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RomanceRe: My Ex Wants Me To Marry Her Best Friend, Pls Advice. by justmenoni: 10:17am On Feb 09, 2015
Op please try to focus more on the bolded part:

Please i need your honest advice, I'm not seeing anyone for now and the lady she recommended looks good, do i go ahead and key in or should i decline "the offer", as they say " birds of a feather flock together". Is she planning to play a fast one on me ( a revenge mission).

What if they are lesbians? and perhaps the cute girl might be the one who is really into the lesbo of a thing and ur ex wants to use her in satisfying u and herself?...Of cos not all ladies are decent but its always better if you dont know her or their past as it will save you alot of headache..is she goes to the market,take the kids to school etc and she came back late u had been wondering if she has branch somewhere else and how are u sure this new cute lady hasn't had a randy relationship as well? and what about ur ex wife current husband do u know if this cute lady was her ex also and dis new lady was the one who recommended ur ex to the husband as a new and responsible girl(a randy cheater)..Bro its better to look outside entirely as you will save urself alot of hfuture headache grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

sunwa:
I walked out of a relationship of several years as a result of consistent lifestyle of infidelity of my Ex.

She was my first love and i did all a man could do to ensure she was happy at all times but she constantly cheats on me and at a point she eloped with another guy while we were planning for our traditional wedding and when she came back to her senses she thought she could find her way back to my heart but i shut it permanently against her.

This was after series of sexual escapades she has had with other guys which i later got to know.

Though i loved her and still do but because i could no longer trust her, which is incidentally one of the bedrock of any relationship i had to call of the relationship even after series attempt and appeal by friends and family for her comeback.

This was in 2012, with time the wound got partially healed and somehow we became friends against but this time around on a casual level.

In January 2015, she got married and i decided to respect her new status by cutting off completely from her to avoid any chances of having any immoral act with her.

Just last week she sent me a lady's picture on whassap whom she introduced as her friend and she informed me that she has discussed with about me and that the lady is interested in me and she is highly recommending her for marriage.

The said lady is cool, i have checked her out on her Facebook page and she got my pass mark but i have my reservations, I don't trust my EX, i fear she may have an ulterior motive, till date she regrets that we didn't get married even when she was engaged to her husband she went to confront a girl I was seeing and really messed up things.

Please i need your honest advice, I'm not seeing anyone for now and the lady she recommended looks good, do i go ahead and key in or should i decline "the offer", as they say " birds of a feather flock together". Is she planning to play a fast one on me ( a revenge mission).

Please, what do I do?

Thank you.
EducationRe: Hilarious Nicknames Given To Your Teachers When You're In Secondary School... by justmenoni: 9:49am On Feb 09, 2015
Lol are u kidding me,an hausa man teaching yoruba? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin i swear that f9 sef una try lol grin grin grin

naijainfogalery:
Agric teacher Baba ajasco - he has bald head
Sport teacher - baba scratch card - he is found of scratching his thing like he has std
Mr slap - this man slaps you for no reason
Account - baba 90 - as slim as fela
Yoruba teacher - abokii - an Hausa man teaching Yoruba , u can imagine an Hausa man with his accent teaching Yoruba - 98% of the sch got F9
PoliticsRe: Overview of President Goodluck Jonathan's Government 2010 - 2015 by justmenoni: 2:18pm On Feb 08, 2015
Someone asked if naija's population hasn't increased ever then and we are quick to critize the poster..well to me the poster might be right and yes population increases in other part of the world and this is visible because they have a proper statistics in place which actually counts the number of people unlike nigeria where our census isn't properly conducted,Nigerians give birth to lots of kids and you can't compare the oyinbos with us nd in nigeria everyone will rather work in Lagos,PH,KD,ABJ while in western countries no one actually think in tht direction,you will see people living in NY looking for a job in Carlifornia but the situation isnt that way in naija even before the boko haram situation alot of people(that i know and some that i have talked with) from the south-west will rather keep looking for a job in Lagos and will only(slim cases) take up a job in other parts of the south west oo talkless of going to the North or eastern part and they have many reasons for this some will tlel you they dont want to miss their families while others will say they enjoy the lifestlye in their present area...so do we blame gej for this as well? and one day during a lecture,our professor actually said soemthing like anyone getting unemployment benefits are not really counted as been unemployed because the money you received is counted as income..as far as i know we haven't had unemployment benefits in nigeria even before GEJ was born and to me i think the major problem causing unemployment in nigeria is because we dont have a regulated or standard salary...lets assume the government said the basic salary or standard salary is 50k per month irrespective of the kind of job you are doing(this happen in the western countries that we are comparing to interm of population) then people will start getting jobs and you dont need to worry about working in the banking,education or health sector the issue is that you get paid well as well.....so in conclusion Rise in population might mean rise in unemployment especially if there is no good plan in place,some sountries in europe(don't wanna mention names) are cutting down on their unemployment benefits instead they are telling their citizens to learn a trade or work and establish themself and then they can get benefits which will get them to work and everyone saying popluation doesnt matter,if truly it doesnt matter and you are comparing it with western countries then why do you think the UK is having lots of immigration issues with the EU?
PhonesRe: 9 Potentially Misleading Smartphone Features Nigerians Fall For by justmenoni: 9:08pm On Feb 05, 2015
Op,one thing i can quickly agree with is the camera part of your post..i swear if you want to know the true scam then get a nokia lumia with 5 megapixel and any iphone with 5 megapixel..comepare the pics and you had think the nokia is perhaps 0.5 or 1 megapixel grin grin grin grin
AutosRe: Price Reduced: Just Arrvied Tokunbo: Volkswagen Transporter T4..650,000naira by justmenoni(op): 9:53am On Feb 04, 2015
Bros not possible nah when no be say i go steal am,clearing alone is 400k,so lets assume i even steal it(Lol) how about shipping..the last i can sell it is 600k

obicentlis:
Can you sell 500k, I pay immediately after inspection.
Nairaland General..... by justmenoni(op):
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: What An Excellent CV Looks Like And Know The Reasons Why! by justmenoni: 1:34pm On Jan 28, 2015
Op you mean if the person is applying for a job in nigeria? cos i know in some european countries specially germany you ened to put your pics on the cv..
RomanceRe: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by justmenoni: 2:53pm On Jan 25, 2015
so true bro,exactly my point...


