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jakandeola:
if I get her mad she can show me dats shes angry not talk to me or pick my calls but women are like children

And men are like babies. That's the popular saying. They must be disciplined too

troy20:
You are twice the dunderhead.verbal abuses are worse as emotionally psycologically damaging than physical abuse.and there are millions of it which have done their damages without being taking note of by society or its institutions set up against domestic violence(sadly these institutions dont provide for our protection).and its pitiful we men ought to be men right? We just tuck it in and get on with life,with unrepaired open damages to our confidence,self exteem,peace,happiness as pathways are created for our early death so that you can live longer as you women often do...no one knows why that man is drunk everytime or why he is angry always in public or even why he abandond his family as we have often heard....its not every man out of the millions of this sort of domestic violence retaliate outrightly violent.some have more composure of mind...some respect for that abusive wife running her tongue at him.you women know the extent of damage you do with your mouth.I swear you do. so if you have the moral courage to make any sort of excuse for it, then you are an 1D10T and I pity the man who will marry you and your kind liking your comment.

I've never heard of verbal abuse sending one to an early grave. Besides verbal abuse is not a crime. Battery is. Go figure

jakandeola:
I neva claim ti b perfert

As you're not perfect, who disciplines you? Should she hire thugs to beat you up every time you annoy her?

jakandeola:
am not saying is right cos he over did it. he shdnt beat her so mych to injure her but I will beat my women so she respect me. as I beat her I love her more

I will NEVER respect a man who has laid hands on me. You can't force respect. And frankly you are not a man who deserves respect of this is how you think.
Look at faces well before you beat o. Some women will not tolerate that nonsense. I'm advising you before you send yourself to an early grave

jakandeola:
I agree dat too much but it good to dicipline ur woman or she wont learn

Discipline her as what? Is she your child? Who disciplines you oga perfect

chukagates:
my point is u would kill but rememba u will also get killed ....thats my point..killing a man and goimg scot free is not possible ..u must caught !! smart muderers are caught not to even talk about daft pple like u..no gree make "fear woman"phrase dey deceive you ooo..for every mad dog there is an equal mad dog

Just so you know it's not every person that kills that is also killed. Accident, self defence, provocation are all defences to a murder charge. Esp. Self defence. You attack me, I attack back to defend myself. You die in the process. Too bad! You should have kept your hands to yourself in the first place

chukagates:
my point is u would kill but rememba u will also get killed ....thats my point..killing a man and goimg scot free is not possible ..u must caught !! smart muderers are caught not to even talk about daft pple like u..no gree make "fear woman"phrase dey deceive you ooo..for every mad dog there is an equal mad dog

For every mad dog there is an equal mad dog. I agree. If you don't want to see the madness in your wife, keep your hands to yourself. No be every woman you fit beat and go Scot free ooooo. Get my point. It can't be that hard abi your brain is in hibernation?

chukagates:
unless your an illitrate who got married to an illiterate..even if u and ur victim are illitrates traditional otumokpo go still catch u ..you think spilling human blood is what u do and go jst like dat..IGNORANCE NA BLISS

Traditional otumokpo? boy go sit your azz down somewhere. You never see something

chukagates:
shut the Bleep your bluffing!! kill someones brother,son,uncle,nephew and your think you can go free are that daft abi na only blood full your head so you dont know what is called AUTOPSY.. i love life cos nature always give pple their match pray hard not to fall into Ruthless hands ..u go knw sey no be only sabi kill..AKPA AMU!!!

Lmao! So is autopsy carried out on every person that dies? Abeg leave talk jare. You never jam

chukagates:
i know sey your mama kill your papa..but not every body is as daft as your fathers people not to do investigations and autopsy... like every other fool u learnt from your mother but i assure you one thing NATURE WILL GIVE YOU YOUR MATCH WHO WILL POUR YOU ACID.. shey you marry to kill..no worry nature will give you an EQUAL KILLER ..otondo!! too much nollywood and hollywood dey affect u ..u neva jam IDIAT!!

See eh...... before I enter you wella this afternoon, face your front and waka pass. Ode

chukagates:
if you marry kill your husband ..infact you fit still extend am to your father and brother NOBODY THE BEG YOU CAUSE U ARE A NOBODY WHO IS BLUFFING...last time i checked punishment to killing human being in nigeria is DEATH!! make we praise you sey you fit kill your hubby ode!!

Hello....... why will a man attack me physically when I didn't attack him. And you expect me not to defend myself?
Besides, woman are very smart. She could do it in such a way that no one would suspect murder. Dey there!
I'm bluffing ba? I'm sure people would have thought that the women who killed their husbands didn't have the mind to do so either. You men need to be really careful o. Nobody is smiling these days

Vorpal:
I couldnt quote you on the other thread cause of antispambot.

One serahade just quoted me without any aggravation saying i will die from poison and calling me ode? How about that?

I do not condone assault o. But the way ese said it that the man should walk away like she has a right to be insultive? Haba! Are they kids that they cannot talk maturely to each other without being insultive?

Me personally cannot have anything to do with a woman who cannot make her displeasure known in a cordially and respectful manner. So its only men that enjoy brutish and crude women that will have that to deal with. My own main point is ese, should have spoken to both parties.

