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Genesis 49:3-4 Reuben, thou art my firstborn, my might, and the beginning of my strength, the excellency of dignity, and the excellency of power: Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel; because thou wentest up to thy father’s bed; then defiledst thou it: he went up to my couch.

Firstborn is one of the precious gifts from God. In every family, firstborn is usually taking in high esteem. Whether the child is a man or woman, there is always special rights reserved for them by their parents. In Nigeria, for example, first son is a child that normally receives double inheritance in the name of his father. But once his father is dead, the first son automatically takes over the wealth, property and position of his father. But God sometimes reversed this order, as he did with Jacob and Esau (Genesis 25:21-26), and as Jacob later did with Ephraim and Manasseh (Genesis 48:13-22). Reuben was the firstborn of Jacob, but his rights as the firstborn were taken away because of his sin (Genesis 35:22; 49:3-4). The battles of the firstborn started from the generation of Adam to Cain.
FIRST BORNS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE TH FOLLOWING
They are the pillars of the family
They are the ones expected to do well than others.
They are the beginning of father’s strength They are the messiah of the family.
They are the excellency of dignity and power of the parents.
They are the ones that has the capacity to take the family to a greater height.
They are made to break protocols and ancient patterns (rules) in the family.
They are created to take the family from bondage to freedom.



These people were not able to fulfill their divine agenda, because the powers in their foundation actually limited them. When you see a first child of a family, you will understand that he possess the glory of his or her family. However, the glory be a material that will take the family out of struggle and poverty. A firstborn is the crown of the family. A firstborn child All firstborn, including first sons and daughters possesses power, strength, authority, dignity and wealth of the family. It is true to say that first son as the case maybe enjoy right and authority.

Today, it is very common to see firstborns suffering like a homeless person. The foundational battles surrounding the stars of most firstborns allows them not to achieve greatness on time. In some cases, when a firstborn of the family is struggling to excel, marry or even break forth in family line, there is always obstacles on their ways. This delay usually keep affecting them back to back until there is a deliverance from evil foundation. Their birthright might be transferred to their younger ones even when the delay is getting too much on them. Sometimes, God or even devil might decide to take away their birthright. There are special spirits that attached to firstborns, which means if they manage to break-forth a particular thing, there would be an evidence of breakthrough on the path of the family or on the side of his or his siblings. Being a first child comes with its benefits and troubles, however, looking at it in scripture base, being a first born can attracts envious enemies and household wickedness (Gen 37:3-4). For instance, a person who is after God’s heart are easily prone for satanic attacks. In some cases, we found out that Most Nigerian firstborns are familiar with pressure from parents to do well and succeed. This is all so that their younger ones would have a benchmark. Firstborns level of success in life will influence the success of their younger ones.

WHY DO FIRSTBORN (FIRST SON, FIRST DAUGHTER) NEEDS DELIVERANCE?

These are some of the symptoms that will let you know that you need deliverance as a first son or daughter of the family. These includes: 1.When you notice you are borrowing money from your younger ones.
2.When you find out that you attract dishonour everywhere you go.
3.When you find it difficult to identify the source of your problems.
4.When you suffer from the bewitchment of your parents.
5. When you find yourself doing what is not in line with God’s agenda for your life.
6.When you keep dreaming of wandering around in your father’s house.
7.When you keep seeing masquerade, animals chasing after your stars.
8.When your helpers change their minds at the last minute.
9.When you feel like that you are caged spiritually.
10.When you keep fulfilling the goals of others, while yours is abandoned, then you are cursed.
11. When your expectation is always cut off. 12.When you notice that bad things happen to those who want to assist you.
13.When you notice that you never make it in your family.
14.When you make massive inputs but very little result.
15.When it seems there are evil spirits following you.
16.When you work hard but others get the credit.
17.When you notice that you are pretty, but you cannot a good man to ask for your hands in marriage.
18.When there are double frustrations and depressions attacking your reasoning.
19.When you are sharing from the patterns of your parents.
20.When you have money, but you cannot see its evidence in your life.
21.When you keep seeing cobwebs attacking mostly your head, right hand and two legs. 22.You notice that your younger ones are progressing, or getting engaged, or married. 23.When you have a feeling like untimely death, loss or chronic sickness is coming.