GemB:
Almost every man's got tendencies of cheating "even you." While some men are naturally dogs , others do for different reasons. You don't want to be the one coming between your sister and her husband. It might turn against you in the future if she truly loves him.
I am not saying it's right but I am being realistic in advising you to suck it up(Swallow it) and act like it never happened.
You mentioned your sister is pregnant. Apart from pregnant women being all grumpy most times, not every man enjoys making love to their pregnant wife every time plus not every man can stay so long without sex.
You are probably not married so you might not understand my point of view very clearly. You might find yourself in the same situation in the future and just because you are lucky enough no one catches you wouldn't make you any better..
He respected you enough by leaving the club so be matured enough by not reporting to mummy and daddy hehehe or even your sister..
Let her catch him and decide and not you...
RomanceRe: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by justmenoni: 1:50pm On Jan 25, 2015
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin ok oooo but u know in our culture cheating men are a bit tolerated unlike their female counterparts,what do u think would hv happened be the op caught his SIL kissing another man even 10 years after 10 years of marriage to his brotherhuh? we aint oyinbo nah

precisionindepth:
its not actually good to eat same tin every time..u get bored
when the man is tired of only rice and he start putting beans or plaintain, I think whenever the woman is tired of rice too, she shd start putting vegetable soup with different meats cos vegetable can be so nutritious.
RomanceRe: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by justmenoni: 1:39pm On Jan 25, 2015
@Op in as much as i dont support cheating partners or cheating in a relationship or marriage...but after the incident have you ever take time to ascertain what could have led ur BIL to commit such act? of cos ur sister is a phd holder,career woman etc but that doesnt makes her a good woman,wait i didnt mean she has a bad character but Sex plays a vital role in any relationship and alot of women actually denies their men the right to sex especially during the pregnancy periods...why not take time as some other members have suggested and talk with ur BIL and see what actually is wrong cos from your description he is a gentleman but wait oo does it mean womanizers are actually not gentleman or easygoing?.. talk to your BIL and ascertain what is wrong..i understand the kind of dilema u found urself in..but there might be more to the story than you actualy imagine cos if i should understand ur post very well you dont stay with them(ur sister and ur BIL) and even if u do i blv u dont sleep in dere bedroom..i have seen lots of couples screaming that u canhear dere voices form the main compound but on getting to their door or entering their apartment you will find them laughing and pretending all is well....Please do ur best and try as much as u can not to dissolve their marriages and wait ooo if ur sister sef is looking for a oman woman kind of man then she hv to exercise alot i mean alot of patience cos we men thse days are actually cheaters grin grin grin grin ;Dlike my brother usually says you cant be eating rice everyday there should be time you have to eat it with beans or plantain grin grin grin grin
AutosRe: Sold Toyota camry bigdaddy Sold by justmenoni: 1:12pm On Dec 07, 2014
It's not funny the way you think you can go about and derail peoples thread,stop been dis stupid and senseless,when the problem start coming in that's when you will think its from your village or family without knowing you brought it upon yourself,is it possible to sell this kinda car for 480k,you are just so annoying and think you can go Scot free as if you own nairaland,just my advise for you please be CAREFUL..

angels09:
With engine priced 200k! Wtf! 480k last!
AutosRe: Registered 2003 VW Passat For Sale @ #410,000...08023295044 by justmenoni: 1:12pm On Dec 07, 2014
It's not funny the way you think you can go about and derail peoples thread,stop been dis stupid and senseless,when the problem start coming in thats when you will think its from your village or family without knowing you brought it upon yourself,is it possible to sell this kinda car for 200k,you are just so annoying and think you can go Scot free as if you own nairaland,just my advise for you please be CAREFUL..

angels09:
200k
AutosRe: BMW Selling Fast by justmenoni: 12:57pm On Dec 07, 2014
He is jobless and a scam so his number is always on even at midnight cos he is looking for a potential customer to fall prey..ask him if he owns this car? is he a car owner? BE CAREFUL and don't loose your hard earned money to some illiterates who are fortunate to get frei access to the internet...BE CAREFUL....HE IS SHAM.
AutosRe: Price Reduced : Just Arrvied Tokunbo ///: Toyota Camry..650,000naira by justmenoni(op): 11:10am On Dec 07, 2014
justmenoni:
Arrived from Canada.Toyota Camry 99 Model..650,000

For viewing,test drive kindly Email: yemyem80@yahoo.com or Call On: 08023876986

Location: Mushin,Lagos-State.

Lagos Cleared ,Tokunboh never used in Naija..
AutosRe: Price Reduced : Just Arrvied Tokunbo ///: Toyota Camry..650,000naira by justmenoni(op): 11:00am On Dec 07, 2014
Bros try it again or better still reach out on this one: 08170284451 its my dads line as i am not around the country...

emistephen:
@op, your number is not reachable. How can I reach you? Respond asap
AutosRe: Price Reduced : Just Arrvied Tokunbo ///: Toyota Camry..650,000naira by justmenoni(op): 10:57am On Dec 07, 2014
Sound urgent? how do i need to sound urgent,can u elaborate out ur point or u just probably want to derail the post?

angels09:
Guys be careful he doesn't sound urgent as indicated here!

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