Nobodys:
... Glaring ignorance..

Dear, someday, sometime when your daughter comes home to tell you that she was refused a position, job, whatever, just because she's s girl. Do you know what you should tell her??...

Girl, go sit your ass down... you're the weaker gender. don't you know you aren't equal to a man? don't whine, just stay home, a nigga should be the one taking care of you... let him work his ass out. you stay home and do the eating.. That's nature, little daughter.....


SMH....

Hahahshahhahhahhhaahahahahahh. I pity such a daughter. She will starved until menopause

franchasng:
My mentor, preach on sir...tell them.

Money is the major ingredient of today marriage cos we are in a capitalist, monetized world....without money love can never be sustained.

Guys should always remember, that your 300k or 500k monthly income cannot sustain you + broke/unemployed wife + broke in-laws demands + your own parent's upkeep + kids (when kids start coming).....it will weigh you down.

That's why you see guys that bought a car while single, after they marry, they keep driving the same car for 5yrs and above no change, no new building project, no new business startup, just to eat, pay house rent, pay children school fees, and the year ends and the cycle continues till kids become teenagers, then graduates and daddy and mummy have no business or company or tangible investment for them to inherit and start life with....they continue with the suffering daddy and mummy started with again and it goes on and on till God knows when.

These things are not the hand work of village witches, it is the hand work of Nigerian men indirectly encouraging Nigerian women to be lazy and dependent on men alone, it has to stop for Nigeria to grow and progress as a nation

Give this guy 2 bottles of COLD GULDER

Tecks10:


Money is not: peace of mind is. Yes, girls being after money has been the order of the day recently, but that doesn't mean everyone is like that. There are still some good ones left. OK, I have a question for you.

What if a man's source of income starts dwindling even
when he's married to a girl from a well-to-do home? Do you think she would be able to cope? It all depends on personality! And not from being from a rich or poor home. Please let's change our mindset, poverty or no poverty won't change who we truly are.

The probability of a man's wealth dwindling is higher when he marries a broke lady from a broke family. I have worked as a home lesson teacher for all sorts of families just after my nysc. If you see the way poor men's wives address them, you will hate marriage. Don't even try to make that mistake of thinking money is not a critical part of marriage. The best way to have peace of mind is to continually spoil your wife or home with wealth, she will forever be loyal

Tecks10:


It's no one's fault to be poor. You guys should stop making this a priority. Have you met a poor girl who is very witty, ambitious and dexterous. There are so many of them out there, but they don't have the means.
The ultimate thing is finding a good person, who is willing to build and has good managerial skills too. You might find it among the rich or poor, but just don't pitch your search on the rich alone. A witty poor girl can turn wealthy if given the means. A wise woman whether rich or poor should know when her husband's finances are going low as a result of her family's expenses and should be able to make her family understand that.

Riches do not last forever, you may think someone is beyond ever being poor; but this is life and anything can happen at any time. You're not married yet, and that is why you have no idea.Being from a poor home
Should be the least of considerations to make. Marriage encompasses more than it. I don't expect you to understand, but I'm sure, with time; you will.

Be careful what you wish for. I have seen ladies do things to make oil workers give them 90% of their salaries each month. That poor and witty wey dey sweet u go put u for trouble. Guys should learn to educate themselves. Do you think a lady will make the best hair style, buy expensive clothing, put on expensive makeup, wear those painful high heels, learn how to cat walk, twerk and not expect a return on investment. You think they do all that for some broke ass nigger??

Tecks10:

I understand you considerably, and no! You are not a gold digger. But you see, marriage is beyond financial status. You're looking for a girl from a well to do family; but have you ever thought of how this family will treat and respect you?Have you wondered how much influence the family has on her: would it be a positive or a negative influence? Have you thought about their expectations of you as a son in-law of an affluent family? Have you ever wondered how much she spends or how extravagant she is? Come on! She's from a rich home, she has class , she would love to maintain her standard. I'm not saying there ain't girls that are from well to do homes who are responsible and have good families too, but these are things you should put into consideration too.

Marriage is beyond all these, this shouldn't be paramount. Peace of mind, understanding and tolerance is! I'll give a little illustration using my family.
We're 7 from my mum( 4 girls), we're not poor , we can take care of our basic needs. My elder sisters got married to rich/very comfortable men, but for once my family has never asked for their assistance no matter how pressing the needs are even when my dad was terribly sick, my parents just refused to ask for money. They'll always tell us -" what if they weren't rich ?what if your sisters are not married ?" They only give us at will; and frequently, people will always ask her if her in-laws are stingy, in a sly manner.

