₦airaland Forum

greenermodels:
Sorry to him,it would end when the child turns 18 but let it be a lesson to all men over the world, know why you're getting married and protect yourself. For most present day Nigerian men, the only valid reason to get married is to have your own biological children.

Even having a biological child with Nigerians is on shaky grounds now..

For sure na, in my Uni days...she refused the first attempt and I left her alone until she left my crib...

I also refused to touch her the next time she came to live with me and started treating her like a sister

Until I woke up one night when she started crying...

All I heard that night was "AM I NOT BEAUTIFUL ENOUGH".

In my mind, I was like "WHICH KIND WAHALA BE THIS"...

I pitied her and gave in as the DOINGS started and never ended until we stopped seeing each other...

I can't even remember her name sef

FEAR WOMEN, THEY CAN MANIPULATE THEIR WAY THROUGH ANY CIRCUMSTANCES...

StillDtruth:
That word "sleep around" is deceiving you. The correct word is do not Bleep any girl until after marriage.

Even if you fuq only one girl, you are no longer a virgin and most virgin girls will not be happy to marry you. And if they made the mistake of marrying you,.. she's off to ride her own joysticks.

By your analysis you must be a virgin to marry a virgin.

Buhahahahahahhahahahahaha. Dey play...

Virgin girls will marry anyone whether they are virgins or not.

You can't cheat the woman's nature

NoSmoking:
A girl that told me she will not have sex at uni, refuses to Bleep me

Late told me.ahe fvcked a lecturer she told me she hated

KPELE, NO CRY NO CRY....
FEMALE STUDENTS FOR PUBLIC SCHOOLS AND F'ING OF LECTURERS NA 5 AND 6..
THAT ONE NO COUNT

atoliman:
They visit the brothel like it is a normal thing and sleep with oloshos like it is nothing and they want a loyal girlfriend. Who is decieving who? That relationship cannot work, neither the marriage will work.
A lady was telling me how her ex boyfriend got another girl pregnant while they were dating. The dude keep begging her to come back.
Bad boys should date promicious women and oloshos- that is a balanced equation, leave the good women alone so serious minded good guy can date them.

SPOILER: EVEN MOST OF THE GOOD GIRLS DEY FIND BAD BUYS...

YOU WILL LEARN AND YOU WILL LEARN THE HARD WAY

Bad men no dey suffer for relationship because they don't even create any strong bonds with women to begin with.

If one woman (including wife or wives) f up, they are onto the next woman...

Na good men dey suffer for relationship because disney don full their heads with nonsense like love and happily ever after...

At least, the bad guys get to enjoy themselves while the Good ones come here on nairaland to cry...

Women get power sha but that power na mostly for good men, NOT BAD GUYS...

FitCorper:
This op is just a clown. I don’t know how you guys manage to enjoy sex with ladies you don’t build intimacy with. Here’s what you guys don’t know, “d more emotional you can make a girl, d more expressive and demonically anointed she would be during sex”.

Stories that touch...

Tallesty1:
Will you care for her if you're not benefiting?

So, what is the difference between a girlfriend and an olosho from a guy's perspective?

Tallesty1:
Stay wise kor.

So, in your wisdom, sleeping with a random woman is better than building a real connection with someone? Someone who will give you emotional support and companionship; someone who cares about your well-being, shares experiences, and builds memories with you?

Someone who will come to your place and help you tidy up when you're busy, cook something for you, and possibly help with whatever you're working on—or at least encourage you in ways that keep you motivated and inspired.

This is why some of you struggle in dating. Aside from satisfying your physical cravings, you're simply too immature to handle a relationship with a woman because you don’t understand their value and can’t possibly add any value to their lives.

If this is what you call wisdom then I wonder what your foolishness will be like 😂 😂

All those things you have written are nothing but fantasies.
Women don't care about men except they are benefitting from him

otipoju:
You dont sound like someone who has real life experience. The first thing to know is that NO man wey no git fall maga for any girl. You must be aware of thatbreality and groom your to observe and adjust as things unfold.

You don't win all, you win some and you loose some and so you don't carry any woman matter for head by making her the center of your life. You also have to let her know that your life's purpose comes first and you are able to walk away from everything at any time and start all over again.

mind So you see that we have arrived at the same destination. It's not the money that will attract and keep the woman. It requires more.

I have been married for nearly 15 years but If I was in the dating market, I just realized that the way that my mind works now in 2024, I can't even look at a lady romantically for a relationship if you don't have your sheet together.

As in you are a senior manager, or have a solid verifiable business and have your own things...and a name or reputation to protect.

I no just fit date anybody that has nothing to loose and can't comport herself.

Dude, I am a young man who interacts with a lot of girls.

These girls will literally tell you the guys they are playing if they are open with you. And they are mostly good men who are head over hills in love with them.

You have been married for 15 years and I can assure you that the quality of girls you had in your youth are way better than what I had and it's getting worse.

APPROACHING A GIRL AS A GOOD MAN IN 2024 IS A ONE-WAY TICKET TO MISERY...

