₦airaland Forum

neonly:
Na yur future children she dey swallow so
Very soon u will have low sperm count
Pikin no go dey again
Hope she know dat swallowing curm cause cancer more than cigarettes

Mr Researcher, Wadooo

purples25:
You did not rebuke her in Jesus name when you put that baby in her.

Well, you really don't need to pretend to be friendly or friends with her, because she may actually not have married with the secret hope that you two will get back together, not that she didn't have options, like you think. Chats like this will leave her in the dark on where she stands. You do not need to decieve her, or attempt to decieve her with friendly conversations.

Go to the families, let them insist on her presence in a family meeting and let your people relay to them that you need to see your child and make arrangements, even if you aren't planning to marry her. In the meeting, finances and distribution of visitation should be discussed. Straight and simple. You are not together but as adults, you can make a decision over your child. There can be a go between that is not even the mom, but an elder in her family, to ensure she complies with visitation.

I can't advise you to go to court. She might decide not to show up, messy legal battle, etc. meeting the family is close up and more effective.

Who asked you?

Continue advocating for your fellow emotionally disrespectful mad colleague.

EreluRoz:
Ask your sisters and the entire female creatures of your family that one

Madam, go sleep. If you no take care, you go soon carry..

EreluRoz:
Mtcheww, having a child outside wedlock will never be normal.



The way you all are trying to normalize these things is so annoying.

Both op and his babymama deserve each other

But opening your legs for different men for money is normal abi

Abeg shift

SEE AS YOU DEY SIMP ONTOP WOMAN WEY GET BAD CHARACTER

THE WOMAN GET TOXIC AFFECTION FOR YOU

BUT SHE NO GET ONE SINGLE RESPECT FOR YOU



YOU KNOW SAY YOU FIT STILL WIRE HER ANOTHER BELLE ABI



AT LEAST, FROM THE CONVERSATION.

MAKE GOD NO ALLOW ME END UP WITH NIGERIAN WIFE O

ELSE NA ME GO JUDGE GOD

YOU SHOULD NOT EVEN THINK OF COMMITTING PERIOD

I AM NOT TELLING YOU TO CHEAT

ALL I AM SAYING IS THAT YOU SHOULD BE THE TYPE OF GUY THAT WOULD PUSH HER OUT THE DOOR THE MOMENT SHE STARTS HAVING DOUBTS OR IF SHE STARTS PLAYING GAMES

DON'T BE AN EMOTIONAL SIMP WITH THE ROMANTIC NONSENSE

WOMEN HATE THAT WITH PASSION

Gadafii:
The pussyyy wasn't yours in the first place, it was just your turn, so don't loose guard


It's like a community well, draw your water and be on your way

I AM GOING TO FRAME THIS..

This is the tah tah tah position.

The 2 legs on shoulder is even worse.

Men dey suffer sha.

O bob. Simps dey try o

Like after you forgive her, do you think about how she was bent over and stretched when doing it

How are you guys in serious relationships coping

Goodlyhrt:
The reigning gospel now is that of priding in singlehood.

People preach it everywhere they could and are busy shaming other people who are married or in a committed relationship.

But Listen.. if you will. There is no gain saying that being single is disadvantageous at the long run because, who will be there for you when some types of situation arises?

I have been with my mother who is suffering from partial stroke since January this year. I forsook all my other endeavors just to be with her and provide the needed support.

I child you not, what I have passed through this past few months just because of my mother can never be bought with money.

There are times in life that people you call you friends or acquaintance can not fill a certain role. That role solely belongs to a blood relative.

My dad had to sell lands and other properties just because of my mum's case. Which other person or persons can possibly make these sacrifices for her except her blood relations.

Your mother is lucky to have a child like you as a son..

Your father is lucky to marry a woman who he loves as a wife.

And your mother is lucky to have a husband who sincerely cares for her as a husband.

UNFORTUNATELY, THOSE DAYS ARE OVER

THE CROP OF GIRLS WE HAVE THESE DAYS WILL ABADON YOU FOR ANOTHER MAN AT THE SIGHT OF TROUBLE

THERE WILL EVEN ABADON YOU EVEN IF THERE IS NO TROUBLE

YOUR PARENTS WERE FORTUNATE TO LIVE IN THE ERA THEY DID

IN THIS ERA, MARRIAGE IS A BURDEN TO TIE PEOPLE DOWN.

