₦airaland Forum

Jigba:
I see most of you writing that being an introvert makes it hard for you to speak in public. Well I don't really agree, cause I know extroverts who also find it hard speak in public. Personally, I'm an introvert who doesn't have a problem with speaking in public. It all boils down to self-confidence

Uniqueness01:
I don't keep friends, don't go to parties whether birthday or wedding even when I am among the bridal train or asoebi I don't attend receptions because I don't like staying out for long...my tailor will be vexing that all this your body and style I am making for you suppose bring more customers for me o I will belike I go try and people will think I am forming
And when I finally go out people will belike where this girl dey since.......

Now that I am working,after office my house straight

Jodha:
Lol...

freebrowsingtime:
Please can you show us the originals in your house?
Living in the most dirtiest of place and because you visit Konga and see pictures, you think you are now wise and know the different between original and fake furniture? When you are sitting in a white ₦1,500 rubber chair, typing with Glo ₦100 bundle.

Jodha:
Taah nah yhu run leave me...but issorai..
Taah my mouth no spoil...

Before yhu begin complain....oya take kiss...

Jodha:
Son of a bitch....outright mugu...is it yhur rant?...

For yhur foolishness... Okada fall on yhu..

hilroy:
Who are those dumping these refuses?

Caustics:
they should be happy she didnt kill the fat woman on yellow and sell.

Donkey meat is known to cure arthritis. Very good for elderly people.

maureensylvia:
How to steal a fowl! 1. Survey the area for about 1 week. 2. On the day of operation wear an
oversized shirt. 3. Be at the place between 11am
to 2:30pm. At this time of the day, the owners will be
gone to work or
be indoors. The fowls will be playing
outside happily. 4. Walk at the edge of the street and let the fowls walk freely at the center. 5. This is where u make the grand move. 6. Dive like a goalkeeper and grab the fowl by the head. Quickly fold the head into the
feathers and put it in side ur oversized shirt. 7. Move on as if nothing happend. No looking back. THANK_ME_LATER

malificent:
Of all p*ssies? Chai, guy you f*ck up shaa. Someone you know that eats and breaths drama

Divay22:
Staying out for long makes me unhappy..
Going out can be so frustrating, annoying, let's just stay at home Eat popcorn and watch movies, wetin i wan use cinema do ....

But it has cost me alot, I have missed opportunities, words I'll rehearse :Din my head, but wouldn't be able to say it out, memories i couldn't gain....I wouldn't want any of my child to be one.....


Introverts don't mind staying in another planet where they can be aliens, the world seems too populated to them
But i love them because THEY CARE, THEY CARE MORE THAN THEY SHOULD.....i give them A1 When it comes to taking care of others, even if they don't like you.....


Tell an introvert your secret, it's save for life,they barely have time to gossip
Commonly used word :I DON'T KNOW

hinky:
I believe if the right one comes, introveted or whatever u ll man up to talk to her...
Life is not too complex as it might seem...


As an introvet, i like being alone but when i dont want to be alone... I dont see anyone to be with cos i cant keep friends...
Sad story..hun..

Cleopatra4:
Yeah...
I feel we attract d opposite of us.
Don't like crowd.
Can't stand a noisy environment likewise lousy people..
Just prefer staying at home when I'm not busy..
Sometimes I wonder if na like this I go take see husband

mainman7:
Yes, but that's changing already. Your past generation encouraged you to go into business. Our past generation parents directed us to go for education, frustration of FG not providing Jobs after painfully acquired degrees led some of our Youths into ritualism. We Yorubas are very gpod people, change is the only constant thing and we are leaving this phase to elvove better. Reorientation is currently going on and our Yoruba Youths are waking up to the reality that "they'll more easily become millionaires by going into business/trading, buying and selling" We've learnt that igbos did not learn trading from Heaven, the skill acquired by encouragement of their fathers to toll that line. On our Lands, we'll sell bulding materials, cloths, electronics, etc to ourselves. Igbos shall no more collect pur monies and flaunt it in our face.
Some intelligent NLander Yoruba guys and I were discussing igbo/Yoruba observed stuffs and we came to one conclusion that some igbos were applying 48 Laws Power rules to brainwash gullible Yorubas here. Last year, they started derogatorily calling and generalizing all Yorubas as Afonjas when we were known as Awoists since my earliest times on NairaLand. They know you soon take on the Character of the name you accept. Before this igbos started this nonsense, we on NL know purselves to be Awoists portraying the great Awolowo values. Just like the igbos planned and hoped, now some gullible easily brainwashed Yorubas go like "we Afonjas are the best" .... Afonja was the greatest Enemy of Yorubas while Awolowo brought innumerable great pace-setting Achievements to Yoruba Land and to Nigeria as a whole. Awolowo is Nigeria's Greatest Generallissimo whose millitary intelligence and strategy quickly ended long-fought Civil war. igbos fabricated and perpetuated a lie that Awo ate poison when it was medically confirmed that Awolowo died from cardiac issues, which must have resulted from restlessly patrotically carrying the burden of efforts to make Nigeria great. Even Great Britian said Awolowo is the best President Nigeria never had. Some brainwashed Yorubas may try to point out Awo's fault, forgetting that NO humanbeing can be perfect. Ojuckwu cowardly ran away, yet igbos celebrate him till date. If he was to be Yoruba, he would have been skinned alive when he returned. Infact, his family would have been made to forever bury their head in shame. If you have NEVER achieved 10% of what Awo achieved for Yorubas and you crucify Awo... Any igbo that calls we Yorubas afonja again instead of Awoists shall soon shattered by thunder!