There are strange occurrences that are pointed to firstborns, including first sons or fight daughters. However, this negative symptoms normally arises at the edge of their breakthrough. The characteristics of the firstborn is known for battling with tough problems. Most people found out that their dream life is bad. For example, when you keep experiencing delay upon delays, it is because there are problems in the root of your family. If you observe that your mother take you to river, or to take a native doctor, it is obvious that you will be restricted from achieving progress. Many firstborns are cursed by ancestral idols, and that’s why things are not always easy for them. As long as you discover finances are not always stable or you have a feeling that you are in a great debt, then it shows your foundation has tied down your finances big time. When you observe that you come from a polygamous home, you will have familiar spirit contesting against your position as the firstborn in your father’ s house. This is the time for you ask the blood of Jesus to cleanse you completely from evil ancestral transmission. Perhaps, your place of birth is attacking you. Maybe you commit a severe sin in your past as a firstborn and these things might have contributed to your present situations. Or a particular person in your family has stopped giving you attention and honour. As a first son, you discover bad luck is one of your greatest setbacks, then you should go for deliverance to separate yourself from evil inheritance. If you will succeed as a firstborn, you should know how to pray and fast well. If you fail to pray well, you may come to this world in vain. May that not be your portion, in the name of Jesus. The Bible says in 1 Peter 5:8, Be sober and vigilant. . If you are a very stubborn person, you will find it challenging to resist the devil. You will need to cancel the curse of the wicked upon your life.

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foundation of my marital life and give it a new lease of life, in the name of Jesus.
Every family yoke of poverty and joblessness upon my life as a first daughter, break, scatter and die, in the name of Jesus.
Every deep rooted problem in my life as a first daughter of my family, be uprooted by the blood of Jesus.
The evil words that my mother carelessly uttered out against me and that is affecting me now, be nullified and let your effects be declared null and void, in the name of Jesus.
The negative patterns that are hindering the destiny of my siblings will go away from me, in Jesus name.
O God arise in your mercy and recover my lost birthright, in the name of Jesus.
Every open door that the enemy is using to gain ground into my life as a first daughter, receive the blood of Jesus and be closed, in the name of Jesus.
I break and loose myself from evil spiritual marriage in the dream in the name of Jesus.
Anything buried in the ground and in the waters that is troubling my glory as a first daughter, I nullify your powers by the blood of Jesus, in Jesus name.
My Glory, wake up, arise and shine for thy light has come, in the name of Jesus.
Every attack on the glory of first daughter in my family, go back to the senders, in the name of Jesus.
Any diabolical man that has ever slept with me when I was in darkness, expire by fire, in Jesus name.
Every power causing irregular menstrual cycle, release my ovary and die, in the name of Jesus.
Every evil flow of destiny pollutants from my family into my life,dry up from your source in the name of Jesus.
Every inherited curses of thou shalt not excel connected to my position as first daughter of the family, break.
Every power sponsoring repeated problems and resurrection of affliction in my life as a first daughter, to stagnate me, receive thunder fire of God and die, in the name of Jesus.
I command the spirit of sluggishness causing delay in my life, fall down and die, in Jesus name.
Every river evil family pattern flowing down to my first daughter from ancestral line, dry up now by fire, in the name of Jesus.
Collective captivity of my family line affecting me as the first daughter, be destroyed, in Jesus name.
Any evil personality making it impossible for me to break the genes in my family, die by fire, in Jesus name.
Any charm, divination, enchantment and incantation that has been issued into my life to trouble me as the first daughter of my family, catch fire, in the name of Jesus.
Every evil strongman, offering sacrifices to evil trees for me to remain in captivity, die, by fire, in the name of Jesus.
Blood of Jesus, break and set me free from anything that want to make me beg from my younger ones, in Jesus name.
I declare that the love of money and men will not manipulate my destiny, in the name of Jesus.
Thank you Jesus for answered prayers.
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[quote author=daughters13 post=133206684]CAN I MARRY AN UNBELIEVER?

In regards to whether or not a Christian should marry an unbeliever, the answer can be a yes or a no depending on the type of unbeliever. This is because there are two types of unbelievers and these are “THE UNCALLED GROUP” and the “DI
An unbeliever from the “THE UNCALLED” is the unbeliever who is a child of God but who has not received his or her calling from God yet. We refer to such unbelievers as “THE UNCALLED” because although they are children of God like you, but they are still playing around with sin, worldliness and unbelief in Christ because they have not received their calling from God yet.You can marry an UNCALLED and convert him or her to Christ.

• AN UNBELIEVER WHO IS A DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN
An unbeliever who is a “DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN” is the unbeliever who is a demon incarnate.
You should not marry unbelievers that are “DIRECT AGENTS OF SATAN” because you can not convert them to Christ.

