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pamellla:
of course now behind every successful man, there is a woman

Who is a parasite....complete

pretydiva:
She's pretty jst like me

Yeah but she tall pass you

LOL hehehe thank god u dare nt say yes

Hahaha atleast i also didn't say No

softappless:
are u more handsome than i am?

Perhaps you can answer that

Rollar:
Aish *covers face*
With all your fine boy swag, I hope you at least have waec?? The fact that I use a million lines to humiliate you doesn't have anything to do with maturity, it just means I enjoy trashing you. Gay or not aside, I'd certainly enjoy watching a fat dick being violently stabbed into your anus, without any lube or nothing, just to hear your piteous screams of agony. Can't say the thought of seeing chunks of your ruptured anus hanging out in little gobs doesn't excite me either
Where do you stay?

hahahaha Mumu.Do u think everyone writes Waec Haba! U think everyone schooled in West Africa,see your mentality? ?? I've now seen that I've been chatting with a Freak.

Rollar:
Hahahahaha!! Silly boy, hope you haven't peed your pants
I'm neutral on the issue of sexuality, I don't really have any reservations about homosexuality. You talk about ethics and disgrace, but you're a dunce. I don't get it, what does a shameless overgrown slowpoke̶̲̥̅̊ who's retarde̶̲̥̅̊d enough to open a thread to affirm his 'charming looks' and basically coax others to do the same, know about disgrace and ethics??
Small boy. I'm sure you're at least 20 years old, but you act and talk like an 11 year old. You're probably still collecting church offering from mummy. Either that or you're still breast feeding

You don't seem neutral to me, still remember the quote" The Abundance Of The Heart,The Mouth Speaketh" i'm sure you're heart's saturated with fantasies of same sex relations. You claim you're matured but it takes you a million lines to air a view.hypocrite!

Rollar:
LOL!!
Listen, you bleached albino gibbon, stop acting like a prissy little queen and grow a pair. Jesus man, I've met lesbians with bigger balls than yours
Opening threads to prance around like a princess and have people tell you how cute and charming you are, dafuq are you, six?

Oboy u and this ur obsessions with lesbians and gays. The same types of people promoting homogeneous relationships and destroying all ethics in the bible. You need serious deliverance bcuz as i see you,your a disgrace to yourself and humanity.

softappless:
SMH abeg hw much u get 4 ur bank account?

More than u could ever get

Agu87:
see dentition...how many teeth u get sef?

Hahaha

Let the comments drop in??

Note: Answer will be revealed shortly.

Question below ↓

Rollar:

Yeah, I hope I traumatized the little sissy bad enough so he won't open anymore silly threads

Nah, you just displayed your idiocy at your own detriment.

Gofwane:
*crying very loudly* op, thank you very much. Thank you for giving me hope. At least i don see pesin wey i fine pass. *continues shedding tears of joy*

Hahaha craze guy

Rollar:
Wow, JSmart4u you're so cute. Sexy boy, those succulent lips of yours would do wonders to a big fat dick. Yummy, I can just imagine you with a mouthful of cum, swallowing hard while that thick jizz drips down your chin. Yeah, you're charming alright. Pls can I introduce you to be 14 inched cousin?

Thunder seal that your gutter you call mouth,you disgusting gay!!

Adaure4ever:
the question reflect a bit insecurity. Tho you look good.

Thanks for your compliment.

MrCork:
see for wide forehead like Somali gateman...so I happy to say I use charm for women?

Guy u sure say you no skip primary school

Adaure4ever:
@OP. what do you intent to achieve with this thread?

Simply a justification dear

obiorathesubtle:
[color=#990100]mental facility escapee.[/color]

Surprisingly you know much abt the mental facility. guy i dey suspect you ooo

kossyablaze:
Make I die say u charming pass me

Hahaha No talk wetin ur mouth no fit carry

DrTizzle:
Indeed you are! except why do I feel like your parents should have exchanged you with two cups of Garri....Instead of letting you walk the face of the earth.Buffoonery!

It doesn't call for insults. If u had a bad day,go find something else to keep that shitty head of yours busy.Gerrara here!!!

mistytohcute:
you're cute just that the lips ..........

