Una never see anything. Weak buffoons. The heartbreak you give your wives on a daily basis yet they manage to hold on nko.
Mtchewww

nwanneni:
so you did not read the post and you are here saying rubbish.
Why will a 20 yr old girl sleep on the same bed with you when you guys aren't related directly?
What did she expect?if I were in your shoes,i would have bleeped her brains out.cousin my ass.
It's your house and you can do whatever the Bleep you want.forget what these shemales here are saying.

Obviously your parents offered your brain as a sacrifice to the devil. Empty headed toad

AFONJACOW:
ingrates everywhere... no wonder men keep them at bay... she got the job under whose roof abeg stop watching too much of telenovela

Did he get her the job? NO. End of discussion. She owes him Nada.

AFONJACOW:
my
in-laws will never have a room in my family and they can never dictate to me how to run my home... which plea... pleas with evil motives, why are they so desperate about this court marriage, u can't agree with me their desperation are bone out of hatred and 3rd plan against this man, a loving wife in her full right senses will never abandon her husband for whatsoever reasons... the woman should choose between her family (husband/children) vs( life/work inAmerica). the man has made mistakes already and ready for restitution.. so why punishment him for nothing , at least for the sake of those children she must consider the man... i don't knw why women are cold hearted, had it been this case is the order way round u will see them saying all kind of poo

So why is her stupid husband desperate for court marriage now? Abi he has evil plans in mind?
He is only sorry because he wants to benefit from her. Why wasn't he sorry 2 years ago? He should go to hell.
You're calling her cold hearted but she and her family begged this man to do the right thing and he refused. Wasn't that being cold hearted. Stop being hypocritical pls

AFONJACOW:
her father should have marry her... if the man is not into the marriage he would have divorce her when things wasn't smother for her, he accommodate her, feed her , and take care of her children. when the tide turn around she remembered an old grudge , oh some women are evil and cold hearted , no wonder most men keep them at bay... desperation of single sugar mummies is getting out of hand in our society

He accommodate her, feed her my azz. My dear, stop talking rubbish. She had a job. She owes him NOTHING. Una never see anything. Our mumu don do

AFONJACOW:
only if she will be alive to hear when the truth is out... but for my kind of person I will keep her at bay

Why won't she be alive? Abi you'll assassinate her?

Olulinks:

Your spouse will sleep with your offspring. You will witness it and sad all your life till death.

Oh no *wails*. I won't marry an unbridled animal like you. Come up with something else

Obason22:
A coward like u with smelling pussy, what are u still doing in Nigeria, better take ur bag and move out, i no u cannot even afford TP to GH talk much of Europe, all ur hope depends on men, stupid.

Hahahhahaha. Come up with better insults. Empty head

AFONJACOW:
so if your brother began dey dance to his
in-laws tune u go like am respect her ke ... so the woman is now the head of the family and her word is final ... hehehehe no wonder we have so many unmarried women in our society

Which one is in laws tune. Did his wife not beg him? Couldn't he have put his father in laws pleas into consideration? Don't worry when you marry a woman who does not give a fvck about your family's feelings, you will understand.... Oya as he s the head of the family and his word is final, let it remain like that na. NO COURT MARRIAGE. That's how you people will behave as if you're the only ones in the marriage

AFONJACOW:
she can walk away without those kids... as for my kind of person I don't even give a fvck if she work in White house... she not into that marriage because of love... no wonder we have so many single ladies in our society

And it is the man that's into the marriage because of love? Pls don't make me laugh. No wonder we have so many divorced men in our society.

And yes, you give a fvck. E pain you no be small

AFONJACOW:
my dear I can see too much aftereffects of nollywood in ur reasoning... ( the children will one day grow and go and look for their mother) bra bra bra. .. kids whatever you install in them is what they will carry along, no juju or fiction in this one , do u think they will accept a woman that flee with her boyfriend because of luxury lifestyle in America... if my daddy told me that, I gonna kill her myself... thank God I have a lovely mother that carry everyone along

Is that so? Then why do some children whose father's abandoned them still go back to look for them. Lies will always crumble in the face of truth. When the truth comes out, guess who'll be the big fat loser.
I can also say you tried to murder me so I had to escape to preserve my life. See anybody can lie o

Obason22:
Yes, I did what else do u want from me Ogun kill u idiot. u cannot make any such move with my child without my permission. to hell with ur job.

You're a dead man walking already. God punish the imbeciles that brought you into this world. To hell with you. Its my child too news flash. You are just a mere man. You will stay in naija and rot. Who are you to grant me permission?

Olulinks:

God punish your whole generation. Kids like you shouldn't be allowed her if not that Nairaland. If you can't comment without spewing curse, then you deserve some curses yourself.

God punish you. Your 10year old daughter will seduce and sleep with your brother. Just wait and see

Obason22:
Had it been that both of u have no children, it could have been a good decision too, on like me I never accept court marriage for any reason, but since it happen this way and ur husband have decide to change mind no option than u to follow his decision he still ur husband but if u say no, then he can still change mind and restrict u traveling with his children, except he is lazy type.

