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lmao!

I understand what you're saying, but you're still missing the point.
Although the presence of the hymen in most cases is a valid indication that a girl is a virgin, there are other cases where girls tore their hymen during extensive activities.  Female athletes for example.

If you have some articles to explain what you're trying to get at, post it and I'll kindly read it.

lol, KulaShaker goodmorning abeg, let's go back inside our poor huts and not stink up this place for the richards.

Oh, atutupoyoyos, defender of the rich and defenseless.
Ok first talk of pot calling the kettle black, telling me to leave stupid little brats where they belong, and then used that opportunity to apportion some blames on rich guys as well.  
Of course they care that I feel how I feel about them because anytime I make mention of it to about 1 or 2 of them they get teary easily, or they get defensive.   Reading Shits like this would make their dumbasses cringe even more; are you one of them, or does it sting or what.  They are also used to everyone kissing up to their filthy butts and carrying their umbrellas because they're rich. when you tell them you come from a poor family, or a working-class family, look at their facial expression, it makes you want to pull their fake hair off.  Indeed some of these girls need to be put down, they haven't shed an ounce of tear worth a Dicklick in their lives.  The stupid heffers have never heard the word 'no' they always get what they want, no matter the cost.  They should be carted off into space so nobody would have to listen to them rub it in about their gucci purse anymore. Oh, and the way they talk, the prissy dolly little bleeps.  Matter of fact, If only everyone would want a piece of their wealth now.  Most of their parents bleeped-over innocent people to make that money anyway.  Their kids don't have to work for, or earn what they want, they get it just like that.
The rich who work for what they have i admire completely, they know how much hard work one has to put in to get there, and they respect others who work just as hard to make a decent living. i just can't stand the ones who have it, have not worked for it and then expect everyone else to bow down to all their hedonistic needs, they make me sick and quite frankly i would rather live out of a box than have that attitude.
And please, let's not talk about the aje butter kids in Naija. holy, holy, holy, merciful almighty.  Bunch of weak vulvas.
Please don't open me up a can of words waiting to lunch.

Michelin, put a lid on it, go read some books, educate your mind.

Just admit you're daft and move on. I said I think it's due to warring, (T or F) and Debosky said true, keep whining!

By the way, I'm still waiting for someone who has been to this ceremony and according to Laudate's source, it's the most important ceremony in the life of a child, this source is credible indeed.

If you weren't so gay you wouldn't be asking that lame question. You said you think it's due to warring, and that somebody else already answered your question, so why did you have to continuously ask it plenty times after?
That's not the real reason why you asked why the tribal marks are needed, you're just an egocentric, tribalistic punk with nothing better to do with his time, you Fucking tool.

i think you meant migration your dumbass.
obviously, you MUST be brain dead and therefore your little brain is not worth me giving you more than this response that I've given. i would have liked to sit here an educate you, but evidently your little brain would not comprehend a damn thing, so no use. effin retard. hissssssssss.

No, it's clear you need a Dick inside you tonight,  if not you would realize I actually meant migration your bitchass, you loose 16-year-old hooker.
Now I don't expect you to respond to this till tomorrow since it's past your bed time, but who is brain dead between you and I? You just wasted about 4 lines in that little post to whisper sweet nothings.  Since your pea-sized brain can't understand what I was trying to tell you, let me break it down in laymen's terms for you.  -Igbos aren't located in Nigeria alone.-
Stupid wench, go ride the yellow bus.

You're realy an idiot, they have the marks for ID purposes but Donzman iswondering why they needed the marks in the firs place, probably because they're warring alot. Got it?. . .Mumu!

Ok keep on crying me a river, sister.
Since you've concluded that it's probably because they're warring a lot stick to that conclusion, golugo.

chichi81:
Igbos are the most Achivers in Africa.

The inventor of the internet, Phillip Emeagwali,

2007-02-23: No one person invented the Internet as we know it today. However, certain major figures contributed major breakthroughs:
"What about Philip Emeagwali? Wasn't he a father of the Internet?"
http://www.boutell.com/newfaq/history/emeagwali.html
No. Emeagwali did supercomputing research in the eighties. But his work did not relate to the Internet in any meaningful way. He contributed to no Internet standards, major or minor. Unfortunately he has made public claims that suggest he contributed to the development of something he had nothing to do with. For more information and complete references, see my article Is Philip Emeagwali a "Father of the Internet?"
http://www.boutell.com/newfaq/history/inventednet.html

Bob Kahn and Vince Cerf were more accountable for the invention of the internet than Phillip, and even those 2 downplay their achievements.

Bodeya abi o.

Bodeya is that a yoruba name, na wa o, never heard that one b4.

10 char.

Seun is an extremist.

Girls without hymen can be virgins.

