₦airaland Forum

Melagros:
Didn't you understand what the article says? 75% of them know that you're lying, you better tell her the truth

YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN.

DO IT AT YOUR OWN RISK...

ME I NO SABI TELL WOMAN LIE COS IF SHE LEAVES, I HAVE MONEY TO GET ANOTHER OR FK OLOSHO

BUT IF YOU DON'T, NO EVER TELL HER THE TRUTH

THE MOMENT YOU START TELLING WOMEN THE TRUTH, YOU MUST BE PREPARED TO LOSE THEM.
ALWAYS ADD SMALL LIE TO PUSH THINGS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.

THEY CRAVE DRAMA, SO GIVE THEM DRAMA.

NOT ME SHA, COS I KNOW SEND ONE PERSON FATHER

Women hate to be told the truth.

NEVER TELL HER THE TRUTH

Bliss4Lyfe:
Another history professor that want to distort Igbo history.


Aside the ARO, which other Igbo clan traded in slaves? None!


The Aro are mixed Efik people.


What I find interesting is that he did not talk about the Oba of Benin selling Igbo slaves from Anioma or the Obong of Calabar Efik or The Aro, Ogoni or Ijaw selling Igbo slaves.

He did what the white man does by blaming Igbo who were the victim.


Tueh!

We the ijaws bought our igbo slaves from igbo slave traders.

They are our legal property and their descendants and free borns of the ijaw people today

DOn't lump us with your slave habits

The people who sold their brothers and sisters to the ijaws as slaves are back to claim them...
Baba, we already paid, these are ijaw indigenes now.
Go find the OSUS and OHUS to claim

A breakup is never nice no matter how much you try to sweeten it.

Its something you have to do if you have to. IT IS WHAT IT IS

Therock5555:
On the contrary, I prefer them way more older than 25.

I mean, I like my peace of mind and they tend to understand better no be all this Gen-z squad wey go wan use noise disturb person life....

I get your point but one is attracted to who they are attracted to...
There's nothing that can be done..

That is a trap o...
She likes you but she knows that she has no power over you...
Becareful

Guys, do nothing, absolutely nothing.
If she is into you, she is.
If she is not, she is not.
There's nothing anyone can don about it.

You are a husband material

Bimpe29:
It is really a weird feeling and mindset. Some of them are to be treated nicely.

I stopped being a nice guy a long time ago but I do respect them.

1Sharon:
You did them a favour.

If you say so.

MrCork:
Ok i respet that..it means u cant date old cargo like Meobizy. She been looookin for man on nairaland for the past 10year..i even decline her

No comment

WizardRahl:
Just do whatever makes you happy as long as you are not breaking the law while at it.

For sure

Drella:
Unrelated to the topic.
I'll appreciate it if you can put me through your things Sir. I'm a fresh graduate and I want to be financially stable please.

Just keep working hard.
My journey has been a difficult one even after I had my masters degree but I finally landed a job in the oil industry.
I am also a very good programmer.
So, you just have to keep working on yourself and take each opportunity as it comes.

Dyfynezz12:
how do u know their age? Body, character or apperance cox Nigerian girls that I know won't tell u their real age

They won't, neither is it easier to do so. But I can tell a young lady from a older woman.

Might miss by a year or two but I definitely can

Namaster:
It's SENSIBLE.

The average 25-year old has enough mileage to qualify as a frequent flier if her pussy was an airline.

Most of them already have KIDS or SEVERAL abortions. Plus, they've had so MUCH and DIFFERENT kinds of sex that anything you try with them is POINTLESS and banal.

And when it comes to relationships, they are JADED. They've seen it all. They are suspicious and unable to trust.

Their main goal at that point is just to find a CHUMP with money to settle down with.

I don't advise ANY man to get into a relationship with a Nigerian girl that goes beyond fucck and discharge BUT if you insist, then 18-23 should be your target age range.

You have great points.

Wainey:
girls above 25 are a waste of time?
I think u mean girls below 25.

As for me, girls below 23 no deh too enter my eyes sef

Everyone is different, though.

I only have sister's vibe for girls above the age of 25.

My sexual urge reduces immediately I am around such girls.

