Tekashi89:
I've noticed that most guys in my neighborhood are broke but they keep bringing different types of girls home.
Note these are not hookup girls or oloshos but girls who live in the neighborhood and girls who've got shops or help their mothers in our areas market. My question is how do these broke guys manage to be successful with them as in what do they tell these girls

Because they can fake it. You don't really have to spend too much to bang a girl, just have 5k to give and fake the rest with beautiful lies.

TOPCRUISE:

And there is your crude quote to your answer.
If you see a man who intend to woo a girl as jobless and the start of the relationship as a job. Isn’t it wiser for him to continue looking for a handsome job for him to settle down with

Why would you go through the struggles of getting a high paying JOB just so you can be with A WOMAN

I just don't understand Nigerian men...

Do you know the stress that comes with a high paying job??

Are you willing to sacrifice your mental, physical, psychological and spritual health, and time doing a stressful job just so you can settle down with a woman who wouldn't give a F about you if you didn't have the money

THINK ABOUT YOUR LIFE

Tonia500:




If she come with person wey resemble you after 9 months nko

How you dey? E don tey o

E don reach 2 years o, I am very safe..

Why waste 2-3 months wooing a girl when you can sleep with her for 10k or less??

If she says 30k or above..

I am all 19 wrapped in one. Therefore, olosho is the way...

Afonjudas:
This is a Nephilim
One of the offsprings of the Annunaki and human women

Gilgamesh, Goliath, Thor, Achilles and co are Nephilim.


So think twice the next time you try to mix agbo to satisfy a woman.

So an AI generated giant is the NEPHILIM??



Religious people and their wahala

Some olosho no send o...

I been dey bang one with condom when e burst, told her and she was like PUT AM INSIDE

I objected and she was like YOU NO WAN DO...

Na so I put am inside, fk craze comot her head

She dey shout DON'T POUR INSIDE ME, I dey tell her SHEY NA YOU NO WAN USE CONDOM

I pour inside her live and direct, she no even send

SIMPANZEES, go and make money so that after the bad guys are done with her body, you can have the left overs

DonroxyII:
Olosho No be Games Jhoor ....

Pay & Fvck Tufiakwa.... You missed all the fun or whinning & Grinning .... Bedding the Lioness is a Thrill On Its Own .... ....

Comot That Region & come & mount with Men

So you expect me to use my time and energy wey I suppose use dey upgrade my career dey pursue women



Wetin the bad guy dey enjoy wey I no dey enjoy, YANSH NO BE YANSH??

For sex wey go tire me??

Starz825:


Go and read again...

Na you no get the points

Op is preaching ABT self love....make money...but ensure you nt spending it on a worthless bitch, who lacks quality and will drain your pocket.
Instead invest in yourself, goals and empire....the right lady will level up with you...and respect all that you have achieved...

As I said, DELUSIONAL.... Just make money and invest in yourself right?? YOU GO ATTRACT RETIRED HOES....

I wish it is that simple...to find the right WOMAN...

Stargurl20:


Says who?

Well, I don't understand your definition of bad boys. No 'sane woman' whether good or bad will go for a man who's not caring, loving, smart, intelligent, abusive and who treats her like shit. You men tend to define bad boys has one who has seen life and experienced, but that's not my own definition. It's possible for a guy to be inexperienced and not philanderered but still lack these beautiful qualities

Lol. The reality on ground states otherwise...

DonroxyII:
This isn't about Good or Bad Perse ...

You can never know a field you ain't a Player ...

Some dudes have mastered the acts of bedding women of all shapes & ages ...

While some dudes are just not confident enough in that game ... laslas, Na dem those girls would run Street after they are done with street life ...

Good for those guys wey done master the act of bedding women o.

Me, I have master the act of satisfying myself with olosho and then focus on my career and making money...

I no come this life to practise wetin no go give me constant JOY..

Carcholce:


The OP is actually saying the same thing. Any man that values himself should use his time wisely to make money, spend it on himself to increase his value and chances. The OP is right, you are right as well.

The OP is delusional..

Hahahahahaha. Real men cannot command any respect without money.