What's wrong with my lips?

sinaj:
See as ur frontal lobe de protude like pot belle

Tank U

Tosinville:
who dey deceive you? you no see winning for where I dey but I don't brag, you wanna make me do that tonight lol

Hahaha even fly no fit look your face

vizkiz:
please what is the English word for 'mumu' please who knows it?

It's "IDIOT"

It's wise if the truth is always told. Am i not the most charming

LINK: www.nairaland.com/jsmart4u

One person has reportedly died following a clash between Shiite members and rival Muslim youths in Jos, the Plateau state capital. The Punch reports that the incident occurred when Shiite members were protesting the continued detention of their leader El- Zakzaky, his wife and some other members. Recall that El-Zakzaky, his wife and other members of the group had been arrested after they clashed with the army on December 12 in Zaria and are still in detention. Hundreds of Shiite women, clad in all black, had staged a protest in Jos on Saturday, January 9, demanding the release of their leader, his wife and other members of the movement that were arrested for proper medical attention. The protesters also asked for the corpses of their members who were allegedly killed by the soldiers to be released to them for proper burial according to Islamic tradition. Confirming the incident, Capt. Ikedichi Iweha, the media and communications officer of the Special Task Force, also known as ‘Operation Safe Haven’, said many members of the movement were arrested when the otherwise peaceful procession turned violent at Bauchi road, leading to the death of one person. “The procession by the women later turned violent as rival Muslim youths clashed along Bauchi road as the Shiite members were proceeding to the Central Mosque.” Iweha explained that those that were arrested were being interrogated to ascertain their level of culpability in the incident and those found innocent would be released. He said the incident had created tension around Bauchi road, Rikkos, Angwan Rogo, Dilimi, Nasarawa Gwom and many other Hausa dominated areas, leading to a clash between some rival Muslim sects. According to him, the timely intervention of security operatives prevented what would have been an ugly situation.
Iweha noted that the commander of the task force, Maj. Gen. Tagbo Udeh had ordered all- round patrol and surveillance by operatives of the task force. He was also said to have ordered a ban on all forms of processions and rallies in the state, adding that such rallies or procession must get the tacit permission of the police. Shiite members have been protesting for the release of their leader ever since his arrest. They asked federal government to tell Nigerians the whereabout of their leader, as they fear about his health and that of other faithfuls detained. Five days ago, a massive protest was carried out by members of the movement in Gashua, Bade local government area in Yobe state to demand the immediate release of their leader.

Bad news if your partner loves rock n' roll ...
While there may not be a clinical definition of
what constitutes a cheater , the fact is that
cheaters exist and they cause far more damage
than it's usually worth. Whether you consider
cheating as sex or simply a kiss, no matter what
the parameters of your relationship, a betrayal is
a betrayal.
Here are a few things that you may have never
known about cheaters, but probably should
because, you know, there are many of them out
there. You might as well educate yourself on this
breed of people.

EXPLORE YOURTANGO

1. Cheaters Are More Likely To Be Rock 'n' Roll
Fans.
Because music and sex really do go hand-in-
hand, researchers have found that when it comes
to cheaters, 41 percent of them prefer rock music
to all other genres. Falling in line after that,
respectively, is pop music (16 percent), country
music (11 percent), classical music (7 percent)
and rap/hip-hop came in last place with only 2
percent of cheaters favoring that stuff.
Takeaway? Kanye and Kim really have a chance!

2. When Women Cheat, It's A Dangerous
Business.
For some reason, a long time ago, a rumor was
started that when it came to infidelity, men held
the honor of being the most likely to stray, but
it’s a lie! Not only do women cheat, but studies
have found the difference between the two sexes
is that usually when women stray, it's to fulfill an
emotional need as opposed to a physical one.
Emotional involvement is pretty much just one or
two steps away from a completely kaput
relationship that can't be saved. Purely physical
entanglements might still have a chance of
getting a relationship back on track.

3. Cheaters Are Actually Happy In Their
Relationship.
Cheating doesn't necessarily mean that the
cheater thinks their relationship is the absolute
pits. While that’s not to suggest that every
cheater feels this way, but the majority of those
who commit adultery are happy in their lives and
relationships, and aren’t even looking for a break-
up. According to a Rutgers University study, 56
percent of men who had affairs were happy with
their partners, while 34 percent of women who
cheated were also really content in their
relationship. They just do it, because, well, they
can.

