₦airaland Forum

If we all vote a competent person we all we enjoy the dividend of democracy but if blinded by religion and tribalism and vote people who see Nigeria as a second home them buhari government will be heaven compare to what will befall us.

typicalgamer:
Will you keep quiet

Nonsense talk

Bring top form Jay Jay okocha we no go catch draw

The squad that get a draw from them three years ago was it you and your ancestors that played them.

Lol

Well! I don't see anything wrong here, there is no issue here. If you feel uncomfortable changing in present of your mother in-law you can do that in the bathroom or if you don't like the bathroom you can use wrapper or towel to change.

There was one neighbor we had when we were still tenant, there was a day the mother and father of the wife with her two siblings came to visit them not with standing that the couple had two children already. There were eight living in one room, there stay together for more than six months before there left for the village. Comfort is a luxury sometimes when you start having kids in marriage. you can't drive your wife Godmother away you just have to manage one two weeks of management won't cause a thing, you can decide to sleep on the couchie or look for any place in the sitting room and sleep.

You're just having this sleepless nights because is your first time by the time your second child will come by then you would have been well prepared for any circumstance.

Malory:
My people here in the west are too docile and loves their oppressor. We are cowards to say the least

Is not only the west. have never read a story of how youth chase away a politician in the south ones.

elonmuxk:
hmmm mine was last week, mom is owing 3 people money from weekly savings in her pepper grinders association due to a neighbor she decided to help, the neighbor parked out of the area without notice after collecting first 2 numbers of 200k making 400k in total. leaving my mom to the debt.


The people expecting their money won't hear explanation and last week one came with police to arrest my mom, it was really embarrassing the insults I got from the lady and policemen that I can't help as first born and was helpless watching mom go with them.


Now we have 2 weeks deadline and Police issues too, we put up our house for sale to pay up and relocate after the whole police disgrace, I also posted here on nairaland but nobody is forthcoming for the purchase, or even to use the house as collateral for a loan, it's a total embarrassment because my family have always been a quiet peaceful one without dramas in the area.


Now I can't go out only very late at night

Just because of four hundred thousand you and your family want to sell your house. Na wa for una.


There is nothing the police and those people will do na credit you hold una go surely pay.

If you like make you drink sniper die na you and your family go loose

Those people you dey shame for why them nor come pay the credit so that you nor go dey shame so that you go fit dey waka for day time instead of night.

richmond500:
I don't know about their pocket but I am sure they don't have a future.
They live above their means, I know a lot of them that were driving cars 2years ago, but today nothing to write about.
One has decided to be lazy, begging money to feed yet he's still as pompous as ever

you just give a perfect discription of one of my friend.

CharisEleos:
Hmm ..

That's one mistake I been avoiding for years now and even though I'm in my late 30s, I don't care because I feel it's better to be single and searching than to be in a marriage with a man Im not attracted to or vice versa.

I once asked a bro in my church who wanted to marry me (but I didn't find him attractive) if it's important or necessary as christians to have feelings for the lady or guy you wanna get married to and he said yes. So, I hope he understood that i didn't have feelings for him.

You shouldn't have married her because now you're committing a worst sin.

Learn to accept her the way she is.

In your late thirty and you're still selective.

ThaThinka:
As bad as this country appears to be, I almost found this hard to believe. Things happen and can be saddening.

Keep moving on, soldier! This phase shall pass.

I see you write well. Why don't you give online content writing a try? It might not make you rich, but you may be able to get something better than you currently earn. A secret: that's contributed greatly to my not worrying so much about lack of a job all these years.

As someone suggested above, you may also try working as a teacher. You will at least have more time to do other things or earn extra doing tutorials.

Please teach me how to be a good content writer.

whytediamond:
Wetin yiu type here? See, you better delete it o. How can you type rest in peace and still claim you are not gonna type it. Stay one place na.

abeg no mind me, I'm just angry about his death.

