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Going straight to the point, try to do it with the right person ( your wife or your husband ) I bet you ,you won't feel such guilt one bit rather you will be happy you have done or doing your job.

JesusJesus:
Live a righteous and truthful life. With that heaven is guaranteed.

may God open the eyes of your understanding,,,Luke 24 vs 45

May God continue to heal the land in Jesus came ,Amen
2 chronicles 7 vs 14

The church of God cannot be controlled by government of a country be it a government headed by a Muslim or Christian ;I know some people will come here and say some "silly" things but let's not forget what happened to Saul before he became Paul. Now the government should beware before it comes face to face with the Mountain.
This is a head-on collision course waiting to happen if the government go ahead with this law.

Please what is the reason behind this posting ,just ask yourself

This means Asenal is going to europa

Just as it was too late for Pharaoh to realize this is God, the federal government of Nigeria and government of the world at large should be careful least they come face to face with God , remember Mathew 21 vs 44 "any one who falls on this Stone shall be broken to pieces and anyone the Stone falls on shall be crushed"

Take this to the bank
*The Nigerian Army is compromised*

Take it or leave it , Nigeria is a corrupt nation ,, am so sorry to say that ,,, I just pray and hope that some day we as a nation will get it right from all sectors even if not 100 percent but at least 80 percent and this has to do with our mind set and integrity of heart of each individual .

No offense sir,,but I think he paid same amount you paid when you contested under pdp few years ago

The return of Jesus Christ is closer now than we first heard about it .The good news is it's never too late to jump into the train of righteous living and ask for God's grace to continue in Him faithfully so as not to be left out . For God so love the world ...

AsomArchitectNG:
Nawao. Watin oshiomole no go see for Apc secretariat

guy pls what is the cost of erecting this building in eastern part of Nigeria.

Kenplay:
With my personal Experience, Observation and inner conviction, I think I dont want to be part of any religion again. This thing is truely an opium of illusion meant for people who cant take their destiny in their hands and for a sheeple masses.

Despite withdrawing from religion I found myself even having a better moral compass which I cant explain. We are throwing away common sense, hardwork and universal principles to leave in illusion. At the end of my observation I have come to the conclusion that its what you do for yourself that counts more.

When I see poor people dying of hungry in a country which have the capacity to be the global industrial hub I know we have throw away common sense, Nigeria biggest investment to South Africa is Religious buildings (Church) while here in Nigeria the South Africans brought us MTN, DSTV, SHOP RITE e.t.c which employs thousands of people and gives profit to our Investors inventing in the stocks and shares of those companies I realise religion is lack of common sense.

No amount of religion can make you succesful without application of common sense.
No amount of religion can make your marriage succesful without application of common sense and consideration for your partner.
No amount of religion can a nation grow and prosper without application of common sense, productivity and good policies.

At the end of it I think am leaving religion, its not worth it. Even uprightness and moral comes from a person inner conviction and not because of religion.

My brother, like some had already pointed out;religion will take you to no where rather it is Christ in us which is the hope of Glory Colossians 1 vs 27 so brother please seek relationship with Christ by wanting to know Him in truth and Spirit .Do this and you will see the big difference between relationship with Christ and religion.Shalom

This is pure Nigerian politics,,,but what really happens when the center cannot hold

ZeroShenanigan:
I'm above mid thirties, finished NYSC 2015 and i just secured a government teaching job after spending more than 3 years teaching in private schools. I met my wife earlier 2019, she was in her final year in school, we dated throughout the year and planned to get married after she graduated. She graduated and we make a move for our introduction, then we suggested to have the marriage before she go for her Nysc so as to enable her serve in our home state as I already have a rented apartment to start a small family.

As we were planning for the marriage, we were also planning her NYSC. She was required to have a medical certificate for the NYSC which of course required blood test including genotype. She came back with the result of her genotype as AS. That was the only time I remember to take genotype issue serious. Even if I have some little knowledge about it before, I decided to research more about it on the internet and also met some of my friends who are medically inclined. I came to realize my own genotype test is also important at that moment. I might have done the test in school but I didn't pay attention to it usefulness so I don't remember the result.