These girls that will first analyze a guy from his head to his toe before making their decision..

Go and make money as a man if you want to have any chance with the ladies o.

Nigerian girls are not here for love but business.

As a man with money, how about you simply find a woman who would bear kids for you and take care of her financially far away from you....

Win-win situation.

Marriage has become intolerable...

Mikespecialone:


Naso one carry my bible Swear say she be virgin , her next coming naso I fall enter the virgin land yakata, the depthness no b here

That girl na novice. The one wey I dey hear pass na "I LOST MY VIRGINITY BECAUSE I WAS RAPED".

You as guy man go come weak dey pity her...



Until you go come realise say her BEDMATICS STAMINA na 200%

Lovit:
Everyone deserves love and happiness, we pray she finds a good man to love her

Well it all depends on if she has learnt her lessons, engaging thrice to men, having kids for each and yet none could stay is a big red flag

AND MAY YOU END UP BEING THAT GOOD MAN IJN.

SenecaTheYonger:
Promiscuous girls don’t like bad boys for dating. Speaking from experience. They prefer to date good guys and cheat with the other.

Obviously, whether good or bad guy, they’ll always go for a good girl.

This is what most men do not understand. Being a good guy will yield you no result...

The only girls who are after good guys are the ones who are tired of the bad guys and wants to settle down.

Good girls don't even see any value in good guys until they have been ran through by bad guys.

Even the educated ones...

OLOSHO IS THE ONE AND ONLY WAY TO PEACE OF MIND.

ATLEAST, I KNOW WHAT COMES WITH OLOSHO.

Sonnobax15:

Na wa..

Nobody is perfect..... Nobody is infallible.

We've all in one time in our lives made certain mistakes that almost cost us our lives/hearts..But managed to come out alive.......But that doesn't mean we should give up...

I pray she finds the love she's looking for...🙏

No be every time we suppose to dey bash our bannies.........Cuz some bashings may lead to depression and hypertension and that may lead to the contemplation of suicidal thoughts.......I sincerely wish her well ❤️

Another SIMPANZEE...

honour7:
. He should learn from Nick canon, get more women pregnant and spreed the child support around, that 600k can take care of like 20 kids at 30k per kid. He is senseless

Smart guy... Tyrese na confirm slowpoke...

I can't wait for the extinction of all SIMPANZEES at the hands of women...

greenermodels:
Sorry to him,it would end when the child turns 18 but let it be a lesson to all men over the world, know why you're getting married and protect yourself. For most present day Nigerian men, the only valid reason to get married is to have your own biological children.

Even having a biological child with Nigerians is on shaky grounds now..

For sure na, in my Uni days...she refused the first attempt and I left her alone until she left my crib...

I also refused to touch her the next time she came to live with me and started treating her like a sister

Until I woke up one night when she started crying...

All I heard that night was "AM I NOT BEAUTIFUL ENOUGH".

In my mind, I was like "WHICH KIND WAHALA BE THIS"...

I pitied her and gave in as the DOINGS started and never ended until we stopped seeing each other...

I can't even remember her name sef

FEAR WOMEN, THEY CAN MANIPULATE THEIR WAY THROUGH ANY CIRCUMSTANCES...

StillDtruth:


That word "sleep around" is deceiving you. The correct word is do not Bleep any girl until after marriage.

Even if you fuq only one girl, you are no longer a virgin and most virgin girls will not be happy to marry you. And if they made the mistake of marrying you,.. she's off to ride her own joysticks.

By your analysis you must be a virgin to marry a virgin.

Buhahahahahahhahahahahaha. Dey play...

Virgin girls will marry anyone whether they are virgins or not.

You can't cheat the woman's nature

NoSmoking:
A girl that told me she will not have sex at uni, refuses to Bleep me

Late told me.ahe fvcked a lecturer she told me she hated

KPELE, NO CRY NO CRY....
FEMALE STUDENTS FOR PUBLIC SCHOOLS AND F'ING OF LECTURERS NA 5 AND 6..
THAT ONE NO COUNT

atoliman:
They visit the brothel like it is a normal thing and sleep with oloshos like it is nothing and they want a loyal girlfriend. Who is decieving who? That relationship cannot work, neither the marriage will work.
A lady was telling me how her ex boyfriend got another girl pregnant while they were dating. The dude keep begging her to come back.
Bad boys should date promicious women and oloshos- that is a balanced equation, leave the good women alone so serious minded good guy can date them.

