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Romance › Re: Am Available For Any Kind Of Volunteers Work by joinnow: 2:24pm On May 05, 2025
Sunnyrado:
How do I reach them, or do how can I get Thier website.
Thank you
Check the attached picture carefully. Two is listed there
Romance › Re: ‘’I Am Not In School, No Business, No Relationship’ - Nigerian Lady Cries by joinnow: 2:23pm On May 05, 2025
Though everyone's path is unique

1. Infancy (0–2 years)

Learning to walk and talk
Developing basic trust (attachment to caregivers)

2. Childhood (3–12 years)

Learning basic life skills (reading, writing, speaking)
Building social skills and friendships
Discovering personal interests and hobbies

3. Adolescence / Teenage (13–19 years)

Developing identity and self-awareness
Completing secondary school education
Building emotional and social independence
Exploring talents and career interests

4. Early Adulthood (20–35 years)

Completing higher education or vocational training
Starting a career or business
Building strong relationships or starting a family
Gaining financial independence
Discovering personal purpose or mission

5. Midlife (36–55 years)

Advancing in career or business
Raising children or mentoring others
Building assets (e.g., home, land, investments)
Refining personal values and legacy goals
Facing midlife reflection or transition

6. Late Adulthood (56–75 years)

Enjoying the fruits of long-term labor
Transitioning into retirement
Becoming a community leader or mentor
Focusing on health, travel, and relationships

7. Senior Years (76+)

Sharing wisdom and life lessons
Living simply and intentionally
Leaving a lasting legacy (family, spiritual, societal)
Preparing for end-of-life gracefully


Another version
Fela Durotoye's Life Stages
(4 Quarters of 25 Years)

1. First Quarter (0–25 years) – “Preparation Stage”

Focus: Learning, discovering identity, building foundations
Key Task: Acquiring values, education, discipline
Quote: “This is the season to know God and know yourself.”

2. Second Quarter (26–50 years) – “Manifestation Stage”

Focus: Career, business, marriage, parenting, leadership
Key Task: Applying what you learned to create impact
Quote: “Your time to build and shine.”

3. Third Quarter (51–75 years) – “Influence Stage”

Focus: Mentoring, guiding, managing legacy
Key Task: Pouring wisdom into others, strategic thinking
Quote: “You’re no longer climbing; you’re guiding others up.”

4. Fourth Quarter (76–100 years) – “Immortality Stage”

Focus: Rest, storytelling, legacy preservation
Key Task: Reflecting, handing over batons
Quote: “What will the world remember you for?”

Another version comes from Apostle Joshua Selman, who describes life in 4 seasons of 25 years:

Morning (0–25) – Preparation

Afternoon (26–50) – Manifestation

Evening (51–75) – Reflection

Night (76–100) – Transition
Romance › Re: Am Available For Any Kind Of Volunteers Work by joinnow: 1:53pm On May 05, 2025
Sunnyrado:
Am available for any kind of Volunteers work, casual or any kind of remote job.
Zero 81 six 33 41 four zero 7
Thank you
Check out this Germany needs volunteers

