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LexngtonSteele:

1 like for you. I couldn't agree more

LexngtonSteele:

You wish it pained me. Put in a little more effort my love

NwamaziNwaAro:
Na so


Wives gotta say thank you sometimes to these sidechicks..

They do what you won't do for your man.


You won't give him anal and you want to beat who gives him anal.

Shuooo...Are you a witch

If e pain you, kuku give him anal Madam so he won't have a reason to go out.

Omo! Na so o. What you can't give ur partner, another person will help you and you shouldn't complain.
I have a friend whose husband refused going down on her. I told her to sharply get a side dude who will help her husband out and she took my advice. Now everyone is happy. Win win

LexngtonSteele:

You won't go anywhere with all your senseless posts. Read some of your revolting comments. Good luck finding an unlucky man at 50

Awww! Cry me a river. Boo hoo hooo

GeneralOjukwu:
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yawn.... i can see how you make a GOOD wife without a sense of humor...or any SENSE at all

Keep quiet. Bitter soul. You won't go anywhere with all that bitterness in you. Better worry about finding a girl who'd tolerate your inferiority complex

All this bitter NL guys. Y'all need some sugar in your life

vicben27:
well datz for me dear! i cant be wit a woman who dosnt listen! we all hav dreams n goals we'd lik to achieve in life. for us to do dat we hav to wrk together as for me i have a spouse who is ready to go all d way! i dnt give Bleep about all dis femist shiit. n buildin a career crap!

Building a career crap ba? But if it's you trying to build ur career, it won't be crap

Eddygourdo:
really? so when your husband doesn't agree with something as sensitive as birth control, and the woman does it anyway, it's not undermining his authority? also you say on top her own body ? do you ladies reason well at all. of course it's now her own body not their own. infact they man is being stupid, how he hasn't gone outside to find one pretty girl to baby mama the rest of the children is beyond me.

Hian! He should go and find na and scatter his family. Who will he be doing?
My point is they had an agreement b4 the marriage. I hate people who can't honour their words

mikolo80:
yes. that's why men can't get pregnant. will she or you exist with such selfish mothers. kontinue forming feminism una hia. don't go and find out the outcome with the ppl deceiving you.how has it worked out for them

Everything is feminism. Abeg go and rest. It's like your brain is paining you

laudate:
Chai!! See as you dey vex! Take am easy, biko....

I dont suffer fooools

Revolva:
then die ion your mansion.....idiot....so whats wrong in telling a woman to cook for you.....it may be a test it may be not

look as i am....sometimes girls cook for me for no good reason ....if i remember....just because thats the woman in them....you dont expect me to buy food stuff and keep at home and cook for a woman am dating....is that not stupidity upon a man....

kai dis generation



leave the baboon there.....make i see d man wey go marry you....infact can she cook ? dey there de feel over comfortable....

'You don't expect me to buy food stuff and keep at home and cook for a woman am dating'? Now I know you're a complete buffoon. Don't learn to cook for yourself o till they poison you. Mumu. Na the girls wey dey gree date you I blame.
Why should you yest a woman you're dating? If she decides to test you, u go fit pass am. slowpoke

vicben27:
your family shud be ur priority! who told you a man wound be ok wit jst one kid? datz y i wont let my wife wrk for any firm dat takes much of her time! i'd rather save up money and set up a bussiness for her! madam face ur family dat shud be ur first love! seat him down n apologise to him. family planin is of different types! if its nt d contraceptive or d injectable type it can easily be reverst! so do dat n save ur marriage. job too stressful my asss! my wife tries dat sshit wit me shez simply goin back to her fathers house for sabatical leav!

It is not your place to decide for her where she should work or if she should do business. Is it every woman that wants to do business?

dominique:
You shouldn't have taken your topic to the romance section, a action littered with immature children with no tangible advice but insults.

Now to your topic. Why on earth would you put a job (someone else's sweat) over children that will bring joy and comfort to you till your old age? A job that you may resume one day and recieve sack letter, a job that God forbid if something happens to you, you will only be honoured with a minute of silence after which it's business as usual. Is that what you want to sacrifice having children for? Having another child can never be a disturbance to your job, you will adjust before you know it.