BUT HOW WILL YOU KNOW IF THE UNBELIEVER YOU ARE PLANNING TO MARRY IS FROM “THE UNCALLED” OR A DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN?
Since you don’t have “x-ray” vision, there is no way you can know if the unbeliever you are dating is from “THE UNCALLED” or a “DIRECT AGENT OF SATAN” and that is why we advise you not to marry any unbeliever in the first place.

THEREFORE THE QUESTION WE SHOULD BE ASKING IS NOT “CAN WE MARRY UNBELIEVERS”. INTSTEAD, WE SHOULD BE ASKING “HOW DO WE DETERMINE THE TYPE OF SOUL THAT IS INSIDE THE PERSON WE WANT TO MARRY”

Do you know why your case is always different from others.
👌What others do to succeed, you do it , it become a problem.
👍 You have struggle in life to change the story of your family. But the more you work , the more things are getting worst.
👍 You have prayed all manners of prayer yet no solution.
👍 Now you beginning to ask your self questions and yet no Answer.
👍 Year to year nothing to show.
👍 Frustration in every side/disappointment, promise and fail.
👍 At times you hear strange voice telling you to kill yourself what are you still living for.

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Your foundation need to be address by prayer. It you season of great result in your life in Jesus name.

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BigIyanga:
No spiritual attack. He lacks self accountability and awarenesss. Blew up his chsnces in UK, USA, family, kids and friends. Seems like a selfish person who only lived for himself and the moment.

as much as u want me to agree with you take ur time read through the messages you go know say nor be ordinary hand pesin nor dey mumu for ever oooo except spiritual things dey behind

Omihanifa:
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The spiritual have dealt with him seriously

Floky215:
Is the site responding now?
Sent the link to some interested persons yesterday and they told me it wasn't going past the first page..

pls share the link with me

bro u have said it all u should expect more mature things from a 31 year old
by now her conserns should off materialistics things
and you def call am sidon talk better sense for her head rfactory rest her brain

[quote author=DownTime44 post=123085072]Hi guys


Please i put up this post basically because of my elder brother. I sincerely want to know if i was wrong talking to him, or I could have just let him be. I wasn't myself ever since i talked to him, and i was somewhat having guilty conscience since then.


I have an elder brother, he's 38 years old and also the first son. I am the fourth child in the family of five. The second child is a female and she's married. We lost our third child, that's my immediate elder brother some years back, while i have a younger brother. I came from a humble background. Lost my dad while i was in JS 3, even before his death we had been hustling on a daily basis for survival, and we live happily as one big family. My mother, siblings and i do hawk daily before we could eat. All thanks to public school in Lagos, my family wouldn't have had the opportunity to basic education. We hawk daily after school, weekdays and weekend. My family was bred and brought up in Ajegunle.


Few years after the demise of my father, we struggled to pay house rent. We had to leave Ajegunle to a local and developing area. I didn't allow my family conditions deter or weigh me down. Never! I believe I'd make it in life legitimately without venturing into crime, fraud, theft etc. After my secondary school, i was into all sorts of labour work. I worked in factory, building site, cleared bushes, laundry man , just to save up and further my education. I worked for 6 years after my secondary school, bought a bike from the little savings i had and proceed to school through jamb. I gave the bike to someone who often deliver #6,000 weekly for the upkeep of my family. I was in year 2 when i let go of the bike, it was on a higher purchase and the agreement we have had elapsed. I hustled my way through school and graduated. I'm done with service last year but couldn't land a job, probably due to my age. I'd be 29 this year and most graduate trainee often request for age below 28. Although, i had a 2.1. I'm only managing in a pure water factory to make ends meet, keep soul and body together and support my family


I sat my elder brother down and talked to him. He has been hustling like every other person in the family but i don't understand what's happening. He didn't futher his education nor learn a handwork. He's 38 but still live under his parents roof. He has been doing conductor work for many years. The family had talked to him several times to look for something else. It's fine you are hustling as a man for survival but doing conductor for many years without thinking of what else to do is wrong. A family friend of ours who later got to know what he does for a living had advice him also.


The bus he was following, the driver had misunderstanding with the owner and he collected his bus back. My elder brother had been idle for months, doing nothing. He claimed he has gone virtually everywhere in search of bus he could be working with but couldn't get any. This is a family that we all had to bring something no matter how little to survive. I was talking to him as a younger brother. I asked him why didn't he heed to people's advice when they were advising him then to stop the conductor work and look for something to learn, if perhaps he doesn't want to further his education? He doesn't believe in Nigeria education, because he could count graduates without job or those with petty job. My elder brother wear almost rag as clothes. I had to give him some of my little wears I'm managing. He has just one slippers. We don't wear same size of shoe or sandals, we could have been sharing that also. He sold his phone to feed sometime ago and had been without phone. I was initially saving to get my mum a small phone but i had to give him the phone instead.


