₦airaland Forum

SamuraiXXX:
As a matter of urgency the government needs to pass a law which makes it mandatory for men who are financial capable to marry at least 2 wives each

Bro, end that nonsense for your house. Men with means are not even getting married but you want to enact a law that will make them marry 2? JUST STOP IT

atoliman:
a lot of women support their men when their men do not have money. Hoes do not care or need to care. Hoes do not check on you when you are sick, broke or support you. The only thing a ho care about is money- once the money is finish like today- business has ended. Hoes do not care if you lose your job. Real women do, get one to be your girlfriend and will never look back. I encourage you to stop patronizing olosho but you are adult with his decisions

It is very rare for a woman to spend her money except it is going to the children. Woman no fit just say, you know what, go take your bath, I am going to take you out and spoil you.

IT RARELY OR NEVER HAPPENS.

Infact, if you borrow money from most ladies, they will never let you rest until you pay. Naturally, ladies hands na AKAGUM. Reminds me of some of my friends in boarding school, they will eat your provisions until it finishes and hide to eat theirs.

CAN'T STAND SUCH PERSONS BE IT MALE OR FEMALE. THE SAME REASON WHY I DON'T GO TO CLUB HOUSES

Powerbandoo:
It is human nature
Its obvious, deep down you make most money for women sake, you are just ranting

Dey play. Me wey dey go spoil myself for shoprite tomorrow with my hard earned money.

Its would be better to not earn at all than to earn because of a woman.

Iamblessed85:
I noticed ladies become very excited and jovial when i tell them where i work. This makes me sad deep inside. What if i dont work there? I can only imagine how they would treat me?

You don't wanna know the answer. Just enjoy the attention while it lasts and ensure to never go broke.

richmond500:
That is not uncomfortable truth about women.

Painting every woman black is nothing but a trait of a misogynistic sexist.

You don't have any good thing to say about women. Imagine if someone says every one in ur family is a thief just because they have met one or two in ur family that stole from them, how would u feel?

This viscious stereotype against another gender is the most unpleasant attribute that u could posses... Purge urself of that hate

BRO, YOU CAN'T CHEAT WOMEN NATURE, JUST AS YOU CAN'T CHEAT MEN NATURE.

WOMEN ARE NATURALLY MANIPULATIVE WHILE MEN ARE NATURALLY AGGRESSIVE EVEN LESBIANS AND HOMOERECTUSES.

IF YOU CAN HANDLE THE TOXICITY THAT COMES WITH WOMEN, GOOD FOR YOU. IF YOU CAN'T LIKE ME, THEN STEP OUT. TAKE IT FROM A GUY WHO HAS BEEN THE SIDE DUDE MULTIPLE TIMES TO GIRLS WHO ARE VERY RELIGIOUS, STUNCH CHURCH GIRLS, IT'S NOT WORTH THE EFFORT EXCEPT SHE PROVES YOU WRONG.

IF THE TRUTH HAS BECOME HATE, I AM GUILT AS CHARGED. CALL ME THE FELA OF WOMEN AFFAIRS.

richmond500:
Abeg try and be responsible in life o, so that responsible ladies fit flock around u.

So that u no go call person liar when he tells u good girls exists

Bro I am very responsible but as long as woman matter dey concerned, I be badt guy.

I no dey let things wey concern women dey stress me one bit.

Before them come with one style to penetrate my walls to use me, I done move.

I talk to you, you no answer, I don move.

You be runs girl without character, I don move.

I NO NEED STRESS. NA MONEY I DEY FIND. I NO NEED GOOD GIRL, THEIR GOODNESS NA ILLUSION.

richmond500:
like I said, it depends on the kind of girls u roll with.

I can decide not to give my girl anything and she will understand, the relationship will still be as it was.

Now let's redirect the question, can u decide to give prostitute nothing for the next one month and still get what u want from them?

Stop lying. Maybe your gf is special o, only God and her knows. But 95% of Southern Nigerian girls have a roster. If she is not billing you, she's billing another

hucknall:
This is not about being religious; it's about you outgrowing your childish fantasies. Real men don't wake up thinking about sex. They instead go out there and engage in masculine hobbies like engineering, pro wrestling, and football.