4. Cheaters Get "Friskier" When They're Cheating.
According to intimacy expert Mary Jo Rapini,
once that sex drive is awoken in the cheating
party, sometimes after years of hibernation, things
can go from zero to 20 with their spouse fast. It
might seem like things have turned around with
all that extra attention, but in reality, there's a
little somethin' somethin' going on elsewhere.

5. Women Are More Likely To Cheat When
They're Ovulating.
Oh, dear. It sounds like something out of a How
To Be A Good Wife handbook from 1957, but it's
true. As UCLA researcher Dr. Martie Haselton
explains, "We found that women were most
attracted to men other than their primary partner
when they were in the high fertility phase of the
menstrual cycle. That's the day of ovulation and
several days beforehand." Yikes! Not only that,
but women feel sexier when their body is in tip-
top mode to make a baby, so combine that with
their desire for men other than their partner and
we have a double yikes situation.

6. Men Will Cheat To "Fix" Their Marriage.
It may sound like the most ridiculous thing in the
world, but according to marriage and family
therapist Susan Mandel, PhD, men who love their
spouses think that by going outside their
marriage, they can save it. Perhaps it's a difficult
concept to swallow, but in their brains, they think
they can have it all, and therefore it will lead to
less of a longing for something else.

7. Cheaters Usually Cheat With Someone They
Already Know.
It may be comforting to think that if your partner
is going to cheat, it will be with a one-night
stand, but cheaters tend to stick closer to home.
In fact, the most common place for an affair to
blossom is at work. Research has found that 85
percent of cheating starts amongst coworkers,
with friends and neighbors not being too far
behind.

8. Cheaters Want To Get Caught.
Think about the burden it must be to carry
around such a weight day in and day out! The
guilt! The secrecy! The fear of, "OMG! Am I about
to be found out?” Welp, cheaters, some of you
actually want to be found out after all. According
to Scott Haltzman, MD, a clinical professor at
Brown University and author of The Secrets of
Happy Married Men, "People may actually set it
up so the spouse or partner find out. Whether it's
lipstick on the collar or emails left open on the
family computer, we leave our fingerprints
everywhere. Oftentimes, it's a cry to say 'I need
to get help.' Some people make it obvious
because they want to stop but don't know how."
Well then. I guess we can’t all live with being
conniving and deceitful forever, now can we?

Go us!

Onijagidijagan:
WEED HAS MORE NEGATIVES THAN POSSITIVE

HAVE TRIED IT AND GOD DELIVERED ME

Weed is the worst thing that can happen to a man .

Many are called but few are chosen. U got that

Cheating is never OK ... But needing this is
entirely normal.

We all "know" that men (and likely women, too)
cheat because the sex with you isn't that good
anymore and they've found something better
elsewhere, right?
Well, it turns out — that's not true at all.
There's something else quite remarkable going on
behind all of that cheating . For the most part,
men don't cheat because they want to trade up
for a younger, hotter, thinner, blonder babe than
you. And even if craving better sex is a motivating
factor for him, it's still further down on the list
than you'd ever imagine.
The number one reason why men cheat is ... a
lack of emotional appreciation.

Yep. That's right. Call the guy a sex-obsessed,
superficial, cheating jerk all you want. He mostly
just wanted to feel appreciated ... by YOU!
To appreciate him means recognizing the full
worth he brings to the table
and openly expressing gratitude to him for his
efforts and contributions.
Think for a moment when you've feel
unappreciated. You probably also felt resentful,
overwhelmed, angry, rejected, or even sad. In this
state, imagine someone coming to you and
saying, "We need to talk," pointing out a way you
could do something better, or a way you're
messing up.

How would that make you feel? How would you
likely respond?
Now, think of a time when you felt truly
appreciated. You probably also felt confident and
proud, like your tail is wagging. Perhaps you
felt like you're doing your thang really well; that
what you contribute makes a difference, and that
you uniquely matter. In this state, imagine
someone coming to you and saying, "We need to
talk," pointing out a way you could do something
better, or a way you're messing up.

