been able to convince yhu and not to confuse yhu ...with these salient points of mine...

I'm not a sentimental person... I'm always logical in my decisions

Redeakaa:
Alright......u win.....

By the way lemme sha teh u,
Am a chelsea fan...

Hope we're cool??

We're not o...yhu guys beat us the other day

Redeakaa:
Okay to be fair.....I don't support him, he is very wrong to even say such a tin in public, whether joke or not....and a decent guy wouldn't do such.....but you and I can agree to the fact that the lady on her own part didn't do well to come out with such, knowing the dangers behind it.....

I'm not supporting her in any way ....but we must understand that people are different...yhu don't expect everyone to be calm and decent....to spice up life .... we're supposed to have to good ..bad and the ugly...

Some people are wild and crazy but it doesn't give him the right to...spit trash..

Martinez39:
I feel your pain.

Feel yhurself oga

Redeakaa:
That's cute.....so u have basically witnesses most of the ups and downs ur club has faced.......so if I may ask....how many ups have u witnessed during this 15yrs

Let's not go down that road pls...

Redeakaa:
come on....haba...its me o....am a good guy

Yhu obviously don't sound like one....how could yhu support that niggur?

Redeakaa:
Wow.....this is interesting.....
First of all how long have u been a gunner

More than 15yrs

Redeakaa:
I nor blame the guy.......she looks inviting

Modified

Okay so here is the deal....
I see mixed opinion on these matter...

Firstly, I blv if rape should occur, and this lady happens to be the victim, she shouldn't have the mouth to run to her parents and cry, bcus she basically brought it on her sef

Secondly, I blv the guy was joking, and I blv its safe to say that it was an expensive joke.....its like using religion to joke in naija..

So the final verdict is that both parties are wrong...Gbammm!!!

Seun biko suspend this one too

Redeakaa:
Na now I read wetin u write sef......
I
Well clearly u are not an arsenal fan... Cuz dey are use to heart break..... Anyhow sha sorry o

Please hold it there...

I'm an arsenal fan...and we're definitely not used to heartbreak ....

supercase1:
I know u will support her u see, Y una no get sense, well janet doesn't deserve me and I will get a more prettier girl and a better car
u ladies can never make me feel bad godforbid

I'm sure the Toyota is not the reason why she dumbed yhu....

Yhur irrationality is.....

Yhu wey get sense...carry am boil yam chop.... Nonsense...

ELVISHOT:
How can you call them Dog, they are having fun..

Publicly having fun?

boiz2men:
My dear Nature and God abhors women who provoke men to anger...

Here's what the bible says bout a nagging women... That statement by that guy wasn't dumb. Its the best advice a woman who loves her home should adhere to.




Go and study Proverbs.

I'm not supporting a woman that nag .... all I'm saying is it doesn't give a niggur the right to touch a lady ....


I'm done pls... it's obvious yhu don't want to see things from a different light...

Oga yhure not a doctor at all....


Lemme not even say more...

Mtsheww....she made the right choice...

Kalapizim:
Caught as how

Are we kids ?

It happens...even if it's yhur house....yhu might forget to lock the door...and someone will just awkwardly barge in on yhu guys. ...

Shit happens. ..

I have caught others sha...

Back in 2013 or so....I was in my room when my neighbor came to call me around past 12 midnight...that I should come...I was awake so I quickly followed her...

She dragged me to her room ... unfortunately it was her next door neighbor and a girl that was getting down...

It was so loud Asin they were banging doors...the soundtrack and everything was mad...

We waited patiently to see who the girl in action...only to see ...one fat church girl....she was so embarrassed...

A broke guy is a jobless dumb lazy motherfaqker...

Rayhandrinni:
I remember you

Yhu remember me from?