Phones › Re: Why Does Every Mechanic Still Have That Push Button Ancient Phone by joinnow: 5:30pm On May 04, 2025
HEAVEN4444:
no . I use places like Motoring hub etc
Ok.
The one at vgc junction and beside lekki conservation center uses android phone. Though they are young men
Phones › Re: Why Does Every Mechanic Still Have That Push Button Ancient Phone by joinnow: 4:52pm On May 04, 2025
HEAVEN4444:
Like I am yet to meet a mechanic with a modern phone and I have met many mechanics
So you are patronising road side mechanic.
Upgrade bro
Celebrities › Re: EFCC Prevented Us From Giving VDM Food – Friends by joinnow: 4:50pm On May 04, 2025
Is like Sultan through the Northern youth leader is using EFCC to get him allegedly
Politics › Re: FG Vows To Complete 284Km Kano–Maradi Rail Project By 2026 by joinnow: 6:31am On May 04, 2025
Is it the one Buhari started...
Autos › Re: I Have A Car Budget Of 4m by joinnow: 4:50pm On May 03, 2025
Retrovibes1:
Lagos?
Yes
Agriculture › Re: How Can I Control Monkeys In My Okra Farm? by joinnow:
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Agriculture › Re: How Can I Control Monkeys In My Okra Farm? by joinnow: 11:10am On May 02, 2025
Before Dangote built his refinery at Ibeju lekki. Those living there and close by normally put Kai-kai
Ogogoro
Sapele water
In bowl and wait the monkey will bring and become drunk and you pick them op
Romance › Re: Ladies, How Can You Truly Tell If A Man Is Serious About You? by joinnow: 5:45am On May 01, 2025
Greydebz:
Sometimes, a man can act serious I.e calls, attention, gifts, sweet words — and still not have genuine intentions. In a world where actions can be misleading, what signs should a woman really look for to know his heart is in the right place?

Let’s talk!
What are the real signs of a man who’s truly serious about you — not just playing the part?
1. Consistency Over Time

He doesn’t only show love when it’s convenient or when he wants something.

His attention, communication, and respect don’t drop once he “gets you.”


2. Future Inclusion

He talks about the future and includes you in it.

He uses “we” when talking about plans, not just “I.”


3. He’s Transparent and Honest

He tells you the truth, even when it's hard or inconvenient.

He doesn’t avoid tough conversations or hide things.


4. He’s Emotionally Available

He’s not just romantic—he’s vulnerable.

He shares his fears, goals, and even weaknesses with you.


5. Your Values Matter to Him

He respects your boundaries, faith, family, goals, and dreams—even when they challenge his comfort zone.


6. He Invests in Your Growth

He encourages your personal growth—not just what benefits him.

He pushes you toward your purpose and supports your wins.


7. He Integrates You Into His Real Life

You know his friends, family, routines—not just his phone calls and dates.

He’s not keeping you “in a corner” of his life.


8. He’s Reliable During Storms

When conflict or stress hits, he doesn’t disappear.

He stays, listens, works things out, and doesn’t manipulate you emotionally.


9. He Respects Your Time and Body

He doesn’t pressure you into sex or rush the relationship for selfish gain.

He’s patient and honors your process.


10. He Makes Sacrifices

He sometimes chooses what benefits you both over just what benefits him.

Real love gives, not just takes.
Autos › Re: I Have A Car Budget Of 4m by joinnow: 5:37am On May 01, 2025
Retrovibes1:
Please if you have good buy and drive cars within this range, good mileage, engine, ac, automatic. Please let me know below, I’m ready to buy this week.
Car will be thoroughly inspected by a professional so please be honest from the start.
Call +234 706 088 9299 meki autos
Properties › Re: How Much Does A Soil Test Cost by joinnow: 8:03am On Apr 30, 2025
Codegramer:
I have some inquires for the members of this forum who are into building and who've been involved in projects before.
How much does it cost to conduct a soil test in Nigeria, and how long is it likely to take
Location
Politics › Re: Mistaken Identity: How Lagos CP Was Arrested By His Own Men In Mufti by joinnow: 7:29pm On Apr 28, 2025
Solitechworld:
On


Culled from Adeduntan Ibrahim Yinka's Page
Should I laugh 😂 or laugh...
I am laugh 😂😂😂 ing
Travel › Re: Trump Administration Reverses Termination Of Visas For Foreign Students by joinnow: 9:53pm On Apr 26, 2025
Trump na confirm ADHD case study
Romance › Re: Lady Attends Her Ex-Boyfriend's Wedding, Sprays Him And His Wife Money (Video) by joinnow: 10:26pm On Apr 24, 2025
Ex come fine pass the wife. tongue
Politics › Re: FG Declares Bola Tinubu Int'l Airport As Alternative To Nnamdi Azikwe Airport by joinnow: 6:12pm On Apr 23, 2025
Cocolatti:
Nigeria is a joke.
How is Minna-Abuja road??
Very bad. No be to land for airport be the problem, but how do you get to your destination from there.
You forgot to add Terrorists on the road.
So it's a No No
Nairaland General › Re: How To Choose The Right Deck For Your Kleinburg Home by joinnow: 6:08pm On Apr 23, 2025
Add pictures
Family › Re: Must A Woman Follow Her Husband To His Church? by joinnow: 8:45pm On Apr 22, 2025
[quote author=LawWithEbele post=134906892][/quote]Please don't quote me.I won't respond.
I am only following a principle.