SPOILER: EVEN MOST OF THE GOOD GIRLS DEY FIND BAD BUYS...

YOU WILL LEARN AND YOU WILL LEARN THE HARD WAY

Bad men no dey suffer for relationship because they don't even create any strong bonds with women to begin with.

If one woman (including wife or wives) f up, they are onto the next woman...

Na good men dey suffer for relationship because disney don full their heads with nonsense like love and happily ever after...

At least, the bad guys get to enjoy themselves while the Good ones come here on nairaland to cry...

Women get power sha but that power na mostly for good men, NOT BAD GUYS...

FitCorper:
This op is just a clown. I don’t know how you guys manage to enjoy sex with ladies you don’t build intimacy with. Here’s what you guys don’t know, “d more emotional you can make a girl, d more expressive and demonically anointed she would be during sex”.

Stories that touch...

Tallesty1:
Will you care for her if you're not benefiting?

So, what is the difference between a girlfriend and an olosho from a guy's perspective?

Tallesty1:
Stay wise kor.

So, in your wisdom, sleeping with a random woman is better than building a real connection with someone? Someone who will give you emotional support and companionship; someone who cares about your well-being, shares experiences, and builds memories with you?

Someone who will come to your place and help you tidy up when you're busy, cook something for you, and possibly help with whatever you're working on—or at least encourage you in ways that keep you motivated and inspired.

This is why some of you struggle in dating. Aside from satisfying your physical cravings, you're simply too immature to handle a relationship with a woman because you don’t understand their value and can’t possibly add any value to their lives.

If this is what you call wisdom then I wonder what your foolishness will be like 😂 😂

All those things you have written are nothing but fantasies.
Women don't care about men except they are benefitting from him

otipoju:


You dont sound like someone who has real life experience. The first thing to know is that NO man wey no git fall maga for any girl. You must be aware of thatbreality and groom your to observe and adjust as things unfold.

You don't win all, you win some and you loose some and so you don't carry any woman matter for head by making her the center of your life. You also have to let her know that your life's purpose comes first and you are able to walk away from everything at any time and start all over again.

mind So you see that we have arrived at the same destination. It's not the money that will attract and keep the woman. It requires more.

I have been married for nearly 15 years but If I was in the dating market, I just realized that the way that my mind works now in 2024, I can't even look at a lady romantically for a relationship if you don't have your sheet together.

As in you are a senior manager, or have a solid verifiable business and have your own things...and a name or reputation to protect.

I no just fit date anybody that has nothing to loose and can't comport herself.

Dude, I am a young man who interacts with a lot of girls.

These girls will literally tell you the guys they are playing if they are open with you. And they are mostly good men who are head over hills in love with them.

You have been married for 15 years and I can assure you that the quality of girls you had in your youth are way better than what I had and it's getting worse.

APPROACHING A GIRL AS A GOOD MAN IN 2024 IS A ONE-WAY TICKET TO MISERY...

JovialJune:


So all poor men's wives cheat on them, none of them have faithful wives lmao, only a man of your kind of wisdom can say this

But according to you, I thought you said women only go for rich men, that we go for high class men with money, how come Jeff bezos and Bill Gates wives divorced them and went for low class men since they are the richest men in the world?

So all good guys have been used and dumped? No bad guy have ever been used and dumped?

Your wisdom is limitless, pls explain more

From my experience, a woman who finally SETTLES for a financially inept man will cheat on him on a regular.

Secondly, Bezos and Gates wives didn't cheat on them. They got divorced and moved their separate ways after spending years together.

And that is not even what the post is about.

I clearly stated that playing the nice girls to girls will get you PLAYED...

ITS JUST THAT SIMPLE....HAVING MONEY MAKES IT EVEN WORSE...

Not once did I use the phrase "use and dump"... Stick to the subject matter