norris123:
Hi everyone, there’s this sweet girl I met in my place of work, mine is directly opposite her own place of work and her father owns the business.
It all started last year after she finished her NYSC, I got attracted to her though I have been crushing on her any time she comes back from school then but wasn’t ready to tell her not until this year I asked for her number which she gave to me, we started talking on phone and she would come to greet me when she comes to work so I asked her out one Sunday and she came we had some conversation and I told her I like her and would love to date her but she said it won’t be able to work since she can’t stay for long here( she’s planning for masters at another state). I didn’t give up on because I already made up my mind she’s mine so I started following her like before and I asked her out for the second which she came and we had a wonderful time though no signs were there so I continued to follow her, to cut the story short she accepted to date me in an usual way while we were standing on road.
The problem now is she is not like other regular Nigeria lady, many things don’t trip her and I was very much concerned about that because we were not flowing the way I wanted, one day we were discussing and she told me she has been trying to know if our relationship will work but it seems she’s not getting any emotional, she told me she’s feminist though I have been thinking about that too I told her I will try and change d way I do things and she should just calm down. There has been an improvement though I NEED AN ADVICE ON HOW I CAN WIN HER HEART FULLY.
She will relocate for her masters soon and I won’t like to lose her, she’s very dear to me.
Advice needed please

remiproxy:
Hello fellow nairalanders. Am a final year student with cgpa of 4.24. Now I need to ask this, with this cgpa of mine, can I graduate with a first class(4.5 at least). What are my chances? I really need this first class badly. Is it possible?

Greennotes:
The estranged wife of the founder of Christ Embassy Church, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome – Anita, seems to have moved on with her life following her break up with her husband as there are strong indications that she has remarried.

Anita sparked up marriage rumours recently after she introduced ‘Schafer’ to her maiden name.

She authored her latest article ‘A Simple Prayer’ with the name Anita Ebhodaghe Schafer, on her online Christian portal at www.pastoranita.org.

DAILY POST stumbled on the article where it was confirmed she had remarried, as one of the approved comments said, “Congratulations Pastor Anita for your new name.”

Two other comments – “Congratulations Pastor Anita for your new name,” “It was such a beautiful ceremony,” also confirmed that the mother of two has tied the nuptial nuts.

It would be recalled that Anita was last year, involved in a messy break up with her husband, Chris, after she claimed he was involved in illicit affairs with female members of the church.
She said she tolerated abuse for so long and subsequently, the ministry pulled down her profile from the church website, a development that showed all was not well with the family.

She had confirmed she was no longer a part of, or involved in, Christ Embassy, also known as, Believers LoveWorld INC.

Anita, however, officially filed for divorce at Central Family Court, High Holborn, London, UK, citing her husband’s “unreasonable behaviour” and inappropriate relationships with members of staff, an intonation of “adultery” as her reason.

https://dailypost.ng/2016/10/24/chris-oyakhilomes-ex-wife-anita-remarries-changes-maiden-name/

IFEOLUWAKRIZ:


Are you a lecturer?

myuniben:
University of Benin first class graduate who is now snail farmer

According to him he started the snail farm during 2013 ASSU strike . He graduated from University of Benin with a first class honor and today is now into snail farming as a full time business.

Source https://www.myuniben.com.ng/2019/04/uniben-first-class-graduate-now-into.html

asuustrike1:

Is itsekiri,Kabba Yoruba?

prettyeyes500:
with a man, 30 and above. I'm not picky about looks. I'm a Nigerian now living in Europe.

Sholaco:

What your sister did is shameful. Why is the so-called white man not in his native country?

DoTheNeedful:
My Observations

1. The woman is lazy and she is a liar. She claims to be a graduate of York University yet her English is very watery. They should deport
her;she is a disgrace.

2. The White guy who interviewed her is a terrible racist. He couldn't hide his hatred from Africans.


3. It's not only Africans that beg. I was shocked when I saw a White lady with two children begging for alms in front of a Walmart store
somewhere in the US. Up till that day, I never knew a White could beg to eat in a country like America.


I feel ashamed of this lazy and greedy woman though. I wish like tearing her better slap.

Mrdigitech:
lol...The soldier in mufti was severely beaten by the more tactical police traffic officer. Poor combat tactics by a supposed soldier. This one wouldn't last a week in Sambisa....

ricson11:
Faculty of management sciences, university of benin officially released the dress code for its students after months of several meetings and consultations.
check it out below

Angelanest:
This is lovely! A graduate of Niger Delta University and a serving corp member has got himself trending online after erecting a sculptural piece of the governor of rivers state, Chief Barr. Nyesom Wike in Eleme local government area of rivers state.