JovialJune:
So all poor men's wives cheat on them, none of them have faithful wives lmao, only a man of your kind of wisdom can say this

But according to you, I thought you said women only go for rich men, that we go for high class men with money, how come Jeff bezos and Bill Gates wives divorced them and went for low class men since they are the richest men in the world?

So all good guys have been used and dumped? No bad guy have ever been used and dumped?

Your wisdom is limitless, pls explain more

From my experience, a woman who finally SETTLES for a financially inept man will cheat on him on a regular.

Secondly, Bezos and Gates wives didn't cheat on them. They got divorced and moved their separate ways after spending years together.

And that is not even what the post is about.

I clearly stated that playing the nice girls to girls will get you PLAYED...

ITS JUST THAT SIMPLE....HAVING MONEY MAKES IT EVEN WORSE...

Not once did I use the phrase "use and dump"... Stick to the subject matter

JovialJune:
Quick question

Since you said women go for men with money, how come poor men are getting married and women are divorcing rich men e.g billionaires like Bill Gates and Jeff bezos?

Are you saying only bad men are getting married and good men are single virgins?

Expand my mind with you wisdom pls

Women who settle for poor men have no choice and basically cheat on them at every turn.

Secondly, Bill gates and Jeff bezos have so many options. There will always be women around them...

Thirdly, good guys get used... That's just a fact

You will definitely have a lot of potential female EMPLOYEES waiting to join your crew...

Another SIMPANZEE.... You still dey trust woman

otipoju:
No wahala. So you have never met a girl who has everything you think is important.

Great education, high paying jobs and side business, Houses, Cars, Business etc that she worked for legitimately

Bro there is a world out there that you do nit know of...and then you will know that money is not what is the most important thing to women.

Money na costume. Even the broke girls you date will collect money from you and go and use it to pay the school fees of the guy that she likes.

Any way be you. Ignorance can be blissfull.

Even the educated, high earning women do not want a man who cannot provide their needs.

They might have fun with you and even become baby mamas in the process but they will never settle with you

Instead, they would look for a SIMPANZEE to help meet their needs..

HAVE YOU NOT HEARD THE SAYING THAT HIS MONEY IS OUR MONEY BUT HER MONEY IS HERS...

Then you talk about a woman collecting money from Peter to pay Paul... Why do you think that I am advising men to never be the GOOD GUYS in a relationship?

That's what happens to good men when they get in a relationship, they get used regardless of whether you have money or not.

It is that simple.

Its guys like you that will come on to nairaland later to start saying "AFTER EVERYTHING I DID FOR HER< SHE LEFT ME".

DonroxyII:
Bad Advice that would make all Men Goes Toxic .... You guys are just destroying yourself because you want to live for Women....

Women wants This, Women Want That .. Women Don't Want This, That, Those ... Hiannn...

You Bunch of Sheeple would never talk about what Men Want ....

Laslas, Una Go Spend all Your Generational Wealth Trying to Buy Sex .....

Become a Man & Women Would Want You .. Simple ...

The Question is How Do You Become a Man ...

Simply Be Untop of Your Hustles & Beware of Karishikas(Parasitic Women) ... Dem go use you Count Scores ...

Once You are a Man, Whatever You Dictate to A Woman, She Abides because she knows she is In a Safer Hands Of An Odogwu .... Na she go dey chase you around with Pvssy .. Dey Use Breast dey flog Ya Head ....

Women become Kids in the Presence of a Real Man just like a Dog wags it's tail before Its Real Owner ....

On Your Journey to becoming a Man, Leave Women for Oneside to avoid distractions till You Accomplished Your Goals ... Once Done, Use Ya Head to Protect Ya Life Hustles If not ... Same pvssy you wan drilled like Mad, No be only Ya Dick go go Inside, Your Entire Life Hustles would follow your dick Join .....

A Man without Sense Na Boy !

This post has nothing to do with money, so I don't know why people are talking about money.
This post is about not getting yourself in a position to be used because you are claiming to be a gentle man.

Secondly, I can assure you that there are no real men when it comes to women, at least not in the long run.
Women are into dating for self survival and would manipulate anyone to get what they want.

otipoju:
No wahala. Like I told you earlier. Na where your eye see reach na him you go know reach.

A man cannot talk beyond his exposure.

As a Man thinketh in his heart, so is he.

Forget exposure. There's a reason why Nigerian women date multiple men for financial gains and it has everything to do with money.
No woman has ever said I am attracted to him because he has no money.

otipoju:
No problems. Na where you eye see reach na him you go know reach.

If your confidence is predicated on how much money you have...you are indeed empty.

I repeat for emphasis...you do not need money to attract and keep a woman.

Women will collect your money if you give them but the relationship will always be superficial.

Go and learn about female nature and how to bring out there primal instincts in them.

No be by money.

You are all theories with no real life application.

WOMEN WANT PEOPLE WHO ARE BETTER THAN THEM AND THAT IS A FACT...

If a woman sees that you have nothing to offer her, you will pursue her in vain with no result...

There are men who don't pursue women but get to sleep with them...

