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Doctorfitz:I hvnt. I'm a soft person. Hurting ppl sickens me. Except when they totally deserve it. |
Doctorfitz:nah...I've not. buh I know ppl I care abt who's bn hurt b4... getting even for them wudnt b such a bad idea |
Doctorfitz:Just hope I would be able to trap one of such players one day. So I can play the player. I know it will be fun. To let him think he is playing u, when in fact... u are using him..worse still when he actually falls in luv wif u.... |
STRAIGHT FROM MY HEART I try to be nice, even when you obviously do not deserve it. I get hurt, yet I smile and go on like nothing happened. You do nothing but get on my last nerve yet I forgive and help you out however I can, whenever you ask for it. It doesn't make me daft, it just means I'd rather forgive and move on... than hold a grudge. Still, I'm so young to be that strong, for you, for anyone. Somehow, you have become my strongest weakness. After years and years of holding on, today, I'm finally letting go. Took me long enough but I'm finally doing it. Seems hard- no- it is hard but it can't get any worse. Actually it can only get better. As much as it hurts, I won't stop being kind, I won't stop forgiving, I won't stop trying to forget, I won't stop being there for you whenever you need me. I wouldn't let you make me stop, because if I do that, I have just let you win. So right now, I'm pouring my heart out, I'm going all out for a taste of the pudding. I will do those things you didn't let me try out before. Take a breathe of fresh air and try to live again. I have every right to live my name- Joy- to live my dream, to just be me. I'm willing to take this risk, as I say to my lonesome self, "take a chance, Joy!". https://joychinwesblog..com.ng/2016/10/straight-from-my-heart-poem-by-joychinwe_13.html?m=1 |
WHY YOU SHOULD KEEP THAT VIRGINITY UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE ( or at least stay celibate) Being a virgin or staying celibate is really hard in a society where everybody thinks sex is the 'in thing'. Along with so many other names, you might be labelled 'overly religious', even though your reasons may not be particularly related to religion. Although, people associate virginity with religion, there are many other social, health and psychological religions to remain a virgin or at least stay celibate. Now, we have heard the religious benefits a lot of times, while growing up, the preachers always hammer on 'staying away from 'fornication'. I won't be judgemental or rigid, sex is good. Infact, very good. Little wonder why people do not know how to go about abstinence anymore. So, because I do not want to sound like a preacher or a grandma giving lectures to her grandchildren on morals, I will take this from a social perspective. Here are some valid reasons you should keep that virginity until after marriage: No worries about STDs and unwanted pregnancies: You can never be too careful. Heck! Even the most careful people get into trouble most times. There is no 100% guarantee that those pills or condoms will keep you safe. Even married people who engage in family planing most times experience 'mishaps'... I'm sure you are not ready to be a baby mama/ baby daddy. Sense of Pride: When you remain a virgin until your wedding night, you give yourself a sense of pride. You can give the gift of celibacy to your wife/husband. Although the society is not fair about this, virginity is not for women alone. Most promiscuous men are hailed and their female counterparts are labelled 'loose'. Contrary to societal beliefs; virginity and celibacy goes both ways. Continue... http://www.familyflex.net/2016/09/why-you-should-keep-that-virginity.html?m=1 |
Doctorfitz:Nice piece sir... very well written. |
NevetsIbot:uhm... you guys need to see a doctor o. this one pass me |
daveP:thank u sir. |
HYPOCRISY: A Poem by Doctorfitz Take a look at my face, Admire my beautiful palms, Clean with lines Are they not lovely? Just try to turn your gaze, And I'll deep my hands in the swamps. In there I'm fine, Do I seem dirty? I keep deceiving people, The greatest of them all being myself, Society is dictating,I lie again, Is there really pressure on me? Continue https://joychinwesblog..com.ng/2016/09/hypocrisy-poem-by-doctorfitz.html?m=1 |
FANTASTIC FACTS: Top 10 fantastic facts about the brain The human brain they say, functions more than a computer. Even at that, I bet there are things you never knew the brain could do. Today; I'll list some of the most amazing facts about the brain. The brain cannot feel pain, this is because there are no pain receptors present in the brain. The size of an average brain is 2% of the individual's weight. Having a good yawn is good for the brain, it sends more oxygen to the brain. Your brain cells can eat each other up if the energy supply comes in short at any point. One reason we are always advised to sleep well at night, is because that is when the brain reconciles all of it's activities for the day. Continue https://joychinwesblog..com.ng/2016/09/fantastic-facts-top-10-fantastic-facts.html?m=1 |
NevetsIbot:I dnt think it's so much of a problem tho.. he wud prolly stop before he turns 10/11. Just make sure he helps do his laundry each tym... it could mk him feel responsible and try harder to change |
Emisun5n:its nt always true. Some kids barely play yet they bed wet. |