PEOPLE WHO PREFER TO BE LOSE AND WILD ESPECIALLY WOMEN.

pocohantas:
When you marry this calm career minded submissive woman from a good home that loves chaos, please quote me with evidence. I will give you N500,000. I take it that you are chaotic and old enough to marry. So this offer is valid for 5 years. Let's leave long talk for VeryDarkMan. 🤝

You no get 10K, not to talk of 500K.

Secondly, why the F would I want to marry a NIGERIAN WOMAN??

Of what use is a Nigerian woman to me??

pocohantas:
Speak for your family, dear and please keep this cycle of generational chaos within your family.

🙏🙏🙏

Na so.

Deny all you want but you see that drama and chaos, you can never do without it

That's why Nigerian women love Nollywood movies a lot

No plot, no great script, just DRAMA and CHAOS

Anyways, AT LEAST MY FAMILY IS NOT BROKE LIKE YOURS

Gerrard59:
I've read and be told that many times only to see and hear something different few years after.

Good luck!

Bro, that's a forgotten issue for me..

I have seen what is out there and have tasted of the forbidden fruit from other parts of the world.

I basically just satisfy my urges with Nigerian girls who I pay.

pocohantas:
Lol. Make them dey play. After dealing with psychotic women with daddy issues, they will come online to tell us how women hate peace of mind. All the guys I see making this comment are somehow never married to the calm virgin KPMG staff from a respected home. A girl like that wouldn't even bring you a chimney home to her parents. There is a reason people stick within their class for marriage and allow dregs convince themselves that chaos is fun.

The only men who think women don't crave chaos are the ones who women are not comfortable being around

The moment a woman is comfortable with a guy and has sized him, THE WAHALA STARTS

Gerrard59:
Just as Northern men are more sensible than Southern men. There is a reason the average Northern family dreads a man from the south marrying their daughter. Southern men befit Southern women. The same applies to the north.

Go sit down, the only blessed thing about the north is their women

The men are mostly religious fanatics who are not as intelligent or industruous as the southern men.

I didn't even rate northerners in terms of education

Not until I saw a brilliant northern Nigerian woman who was undergoing her Phd in the UK.

She even won an award for her RESEARCH.

I would never marry a NIGERIAN though

StillDtruth:
Na lie na one Ecobank banker she follow go.

You are obviously an evil woman.

No girl go leave SHELL worker for ECOBANK banker.

Except the SHELL worker na contract staff.

Worst case scenario, she go dey enjoy the money dey kpansh outside.

trytillmake:
It might sound funny but I've seen girls that left guys cause he was too cool and loving to her, this na guy working in shell and love the girl pieces but the babe just say the guy too quiet, he's too cool, he's too perfect, too clean , too that..
No be small matter

So girl leave a SHELL worker....

That's new o...

Maybe she found a CHEVRON bad boy

Gerrard59:
Throwing statistics without a source is a normal thing for most Nigerians. My issue was you requested statistical evidence from someone when you made the same mistake. You can count the number of marriages, while I cannot. So, the belief that Nigerian men hardly marry these days is false as it depends on one's surroundings. In the north, people would always marry. So, we cannot say it is a nationwide phenomenon.

Outside Nigeria where there are available statistics from national bureaus, we can categorically state marriages have dwindled. But not so in Nigeria.

You have a point...

Northern Nigerian girls are more sensible than Southern Nigerian girls

Of course, they will be far more marriages up north compared to the south..

ednut1:
Most of the guys who went to uk on study /care visa are complaining of lack of sex. If 9ja guys are in demand why is that so

In America sha there is surplus women/ sex to go round for the average 9ja guy 😂

It is not simply about the lack of sex because you can actually have all the sex you want

I know of guys who change women every weekend or marry british women in one year of being in the UK

Like me wey like OLOSHO well well, I fit pay for 30 mins or 1 hour

Na just the social lifestyle that is not comfortable. NO STEEZE

Gerrard59:
So, where did you get the stats that men hardly marry these days?

From the bureau of marriage affairs



That's why there are so many single ladies out there looking for who to tie down without any success

In fact, I know more broke guys who have gotten married than the well to do ones

Not to mention that I can count the number of marriages I have seen this hear in 2 fingers

Rukevwe999:
"Peace of Mind" is a vague term. It means different things to different people. To some men it means being with a person with good character, to some it means being with a woman who is easy to control.
Before you seek peace of mind from a relationship you must be a person of peace. You must be at peace with yourself and others around you because beneath that quest for a person who will give you peace lies a covert form of cowardice.
Conflict resolution is a skill many people must learn because every relationship must encounter conflict

No try conflict resolution on top women matter o

It never works

There is a reason why she's raising hell

And that hell will not be quenched until the end goal has been accomplished.