No woman gets attracted to a man who cannot provide for her, not even for a one night stand...

ALL THESE YOUR THEORIES ONLY EXISTS IN BOLLYWOOD, NOT EVEN HOLLYWOOD NOR NOLLYWOOD..

WOMEN WANT AND WILL ALWAYS GO FOR THE TOP TIER MEN. THAT IS A FACT THAT EVEN OLOSHO CAN NEVER ESCAPE

chatinent:
You work in heaven?

It is close to heaven...

1Sharon:
As long you're okay with your wife loving her father first

That one is her business as long as she continues with her duties, MUM comes first...

chatinent:
What's all these gibberish with sex? Hunger no dey catch your prick?

Why hunger go catch my drillpipe, I tell you say I vote for TINUBU??
Bro, I am never hungry.
Company dey feed me morning, afternoon and evening right now until I go back to town.

otipoju:
Just be your authentic confident self and carry yourself with dignity.

If you still think you need to have money to get and keep women, you still dey jonze !!!

You need money to get and keep a Nigerian woman.
Don't kid yourself.

Even if you are the most handsome boy, you won't get no PUCI except you are good at faking it.
AND FAKING IT WOULD INVOLVE A LOT OF LIES.

Don't take Nigerian wives abroad to stay permanently.
If she wants to go, let her do it on her own.
But you can send your children to Universities abroad and hopefully, they remain there
But that woman, never try it or you will regret it

seunoladele:
WHEN YOU MEET HIM...

You will have peace of mind and heart.

You will be at rest.

There will be joy in your heart.

He will love you, honour you, respect and cherish you.

Your life, vision and ministry will agree.

You will love him, honour him, cherish him, adore him.

You will be his only focus. He will let go of other ladies because of you.

You will become his best friend.

He will not cheat on you neither will he deliberately do things to hurt you.

He will honour your parents and all your family members.

He won't use your past against you.

He will accept your child as his (if you have had a child in your past).

He will treat you like you are the only woman on earth.

H will not disturb you for sex before marriage.

He will give to you, take care of you and be generous to you.

You will look more beautiful.

You will be more radiant.

You will glow with pride.

You will believe more in yourself.

You will start dreaming big and dare to achieve greater things in life.

You grow spiritually, mentally, financially and emotionally.

You want to be his wife.

You want to take care of him.

You love him!

That is your husband, say YES to him and do not let him go!

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

©Seun Oladele
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A LULLABY FOR SIMPANZEES

1Sharon:
No good woman should agree to marry a man with bad character, money or not.

Humble yourself and don't think you're too good for any woman. You don't want to be a bitter old man, that time has forgotten.

Do you know how many married men out there are BITTER OLD MEN??
Please, spare us your emotional games
Being single as a guy especially if you are financially stable is called peace of mind
You get the COOCHIE without the drama

When you are interested in a girl romantically, the worst thing you can do is to present yourself as a good man.
Women will only see you as husband material and try to play the good girl act.
To make you think that she is different, she is going to start setting up rules against you while others are banging her on a regular.
Never fall for the "WOMEN WANT A PRINCE CHARMING TO COME SAVE THEM TROUPE", it will end badly for you
Stop wasting your time trying to act like you don't want to drill her hole and be direct with her
If she says NO, you walk away and count your losses
Don't be the potential husband to a girl who is being spudded regularly by other guys.
You would only end up as an embarrassment even to your own family

WOMEN DON'T WANT A PRINCE CHARMING TO SAVE A HOE, THEY WANT A BAD GUY TO DRILL A HOLE.

Candidlady:
Igot nothing against sex workers

But they themselves makes it sound like something that is terrible

Which wan be your olosho work has cast.. cast in what sense



But after jumping from one hole to another you expect one girl to marry you

My FORE FATHERS were great HUNTERES, FISHERMEN and BUSINESSMEN and fk'd a whole lot of virgins.

DO YOU KNOW WHY??

Because women find a man other women have fk'd very attractive while a man finds a woman other men have fk'd mildly to very intolerable.

MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.

EVEN TO MARRY RUNS GIRLS WEY DEY THEIR PARENTS HOUSE NA ABOMINATION NOT TO TALK OF OLOSHO WEY DEY WAKA STREET.

Zonefree:
Oloshos are honourable than feminists.

The worst tragedy to befall a man is to fall in love with a feminist.

One bottle of small stout on your head.

cutecommend:
Several ladies do prostitution. People will still marry them. Some may even kneel to propose. Some may spend millions in wedding to marry them.

If you see a good and repentant ex prostitute, you can marry her and build a family if you wish.

Only a SIMPANZEE would marry an olosho...

DanielAlhassan:
Please i need your help

What are the sign to look out for I want to know if she is trying to friend zone me or she is liking me

What are the signs of friend zoning
And signs of like or falling for someone

How do I know if she is liking me or friend zoning me

IF YOU ARE ASKING THIS, YOU ARE ALREADY DEEP IN THE FRIENDZONE...
IF YOU ARE FINANCIALLY STABLE, STAY THERE.
ELSE RUN