HOW STOP YOUR CHILD FROM BEDWETTING Bed wetting also called, nocturnal enuresis, primarily happens to children who do not have the will power to wake up when their bladder is full. It is an involuntary urination in children after ages 4-5. Studies have shown that 15% of children still bed wet by age 5 but less than 5% do so after age 5. As a parent, you can really get pissed off and embarrassed when your child just would not stop bed wetting. Several things can cause bed wetting in children. It could be as a result of hereditary, it could also be just plain laziness on the part of the child. However, these are some of the ways in which you can stop your child from bed wetting: Make them use the bathroom before they go to bed: When you make it a habit to ensure your child uses the bathroom before going to bed, it will help reduce the chances of your child bed wetting. This is because, having emptied their bladder before going to bed, the urge to urinate will be reduced to an extent. Limit intake of water/ fluid before bed time: As much as possible limit the amount of water or any liquid substance your child takes hours before bed time. Chances are, any liquid he/she takes when it's almost time for bed will beg to be out by midnight, and he/she might be too far gone to wake up. Get an alarm system and place it by your child's bed side: Place an alarm system beside your child and set it to go off every few hours, within those intervals, make sure your child uses the bathroom, after some time he will always remember to wake up when he is pressed. Continue HOW TO STOP YOUR CHILD FROM BEDWETTING. http://www.familyflex.net/2016/09/how-to-stop-your-child-from-bedwetting.html |
HOW STOP YOUR CHILD FROM BEDWETTING Bed wetting also called, nocturnal enuresis, primarily happens to children who do not have the will power to wake up when their bladder is full. It is an involuntary urination in children after ages 4-5. Studies have shown that 15% of children still bed wet by age 5 but less than 5% do so after age 5. As a parent, you can really get pissed off and embarrassed when your child just would not stop bed wetting. Several things can cause bed wetting in children. It could be as a result of hereditary, it could also be just plain laziness on the part of the child. However, these are some of the ways in which you can stop your child from bed wetting: Make them use the bathroom before they go to bed: When you make it a habit to ensure your child uses the bathroom before going to bed, it will help reduce the chances of your child bed wetting. This is because, having emptied their bladder before going to bed, the urge to urinate will be reduced to an extent. Limit intake of water/ fluid before bed time: As much as possible limit the amount of water or any liquid substance your child takes hours before bed time. Chances are, any liquid he/she takes when it's almost time for bed will beg to be out by midnight, and he/she might be too far gone to wake up. Get an alarm system and place it by your child's bed side: Place an alarm system beside your child and set it to go off every few hours, within those intervals, make sure your child uses the bathroom, after some time he will always remember to wake up when he is pressed. Continue HOW TO STOP YOUR CHILD FROM BEDWETTING. http://www.familyflex.net/2016/09/how-to-stop-your-child-from-bedwetting.html |
5 REASONS NOT TO GET ADDICTED TO MASTURBATION. Masturbation centres around pleasing oneself physically. It is mostly common among men according to several studies, although in recent times, a large percentage of women has joined in as well. Masturbation and Pornography are like two sides of a coin, this is why for the last decade, due to access of pornographic materials easily on the internet, Masturbation has increased drastically. There has been a lot of argument on whether masturbation is right or wrong. Those arguing on the side of the former did so on health grounds, saying that it 'Prevents Prostrate cancer, trains one's longevity during sex, helps those practising abstinence, prevents unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. Whilst those arguing on the side of the latter did so on mostly religious grounds; making reference to scriptures like 1st Corinthians 6:18 which talks about 'staying away from sexual immorality and sin against one's body'. The bible however did not specifically address the issue of masturbation, instead, it collectively addresses sexual perversion and so the reason for all the diverse opinions formed by different individuals. Since the human sexual behaviour has powerful hormonal and psychological, it is pretty easy to get addicted to masturbation and we will be focusing on reasons not to let that happen: Continue here https://joychinwesblog..com.ng/2016/09/5-reasons-not-to-get-addicted-to.html?m=1 |
greatnaija01:abi they might change tactics? Lol |
HungerBAD:Thanks |
Relationships take a lot of work to build, it even takes more work when you have doubts concerning how faithful your partner is. These doubts may arise as a result of some actions of your partner which could make it seem like he/she is cheating on you. Actions like: Changes in his or her fashion style: All of a sudden, your partner begins to take a lot of hours to get ready. There is a drastic change in their fashion sense, always striving to look good, wear better perfumes and other little beauty secrets, chances are, they are either after someone, or someone is after them. Need for increased privacy: They just develop need for privacy. They would not let you touch their phones and even go as far as changing their passwords. A Lot of sneaking around also happens when taking phone calls from strange numbers. This is also a sign that something is wrong. Always playing the 'busy' card: They no longer have time for you. Intimate moments become vague. They can make an excuse with work, school or even good 'ol emotional unavailability; if this is the case, then there is trouble. Despite all of these signs, you cannot say you are really certain that your partner is cheating, especially when you have no proof and he/she continues to deny your accusations, saying everything is okay. However, ways in which you can catch a cheating partner, include: Pay him/her a surprise visit: Make it seem like you came for a really good reason. You do not want to make it too obvious that you are trying to spy now, do you?. Think of a very good excuse that could make you drop by unannounced. If your partner is cheating, he/she will grow really nervous, overly surprised or just get plain angry at you for dropping by unannounced, instead of being pleasantly surprised. If this happens, you know your partner is hiding something. Do not sleep heavily anymore: if you have a cheating partner, chances are, they will always be sneaky late at night. To continue, visit https://joychinwesblog..com.ng |