He was crying when i was talking to him. I understand the situation of things in the country, which i myself is going through. I was just trying to know what other things he could come up with. I am not happy seeing him sitting idle doing nothing. The fact that he's the first son and found himself in this condition at that age breaks my heart daily. My mum had been so worried about his condition. I had to convince her that things will be better. I don't want her to develop high Blood Pressure that could lead to her untimely death.


Please guys was i wrong talking to my elder brother? [/quote


bros good afternoon thank for bringing this topic here I can relate to your story but i can relate to your story firstly you did the right of bringing reality to your senior bro but u should understand that as a first son what he is going through is more of a spiritual thing than physical.
secondly pls advice him to locate a MFM church for deliverance
thirdly look for a little job for him make sure u let him know that you are genieuly concern about him and his welfare

bros am talking from experience as a first son and a pastor it is never easy being a first most expecially when you are coming from a family that has been struggling it immediately pass on to the family
lastly bros locate a church for proper deliverance or MFM Church and keep away from sin you will eventually break that burden
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segtech68:
I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.

The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.

How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.

Thank you.

the same way you came here to tell us so dat we provide you answers also go and tell her with the same mouth and hand you used in telling us if u can do this small thing how do you hope to be a man in your house

Akwaokukuo:
Thanks so much for your wonderful advice.
I never even see the girl physically, she was recommended to me by a relative.
If I bring her to the abroad without legally marrying her, it is more risky because it means that she can marry someone else and abandon you.
Sponsoring someone to the UK is around 20million naira , I have the money actually but I don't plan to waste it on someone who would abandon me for someone else after investing almost all my lifesavings on her. It could be suicidal.
As for the sex part, it will also be bad because abroad is really very lonely and depriving me of sex is punishment because I have only had sex once since I moved to abroad and currently sexually deprived. Na masturbation I dey use relieve myself here while focusing strictly on myself and on money.
No lovelife, no funlife, strictly hustle and personal development for many years now

bros do I sense you are already having doubts? well it's 50/50
in the sense that she might be good or bad there some girls you bring over there and when they start making money more than you they turn to anoda devil in ur life while there are some that will not take your sacrifices as a child's play but stay together with you and build a sustainable relationship with you but my advice is this since you have doubt test her using these comedians to see her loyalty but if u are very sure no need for that just keep ur fingers crossed but make sure u really know her mind and heart is with you ooooo bros e no go easy if the lady turns against uuuu ooooo you have heard stories but am talking on the point of view that u have not seen her physically but was introduced to you pls be careful
and not you are not obligated to take my advice pls look very well before you leap

weda obi is correct or not one thing is clear we were called lazy youth we are just trying to show some of this our leaders how lazy we are and I will gladly waste my vote on obi

nwekeugochukwu:
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my people see ehn this life karma dey ooooo let us reason this in anoda direction look at what happen to Tonto dikeh after she disgraced and lied against Churchill she got her match she even cried a river for the guy SOME OF OUR GIRLS TAKE GENIUE GUYS LOVE FOR GRANTED AND THEY GET THEIR KARMA, I remember what happened to our dear Timaya nobody wen nor blame her but he said something I did not forget Timaya never wanted a baby mama because of how dis lady now Empress did to her by double dating with a white guy and he caught her and decided to take all he bought for her we all blamed Timaya but you see this life when you Treat people who trust you badly you must always meet your match for front I assure you dat am telling you
do a fact check really many of us who innocently loved a girl geniuely and did not sleep with her before she cheated go and check that girl how her life be now expecially their relationship............... JUST LEARN HOW TO TREAT PEOPLE RIGHT SOME PEOPLE WEN YOU GO DISAPPOINT ONLY ONE WORD THEM GO SPEAK FOR YOU OUT OF PAIN E GO JUST FOLLOW YOU AM TELLING YOU. OK SEE TONTO IN TERMS OF RELATIONSHIP SHE NEVER FIT RECOVER
LOOK EMPRESS TIMAYA IS NOW BIG AND I BET YOU HE WOULD HAVE MARRIED HER BUT YOU SEE ASHAWO NO
GREE LEAVE HER BLOOD MITCHEWWWE

Localemperor:
He might Win, Edo, and Rivers. He would loss Dalta ( Okowa ).