Besides, most women in Nigeria turn to prostitution just to feed themselves and support their families. You should help a prostitute and not have sex with them.

What? Do you help your girlfriend and not have sex with her?

That's just a fact. Most men want to get married because that is what they think society requires of them. They think that by getting married and having children, they would be viewed as responsible members of the society.

Years after marriage, they end up in a sexless marriage where they no longer find their wives physically attractive. They end up jumping from one side chick to the next, making their wives miserable and unloved. Some even go as far as periodically beating her up and making her life miserable.

Same goes for the women. They think that they are now above their unmarried peers and have finally found someone to take care of them financially.

When the honeymoon phase is over, they begin to feel unloved or emotionally abandoned by their hard working husband. This leads them to start having extra marital affairs leading to the physical, mental, psychological and emotional decline of their spouse. At the end of the day, they would eventually leave the broken man for someone else.

SO, MY QUESTION IS, WHAT'S THE POINT OF THE FACADE?

Mercisharelove:
I am really sad folks are dying for nothing

I have made my peace with death just I have made my peace with life, guilt, happiness, sadness, depression, wealth, poverty etc

Everything is but a phase including life and death.

Cousin9999:
It seems like a significant percentage of men who struggle with their sexual orientation are very angry with women, even to the point of abuse. Which I don't get. How/why does that end up being directed at women?

This also reminds me of how ancient Romans would sleep with men because they didn't think very much of women. And even today in West Asia, a lot of men sleep with men because, again, they have a very low opinion of women, don't interact with them much, and don't even allow them to have public lives (Islam).

Most times, value is earned.

That's why you spend 20+ years in school to get a decent job.

And you are wrong about West Asian women.

atoliman:
After reading some of the comments- I do agree with some views that dating is hard nowadays and some guys have given up on dating. According to some of the comments- dating a modern woman is more stressful with no returns of benefit. Too much billings and heartbreak. With Oloshos, all you need is cash, the desire and there is no need to waste time with nicety, just sex. While this can be quick fix to cure Konji, one should be highly encouraged to stop patronizing oloshos. Once the cash finish, that is the end of transaction. Dating requires time, charisma, patient and you can find the right lady. The cash you can save
No one is saint and no one is perfect- one can stop if they find the right lady or even they change their ways
Why spend money on runs girls who sleep with multiple men, when you can get a girlfriend who can cares for your and you can knack steady

And once the cash finish, the right lady won't japa or hump the next guy?

The lies men tell themselves to soothe their feelings 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Testimony must be made sha, one way or another

Sapasenator:
How come me and you come get different experience? I never jam any of those ladies in my dating life. My first gf is now a Senior account in Netherland and most ladies I have had a relationship with are always nice and decent. Lots of them are successful and have their own money too. I no fit lie you bros I never attract or feel an attraction for any lady that is not smart and intelligent and they are never in my circles.

She must be married then.

Sapasenator:
"most of you end up being sex trafficked". Hello, I have what you are smoking?
Can you tell the the percentage of females being trafficked compared to the total population of females in Nigeria for example.

Be careful how you use words.

I see the documentaries everywhere especially when I was in Europe. Europe wey dey very easy to enter if you sabi book na girls go carry their body go meet one madam wey go promise em job over there. You know say girls don fall for this trap before, but you go still carry your neck put for the guillotine.

Abi na the ones wey dey go do house help for middle East wey the Arab Oga for house dey Bleep.

Abi na the ones wey em go shit for the girl mouth, come pay her dollars.

Abi na the dogs wey some girls dey sleep with.

I dey hear the story na. How men go marry una, carry una go abroad, una go pursue comot for him house using the court system.

Most Nigerian women no go see better men o, especially if the men na travelling person, walahi.

purples25:
If you knew better about trafficking it would reflect in your quote about it.

Now I understand why most of you end up being sex trafficked, as prostitutes or runs girls, become single mothers or end up in abusive relationships.

ZERO ACCOUNTABILITY, ZERO SELF REFLECTION. IT'S LIKE YOU LIVE LIFE ON EASY MODE. WHAT DO YOU THINK LIFE IS, SOME FORM OF VIDEO GAME?

purples25:
One day you'll have more knowledge of this and know what it's about.