BIBLE VERSE FOUNDATION

Deuteronomy 22:10 (KJV)
“Thou shalt not plow with an ox and an ass together.”

Here:

God uses this farming law to teach spiritual wisdom.

Don’t mix what’s not meant to be mixed — it brings frustration.

Therefore to avoid frustration
1.Catholic Church should marry their members
2. Anglican Church should marry their members
3. Methodist Church Nigeria should marry their members
4. Nigerian Baptist Convention should marry their members
5. Presbyterian Church of Nigeria should marry their members
6. Christ Apostolic Church (CAC) should marry their members.
7. The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) should marry their members
8. Living Faith Church Worldwide (Winners Chapel) should marry their members
9. Deeper Life Bible Church should marry their members
10. Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries (MFM) should marry their members
11. Christ Embassy (Believers’ Loveworld) should marry their members
12. The Lord's Chosen Charismatic Revival Movement should marry their members
13. Synagogue Church of All Nations (SCOAN) should marry their members
14. Dunamis International Gospel Centre should marry their members
15. House on the Rock should marry their members
16. Daystar Christian Centre should marry their members
17. Common Wealth of Zion Assembly (COZA) should marry their members
18. Salvation Ministries should marry their members
19. Omega Fire Ministries should marry their members
20. Foursquare Gospel Church Nigeria should marry their members
22.Others

Note. If you are based in Lagos and you have check ✅ your area and didn't find your spec go to all your church branches in Lagos and all state your church is located you go find your spec.
Celebrities › Re: What Life Is Like For Sean Combs, Inmate 37452-054 by joinnow: 8:06pm On Apr 16, 2025
Haydens:
Prison is one of the best rehabilitation centre.

If I'm in the U.S or any white country if I feel that life is becoming unbearable I'll intentionally commit a crime that I will be sentenced to 1yr so that I'll use that one year and build my life, physique, mind, soul e.t.c solidly. There's no way that I can spend that 1 year of loneliness entirely on myself barring any distractions, phones, internet, women, noise, problems, atimes sleepless nights, family or friends communications e.t.c without being the best version of myself. Most times everything is not money.
Is everything ok.
Try go and become a monk for a year instead
Nairaland General › Re: Man Films Large Number Of Cows Moving At 1AM In Benin (photos/video) by joinnow: 9:16am On Apr 16, 2025
I feel they have been told to relocate huh
Travel › Re: My Italy Visitor’s Visa Was Approved !!! by joinnow: 10:44am On Apr 15, 2025
9JaSweet:
I did the processing myself by providing the necessary documents like passport, statement of account, my business registration certificate, land documents, birth certificate and most importantly letter of invitation from the host. I bought an Italy Tour package, so the company provided me with an invitation letter. I submitted all these documents to TLScontact office at Lagos Island on the date of my appointment.
So you did hybrid.
Clear.
Travel › Re: My Italy Visitor’s Visa Was Approved !!! by joinnow: 6:17am On Apr 15, 2025
9JaSweet:
I processed an Italian Tourist Visa early this year, I got an appointment January 31 and my visa was granted April 7. First time traveling
First of all congratulation.
Second did you process it by your self or through an agent
Romance › Re: I Want To Travel To Ghana For Greener Pastures. What Do I Need To Know? by joinnow: 12:00pm On Apr 14, 2025
Goodadvice01:
It's pump attendant. Basic salary is 50k. The distance is trekable from my house.. I won't be spending on transport.

