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proxillin:
She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.

I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.

3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.

We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.

My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).

We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad.
She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.

This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.

That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.

But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.

In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

Don't judge her with the happenings of the past and she may actually be truly acting childish that time. Something like this happened between me and my gf several years ago and she invited her friends to watch her embarrass me , I remember vividly how I vowed not to ever have anything to do with her again but as faith will have it our path crossed again and I met a very much changed and matured girl.


She's now my legally married wife and the mother of my pretty daughter, above all the most submissive woman I have I seen



It may be wrong at times judging someone by the mistakes of one day. Watch her to be sure if she's truly a changed woman or she's just a pretender for the ring

Obaseki can only pretend to hoodwink the gullible ones

Benue state level of madness is out of other states league .

What da fcck

Imagine people's fathers laying those heavy curses on themselves all because if political position.


God forbid bad things

AgbariOjukwu1:
I'm telling you, the guy engineered the crisis in APC by instigating the suspension of the National Chairman elected via a National convention by his ward which resulted to the many court cases eventually leading to the dissolution of the NWC.

After doing that, he ran to the rival political party where he paid them billions of naira to secure their party ticket. He is just a pretentious snake and I pity PDP.

They forget they won't be in power forever . The position intoxicate most of them to the extent they believe they can do and undo.

So these are just getting to know this ? Even me that is far away from the state got wind of this since last year .


At least I know of one top "blue bird" and an Auchi Poly dropout he appointed as an SA without any portfolio.

Obaseki the snake

EastGold:
Because he once told you that he won't contest for 2nd term does not mean that he does not have the right to contest

And that means the man can't support whoever he wishes ? When did political support turned to do or die affairs

Trumpcard05:
Tha campaign of calumny is well and truly underway. At this rate, it’s hard to see how Nigeria can be delivered from its present state. Just sad.

Campaign of calumny you say ?

Is he owing them 11 months salary or not ?


This is the best time they can press for that payment o

hisexcellency34:
Unfair if true though I heard the man is funding Ize-Iyamu

Is there any offence in that ? The man is just exercising his fundamental human right

What a ridiculous way of fighting godfather.

Let's continue deceiving ourselves in this country

SafariBoy:
Plots of land along the road going for a cheaper amount. Take advantage of this lockdown to get yours today.
200k per plot with a valid documentation.
Location: Abeokuta, Ogun state.
Interested buyer should send me a mail.

Where exactly in Abeokuta

naptu2:
It's a partnership between Landmark Village (the people that own the place that the centre was located), Young Presidents Association (who provided the equipment and some of the staff) and the Lagos State Government (who are the regulators). The agreement was billed to last for 3 months and it is already 3 months so it has expired.

But this is actually the time the state needs the service of the isolation center the most

This idiot will just be formulating figures from his wacked brain. Any evidence she bought that apartment and it costs anything close to that figure ?

I need something like this bro

Let your senses guide you

APC should reshuffle their campaign structure and let Yaya Bello lead it . let it be thug for thug

So there's a special assistant to the governor on each wards in Edo state

This is more than shameful

baby124:
Ok. Bring proof that you are not a paid puppet. Ask your father in law if he made all those investments from his salary. NNPC employees and reknowned thieves. Their mates in the home countries of these companies cannot boast of such investments. If all these people were investigated do you think they will come out unscathed?

Must he make money from his salary alone ? Can't he have other investments?

akinalabi:
Too much storm in a tea cup.

The law requires him to declare and that is what he has done. The law does not require him (kindly correct me if am wrong) to say in 1999 I bought so so shares etc.

If anyone or any body or agency feels he has lied about the declaration they are free to take him up. Also, if anyone or any agency feels his wealth was ill gotten, he can be taken up on it.

Thank you for this o

tot:
That a person had a lot is different from whether they were contented with what they had.

Besides, you can see even way back 2011 people were contesting the validity of this "assessment". Working for Shell does not make one a BILLIONAIRE.

Because he was working as a cleaner or gateman abi . you people will not cease to amaze someone

Demdem:
i honestly dont think Ajimobi's wealth is inflated. Considering where he is coming from, this amount isn't ridiculous at all.

I am really surprised some people are questioning his worth and these are the same set of people that celebrated Seyi Makinde's 48.5b asset declaration

Theoryx:
pls, does zenith bank offers mastercard for new users with zero account?

Yes

Chandeliers:
Sis... Are you for real...?

I saw a notification from you .

What's up ?

I bank with


UBA (very useless bank with stupid stupid customers service . I am only using the bank because most customers are used to it and I move my money immediately)

ACCESS (Thieving bank opened while looking for an alternative to UBA)

STERLING (OK and good for loan )

ECOBANK ( best for savings )

FCMB : (I opened them while looking for an alternative to UBA but they are not a serious bank )

GTB ( another thieving bank opened while looking for an alternative to UBA)

ZENITH ( I just opened this account last month and I am happy banking with them. They don't have the best customers service in the branch here but the online customers service is great. The network is good too. I use them for the bulk of my transactions now)



NB: I am still looking for another bank for a business account. I don't want to put all my eggs in zenith in case of you know

humilitypays:
For Savings Purpose
Fidelity
Zenith
Union


For Internet Banking & Online Business Purpose
GTB
Zenith
Eco Bank

For Business & Entrepreneurship Purpose
Fidelity

Please tell me more about fidelity.

I am thinking of opening a business account

And I used to think this sirlop of a guy is legit

Tony Momoh loading

Abagworo:
Buni is pure breed Buharist from CPC

You lied .


He's from the ANPP block of the merger

unex50:
Have you checked if she's teething I discovered DD is growing 3tooth at once... So now my mind is at rest and I don't get angry like before, I gave her baby Rex yesterday when she woke up by 2am, she didn't cry like before after snacking she went back to sleep..

Maybe you should check, God is your strength.

We will check ma

Thank you momma