Girl, I only look for international scholarships and jobs. Even if I am homeless, I will always look for those two because I have a great academic records. And I am too proud for such nonsense.

Don't tell me I will know better because I KNOW BETTER. THAT'S WHY I SPENT MY YOUTH STUDYING INSTEAD OF FKING.

How many girls fit talk the same thing?

purples25:
You're just exposing your ignorance more. I say again if that is what you know, you don't know anything. And it's better you don't.

As usual, when a girl does not have a valid point in a discussion, she gets into ad hominems.

NO GIRL WANTS TO EVER TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS BECAUSE THEY CAN ALWAYS BLAME MEN WHEN IT IS MOSTLY WOMEN LIKE YASELF WHO ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR RECRUITING THESE SAME GIRLS THAT ARE SEX TRAFFICKED.

YOU ARE IGNORANT OF THE WORLD AND YOU DEFINITELY NEED A GOOD MALE FIGURE TO HOLD YOUR HANDS.

purples25:
You have no idea what sex trafficking is, how it is operated, how the girls are hawked, and how it goes down. I'm not even defending women here, at all. You actually know nothing about that business, going by your post. Perhaps innocence is bliss in this case of yours.

No girl gets sex trafficked by mistake except she is KIDNAPPED and most girls are NOT. They are gullible girls who believed that there's some fantasy world out there where fairies shit gold and you can have all the money and jobs in the world.

IT ALSO HAPPENS TO GULLIBLE GUYS WHO EVENTUALLY FIND THEMSELVES AS MERCENARIES IN THE MIDDLE EAST, TERRORISTS IN THE SAHEL AND MIDDLE EAST OR SOLDIERS IN WAR ZONES LIKE RUSSIA/UKRAINE.

Women should make better choices especially in the company that they keep instead of blaming men for their misfortunes.

You wanna follow the baddies, the guys that smoke and do drugs, the GUY OR MADAM with BIG MONEY who doesn't have a business, and expect everything to be rosy and sunshine.

I'M SORRY TO BURST YOUR BUBBLE, THERE'S NO CITY OF GOLD, NEITHER IS THERE A HAPPILY EVER AFTER AND THERE'S DEFINITELY NO SHORT CUT TO SUCCESS. EVEN IN EUROPE, IF YOU WANNA LIVE LIKE A KING/QUEEN, YOU WOULD HAVE TO FIRST START TO WORK AS A SLAVE. AND I HAVE FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE.

You are obsessed and it is not a good thing.

Don't be that guy.

Its will only break you mentally, physically, psychologically and emotionally.

Just go with the flow and invest in the relationship wisely. Eventually, all secrets come to light and you will have the evidence that you need if she is keeping secrets.

For now, enjoy the relationship and know this

SHE'S NOT YOURS, IT'S ONLY YOUR TURN UNTIL SHE SAYS IT'S NOT.

ADIOS

Verydarkhearted:
Best thing is have one girl you love and spend one while you do hit and run on others girls.. relationships cost.

😂😂😂😂😂.

Hope you fit sustain for tinubu economy..

purples25:
That's why sex sells like water, all your songs are about women, porn with women as majority of sex fantasies is rampant, selling products with women as the face is still rampant. Sexual abuse by males, trafficking of women around the world is so widespread. Yes, those are signs that you are right.

So women are the only victims of sexual abuse? Do you know that there are more men working as slaves in the world than there are women? I'm not talking about sex trafficking where the woman has a choice, I'm talking about actual manual labour for peanuts in another country so that your family back home get to eat 3x a day while you do a job where you can fall down and die any time. Not only will you be replaced instantly when you die, your body may not even get to the family.

Women go into sex work to survive while men go into manual labour so that their WOMEN can survive.

YOU COULD HAVE CHOSEN BETTER BUT YOU DIDN'T AND YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE WOMEN ARE BROKEN, NASTY, SELFISH, SEXUALLY DEPRAVED CREATURE especially if they don't have a man.

Don't come here talking about the sex industry because if y'all had some integrity, even a little bit, y'all be married instead of hawking your pucci for top dollar.

