Saintsammurai:
op i don't agree with number three..
If there is no money, how can one get cash to buy drinks, drugs and bang a lot of women...
op let me add...
Jobless guys ass lick ladies on nairaland..
Jobless guys do e-war with ladies on nairaland.

Pocket money from parents
No.6

1.Money: No food for a lazy man could also be edited to "no money for a jobless man".

2.Depression: Due to constant thoughts about ones level and dissapointments in life,depression may kick in.

3.Reckless behaviour: Drugs,alcohol and sexual promiscuity are one of the ways jobless guys try to forget their problems.

4.Loneliness: This is a no brainer,no money no friend.

5.Insecurities: Jobless guys may quarel with their partners(relationship),due to fear of losing them,when their patners are seen friendly with a guy better than them.
6.Dependence: Most jobless guys still depend on their parents for pocket money,food etc

7.Glutoneous behaviour:Some try to escape the pains of joblessness by eating lots of food at once,daily or even hourly.These foods could be snacks which are sugary in nature.

8.Constant heartbreak: They keep getting dumped due to their insecurities and inability to provide for their girlfriends.

9.Social media addiction: Boredom may also arise from joblessness,with social media being the only temporal fix available.

10.Social withdrawal: They withdraw from all forms of social interations with friends and family,due to the feeling of inadequacy.

Jobless guys need all the love and support from friends and family,because its one of the hardest and trying phases they go through,with some giving into suicide as an easy escape to harsh circumstance brought about by life. To all job seeks,always know that there is light after the dark tunnel. Thank you

Written by Jsmart4u

c.c:lasticlala,seun.

Ndukings92:
what was d cause of d break up at 1st?this one ur heart is still in love

There is no trust in the relationship,and i therefore decided to end things when i travelled out of the country

ZarZar:


Nope, remember, I was also born here. I know what rules were in place. They didn't allow just about anybody to enter the country, particularly people from other African countries. The huge influx of African migrants, happened after Apartheid. 1st it was Zimbabweans & Somalis, the rest followed.

African lawyers were'nt allowed?

ZarZar:


Then you must be one of the very few, even him. Hence my thoughts didn't directly go there, knowing the previous restrictions the country had before

Every country have restrictions up to a certain degree,but if you qualify as per the criteria stipulated,you wouldn't have any problem entering whichsoever country of interest. Only someone with inadequate resources could've been refuted entry prior to apartheid.

ZarZar:


Simple logic. Because there weren't Nigerians pre-1994 & most of those who were born here are usually kids. So my guess is, your parents must have been one of the earlier arrivals, which means you're either in your early 20s or late teens since we've already figured out that you're not a pre-schooler.

Lol it seems you aspire to be some form of detective. Sometimes logical reasoning could be skewed without adequate information you know.My Dad actually came to south africa(now a south african citizen) before the apartheid era,moreover i came back to South Africa some years back. So miss/mrs detective,it appears your deduction wasn't actually concise

ZarZar:

Interesting. You must still be a kid then

What makes you think so?

ZarZar:

Oh? You grew up where, in SA or NG? I'm not following

I was born in durban,and I travelled to Nigeria when i was 10 years old

ZarZar:


Lol, you forgot so fast? I get you though. No, I'm Xhosa.

Lol not that fast though,being too young was the culprit.I actually stayed in Nigeria for almost ten years straight,involuntarily subsititing my knowledge in Zulu with Igbo language.

sinaj:
bera b careful sha b4 she use ur advice against you claiming that u crashed her marriage.

You are definately right! Thanks for the advice

ZarZar:


Gotcha. Can you speak any of the languages?

Nah not anymore.i was fluent in zulu language prior travelling to Nigeria,but ever since i returned,its been kinda foggy.
Are u zulu?

ZarZar:


I'm guessing she's Venda then because there must be few Zulus who can actually speak Venda

Her father is a zulu,while her mom a venda

sinaj:
You be lawyer

Dear i tire ooo,she for kukuma ask me for advice before she marry early

smardray:
Tel her to divorce and do ur wedding some months later...

I'm 23,so marriage is not an option yet. So its cool if i tell her to get divorced?