The corper identified as Timinipre Isaac Indiamaowei, with State code number: RV/17B/2605, erected the sculptural piece with the help of other students as part of community development service (CDS). 

The excited corper and others posed in front of the sculpture which was erected near the market square.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/10/serving-youth-corper-erects-statue-of-governor-wike-in-rivers-photos.html

bignoisemaker:
I read not long ago, a thread of a guy in school, complaining that his young girlfriend was too close to male friends. Guys beware! Dating a young girl is like taming a cheetah. Their chances of staying in a relationship and being loyal is slim.

Sorry to say, girls don't really know what they want and stand for it at age 18-24. For them, it's more able exploring and being open to their options. So, guys, save your time, emotion and finance for some one older

gloria34:
Met a guy April this year, we seem to have a lot in common and I really like this guy. we started dating and things have been going fine until last week. I travelled to Lagos in June (work related), in July, he went to port for NYSC camp (now at his ppa there). communication has been fine and all seem normal until he used a girl's picture (a corp member) as his d.p. if it had been his status on what's app, I would have considered it a birthday wish but it's on his d.p and there was no congratulation or birthday message to it. I waited for two days and he didn't remove the pix, I confronted him about it. he told me its non of my business, he can use anybody's pix 4 his d.p and I have no right to question him since he has never done same to me.
I got angry, we quarrelled and didn't talk 4 two days. I got fed up, apologized and he also did. we resolved it and he took down d pix but maintained his stand that I should not question him about his d.p.
though, we are good now, I feel kind of scared. I can't seem to trust him like I did few weeks back, we spoke last yesterday which is not normal (we talk and chat everyday). I feel reluctant to call him, I really want things to work out for us but I feel I am taking d wrong step

jaszplus12:
oh Lord! I thought I was alone in this! my dad passed on 18 years ago...I was like numb for a few months before I wept for his demise...
had to shoulder a lot of challenges thereafter and now each time I see my kids I suddenly miss him cos he passed before I got married. I always feel I need him to see them and enjoy the fruit of his labour so I can really do lots of things with him....but fate....I sincerely miss him! (sigh)
cheer up bro ...

otipoju:
after he died, I was busy being a pillar of support for everyone else while we were navigating our way out of a tricky financial situation.

About 5 years later after I got a decent job and my younger brother had moved to a new country and mum had overcome her health issues,....then I started to grieve....it was really traumatic for me and I had no one to explain it too.

MariaLavina:
Probably it took you twenty years to realize how much he meant. You must be passing through some things of recent that triggered memories of him.


I don't really know much about these things, so i will stay to learn

IAMSASHY:
ur babe sounds like she is in a hurry to see u, it's normal and am sure she misses u bt since u dnt hv enoff cash, dnt boda coming. Some women wl always sound dis way bt along d line wen u run out of cash, u wl see dia real colour. 2019 is far bt if she really cares, she wl wait. Dnt let anyone put u under pressure, u ar d one 2 spend, let ur pocket lead u, wen it says u shud com, den u cn com. Jst make sure, ur communication is 100%,as 4 d parents, try speak wt dem weda u ar coming or nt, very important

coolestofall:
Quick question dude. Are there no females over there? Why do u want to commit a blunder u might regret. Never take up responsibility of a female if u hvnt put a ring on it.

AlexCk:
Some families are different bro.
As much as im trying to understand ur view, u also have to honour their wishes.

2019 tho, that's like a year and some months from now, if u guys are determined to wait, it's possible, or better still try to make it possible to see them next year though. U just need someone understanding sha, hopefully her parents are not also pressuring her to marry sharply.

Like i stated, some families don't mind even if u don't visit, but not all families are the same.

If u can still convince them sha, it'll be cool, if not, just try to see the possibility of what i wrote shaa.



Wish u all the very best.

Cutehector:
Abeg I get confirm babe for you.

Draei:

It's gonn be more burden if she ends up coming,
Nigger move on and gather enough 'kudi' for
yourself since you both ain't ready financially.

Oxster:
Actually I did not read the post but I think the girl has no right to beat up her boyfriend in public. Maybe they should report the matter to their village elders but if the neighbour refuse to pay his rent they should just kill the landlord and forget about the missing car.