And BTW, men respond to music that has to do with hustling and love than they do to the actual women themselves because we are far more honourable. EVEN THE BAD GUYS WHO WOULD TURN YOU LOTS UPSIDE DOWN WANTS A VIRTUOUS WOMAN. TOO BAD THERE'S NONE BUT A FREE FOR ALL NOW.

purples25:
The amount of topics on women emerging daily on this platform in the very least, prove you wrong. Don't make me bring out all the evidence showing that you guys obsess over women.

The days where men are obsessed with women are long over. Now we simply collect numbers of very sexy 304's so that we can view status like TV. Guys no dey even marry self not to talk about obsession.

Yes o. The bf open her legs make the guy enter 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. At least she said the truth, unlike Nigerian girls

kingslj:
which part of the south?
for delta ....ughelli...warri ...asaba na billing from Iphone for loyalty 1st

The guy na learner. I just dey imagine the states for south wey get good girls. Definitely not yoruba girls because the good ones are slow poison. Thank God I did my youth service over there.

Absolutely not igbos. Those ones no dey even hide their bad character. At least, yoruba girls go hide their own until you know them well.

I no go even talk about cross river, akwa Ibom, rivers and edo. Those ones na no go area.

That leaves delta and bayelsa girls. Women wey dey behave like men come still dey nack anyhow and still get bad character join am with heavy billing.

Forget Southern Nigerian girls o. The spirit wey dey inside them na very repulsive one. Na that spirit dey African American women body too.

Abeg, finally finally, I no get any use for Nigerian WOMEN. That's why even if I wan near anything relationship, all of them go be side chick and I go tell them before hand say na side chick na I want, I no need stress. I don drop true love ideology for oyibo people, that one na foreign ideology. Anyways, PISS OUT.

Tallesty1:
Modern women don’t even expect much; it’s guys who try to buy love with money.

We can clearly see when someone doesn’t like us, but we convince ourselves that if we buy her more gifts, spend more on dates, and give her more money, she’ll eventually start liking us.

What we do not know is that when you do something nice for someone the first time, they appreciate it. Do it repeatedly, and it creates expectations. Keep doing it, and it builds entitlement.

Now, we’re complaining about the entitlement mentality that we created ourselves.

😂😂😂😂😂😂. Dey play.

atoliman:
You can try a week with no olosho patronizing- use the money that you intend to spend on Olosho to do something else e.g give to a family member or donate to an orphanage or save it to buy a car or land.

Na the olosho na dey make me see money to give family members sef. It's not like it's need because everyone is doing well except the students.

No be small 3-4K wey I dey spend for olosho every once in a while go drain me. Na married men and people wey get serious babe na you suppose give that advice.

EreluRoz:
Have you ever seen an Urhobo person that's truly fine? Where are they? Do they exist on this earth?


Urhobo people please start marrying intertribally to help yourselves.

I no longer have time to be on nairaland, so don't even waste your time quoting me.

Why you never want get sense. I'm guessing that you are igbo? Because no other tribe dey talk about others like that.

Abeg, get sense and learn some respect.

atoliman:
I know guys who do not sleep oloshos and have girlfriends or married- Are they gay too because they do not pay for sex?

Easy o. Because em no dey vouch for guys o.

I promise you, if coded guy dey use OLOSHO or runs girls, you will never know.

atoliman:
Some girls are like that in the Southern part, you will be shock. It is just friendly advice to stop patronizing olosho if you are into that lifestyle- You will gain more when you stop and I also understand it is not easy to date nowadays. I wish you the best

Some GINI?? I no get microscope to dey find who good or who no good. I don give up on that nonsense tay tay. Girls just dey like TV these days, just look for a while and then go do something productive with my life.

OLOSHO IS THE WAY FOR ME

atoliman:
You are talking about the average instagram Baddies, run girls, university run girls or social media girls- so you assume that all girls are like that. Some Abokis that do not have money- still get girls and even marry 2 - why are you different from them? Not all girls are like that. Avoid modern woman who expect heaven and earth and date someone who is real

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, dey play.

You think say northern Nigeria and southern Nigeria na the same country.

Or you think say the sahelian belt and the rest of Africa na the same.

If I dey Northern Nigeria and I am a Muslim, I for don marry since na. Haba. It's a bit more safer to deal with women up north na.

Just a bit because I know guys wey dey bend northerners for back yard that time. But yea, it's a bit safer dealing with them. They are a lot more traditional