[b]I had been in a serious relationship with my ex girlfriend for 2 years before we broke up. She got married to some dude months after our break up,but my thoughts were telling me she got married because she couldn't handle the break up and also because her parents were the one who arranged the man for her. Now this is where the predicament starts. They have been married for over one year and some months,but unable to concieve any children. She also complianed that the man is uneducated,and is therefore considering a divorce. She therefore asked me for advice,on the next thing left for her to do. But when i thought about this,i felt she asked me because she wants me to take her back after her divorce,but if that's the case,i won't know what to do. I still have feelings for her,but everyone in my village knows that she has been married without concieving yet. Dear nairalanders,should i advice her to continue with her marriage bearing the current situation?

Your advice on this matter will be greatly appreciated.

P.S:She got married at the age of 18.

c.c lasticlala

ZarZar:

What language does she speak?

She speaks both venda and Isizulu

ZarZar:


Jsmart says "it promotes promiscuity" How? IDK because if you're loose, you're going to be loose even if you work as a lunch lady or church usher. Men are everywhere for crying out loud!

There's a difference zarzar. Men who usually patronize hotels,especially these classy 5 star hotels,are men of high status and caliber. Men may feel that you'd surely make comparisons with these high classed individual,thereby breeding some form of insecurity,especially if your guy is struggling.

ZarZar:

Hahaha. OK. Happy GF, happy life

Lmao u got that right!

ZarZar:


Lol no, not really. I'm not a big fan of soapies & telenovelas. You watch that?

Yeah i'm forced to watch some of em',due to my gf's remote control rights lol

ZarZar:

Huh? I don't understand

Don't you watch Scandal?

ZarZar:


Girl, like you're a poodle! LOL! Can you imagine! I'd tell him well, tough! Controlling much? What is even wrong with working at a hotel?

Youvon Thebe is wrong lolzz

Seakay:

They've got good players n good form no doubt, but its a different ball game whenever they play against the Super Eagles. They do the playing... While Nigeria do the scoring. It's a tradition now.

Lol you are right to a certain extent bro.Nevertheless,South Africa posess more motivation to win,especially after the alluring jinx which has persisted throughout the years.

ZarZar:
Allow? Does he feed me, pay my rent & bills for him to have any kind of say on what I do for a living?

If you really envision a future for yourselves,you'll surely respect his concerns,when it comes to his worries about your working environment,especially if it entails working in an area which could promote promiscuity

Seakay:
Nigeria 3-0 Southafrica.

I doubt that. South Africa is currently in top form,with all the team's key players present and ready for tommorrow's action

alaricsaltzman:
Learn a skill, develop yourself and employers will be looking for you!!

They'll employ you alright,but be ready to recieve peanuts without a proper qualification

Wiseandtrue:

Who thief you bread

My dear I am not finding faults with you, only making you come to terms with reality

You better learn from people who have better things to say and stop confusing yourself

The poster above for instance is making a sense!

What are you even saying?? I never said you are making faults what what i'm saying,rather i'm staying stop correcting the poster with the notion that you know better than him. We all saw few errors made by the poster,but we chose to be silent. I supported the poster's ideology,that being a graduate doesn't mean you'll be wealthy,not bashing him the way you did.

[quote author=Wiseandtrue post=57348375]
[ quote] author=generalbush post=57344288]Hi, I am just a graduate in Nigeria. I will come back to what my name is;
I topped the class in brilliantly brilliancy and felt that all those who performed poorly were all gonna be failures in life.

I will be right back to right write more, but I need to search the internet for new job vacancies.

Keep in Touch for my Next Article titled “The Scam Called; Education in Nigeria”

Abeg you too,stop your informal gloating of being more enlightened or should i say educated. understand the writer's point before correcting all his mispelt words,he could be using the auto correction features which are relatively common.

Being a graduate isn't a guarantee for wealth,especially in a country such as Nigeria. I'm sure that's his point exactly. Many of us are guilty of such notion,that you'll be wealthy when you become a graduate,thereby neglecting other opportunities whenever they may arise. You can't learn from others,when you always find fault in whatever they stipulate. Always look at the positive side of a story,most of us aren't dumb not to see the few errors,but the wise one tries to understand the full picture before making insinuations.