Morning shift is 6:30 to 1. Afternoon is 1 to 8

It will give me time to try out some other online hustle

If I work for six months it's okay..
Good to go
Education › Re: Help!! How Can I Get To This Location From Cele Bus-stop,lagos,lagos by joinnow: 12:03am On Apr 14, 2025
jurrsh:
Good evening, please how can I get to this location: Dragnet Prometric Test Center, Katia Gardens, Plot 1676, 3rd Floor, Oladele Olashore Street, Off Sanusi Fafunwa Street, Victoria Island, Lagos.
Incase you find it hard to get eko hotel bus. Take a bus to obalende . Alight at the last bustop. Take a bus to eko Hotel roundabout... Sanusi fafunwa is just 5 minutes walk from eko Hotel roundabout. To your success
Romance › Re: I Want To Travel To Ghana For Greener Pastures. What Do I Need To Know? by joinnow: 5:37pm On Apr 13, 2025
Goodadvice01:
I don't want to go to Lagos again because of what I read here.. seems there's no opportunity for me there as I don't have B.sc certificate

I have already started planning my Ghana journey. I'll be submitting my CV for filling station work tommorow. once I start work and save like 100k to 200k (30 or 40k will be for transport), I'll travel to Lagos, and move from there.

I believe before 1 month time in Ghana, I'll get job or start doing menial works there.. (I'm okay with it as long as I have left my region and no longer in Nigeria)
How much (the lowest) should I budget for feeding and accomodation for the first one month?
How much will you be getting as salary from fuel attendant?
Or you mean petrol station manager. For this second option you can quickly save up.

But if it's the first option it will take you appropriately 6months to a year to save that your 100k.

Learn a skill B4 going to Ghana. Example learning how to sew senator
Or learn modern furniture and upholstery making
If you are serious it can be learnt in 6months or less.
When you travel to Ghana attached to someone first ( tailoring shop or furniture shop) and aim at getting your own business up and running in next 6months.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Exempts Smartphones And Computers From New Tariffs From China by joinnow: 6:33am On Apr 13, 2025
Romance › Re: Nivea Roll On: Does It Cause Armpits To Decay? by joinnow: 12:42am On Apr 13, 2025
Adonis69:
need an urgent solution and answer. My armpits are heavily paining me right now. I've been using Nivea products since last year. Now I can't even lift up my hands because of the excurciating pain I'm going to through right now.

Am I in danger of skin cancer?
Hope you're not using the fake one
Christianity Etc › Re: Ask Your Brothers In America, They Are Crying Now - David Ibiyeomie by joinnow: 9:09pm On Apr 10, 2025
Is it not better crying in America than crying in Nigeria grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ibrahim Traore, The Man Who Refused To Die After 19 Assassination Attempts by joinnow: 5:27pm On Apr 10, 2025
Sirianese:
This guy is a well-packaged fraud
Is everything ok
Politics › Re: Is Gbajabiamila Really Wearing A Bullet Proof Vest Here? by joinnow: 2:17pm On Apr 09, 2025
tishbite41:
Lol
Funny thing about this bullet thing is that a headshot will get the job done
He secure vital organs and
The only exercise is moving his head like lizard up and down then sideways to avoid been hit on the head
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: If You Want To Always Have Money, Avoid These 15 Things That Are Hated By Money. by joinnow: 8:29am On Apr 06, 2025
HeatSeeker:
The purpose of money is to spend it undecided. What is the point of storing value that will not be exchanged for something else that is of value?

In fact, your points 3,4,5 are off.
Money has four purposes
1. Invest it (on business and assets generating income) 20%
2. Save it to start investing 20%
3. Contribute it ( thithe and charity) 10%
4. Spend it.(On basic necessity and personal development and little fun) house,cloth food and etc 50%
If you are over 40 years
But if you are below then use 10-10-10-70%

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