Your husband has every reason to get mad at you, it is your duty to make sure he doesn't stay mad. You apologize to him and tell him that you are open to having another child and MEAN IT.

Do you even know the damage you are doing to your reproductive system with all these family planning injections? You may not even find it easy to conceive after you've stopped and you may have to end up getting treatments to restore your hormone levels. Put a stop to them immediately for the sake of your health.

How much joy is shekau bringing his mother? Just asking ni o

mikolo80:
so you rather do job than take care offspring

So she shouldn't work? Her only purpose in life is to bear children?

Homeboiy:
If i were ur husband, i will go outside and give another woman belle

will not touch u n will not tell u abt it till de puts to bed

fucck off madame

And who do you think you'll be doing?

Funnicator:
Job over family! Some women are very shameless. Job that you can get sacked over family?

The OP is just a lazy asss. Plus a selfish one. I won't blame the man if he gets another child outside. For chrisssake one child Forever

Abeg park one side op. If you like, allow your marriage crash.

When he agreed to it before marriage, he didn't know? Abeg park one side

Eddygourdo:
you are a shameless cheat who loves it without a condom, you clearly don't want mistakes and you went and did it anyway. if truly you value your husband, you will realise he is the head and won't have ever had it in you to undermine his authority by taking such decisions alone. anyway the deed has been done, if only he could have the sense to go get that second child outside while you offer your family planned punna to the people you deem fit or respect enough.

How does 'he is the head' come in here now? No b only undermine his authority. On top her own body o

lefulefu:
hmm iron lady Thatcher

Hahahahaha! Commot jor

DLondonboiy:
What did she do? All these mannerless and useless girls roaming the streets of Lagos....

Why don't you fight with all the manner less agberos you meet on the streets of lagos. Useless cowards

Iyou:
You are a radical feminist and that can not work in Africa especially Nigeria....As a woman you need to do that even if you don't like it,you don't expect your guy to go cooking for you young lady ::::these things only happen in Western countries. I must advice you and other ladies,,,,,even if you are the bread winner,respect your man/husband,swallow pride because if no man comes for you,you will remain at home.

Say you personally can't cook for your lady. Other men can and do cook

SafeDavid:
Oh well, he was wrong on the way he went about it. If I were him. I'd start the cooking and ask her to give me a hand. Gradually shed take over.
I guess that's why we're all different.

Take over fire. I'd just stay in the kitchen and keep you company.

Revolva:
look whether 1st date or not a woman is suppose to show her cooking skills..that the best way to be loved by a man ..that is the secrect of we men ok..the idiot girl cant cook



thanks idiot....why fly no go support shit...shame to you

And a man should show his spending skills too. Take her shopping on a regular 1st date and spoil her

Idreal22:
I washed my husband clothes and clean his house on my first date with him, and now we are the most happiest couple in the world, ......... so my sister with what u are doing I can see that u have another alternative that is why u are misbehaving , change ur ways and forget about equal right for male and female, the bible clearly let us understand that our husband is the head of the family just as Jesus Christ is the head of the church

Desperation at its peak

FakoMaybach1:
The level of hypocrisy on social media stinks to high heavens, some of the ladies supporting the girl do worse things to win a man's heart.

To the Op you need counseling, the guy really needed to let you In..In as in into his heart, home and life but you messed up with a capital "M"

Let me educate you guys that are well to do have something to loose, they dont eat anything a lady brings to them, i for one dont let female visitors cook for me, we all know ladies can be dangerous...When a man loves a woman she becomes his mother, and last i checked a mother feeds her son and not Tasty fried chicken.

Well i agree from the picture you posted you are still young, time dey your side..and to all those shouting on the first date, if he had given her money will she refuse it because na first date? No woman has ever turned back money to me and told me "Eh this is our first meeting i cannot accept your money" but when other matters arise i hear that "First Date" balderdash..Abeg make una park well

Can I also discipline him when he acts silly? I mean since I'm his mother

bkool7:
Maybe you and the op have not been told .
its actually a MEN'S WORLD .
you ladies just live in it.
The man was merely testing you, and need I tell you you failed ?

Testing me as the president of nigeria wey him be ba? If I slap you ehn

Inspectorsuga:
Shut d fvck up biitch!!

Shut d fvck up son of a biitch