When you get married, you'll understand better

The fact that you are trying to compare unions of old to the ones these present groups of desperados are into only proves that you don't understand millennia ladies. The problem usually starts when your wealth begins to wane, or when she sees wives of your colleagues driving brand new cars etc. That is when you will know that money is the most important criteria in marriage. So you think that because a girl is from a poor family, then the family have no influence over her? I am so sorry for you. The pressure from poor family is even much worse. Most educated rich men only want their daughters to be happy, nothing more. Afterall, what can you give to them that they can't provide for themselves.

pansophist:
My wealthy uncle made the mistake of disregarding the financial situation of his wife before marriage, and that single handedly led to the breakdown of his marriage. From his wife unreasonable demands, to his in law, he even went to the extent of bearing the financial burden of her brothers in uni after their father passed away. He pride himself on being "the man" while his wife and sibling bleed him dry. Her sister moved into his place and he became responsible for her as well.

Currently now his business has not been moving fine which made him unable to keep up with the expense. The people he even try to appease disregarded him since he is not meeting up, and that single handedly broke his marriage as his wife couldn't live up to her materialism anymore.

Marry within your class gentlemen. To be perpetually broke is more of mentality and life choices than situational. Marriage should be also of an ally, the coming together of two to make a stronger one.

This is just saad

Boss13:


Leave out Nigerian women - look inwards. Nigerian women are not stupid, they are very smart. Don’t you see the surge in single ladies dating married men. If what you propose becomes the norm, many won’t mind to become third wives.

Your concern should be not marrying a poor girl and getting your money up.

That's if rich men are stupid to marry more than one. My dad works for Nnpc, I live in one of their complexes for years, the only thing a girl will get from a married man now is to help madam to alleviate conji, not marriage. The ones who were foolish enough to take their spoorts serious either lost their lives, family or wealth. The younger ones have become wiser. My own dad was one of them and he lost his entire family, can't trust a man who prioritizes sex

Hmmmmm

Eberechi24:

What you are campaigning for isn't marriage but partnership. An open partnership registered in CAC. The both parties can do whatever s/he likes.
Your kind go after young girl after being married to your imaginary woman.

Marriage have always been about partnership. That's why marriage is called an institution. I do pity guys who are into this love of a thing. Ahhhhh, wetin I don c women use men eyes see all for love.

Respect55:

Shebwill be like, "that's not how it is done in my family;that is not how I was brought up...."

Before u know it, she is already abusing me. She once told me her dad's servants are richer than me. I suffered in her hand. Now she wants me back

U no even happy say na rich man pikin they insult u. Poor girl don look u up n down, whine mouth for you before. At leaest she shows you that attitude, a poor girl won't until ur pepper dry. Fear poor girls o. A girl like that would take you out, cook u meals, spoil u once in a while, she contributes generally. No try am with poor girls o. with poor girls, u give them gifts on their birthday day and also give them gifts on your own birth day. I won't lie to you, I hardly talk to poor girls, infact I am allergic to them. They hate me for being a snob, I hate them for being parasitic.

I pity those guys having a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP with a broke girl with a poverty mindset from a broke family.. U are just a few steps away from a heart attack

Respect55:
Most girls from well - to-do families really have problems. That was why I aborted with this last one I wanted to settle down with

I am sorry to burst your bubble, girls in general come with a lot of baggage, whether rich or poor. So your train of thought is invalid. What is more important is to what extent would those baggage affect you. And believe me, poor girls with baggage can't be tolerated

This op too get sense. Great minds think alike. Marry your class and if in doing so u found love, better. If not, you won't be carrying unnecessary luggage and baggage. Na win win. Infact, a lady with much family issues is a TURN OFF

Of all the Religions I know, Islam and the Roman Catholic are the most pathetic. Moslems can kill for virtually anything even if there's no proof.. While the Roman Catholic will kill and find a solid hypocritical lie to defend their actions. While the Pentecostal is basically advanced fraud.

darlington15:

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Before I answer ur questions, pls answer this

Who created you?
Why do u exist?
What is ur purpose on earth?
Why do u look like a human being and not an animal?
Why do u breathe?

Childish questions, I breath because I live. I look human because my DNA is from human parent. The rest are mere philosophical questions that even Jesus won't be able to answer

yrex01:
and pls how do they act like Muslim ? Have u ever seen a Muslim in ur community trying to bomb a church or trying to kill anybody coz dey ain't Muslim? Islam teach peace n unity bro. A good n real Muslim will not isolate him self from d community or hiding just like those terrorist does.

As per your point, a journalist went in search of this answer in the middle east. Went to the prison to interrogate terrorists and was specifically told that in Islam, when you kill an infidel, God will reward you and when you don't, God will be angry with you. I was dumbfounded

Friend01:


You can feel oxygen and in your lungs how convenient.
So even the first people knew there were breathing oxygen before science finally named it oxygen?
How convincing.

I guess Adolf Hitler was not an atheist?
Was the young man who killed shot dead some school kids not an atheist?
You talk as if you work with half of your brain.

We have said it countless times that ISIS and other terrorist groups do not represent Islaam in any way.
They are only following you line. of thinking which many verses in our Qur'ān clearly clarifies.
And I quite agree with you that both you(who say Islaam is a violent religion) and the terrorist share the same ideology.
Which automatically makes you more like them (the terrorist).

