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Marcofranz:
If it seems the money is intoxicating her she has to quit cos I ain't changing my job for a woman except a better one came by fine .if not she is quitting or moving out.

If I'm your wife, I won't quit or move out. You can move out if you like with your zero self esteem

boiz2men:
I dont know about other men.... but i dont think i can. I can only marry her if its her dads wealth and not hers...... its difficult for a woman stay humble when shes rich.. they are overly bossy ...no man wants that.. even ladies wouldnt work under women if they could choose

Biko how humble are you guys exactly when you're rich? Don't you always throw it in our faces? ''My house' 'under my roof' bla bla bla

Donjazzy12:
You are already experiencing it...the frustration will keep building up....

You know how many men wey don sama the place, yet none considers you worthy to pay a dime as bride price..


My dear it is gonna get a lot worse until you realize that you are completely useless and totally worthless!

Hahahahaha! You're pathetic. My hubby says hello. Hahahahaha

Donjazzy12:
I have kids already. You will die single, just mark it so that when you become old, sad and alone, you will remember how you brought it upon yourself

Your kids will die single, old, sad and alone. Idiot

Donjazzy12:
I am not looking for you. You will die single. Mark my words so that when you are 50 years you will remember it.

You will die childless. Mark my words

tycoon3:
So u aren't like her? Then you are nt virtues lady

I don't wanna be virtuous. Thanks

Donjazzy12:
That's why you will die single!

Stale! Is this the best you're porous brain can come up with? As dumb as you are, you too dey find woman wey go submit to you?

tycoon3:
Thank God I'm hearing this; wish we have more ladies with ur philosophy and ideology...
Ur bf is lucky tho...wishing I can get som1 like you

Unfortunately for you we will not have more ladies like her. #ourmumudondo

alexis22:
I support this 100% and tho am not yet married but the times I was very submissive in my relationship it was wonderful and peaceful..... please ladies let's not dwell on equality!!! tried it and trust me it only brought unnecessary fights

Aunty do what works for you abeg. It worked for you, good and fine. There are a thousand women suffering out there in the name of submission. We must not be like you

jezuzboi:
Like I've never failed to inform, I DIDN'T WRITE THIS EPISTLE. A WOMAN LIKE YOU DID. Can you guess what else? She had a successful MARRIAGE and was the master of her home. Please get that!!!

I know a hundred women who adhered to these rules yet they are treated than servants in their home. So I will pass.
And just because the author said she had a successful marriage does not mean it's actually true. Abi did you live with her?

jezuzboi:
You're saying the woman who wrote this down is a ROBOT Well, in my opinion, if it takes being a ROBOT to HAVE CONTROL OVER MY HOUSE AND MY HUSBAND, I would rather be a ROBOT. Isn't that better than battling for superiority only to get thrown out of the house in the name of DIVORCE

Thrown out ke. In this era that women pay/contribute to house rent.

IreneJ:
If the husband is rich, its normal for the wife to stay at home, take care of the kids till they are grown then she can pursue her career. The truth is, if my husband is rich, I wouldn't want to work till I finish birthing my kids. I will want to give them all my attention till they are grown then I can have a career. A career woman cannot have a successful home! It is the job of a wife to take care of her home full time. Its a sacrifice you have to make for your children, because when they go astray trust me, your money won't bring them back to normal! I am talking from experience i had always wish my parent were always around. However in a situation where the man is not rich, the woman should do business. When she is into business she will have time for her family.

A career woman cannot have a successful home? Big lie from the pit of hell. My mum did it and all 4 of her children turned out great. Just marry a man who supports you all round.

ImaIma1:
I understand your point. However, the man is not there to lord over her and make her forgo her ambitions because of the care of the children and house. A compromise should be reached or else he will end up with a bitter or depressed wife later.

That is why a woman should be careful about who becomes her husband. Because as a head/leader, he can kill her ambitions and make her hepless and totally dependent on him. I am not a feminist but i believe women should also pursue their dreams.

Why did you feel the need to state that you're not a feminist?

Acidosis:
Hmn, okay..

Since you've agreed that the man is the head of the home, I think it is just normal to trust and accept his views on matters relating to your wellbeing and the overall health of the home, especially when you claim to love him.