Now how would you feel and respond now? It's a
big difference, right?
The truth is — If we, men and women alike, each
had a bank account that contained appreciation
from others (instead of money), most of us
would have to file for bankruptcy!
That's the sad state of things. Most of our bank
accounts are empty, or even in serious overdraft.
And, few of us show up as our best self for others
when we feel that depleted.

So, is this what's going on for someone right
before they cheat? Their emotional appreciation
bank account is in overdraft?
As a broad generality, yes! Men want and need to
know they're doing well by the people they care
about. They feel like they're winning, not losing.
How do they know they're doing well and
winning? Well, their partner is happy in general,
happy with them and expresses it openly. Men
with partners like that feel deeply, truly, and
consistently appreciated.
When men don't feel appreciated — when they
feel their efforts make no difference, that they're
unable to make you happy and provide what you
need, they begin to shut down, tune out, and
leave — or, cheat .
Appreciation is a vital emotional nutrient for
men. If they don't get that nutrient regularly from
you, they find a place (or person) that will supply
it. Whether that's long hours spent at work,
hanging out with their buddies, or ...
finding another woman.

So, does showing appreciation mean painting on
a saccharine smile, endlessly stroking his ego and
pretending to like something you actually don't?
No. That's not sincere appreciation at all.
The power of genuine appreciation is deceptively
simple. Perhaps you've heard the saying, "What
you celebrate, you get more of."
Pour your attention into pointing out what sucks
— about him, life, the relationship, you — and
you'll get more suckiness. Pour your attention
into pointing out what you appreciate, enjoy, find
satisfying and fun for you, and that's
exactly what he'll give more of.
You probably don't set out to make your man feel
like a loser.
I'm sure when you mention things he does that
displeases you, you're really trying to help
things change for the better. Most of us think and
do the same. We focus on it! Make sure he
knows! Unfortunately, this backfires big time,
every time .

So, what's the remedy? Start making regular
deposits in his "emotional appreciation" bank
account:
Make a point of noticing and commenting on
what your man does that's good, right, delicious,
fun, satisfying, pleasurable, moving, humorous, or
inspiring, etc.
Try doing this at least once a day. Or, if that's
easy for you, 5 to 10 times per day. And make
sure his appreciation bank account is full before
bringing up something hard. A good guideline is
around five appreciations for every request you
make.

(Hint: this works not only with partners and
lovers , but with colleague, brothers, fathers, sons
and friends).
But it has to be real for you. If you're faking it ,
he'll know and your words will bounce off
him like a bounced check!
Of course, I know there are real impasses and
conflicts you need to address and deal with. Not
now. Dealing with them and getting anywhere
with them (rather than driving you both deeper
into "stupid" fights) is not possible without his
appreciation bank account feeling full.

Maybe you feel like he hasn't appreciated you
very much lately either, so why should you
appreciate him ? Maybe your emotional bank
account is empty and you're not sure where
you'll find the appreciation bone in your body.
Appreciation isn't the whole picture in building
extraordinary relationships , but it is the
foundation. Without it, the relationship crumbles.
Good will erodes. Tempers easily flare, like a
match on a dry forest floor. Resentment builds
up. You feel like opponents, rather than allies.
So, no. You can't get the big, hard stuff that's
not working to change with appreciation alone.
However, appreciation changes the feeling
between the two of you. It helps you soften,
reconnect, and lower your defenses so that it's
actually possible to work on and shift the big,
hard stuff that's not working.

Need some signs you're appreciation is filling
him up in a good way? Look for these signs of
change in him:

His mood improves

You notice a little light come on in him

His chest puffs up a little

He smiles or grunts approvingly

You two have more sex (and higher quality sex)

He starts to appreciate you, acts more thoughtful,
and starts doing "little things" (that matter so
much somehow!) for you

Alternately, you may not get any feedback for a
while. Keep doing it anyway.

If his bank account is really low, he'll likely
wonder if you're for real or trying to get one over
on him. Keep showing appreciation anyway. It will
pay off! When you practice appreciation
authentically, those you're showing appreciation
to will rise in value and worth in your eyes. And a
secret plus is that you'll also feel better.
Simply put, appreciation makes everyone feel their
best — men and women alike. When we feeling at
our best, our most highly-prized values come
tumbling out. We can't help but lavish our best
selves on those around us.

iliyande:
is there anyone on this earth that is still uncircumcised?

Most Moslems are uncircumcised