About God allowing people to kill themselves as a simple answer. to it, just like government does not allow people to kill people without facing prosecutor in a court of law after the act ,same way does God will not allow people who kill people without facing judgement and prosecution on judgement day.
This is what we believe that will eventually happen no matter how big a criminal is, he will face judgement.

If Hitler wasn't religious, the war wouldn't have happened. Hitler started a war on the belief that God created Germans the more superior beings. 99% of all wars fought were because of a religious belief

Speaking to religious people is like speaking to Buhari supporters. They hear everything but never listen. I do agree with the religion part but the absence of a Divine Being is something I can boldly say I disagree with. The very fact that creation itself is based on undeniable laws debunks that claim. But HE is neither Christian, jews, gentile etc so I don't know why religious people try hard to tell us otherwise

Biingoo:
You don't make the rules. We(men) do!

The thing that they don't understand. I do pity girls though. Spoke to a girl recently and she was like, "I never expected life to this difficult ". Thought everything was just gonna set when she left school, her condition just left me empathetic. But they are still girls who shine their eyes properly before embarking in school relationship, I know alot that ended up in marriage immediately after school.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I have left God 100% every definition of God defined by all religion I have left it.
The only God I may claim to serve is myself
If there is any God I believe in it is my brain.

That's messed up, your brain a God, really? I have studied the sciences and even though all scientists would want to deny it, we all know that there's an intelligence behind creation, and I personally refer that being as God. But that being said, HE/SHE is neither man, woman, Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Jew nor gentile. He is just God. Unfortunately, evil have hidden behind his marvelous works in the form of religion in order to commit the most abominable acts

I totally hate religion, I can't remember the last time I went into a worship house. I totally believe that there's no difference between pastors and psychologist. But this your opinion is ludicrous

Wow, you are write, the Bible demeans women. It must have been demeaning for everyone to just sit and enjoy apple while Adam performed the work of God. It must have been demeaning when Esther married a king. Must have been demeaning when 1000 women were feeding from both Solomon and David. Very very demeaning to just relax, reproduce, feed while someone protects and provide. I wish God would have demean bothe sexes equally. Jesus did not have female disciples, Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Please you know nothing about your Bible, go throw it away.

Lol, funny but op is right. Even amongst sisters, if not for societal norms and ethics, ladies would be snatching their sister's rich husband. Please don't attack me o, I am not well. Women and their wahala.

Boiling:
I just need friends, my life is pretty boring. If you call it attention seeking, good for you.

Friends won't make your life any less boring

Sounds like a sour grape yet u r right. That's why I have a rule that tells me in 10 mins of speaking to anyone whether we will be friends or not. I call it FIRST IMPRESSIONS IN 10 MINS. Can't impress me with sound original ideas or bright discussions, we can't be friends because we have nothing in common.

You know this word thrown around by females was supposed to make them less of objects and more of an active participant in our society. But I have observed that they are not up-to the task of upholding to societal responsibilities that they rather be objectified like they were decades ago. That aside, men should stop making a lady their epicenter. If you want to be happy as a person especially as a man, tie your life to a goal not a person especially a female . A goal like a project, business etc and whoever u r inviting to share a life with must form a sync and complement u in such a way that makes u better. When such ppl come into ur life, they make u more vibrant, creative and innovative. The mistake guys make is thinking that they can buy whatever they want and that's what girls pick on. The girl who said that girls don't want our love but our value is very right. Remember, behind every successful man is a woman. Nobody said behind every potentially successful man is a woman. Stop fighting for someone's love and validation and start becoming goal oriented

Compared to when I was in a relationship, I have never been more happier. I'm at peace, goal oriented, motivated and cheerful. I no longer deal with the negative emotions of insecurity, fear of std or pregnancy. The only burden I have is trying to get into the oil and gas industry

Don't get a gf. If you do, you will regret it way before you even summon up the courage to pull down her skirt. Don't go that emotional route because they will so use u till you may end up hating them. Just calm down, find a nice brothel and just relieve your stress once every month. A nice brothel, a nice clean girl and always wear a condom. 2k max

One thing is for sure God and religion are man made constructs. There's an Entity overshadowing everything, HE is neither He, Christian, Jew nor gentile. One thing is for sure, if you really want to honor him, follow your humanity. Even a kid without biblical knowledge knows when he is committing a good or bad act. As for the sex thing though, I can assure you this, it's a lost battle because you can't fight your humanity

Argue with your friend tomorrow and he will start describing your wife's butt cheek and tattoos for you. What a disgraceful and shameful scenario. You want to marry someone that will always make you frown.

It's risky though. Because if your friend were to ever pop back into your lives, I promise you, that love will gradually turn to a deep distrust and then hate. Don't do it because one day very soon, you will definitely throw her past in her face

Bro, sex is the cheapest article in the world right now. Don't even think of searching for a gf if sex is all u want. Just don't get addicted, use 1000 - 2000k to appease your demons