Did you say she has no option than to follow his decision? That he can restrict her from travelling? you men are funny o. Think yourselves demi gods. He should stop her na lemme see. Nansense

Demayour:
I think this couple should just forget everything that has happened in the past and focus more on ensuring a secured future especially for the woman and her kids. The ugliness of the past cannot be taken away now. And except the man is still not remorseful, the woman should forgive him and focus on living a better life. For those saying the man is a gold-digger, looking for gain etc, you might be right and the woman may go ahead without the man but what if things eventually turn around for the man again? The woman will still have to come back to Nigeria

Which one is the woman still has to come back to Nigeria? To do what? When she already has a job and a life abroad

AFONJACOW:
which Truth they believe what I told them, feed them shit, their skulls gonna function that way... how will you feel if your pa told u how ur mother abandon you and flee with her boyfriend, will u ever forgive such a person she either choose her parents decision or her family, I didn't read where she said the husband beat or maltreated her, her only grudge is court marriage, which the man refuse to do bcuz of some unknown reason, must the husband dance to the tone of her in-laws, there should a limit for everything, if the young man say no court marriage why not obey his decision... unless they have some evil plan

She has also said no court marriage na. What's your problem? He should obey her decision...... Unless he has some evil plan. She too has a reason for saying no

AFONJACOW:
not when I told them their mother flee to America with her boyfriend with my money...

You are pathetic walahi. Sheybi you are THE MAN na. Work your way to America by yourself. Nonsense. You think you're the only one that can fabricate stories ba

fnep2smooth:

That's how many female keep making mistakes out of selfishness. Do you think its easy to remarry over there with 3kids. She can only have a boyfriend there but hard to get married at least it will take her some years before that can happen.

Hahhahaha. Says who? Its not that hard my dear. Have you even condemned the mans is selfishness and wickedness? The man too made a mistake out of selfishness. Let her make hers too

AFONJACOW:
leave without me and those children. and lose the children forever... my kind of person don't make empty threat

Hahahahha! Somebody say story story. The children will always look for their mother and when they know you stopped them from being with me, guess who'll they hate.
Nobody can make me lose my children except I choose to. You will stay in naija and raise them. See cheap blackmail na

stuffs4me:


Na you sabi. Keep carrying your grudges upandan like gala.

I'm not saying what the man did was right but I personally don't believe in keeping grudges and paying evil with evil.

If the woman refused to help her husband, she would not only be like him but she would be worse than him and it goes to show she's not even grateful to God for her successes.

Its called giving him a taste of his own medicine. That's the way people learn. In his next life he'll learn not to be stone hearted.

fykes:
I have only one question here,
HOW DO U LIVE WITH SOMEONE FOR 9YEARS WIYHOUT FORGIVING HIM?? #FEARWOMEN#

That's how you men will dole out nonsense day in day out to your wives. And when you're old and sock and fragile, you'll want forgiveness. Fa fa fa.....foul!!! We are not robots. What you sow, you will reap

AFONJACOW:
rubbish... and what of if I say you are not going to your America with my kid

Ahn! No wahala na. Stay in naija and raise our children. I can be sending upkeep money to you.

Reelmii:
u see dat u are not also a good person, now u ar saying the woman is a wicked woman but u have a darker heart, but sorry to shock u, they would even be happy they have a mum abroad and I know the woman would be visiting and sending things to them, na the man go die of bad belle

She will remarry in the US and have other children

stuffs4me:
It is rather unfortunate that the woman is feeling like a god just because she's wealthier than her husband.


The woman has a very ugly and evil unforgiving heart. After 9 years and three kids, she still has the mind to keep a grudge in her heart.

Even if she refused to help the man, it doesn't mean God cannot answer the prayers of the man the way he answered her own. Nobody knows tomorrow.

Shwybi when everybody even her own father was begging the man, he was feeling like a god ba? Its her own turn to be a goddess. You men always want to get away with nonsense. Issalie o. What a man sows, he will reap

fnep2smooth:
It doesn't make sense..... Go to Texas Na after 10 to 15 years you go tired and your children go still find their dad even if he don die.
No matter what you go still come back naija.

If I be that man I go just remarry... Life continue.

Shuuuu..... Remarry na. Who is holding your preek? She will land herself a better man over there. Las las na she win

northvietnam:
Court wedding or not..

woman at the end of the day, ur husband still wins... cuz he's the father of ur 3 kids....

and this shyte happened way bk..
why nt let go and move on.

if the man has been good and caring husband then why not take him along with his kids...
but if the dude has been an A$$hole then SCREW HIM...

if she leaves with out the man then she never loved him at the first place, she jushegot married cuz of the pregnancy...

He wins how? Stop giving him hope abeg. He is a very big loser. Hahahahha. My sis go and flex your life in US abeg. Leave the loser in naija

Ezemarcel:
but within the period of nine years he has bn treating u guys well....my dear forget about the ignorance of the man...and move witg him to texas

Move fire. Say no to court marriage abeg. When they were begging him he was feeling like a G

I love this woman die. Let his azz remain here. What dies he want to travel for? When your father was appealing to him, aheybi he was feeling like a small god. Nansense

cummando:
Perseverance.... That's all I have to say. I see you have some of that. Else you would have long divorced him because A couple of years you complained he snores. Men always want to be in charge of the house...in fact in charge of everything. So I'll say play possum. You'll get a lot of advice from here or anywhere. Fools will say leave him. Morons will say walk away. What I'll stay stay there. If he shouts look at him,dont say a word. Instead say sorry. If he wants something do it fast.If he wants some action give it to him wella. Be the obedient "foolish" wife. Very soon his conscience will come into play.Trust me divorce is not an option. You'll ruin the lives of those kids.Do it for them. Remember nothing good comes easy.

P.s : a recent survey(Jan 2018) shows that 84% of those in Nigeria prisons comes from broken homes.

She should become a robot ba? Don't talk or question, just do what he wants. Thunder fire you there.
Bane leave him cos your kids are watching. Else they will become damaged. You can't raise kids in that environment. Please seperate

OmoEpe:


No sane man should date talk less of marrying you. You are a walking menace

Emi ke. No sane man should cheat on his wife tho

SHOCK7:

Don't dare try dis with any man u end up with o! because you 'll never see the light of day in prison that's if his sister/mother don't pour acid on u first.

Says who?