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Hello everyone,

I have a friend who entered the US in September 2021 but his visa will expire in November 2021 and he was given 6 months to stay at the port of entry which is till next year and he will like to stay in US for five months . Should he stay for the five months since he has a six months stay (with expired visa) or should he return to Nigeria before his visa expiration?


Note: He doesn’t want to overstay

Please your opinion. Thank you

Were you a smoker? Or you once smoked and then stopped?

NeeKlaus:
Let me help the OP and reply you.
Don't start a conversation with a girl you just met or collected her number by introducing yourself.
Don't even start with a greeting. Let me tell you, She has A LOT OF GUYS that are greeting her at that particular moment. All their messages are flowing in and yours will just join the "queue of boring messages".

When texting a girl for the first time, try something different apart from greetings. Just start the conversation like you both had known each other for quite a long time. Start it from the middle. One conversation starter that always works most of the time is by commenting on her profile picture (if she has her picture there).

Don't say something like "You are really beautiful in your DP. You are gorgeous. You are blah blah blah". That's just lame. Comment on her hairstyle. Her makeup (women love this one), her nails, the dress she's putting on.

Here's a line if she's putting on a dress in her DP: "I swear, that dress is so fineeeee! But I promise you, it will fit me better than you. "

She will leave all the other messages and reply you. Why? Because you sent something different.

Thanks. So when she replies what next?

Dpsychologist:
Nt that. Which sentence do you use to chat her up?

hi my name is ...., I got your number from .... , how are you doing?

drLammy:
You can't always run here for help.. Help yourself by reading dating drills by harddon
..

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

Okay I’ll do that but it’s not straightforward there someone can’t just read and understand. Thanks

Dpsychologist:
What did you use to chat her up

WhatsApp. Sorry for my late reply

Dpsychologist:
First you need to understand that ladies have alot of guys chatting them asking them boring questions like how are you, have you eaten etc although it may look like you are caring but its boring almost every lady hears that all the time and thus becomes boring.

Don't be that guy, you need to capture her attention by being mysterious, little bit funny, confident and very sharp.
You need to try something new unlike others

Yeah thanks but can you give me exact words to use. I’ve sent the first text and she has responded remaining second text. She was introduced to me by someone so what words can I use for the second text ? Thanks

Dpsychologist:
Have you met Physically with the girl before?

Yes met her once but got her number through someone, then I’ve sent the first text she has responded and I’m blank after that pls help

Great work! There is this girl someone introduced to me, we chatted on WhatsApp. just greetings once and she responded. After the first message. I need to know what next to text her after greetings and how to continue the chat. Pls help!

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MasterRahl:
joeblack62, you are really on point. I'm yet to hear any message on that. In fact, Nigerian pastors give very few messages on sexual immorality as a whole.

yes some of them seem to be into it

joeblack62:
Not true?

that’s what they are saying

Funaki:
"So everyone has to be gay "

who said that?

Not true?

We all know homosexuality is a sin as seen in the Bible. Why are the religious leaders not saying anything about this or preaching about this. So everyone has to be gay meaning everyone has to be sinners. There is no holiness in gay. Or fornication please what do you think

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No biggie...If u like am then do am. Some people are atheists, ifa worshipers, Muslims and so on. No be everybody dey go church for Sunday na. But for me i wouldn't especially if i go church.

Neither of them is bad...Try to help without thinking of which would be profitable. From ur neighbor, to your girlfriend, to your enemy, to everybody bro. God help us all!

It's either you choose one or the other. Go for the N.D.A, that's my advise for you and remember "Joe black" told u so.

You are one of those who create unnecessary panic in the name of being funny abi...What is the meaning of this one now? Be creative and make a better joke joor. See ur head like thermometer!

Her Social Media craze

Kush

Just calm down @ op...You'd be fine. Don't think too much about how difficult it is approaching that girl cos that fear you feel only exists in your mind. Most of them don't even notice it. make sure you start hanging out with male friends more often, dress more comfortably, look nice, smell nice, talk to few girls just as friends. And as time goes on you'd be just the man you wanna be. Focus more on making yourself a better person, don't think you're weird, this is what most guys have gone through. Just calm down and get over it.

Well, I'd love to av a wife as strong as my mum...And maybe sum of her other characters.

I'd burn immediately for 50 million naira. Whatever you learn in school is in your head, not on those papers.

Kenenwa: Nice one.No offense, first university in Africa,what's the name and place?

It's the university of Timbuktu, a city in west Africa. There people came from all over the world to study. The university had up to 25,000 students who came to learn sciences and religion(Islam).

Here's a little excerpt from a poem( 3 pages) i wrote for all black people who don't appreciate themselves and their ancestors, yet worship the white man as god. Just an eye opener for all. Dedicated to the United States of Africa!!!


Have we lost our way?

Have we forgotten our heritage?

They accuse us of being Barbarian and savages when we indeed brought civilization to the world

The first University in the world was in Africa, so how dare you plague us with words

You all came to study in my place, so why steal my inventions and call me a novice

My people will rise, i tell you today, my people will rise

We can't afford to divide because it is our destiny to unite

Were the white men born with cars, planes or helicopters?

You all stole my Inventions, Check the arts i did back in the days, i had all those things drawn on them

You tell my people i lived on trees, that i and my people were cannibals, that i never knew what science was

Truth is, You were the savages, you are the barbarian, when i was making inventions, you were making weapons...

Unite Africa, Stand up Africa, and in Unity shall we triumph.

I don't know people's problem. Why the comparison btw Abia and the cities you mentioned. Okay Abia is better than Ibadan and Oshogbo. Does that change the fact that Abia stinks?? Someone just told the truth and you're here accusing ppl of being tribal when that is what your post is all about. This is one of the reasons Nigeria and Africa as a whole is disunited. You want to claim superiority over Ibadan and Oshogbo. That has no meaning. Abia is better than some places in America too. Do u feel better now? The truth is just told, you should spread the word and demand change from your govts. Kudos Arthur Eze!

smh...That's all i can say.

eunisam: I wonder how many millitant group are there in the North.it seems every northern state has theirs while some brand their name as CIVILIAN JTF.b4u know it,they will turn to insurgents.lol

Amnesty should be able to handle civilian JTF. Boko haram is a bigger threat for now.