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PunkyOh:
Was hoping you'd go more in depth but fair enough lol.

Okay! Let me go in depth a bit. True love involves alot of things. True love is not something or someone you find in one day. True love is someone that makes your day feel awkward if you dont hear from them or see them. True love will make you thankful for the one you have when you see relationships way worse than yours. True love makes you feel whole if you always felt incomplete before them. True love will not be destroyed when you have bad argument, it will only teach you more about the one you are with. True love shows you the difference between the one you are with and everyone else. I could go on and on.

believe it's a process. True love is like school. You can never know everything about someone instantly, You have to be willing to invest time to get know the person just like you invest time in school to be educated. You have to be willing to take the bad and the good, the arguments, the hurts, the love and more.

Most people find someone and because of one thing, they let them go and they run after someone else much worse. Most people have a feature of true love but not necessarily a package.

PunkyOh:
LOL, I married young so it never quite got to that so I don't know. So, what's true love to you?

Oh okay!
True LOVE is the most expensive high valued emotion that you get and give away for free.

PunkyOh:
Haha. Good luck finding her. Last question, do you think you'd know when you finally meet her? I sometimes wonder if there are signs when soul mates meet.

I was once with someone that I thought was a soul mate but obviously I was wrong about , so now I tend to doubt a lot of things about love & my own feelings. Anyway, it's always good to hear other people's opinions on these things so I hope you don't mind the quiz lol

I believe in true love but soul mates? I don't know about that. Someone may love you in the way you want but not in the way you are supposed to. To understand that you have to believe what you want may not always be what's right for you. Someone may have disappointed you at some time but chances are it's because you thought he was everything you wanted. For example, at 20, you probably wanted a tall handsome man but at 25, you start to believe a man with a job, and hubby material is all you need to get by life. True or false?

Just Like the nigerian national pledge.
She must be FAITHFUL, LOYAL AND HONEST

Some girls think its not lady like and some girls know what they want and go for it. In my case, girls always approach me.

I just threw up in my mouth. That's all kinds of nasty at the same time.

hurrrrray!!! You got your own nairaland account and now you can post pointless things like this.

PunkyOh:
Do you believe in true love? "Meant to be" kind of thing
That came out of the blue but I'm just curious.

I believe in true love. Oh yes i do. But she is hiding under a rock right now and she is not tryna come out.

PunkyOh:
Yeah it's true, nobody is everyone's cup of tea no matter how gorgeous they are. But the few that salivates counts

Anyway, to me it'd be a sign of low self esteem to be with an unattractive person just because I fear being cheated on. Hell, I wouldn't even trust his faithfulness because I'd often wonder if he'd be the same person if he weren't so fugly. I think I'd wish he was hot for just a day so I could observe him carefully.

lol @ your last line. Troof. I think everyone wants a partner they can be proud of. He doesn't necessarily have to be Mr Galaxy but he mustn't be a Swamp Thing either.

I agree. Sometimes chasing unattractive people may just be as bad as dating an attractive person. The danger is still there. It's all about knowing who you are with at the end of the day. Hey! Trust is a thing of the past these days. People cheating like it's a normal life style.

Lmaooo @ fgly...true dat! If he wasn't so ugly he maybe twice as bad.

TheChosenOne1:
4.Some people do it as a form of business and as a means of livelihood.....They make money by being gays...not because they want to be gays buh just because"they think"it's lucrative...taking from experience/s

noooooo way. Are you serious? This is news to me. Mind explaining how that's lucrative. Like are gay dudes in demand or something?? If that's the case. I think i need to move to Mars because there's no hope for humanity.

I think it's a huge mistake. It feels enforced. People are conditioned to love naturally on their own terms.

PunkyOh:
At least some of them must find him attractive. I have a competitive nature so..
It just wouldn't do anything for me if nobody thought my man was attractive. I want them to say, "Gurl, you picked a hot one". It does strange things to my ego

i think u can be attractive but not necessarily wanted by everyone. But i see what you mean. I would want people to know I have a dime by my side...

PunkyOh:
No. Where's the challenge in that? Why would I want to be with someone nobody wants? It actually feels more amazing to be able to keep the affections & attention of someone you know can have his pick of women but chose you instead.

so you wanna be with someone everybody wants to be with?

OP. Even unattractive people are ditching fine girls and fine men. That's what happens when you gas them up thinking they can pull any attractive person because they got you. Just saying!

I don't see anything wrong with that unless you sense se hidden motive. Maybe she wants to hook him up with some girl or something.

My weakness is watching a 5 star chick walking by. #maturedminds

Her drive.

and we need to kno this because.....

Heard this before. Another recycled post.

In my case. My boss begged me to stay because of my experience. She went as far as giving me a promotion but I just wanted a new experience and something better.

Women lie, men lie. So don't be surprised.

This sounds like things to do when she is pregnant.

This list applies more to women than men. OP have u been to hell and back because of some woman

Wait! 5 to 8 times a day

I will slap him and catch the baby before he lands. ...9 months is not easy

Let me educate you. In the gay community, alot of people will call homosexuality natural. They only say this because they feel they have felt that way since birth. However, it is more natural and normal for a man to be sexuallly attracted to a woman. On the other hand,most people will not call gay people normal and this depends on your beliefs. Most people are gay due to different conditions, for example,

1. a man who was raised and brought mostly around girls,

2.a woman who has been hurt by soo many men and believes there are no good men out there permanently. Women look for greener pastures amongst women instead

3. Finally! There are those who just do it for adventure. They try it and like it. Like Katie perry said. ""I KISSED A GIRLS AND I LIKE IT!""

so calling it natural will be a stretch!

lordthree:
are you gay? and yes homosexuality is a lifestyle, why didnt we ever hear of homosexuality in the olden days.

educate yourself. There has been homosexuals since the Greeks and bbefore Rome.

If that man's bank account reads 40 million naira then that man will look 6 ft tall.

I don't think I have had a gf that I didn't bath with. If tou havent then that sounds like a boring relationship to me. Sometimes you need to spice up your relationship. You can't alway stay used to salt and pepper only. Try ginger, curry, and more. #maturedmindsonly..

Hmmm..ask jesus to fix it. U don't teach people how to care. It comes naturally.

Lmao. @ no 9... Then what can you tell from the way a woman bites a banana.