Narldon:
Hmmm

IamKashyBaby:


After pulling him to marry u..still that mitch will keep eating different NUNU

Preetiex:
People will know dat money talks dat day

Lowkey but classy Traditional marriage 4 my papa house -20 people is okay

Court-10 people
i dont really go 2 church so am good

Tahrah:
Ma nigga

Ishilove:
Lmaaao! You don Kolo finish

Toks2008:
Honestly I just think this white wedding and trad wedding are flimsy and totally unnecessary.

Have a small family get together or bride price presentation to satisfy customs and tradition....proceed to registry and have a moderate reception.

selflessmaya:
i dont ever want to have a traditional marriage, too many unfamiliar ppl that i'm expected to shine teeth with and i refuse to have to pretend on my day to be so thrilled to see ppl idgaf about. so there...
i dont want a white wedding either cos it's very unnecessary in my opinion, i just dont get it.
my ideal wedding is a small court marriage with immediate family and very close friends present maximum 7 from both sides, total of 14, after the papers are signed, we'll have the reception at sunset till dawn at a private beach(with prior reservation of course), nothing tacky, very classy setting, good wine, good weed, good indie music, beautiful tall cake(this, i'm very particular about, my wedding cake must be outright stunning), we'll toast to life, get high, dance, make small talk and just enjoy ourselves. in the morning, we part ways with the guests and leave for our honeymoon. no extravagant gifts expected from my guests, we're just gonna make very good memories and let them be happy for us.

funmisticqueen:
My white wedding, 300 people, 150 from each side, i will rent a wedding gown or design myself. For the white wedding reception, 2 million should cover it maximum, 2.5 million, for court just me and my bae, like 200k should cover it. For traditional too, also 300 people mostly family and friends, 2 million should cover it. This is my minimum standard, we will both achieve this without any wahala after or soaking garri during honeymoon. I am hustling, you had better be set..

VargasVee:
All these 100 people Max, I hope the wedding won't be in Nigeria.


80% of Nigerians are the nosiest people ever, even when not invited, they'll still storm there. Most of them even bring along their ancestors

Tahrah:
Here to read comments.

najaka:
Low key ooo

Ishilove:
Ehn, it is left for you two to sit and draw up a plan. What ever you come up with will determine the estimate.

It's all about understanding and compromise. You know what you want, you know how much your husband-to-be, and even you can afford. If you can afford to spend millions then nmaka why, go ahead. If not then you know what your budget will be. It's not hard.

Abeg we are the ones complicating issues for ourselves.

IamKashyBaby:


If i were to choose, i wud prefer a very modest but solemn wedding ceremony...

Maximum 10 ppol will be invited. NO MORE THAN 10.

Civil wedding wud do. No need of a church wedding since i do not have a religion..

Wedding gown? Maybe.

Wedding Reception: Juz in hotel..So it will be counted..RSVP only.

Ishilove:
You know that level na

Ishilove:
Very quiet and low key with a maximum of 50 people in attendance. 25 from my side, 25 from his.

What informs my choice is not economy but privacy. It is not how lavish a wedding ceremony is that will determine the success of a marriage.

For example, the 1980 wedding of Prince Charles and Princess Diana was the most beautiful and lavish wedding ceremony up to that point in history. It was broadcast to billions worldwide and leaders across the world attended.

Today where are they? Prince Charles is married to someone else while Lady Di is in the grave. And they were separated for years before her death.

Noise. It is not by feferity and noise.

Marriage is serious business and people nowadays get so carried away by the fanfare of wedding ceremonies that they forget this immutable fact.

Loyalblak007:
Can you just imagine!

Poor children