MrCork:
Wots the diffarense between 25 & older sir...are women all not the same in the dark? Please explian sir?

I just see them as old and not fit for anything serious. That's just me

MrCork:
U like women?
Are u tryin to say u happy ton be gay sir?(no oofencse)

I love women but I am no longer sexually attracted to women beyond 25 years old.

TemplarLandry:
Apparently you're still a small boy.

Far from it. I am in my 30's and doing well financially.

I just don't find girls above the age of 25 much attractive and its been happening for awhile now.

It has nothing to do with me being a small boy

I have been having a challenge taking ladies above 25 years old seriously. I no longer find them attractive nor do I have the patience to deal with them. Many are beginning to think that I hate them or I am a misogynist but that's far from the truth because I just believe that they are a waste of time. Is it OK to feel this way??

englishmart:
Could you give a clue on what's happening in Mongolia?

Mongolia is a moniker here on nairaland.
A self proclaimed FEMINIST.

AndrewTate:
I smell sarcasm… but I get the message.

Dear men, she’s trying to tell y’all to stop projecting your responsibilities on women as a criteria for marriage.
Man=Provide resources,
Woman=Manage the resources
= A proper home

Everything shouldn’t result in gender wars…none of the roles are easier. Don’t complain. Instead face life head on!

Manages what resources? You call buying hair of 50k and above, managing resources
Leave women MATTER FOR MATTHAIAS...
Everyone should go and work and take care of themselves..
WE WILL SHARE THE HOUSEWORK

siofra:
Oh yes!

As man, you can't cook, clean the kitchen, wash your clothes, your wife's clothes and your children's clothes. You can't clean your home properly? You can't kneel down and pray for your home? Can you even call yourself a man?

You can't feed a baby, bathe a baby, bathe your kids, make traditional and intercontinental meals? Then you should remain in your father's house and don't be a burden to one innocent woman in her marital home please.

As a man, your sole purpose and existence on this earth must be used to please your woman.

This is especially for men who are earning less than ₦5 million per month. With a salary less than 5 m a month, you will not be able to maintain a retinue of domestic staffs, so you must learn home making skills.

Tufia Kwa for these untrained dick carriers, I pity the SIMPle women that will marry you people.

God abeg! 🙄

https://www.nairaland.com/8202059/ladies-dont-up-500k-should#131815911

If I can do all these, WHAT DO I NEED A WOMAN FOR??

That is their mentality, they don't take responsibility for anything.
Look at mongolia for example

Sweeetheart:
Babe wey many nigga dey manage, he reach your turn you won privatize her, are you a member of PDP?

You mean APC, right?

AI driven social media app. Very Terrible app

Magnoliaa:
Calling him a simp is not you judging and blaming him for his feelings?

What would you rather the girl do --- if/since she doesn't like him? Accept his proposal in public and reject him in private? Or continue to play pretend? When you'll be amongst the first people to say she's desperate for marriage or she's using him when she doesn't love him. If relationships and marriages are worthless ventures to you lot, should you not be happy when a woman turns down your advances then?

Or in what world is the declaration of your feelings more important than/separate to the commitment of a marriage?

You're are responsible for your own feelings - you alone. No one owes you the protection or coddling of it except you've explicitly and exclusively vowed commitment to each other. He did not commit a crime by having feelings for her and proposing (if the video is not a skit), and neither did she for rejecting his advances. If they were already 100% percent on board with each other, with a mutual goal towards marriage, then this video wouldn't be online. There wouldn't even be a need for a 'proposal' except for the tradition of it.

And I did not outrightly call him a bad person. I just know annoyingly persistent men who ladies have said no to countless times or shown no interest in usually go out of their way to do grand, eye-service gestures. Just to 'bribe' their way into reciprocated feelings.



Actually, I have. Twice. And they were my exact specs.

I don't remember why I didn't pursue anything further with one; the second, I ghosted on him after exchanging numbers.

Male specimens just all too often bore me, especially intellectually, and so I don't bother expelling energy in striking up a conversation with them 🥱.

I don't have a problem with the girl o. Rejection is part of the game
I have a problem with you for blaming the simp for the rejection

And yes, a man who kneels in front of a woman in public for any reason is a SIMP.