I don't usually fall sick except for normal malaria when there is mosquito bite, never had a drip line in my body for once, never slept in a hospital bed, I don't have any reason to take note of my genotype or blood test.

Her results then prompt me to have my own test done too which came out to be AS also. By these periods we have convinced our families to choose a date for the marriage so that we can have the wedding before her NYSC. Marriage is to hold in a week time when I got my own genotype result.
From my further findings about AS and AS couple, I discovered how risky it is for their offsprings. I tried to explain to her but she turned a deaf ear, she alleged me of trying to break her heart at that critical period. She reported to her sisters they tried to blame me but I make them all realized it's not my fault because throughout my visitation and introduction to their family nobody has ever ask us about genotype. I am an orphan, I don't have any closer family to guide me except for my sisters who can't wait for me to get married because of my age, they also had never thought of it as well.

My wife sisters gave us some examples of older couples who were both AS with only one or no sickler among their children. My wife also made a threat of killing herself or she kill me if the marriage didn't hold. She even suggested we proceed with the marriage and break up after few weeks of marriage because of the shame that may follow if we stop the marriage or maybe she was desperate because of the marriage certificate, I don't know. I maintained my stand of backing off the marriage but she reported to my sisters also. Her sisters and my sisters later tried to encourage us to go ahead with prayers since we have chosen the date. We were advised not to disclose our genotype result to anyone again because people will discourage us.

Even though I was skeptical about the marriage, it later commenced with less spending because the Nikkah was held in a mosque and a tent for refreshments.
After the marriage we tried to talk about it, and she told me, she was afraid, may be she was pregnant before the marriage that's why she insisted on going ahead with the marriage. She also revealed to me that she was not happy with the decision as well, means she also know the implications but she have to avoid the shame of stopping the marriage after inviting guests to the occasion.

During these period genotype before the marriage, my love for her reduced drastically because of her desperation and her refusal to understand the risk we are about to take. I tried to avoid pregnancy from our first month of marriage but I later gave up and she conceived immediately. Now she is closer to her delivery. We hardly talk or play together inside. We only discuss about feeding, maternity and things to get for the coming baby.
I discovered we quarrel over little things that can be over looked by lovers. I'm not happy in the marriage, I spend most of time watching TV or stay outside all day because of unresolved issues.

I'm planning to arrange for a divorce after she delivered the baby because this is my first baby and I would love to have 2 or 3 kids more. I can't take the risk of allowing any of my children to be a sickler.
Advise is needed if my plan for divorce is a good one and do I stand a chance of loosing anything?

Bros there is a God in heaven who does miracles you just need to reach Him, I have many SS turn to AA

ignis:
The child have succeeded in not being a citizen of this shithole called Nigeria. Automatically the child is the citizen of the Airline country which is UAE.
Congratulations to the baby.


In my next world I will never make the mistake of coming to this world through Nigeria.

United Arab Emirate does not operate like most countries of the world where the said baby becomes a citizen infact in less than 2 weeks that baby must have a visa.

Don't get it twisted , even those outside Nigeria and developed countries give offering and tithe online .

Is that not the same elbow we were asked to sneeze into ? Just saying though

It's a good one
Note:all their colonies(former) are not on that list

Ganduje (gov)is just playing game of multiply faces with the Emir Sanusi

Nice compilation,however i think UAE should have come before china

The statement by Jesus Christ mean ,there will always be people in need (poor) around you ;did Christ say you are the one that will be in need? No. So the (true) pastors preach to motivate the people yet it's not all that will catch the rehma in the Word.
*For unto us was the gospel preached, as well as unto them: but the word preached did not profit them, not being mixed with faith in them that heard it*

Hebrews 4 vs 2

When someone says a thing, look at the motive behind that statement before attaching such one;if at all it is worthy to be attacked.

nice and welcomed development

ask yourself one question, did you marry her because of sex ,if no is your answer then wait till after your church wedding before demanding for your right in bed ..Note after my traditional wedding I didn't even kiss my wife until the officiating pastor asked us to do so in church during our white wedding .

which way Nigeria, a whole state .no water plus onitsha is close to river Niger