I found this the hard way and I wish I had just told her to Bleep OFF much earlier or simply ignore her

MrBrownJay1:
sadly many of these hoes get married after they repent and change their ways... who are we to judge a man who marries a woman who he doesnt know that she was a hoe in the past? do you think it is written on these women's forehead what they did in their past?
a hoe in Lagos can move to Kano and act as a holy woman and get married, who will ever know?

Who will ever know??

Only a simp no go know...

My motto for women is GUILTY UNTIL FOUND INNOCENT

You can always tell a HOE from a HOUSEWIFE

As long as she is human, You will always find someone who knows her pass

Not to mention that social media has made everything very easy...

Jman06:
Forget all the pretence here, many men low-key crave badass girls who can do many naughty things to them in bed.

You'll see a guy condemning runs girls in public yet he's in dm begging her for the coochie!

Only few of us don't crave such bad girls, yet we don't condemn them just so we can be seen as saints.

There's a difference between FUN and MARRIAGE.

The main reason for the olosho is to save cost.

But your own don expensive pass GAL FRIEND.

I never see any man wey dey spend 10K daily on olosho

Thats 70K weekly.. Just carry FWESH HOMELY RUNS GAL NA

MrBrownJay1:
FIXED



there is a HUGE difference between A) a man who meets a woman, falls in love with her and then later finds out she use to sell coochie, but still goes ahead and marries her (because thats in her past) and B) a man who goes to a brothel, meets a wh0re there and decides to take her out the game to marry her. one is a "former" hoe, the other IS a hoe.

any man who tries to take a wh0re out of the game is a selfish human being who wants a low down dirty wh0re just for himself, while such woman belongs to the community ..aka anybody/everybody with money for short time. furthermore, it make NO LOGICAL SENSE to marry a wh0re because you will always be slave to her desire... if tomorrow she wants you to buy her a Ferrari then you MUST buy it for her, because if you dont then she will simply say:"ok then, if you cant get it for me, then i will go back to being a wh0re to get it for myself"

any captain-save-a-hoe are bad for the community!

ONCE A HOE, ALWAYS A HOE..

NOTHING LIKE FORMER HOE

Jozilinn:
you see as rubbish but it's actually True good girls don't end up 100 percent with good husbands it's by God's mercy... Lot of loose girls and yet they're getting the best of the best husbands who treat Dem like queens and value them, I can testify to it infact you see this men condemning them they're probably in their dm wooing them, only people of principle still do the good things. This life isn't balance some go marry virgin claim she no Sabi knack she's like a log of wood.... Still go knack olosho make her the side chick virgin wife go born two children he will say he's no longer interested and divorce while he cares for the kids last last fo for the olosho or any other girl that can knack okay who loose now once a woman gives birth in Africa even in marriage they'll become undervalued no be all oh ma some men no be all. If you see some women with rubbish characters sometimes I wonder how they see suitors, pompous, randy trust me men dey oh men dey na only God dey help us because life no balance

Story that touch

Men hardly get married these days

So I don't know where you see these stats from?

OLOSHO IS THE WAY

Nonexisting1:
Have you been living in Jupiter? I know over two simps who married known oloshos out of love. The pit latrines the community were dumping cums in, e reach their turn, they domesticated them. One of them later couldn't take it though and got a divorce because the olosho went back to the streets when things were tough for the husband.

Only 2 simps in the entire Nigeria and we are acting like its common.

LIEK MEN NEVER DEY WISE UP

InteliJ:
You became a better You (better job, better body, better standard of living etc) that's why you're attracting better women now. If you come to Nigeria, you'll get the women you couldn't get before.

Stop lying... If he came back to Nigeria without telling anyone where he has been, Nigerian women will ignore him

Jeweltz:
But why did he asked me if I was in any relationship ? Which I clearly told him I’m not. I knew he liked what he saw he was just being a coward and shying away from responsibility. Men don’t even need to be rich these days as women are just looking for a responsible man to marry and not necessarily rich

Responsible my foot...

There are many responsible and hardworking men around you right now

MARRY ONE

He should give us one example of a man who knowingly married a RUNS GIRL

I'm not talking about situations where the woman married the man like Janemena.

I'm talking about a NIGERIAN man who paid bride price for a NIGERIAN HOE.

Bebold:
While you try another prostitute to make her scream for help

Make we no finally see your pictures for nairaland say "a young man found death, after sex romp in a brothel"

We are tired of bad news here abeg.

Don't worry about me. I have made my choice based on reality

NO GO LIVE YOUR FANTASY