Bayalsa, Cross river and Akwa ibom I can't tell.

bro I tell u dis for free okowa can never win Delta we go choo his money and vote peter obi not only me but wat the streets are saying and planning to do this election go be like electric shock to some proud politicians see bros people dey vex oooo people don tire oooo most especially civil servants in delta state na Dem be no 1 there plans will never favour okowa

divorce is bad we know but in dis case we should look carefully why Paul decided to cheat on his wife,most 80 percentage of problems us because of lack of sex I know that must men are promiscuous but to the story we heard she refused allowing him to sleep with her may be because he caught him with the maid or she started it out of unresolved issues with Paul xo the young may be resorted to get it done where else this young ivy has been in d background so I think women should help their marriage to succeed expecially if the man is not battering d woman other offences can be forgiven and worked on

Machineoperator:
I am both bottle water and sachet water machine operator I can operate and repair too.
I can operate and flush RO too.
I am looking for work if someone can help me.
If there is a need I can relocate too thanks.

where do u live
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bros you see the kind of women trained now says is nothing to write home about some are lazy, selfish and wicked
some of these men you see eating outside don't want issues at home so for peace to reign they just eat out make Dem no die for ulcer....
I know sometimes the women are tired to cook but there are provisions on how she can do that like storing foods in the fridges so that may be the man can warm it to eat
let me explain what I mean women are selfish wicked and lazy
1. how do you explain a woman sitting at home demanding only for the woman to be watching film and forgets the man needs food
2. how do you explain a woman who can cook good and put in a flask for the man
3. ask any man close to you when children starts coming the love and respect for the man reduces to the bearest minimum all they are concern baby food clothes for the baby to even sit and appreciate the man with words of encouragement and good food is not there anymore
4. I don't want to talk about those working that one na the worst or the ones that have business or shops or have handwork that keeps Dem late into the night
To summarize there are good women out there but the bad ones are so numerous to mention haba
bros to be man for this country na hardwork without salary and u must provide
ladies note pls many of us our mothers spoiled us with home cooked meals that was so good to eat out was like committing abomination but we are in a sorry state that we have no choice most especially for those that cannot afford a cook or maid we go out and eat
observe carefully as men wen u eat out they are not bothered again before if man eat out Dem dey call family meeting to report nowadays Dem nor even send uu sef
let's change it
men pls if u can cook pls help out tooo am saying this in effect to those men who laboured so hard to make ends meet so that meat can be in the soup they deserve good meal plsdd

Ademolu2002:
What edition do you have and how much? I may be moving to Enugu very soon if ASUU eventually calls off the strike.

I will snapp it and send it to uuuu

Ademolu2002:
Am in dire need of Engineering Mathematics by K. A Stroud. Pls where can I get it either in Lagos or ota axis?Thanks

I have to sell but am. in Agbor

lordally:
When you people later found out she's trying to kill your friend , what did he or you do , how did you guys manage the situation?

bros though I was not the one who find out but the family saw his condition and went diabolical u know and they were told so they called their son but mumuishly because of love for the woman he said they were wit hunting the woman so wen I saw my friend after the parents told me I decided to pay him a visit when the woman was not around I just confirmed everything my friend na strict guy but everything was foolish including his doings I stylish took him to a fast food we prayed togeda and I sweet talked he opened up and that was how we separated them it was after some months the woman friends came pleading to the man's family how he took the man's wife to all dis fetish people am going into detail because of this young man. bro some women are good and nice if u get them u are extremely lucky but if u jam the wan wen wan kill u na sorry be ur name ooooooo

Helpout12345:
I went back to read all your previous posts. I can tell you your wife came back to you because her boyfriend refused the pregnancy.

My advise is leave the marriage.

true bro but to advice the brother it is pure wickedness to carry anoda man's child and kept mute over more Dan 9 months and you expect him to be blindly I love with someone who have such mind bros it's very risky call it parents together tell them the situation of things probably if you have money investigate the other babies and bros don't trust her

let me share this with you I have seen this kind of case the woman begged cried I even advice my friend against divorcing the wife after he did DNA test for his two girls if you see the way I beg my friend that the result was faked we all begged he accepted her back only for this woman to start giving him otapiapia for him to die slowly so dat no wan will suspect before we knew na kwashiorkor my friend turn to any woman that can cheat is very wicked and to carry anoda man's child to pin on uu is wicked pls run for ur life oooo


if the other children are urs pls take them away from her and train if not she will turn them against you

Twode:
Where is agbor? Dm on WhatsApp for better communication. Thanks

Google it is in Delta state before asaba

can u work in agbor

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Michelle70:
Time is just 4:19 I dreamt 3times this night, all about dead people.

you should be very worried and pray against it seriously

who knows now if dagrin is living the afterlife there