Not many husbands today will comfortably advise their wives against a paid job on the grounds that the children or the family as a whole needs her care and attention. When you find one that advises that, grab him by the waist, hold him, stay glued to him, tightly dear, and never let him go.

So a woman becomes a mindless robotic mumu that can't think or.decide for herself again just cos she's married. Good luck with that. Just marry an ambitionless mumu and everything would be just peachy

fatymore:
The best job for a woman is Teaching.. It allows her to be always available and good role model for her children or any job that makes her available when her children comes back from school.. This society of ours is getting worse yearly.. Children are quick to imbibe bad vices easily.. May God give all parents to raise God fearing children.
My opinion though

Women like you are breaking grounds in different professions - medicine, law, engineering, politics. You're here limiting yourself to teaching (not looking down on teachers o). Can every woman in the world be a teacher?

Ifakiland:
Ure the one choking not me

You're the one drowning in bitterness not me

Ifakiland:
I hope u choke out then, one less broke ass gal to worry about

Your bitterness will kill you first and you'll probably die alone. Money you no get. I pray your bitterness is sufficient company for you sha

Great4God:
There are other better ways to assist your wife, not bathing the baby,it takes a special act to handle new babies and women are naturally groomed in that act,go find other ways to assist her, this one no get meaning

A manual on how to take care of babies was not installed in our vaginas when we were born. So anybody can bath a baby. We all had to learn

Kokaine:
she will soon get used to him bathing the baby. one day she will even wake him up from sleep and tell him the baby wants to bath or the baby has pupuued

Naija men? Tueh! You guys are one of a kind walahi. See mentality

bigtt76:
And what is wrong with him helping his wife?

He is not helping his wife. He is doing his responsibility

Kokaine:
oga no start watin you no fit finish oooh

that thing go turn permanent duty for your head now now

And if it does nko? is it not his child? Is the child not bearing his name? Daddy for mouth. Get down and do the actual work jor. Nansense

Ifakiland:
Go and work and stop ur sob stories...learn makeup or cake making, cos if u fink doing runs is easy....ask that she fool dat called her dad an idiot.

You need help. Your bitterness is choking me

MrBigiman:
Off course. Giving woman money is like giving weed to an area boy. It intoxicates them.

Yet it's the men that go about screaming 'my house, my house' 'I will send you back to your father's house' 'I will send you packing'. If that's not being intoxicated, I don't know what is.

OKorowanta:
If d woman like make she tall like okro wey dem assist grow wit 20 bags of manure, she must bow down.

Come and bend our heads to bow na. Rubbish!

Wow! So many bitter, frustrated boys on here. May every good thing elude all of you idiots. Amen

thepussyhunter:
lmao
in essence you tryna say you'd give me entertainment

one thing you should know is guys love it when ladies feel pained and go all feisty on them

ur attempt at trying to put me in my place would only make me laugh, confirm the fact that u're pained and a little interested and lastly fuel whatever shiiiiii i had of you

Whatever mehn! At least I'd have gotten my point across

The guy is a pathetic loser. Unfortunately most naija guys are pathetic losers as well

thepussyhunter:
Believe it or not that bae was already hooked......................she was only skeptical and trying to weigh her chances

if she really wasnt concerned with his wealth or any shiiii she should have ended the convo after that "21st century girls" part

i always tell ladies to quickly end a convo with any guy (including my self) that as much as makes a move to disrespecting them

dude used the only super effective method thats works on 85% ladies and the hoe still nearly fell for it (forget all those her fronting in dat text.......)

the dude is mad sha

End convo fire. I will make sure I put you in ur place first

wizzyrich:
I like that guy, he knows their weak point so he just flashed his account balance to her.

Don't be surprise that the lady would have gotten wet mere seeing the dude's account balance.

For the ladies that will not like my comment, don't forget you all taught us to be this way.

Wetin b 3m? The guy is just a total turn off. Money or no money

eni4real:
I will employ a fair-skinned cook who will be helping Madam out! No qualms at all.

You will employ with which money? Common jor

stuffs4me:
The senseless and mumu ones have arrived.

Yeah you're welcome. I see you

With all this 'wisdom', you couldn't keep your marriage. Maka why? And you expect us to take advice from a divorced/single male? Abegiiiiiiiiii