On the point that spouses should speak respectfully to each other, I'm with you that. I hate being shouted at so I don't raise my voice at people. I'm of the view that issues should be thrashed in a mature and calm manner.
But everyone of course can't be like that. If your spouse has a caustic tongue, if you can't match her word for word, then walk away.
Word for word, slap for slap. Don't touch a woman when she hasn't touched you

chukagates:
this idiat again talking about "killing her husband again" chai but if person pour you acid na dem go talk sey world is wicked..not knowing wickedness beget wickedness ode!!

Your mama na the idiat. Anuofia! When you choose to be violent, you may meet someone even more violent than you

Vorpal:
So is she now giving excuse for uncouth women to run their mouth? It's okay for her to run her mouth and say any degrading thing about her husband, and the dude should just "walk away"?

I still don't understand why all these warnings her one sided. Why don't she warn women to not provoke the man to blinding rage? Or is it all men the have equal temperaments?

P: I don't support men beating their wife o, but I understand no sane man would beat a woman if he hasn't been aggravated to the point he can't take it anymore putting in mind his temperament.

And it hasn't occurred to you that no woman starts running her mouth for no reason? What did the man do or say to her that made her run her mouth?

TINALETC3:
Just pray u marry a gud man while u 2 b a gud wife, 4get Al dis blah blah blah wey u dey yan, d highest u cn do is divorce.

I guess all the women killing their husbands have two heads.
If all you can do is divorce, that one na your own. Leave another woman to talk for herself

CuteJude:
Nobody is asking what she did

Maybe she cheated on him all of una typing insulting him go beat up una woman if that happens abeg lets stop pretending

If my wife tries nonsense i go beat am well very well till she learns , some women are like goats they need strong hand

I thank God the rate at which women also kill their husbands is also increasing. Nobody has monopoly of violence. If you beat your wife, just make sure you sleep with one eye open

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]It's easy for these women to jump and attack any man once they hear he hit a wOman.

It pisses me off! Not because i support domestic violence but because majority of them who do these bandwagon thing aren't really women who deserve respect from men.

Yes he beat his wife. Yes he was wrong and bla bla bla. But why not settle down and try to know the nitty gritty of the story from both angles if you're so interested and really want to throw stones. Don't just see a picture and the next thing is to rush at the guy.

We have so many misandrists among us who hate men and never give them benefit of doubt. The moment they hear a man did something all they do cast aspersions on all men including their relatives who are male.

When they are done, they will tell us how the insults have helped him in anyway. I feel his pain, I know he's sorry he hit her but I'm sure he lost it and there is a reason for that.[/color]

There must be a reason for that huh? That's how the world will also sympathise with your wife when she stabs you in your sleep

saintikechi:
some girls will never learn. they go after money bags who ends up using them as punching bag. when guys like me are right here, ready to treat them like Queens while soaking our garri and groundnut

You're ready to treat them like queens because you're still soaking garri and groundnut. Hammer first, let's see if you'll still be a reasonable, humble human being

Ngokafor:
..My dear if 'caustic tongue should be an excuse for physical assault,then more than half of Nairaland males should be in hospital due to serious beatings occassioned by their 'caustic tongue''

Exactly

Grundig:
I know women have caustic tongue. Their attitude can be off putting too. But it is not a valid reason to hit anyone let alone a woman.

But this wan right here?? Her own be like say e too much? Shouldn't she be nursing her injuries and gathering evidence to slam the guy with? Hit him where it hurts the most? No. She's on the internet reminding us how she broke up with another guy and cursing people.

At least we have an idea what may havd brought about the pummelling.

I hope you heal ma'am

I don see una wey no get caustic tongues. NL is proof that men's tongues are just as sharp as that of the women

dragonking3:
So Army kill Airforce?

Army 1 - 0 Airforce

Women stop cheating on your husbands so that your days may be loooonggg

Give the same advice to ur fellow men. No gender has monopoly of murder

Homeboiy:
u see I blame the girl

why will u be toying with someone's emotion

that guy z emotional,
emotional people gets hurt easily bt regrets their actions later

but the guy na fool, na ur wife, just because of toto u kill ur fellow human being

I blame ur father, he foe use condom on d day od copulation

Spare me that rubbish abeg. Is he the only emotional person in the world? Should we all go round killing each other cos of emotions? Mstchewww

hedonistic:
Typical obnoxious slut.

Typical brainless he goat

EVILFOREST:
CORRECT MAN

GONE are those days a useless girl will use pregnancy to trap a real man down

You guys don't know how stupid you sound when you say things like this. Where's the trap here? You sleep with a girl without protection, biko what are you expecting as a result? IPhone 7?

Cutehector:





I love this man for his wisdom. Let me see any girl that will comman tell me nonsense...

You call this wisdom? Says a lot about who you are. Where is the wisdom in having unprotected sex esp when you have a wife? Irresponsible men

tosyne2much:
I will surely do something about it

Happy New Month jawe

Same to you dearie. Why are you up at this time?

tosyne2much:
But that doesn't mean you should discriminate against a chronic bone guy like me

Lol. Do something about the 'brokeness' jor. Broke ain't pretty

areyemi:
How much can you afford?

A lot more than you can afford dear

tosyne2much:
What are you doing with a bf too?

But I'm not broke nana

tosyne2much:
What about someone like me who can't afford to give transport fare to my gf?

What are you doing with a gf then?

Tajbol4splend:
Shameless broke ass ladies everywhere

The shameless broke ass bf na. Can't afford simple 200 naira. Tufia

Draei:

mtcheeew, next thread plz...

E pain am