obontami:...BECUASE PORN IS NOT HARMLESS (Your Love life and Pornography) Pornography is the portrayal of sexually explicit contents on pictures, magazines, videos and so on for the sole purpose of arousing anyone who views them. Pornography is also called porn. Several years back however, porn was not really accessible to everyone in the form which they are these day. Back then, you had only play boy magazines with pictures of scantily clad models. Things started to get bolder by the day and got even worse with the advent of the internet. In as much as porn is said to have helped couples build and continuously revive their sex life, it also has a few negative effects on one's love life which cannot be over emphasized. Such effects include: Porn gives room for unrealistic expectations: Constant viewing of pornography makes you crave to have sex in ways which ordinarily you would find repulsive. You always want to do something different and insanely wild. I'm totally not against spicing things up in the bedroom; but when you want to do that because you have programmed your brain to believe that, 'the weirder, the sexier', then something is seriously wrong. Porn never satisfies: Porn instils lust and lust is never satisfied. The amazing thing is, lust doesn't crave for more, it craves for something 'different'. This is the reason why someone will have a very wonderful partner and still cheat on them; not because their partner is not attractive. The other person in question may not even be as attractive as their partner, but they just needed something different. To see more, visit http://lovelifelaughs.com/157/because-porn-is-not-harmless-your-love-life-and-pornography |
...BECUASE PORN IS NOT HARMLESS (Your Love life and Pornography) Pornography is the portrayal of sexually explicit contents on pictures, magazines, videos and so on for the sole purpose of arousing anyone who views them. Pornography is also called porn. Several years back however, porn was not really accessible to everyone in the form which they are these day. Back then, you had only play boy magazines with pictures of scantily clad models. Things started to get bolder by the day and got even worse with the advent of the internet. In as much as porn is said to have helped couples build and continuously revive their sex life, it also has a few negative effects on one's love life which cannot be over emphasized. Such effects include: Porn gives room for unrealistic expectations: Constant viewing of pornography makes you crave to have sex in ways which ordinarily you would find repulsive. You always want to do something different and insanely wild. I'm totally not against spicing things up in the bedroom; but when you want to do that because you have programmed your brain to believe that, 'the weirder, the sexier', then something is seriously wrong. Porn never satisfies: Porn instils lust and lust is never satisfied. The amazing thing is, lust doesn't crave for more, it craves for something 'different'. This is the reason why someone will have a very wonderful partner and still cheat on them; not because their partner is not attractive. The other person in question may not even be as attractive as their partner, but they just needed something different. To continue, visit http://lovelifelaughs.com/157/because-porn-is-not-harmless-your-love-life-and-pornography |
N abokibuhari:lol, awww, didn't intend to mk u look bad... so sorry honey. |
oshikoyatope:aww sorry man! |
topzttst:alrdy did |
TheBlessedMAN:Peace of mind, a more stable sex life, sanity, moral uhm 'uprightness' and u cn actually advice ur kids abt porn in future without sounding like a hypocrite. |
codedmax1234:thnks |
abokibuhari:so ppl will change...lol |
youngberry001:...BECUASE PORN IS NOT HARMLESS (Your Love life and Pornography) Pornography is the portrayal of sexually explicit contents on pictures, magazines, videos and so on for the sole purpose of arousing anyone who views them. Pornography is also called porn. Several years back however, porn was not really accessible to everyone in the form which they are these day. Back then, you had only play boy magazines with pictures of scantily clad models. Things started to get bolder by the day and got even worse with the advent of the internet. In as much as porn is said to have helped couples build and continuously revive their sex life, it also has a few negative effects on one's love life which cannot be over emphasized. Such effects include: Porn gives room for unrealistic expectations: Constant viewing of pornography makes you crave to have sex in ways which ordinarily you would find repulsive. You always want to do something different and insanely wild. I'm totally not against spicing things up in the bedroom; but when you want to do that because you have programmed your brain to believe that, 'the weirder, the sexier', then something is seriously wrong. Porn never satisfies: Porn instils lust and lust is never satisfied. The amazing thing is, lust doesn't crave for more, it craves for something 'different'. This is the reason why someone will have a very wonderful partner and still cheat on them; not because their partner is not attractive. The other person in question may not even be as attractive as their partner, but they just needed something different. To continue, visit http://lovelifelaughs.com/157/because-porn-is-not-harmless-your-love-life-and-pornography |