I still don't want to believe you are death, not even now that Nigeria need you more. So am not going to type any stupid rest in peace.

lordally:
I was just asking based on some talks here that it's bad for the OP to Move to Taraba while someone is doing good for himself over there!! So I think if you can do well over there then anyone can too! It's just depends on Personality , Luck and nature plus GOD

If you're not Tiv, Igbo and you don't run after anything under skirt surely you will make it.

I'm talking strictly on business, because that is what am into.

lordally:
Which of the Northern states are you in

I'm in taraba state, why did you ask.

zoedew:
T. B. Joshua was a conman. Folks will not be shown to the rooms where he serially committed sexual Immorality in that same premises of the synagogue! His wife unguardedly mentioned “the shower” before he went to “preach” and his tenancy on earth expired! He was A diversionary sign post erected by Satan to lead people away from God to hell. His “church” looked like the real thing!! Read this and you will know the real Temitope Joshua Balogun Read this https://tbjoshuawatch.files./2011/08/deception-agomoh-article.pdf
http://nguonsusong.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=10519
Truth is, rice distribution, on its own, is not what the gospel is all about and Jesus was clear about that. T. B. Joshua was evil while he lived!!!
DeceptionOfTheAgeUnmasked.pdf

The gospel is about using the poor to enrich your self

Fidelmak:
Good evening guys, I need your advice on this: I am pressured by my family not to travel to Taraba state for job due to various news about insurgency whereas I served there. My parent don't want me to leave and I find it difficult to stay at home please i need your suggestions..

Just look for small money you will make it very fast if you delve into business.

Saintinoo:
I am not trying to discourage you but the North is not where you wil hustle, forget the cheap food in the North, you will look at your life in the next 10years and find out that you are in same level.
The lifestyle of the Northerners made it that way.

I've looked my self almost five years here and my life has been different.

Skillsnigeria:
So many skills to learn, you can check my signature/profile for a start

please which skill can i learn with your help, i only have a phone no laptop.

Lol, the guy na grook

DkJay:
When I was younger, I did something that pissed my elder sister off, I don't remember what. She came after me, teeth and fist, tore my shirt. When I had taken all I could, I swung around and hit her. Just once.

When my dad heard of it, he woke me up that night. And flogged me senseless. That insulated cable used for running underground installations, he used it till it broke and the inner components were showing.

For every stroke of his hand, I got six to eight markings. My hand was swollen for a week afterwards.

He didn't ask whether she was the offender or not. I learned my lesson that night.

No matter the provocation, a man's not meant to hit a lady.

Ah!! your papa try.

Badlyconfused:
Hello Nairalander,
A brother is absolutely confused for the past few days now.
Please forgive my grammar because I'm not in the right frame of mind.

My Fiancée is 3 weeks pregnant and since then, she has never been herself.

We planned getting married by next year January after I'd met with her parent and they agreed to the wedding plan.

The major problem is that she is a well-known person, and getting pregnant out of wedding luck is not what it's expected of her. I'm 35 and she is 27.

We both love each so much, there is nothing I can't give to her, same goes to her. In fact, she is perfect for me.
Left to me a lone, I'd prefer she keeps the pregnancy since I'm not longer a kid and she not either. But the trauma is changing her to the opposite of herself; she is losing it.

Instead of seeing her going through the trauma, I'd rather agreed with her to terminate the pregnancy. I can't afford to continue seeing her going through this.

I've agreed with her to abort it.
Here is the issue:

None of us has done this (abortion) before, and we don't know the right hospital to go to.
Abortion is still illegal in Nigeria even though some hospitals are still doing.

As Nairalanders would say, "what do you want us to do now?"

I'd like to know which hospital to visit.
Is it all hospitals that do it? If know, how do I know which hospital will be willing to help us out?

Please help a Nairalander out.

I know some people would say that why did we have unprotected sex when we're not ready for a baby. Well, it's a stupid thing I did and I take full responsibility for it.

Shit happens and I'm experiencing one.

If you decide to bash me for my foolishness, I'll gladly take it because I deserve it.

What if you abort the pregnancy and God did not give you another.

There is a case like this where i am, same thing that is happening to you. There have been together now for fifteen years no child.

But, if at 35 you're still living your life to please people then I'm sorry for you.

G