The presence of Hymen does not "tell all," especially with the reconstruction surgeries that have popped out of no where.

I said it's a silly comparison, I don't know how it dragged on this long.

The hymen which is situated inside the vagina is what says if a lady is a virgin or not!

Chick without a hymen can claim to be a virgin.

I was just trying to figure out why people will try to mark themselves on the face for identification, Dumbass!

That question has been answered over and over and over and over again, Bitch!

10 Char.

Don't thank me, thank carrmish. The dude always lets it be known, true talk.
but nonetheless, you're very welcome.

How can I flatter myself when you flatter me. .
There's no wrong in that.
10 Char.

Oh kulaShaker thank you darling.
if you were on yim i'd message you right now
10 Char.

Emphasis was(is) heavily placed on virginity in some societies, that's why many people consider it dignitary.
Dignity and Virginity are not synonymous but they can be linked.

Dignity:
the quality or state of being worthy, honored, or esteemed
A high rank office or position; a legal title of nobility or honor
formal reserve or seriousness of manner, appearance, or language.

The reason they're interrelated is that virgins feel their virginity gives them a sense of self-respect, pride, and self-worth(which they consider dignifying).

Being a non-virgin does not disqualify you from having dignity.
Dignity or Virginity? Silly comparison, but I'll go with you already know.

Ok I will refrain from asking your name then, perhaps the public forum isn't a very welcoming venue for you to share it.

Sarcasm I'm disappointed.

Personally, I very well think there is a perfect guy, but the thing is, he would be perfect for me.

PTB good talk.

Of course it's based on his cultural considerations, probably as a Nigerian man. Not that some Nigerian men don't marry women that have already given birth.

By father father, he means the biological father of the child(ren).

The she in this scenario is the money.

You can be the new she, what's your name, lol.

Kulashaker your new hero? aren't I a little out of your range. Age wise or nationality wise.

Don't blame him for something you perpetrated

> 10 Char.

Bottom line--if I sleep with a woman I don't know or care about SEX is NOT going to make me care. (I stopped doing that years ago) That kind of sex is like scratching an itch. Once a man scratches, he's through. He ain't sitting around thinking about that spot that itched or how good it felt scratching it. He's moving on with his life until that spot itches again and it don't matter which hand he scratches it with, just as long as he gets rid of the itch.

Too many women PRETEND they can handle a sexual fling, but wind up getting caught up and wanting us to romance and wine and dine them and pretend we're having a "relationship" when it's NOTHING but a booty call. Come on, ladies, y'all know I'm telling the truth.

Unfortunately, ladies, you are part of our problem. You sleep with us BEFORE you know us or what we're about. Having sex with a man does not automatically make that a "relationship". Many women will deny they think like thi s but I'm speaking from personal experience. Also, ladies know when their men are fooling around and still turn a blind eye by getting mad at the other woman. Now, what kind of sense does that make? Why should that woman make YOU (a total stranger) a priority in her life? IF HE DID NOT MARRY YOU HE IS STILL SINGLE.  The "other woman" is not breaking up a "happy home".

Many women marry men who were cheating BEFORE they walked down the aisle and then are SHOCKED that a fancy wedding dress or an expensive walk down the aisle didn't change who he was. Why should he change? YOU let him know it was acceptable by sticking around that long.

Ladies, start living with your eyes OPEN. Most shady men give themselves away one way or another, usually before the first 30 days. Women have to stop "rewarding" unfaithful men by pretending it ain't happening. All of us BM do not cheat. I do not cheat on my lady so don't buy the hype. I know other BM who do not but many men WILL che at if there are NO real penalties for it.

Stop jumping into bed with brothers YOU DON'T KNOW. That means fewer opportunities for men to cheat. Women have to STOP being so afraid to ask the important questions that would reveal his TRUE lifestyle. Worry LESS about what kind of job he has and what kind of car he drives and encourage him to talk about his past, particularly his past with women. OPEN those ears and listen. Does he put down his ex-women and blame them for everything? And don't be so vain. You are NOT a better woman than his last. If he dogged her out, you will probably be NEXT. 

Observe him when you are with him. Do you have his home number? Work number? Have you seen where he lives? Where he works? Is he secretive? Did you ask if he's married or engaged? How does he treat other people? Listen to what he says, NOT what you want to hear. Stop INTERPRETING the meaning of what he says to fit your purposes. If he says, "I'm not lookin' for nothing right now" -- DON'T tell yourself, "Aw, he just scared of getting hurt. I can change his mind, " NO YOU CAN'T. He said exactly what the hell he meant. BM don't have to lie when so many BW are already DEAF.

If you can't answer BASIC questions about a man DON'T OPEN YOUR LEGS. I could kind of understand back in the days when sex wouldn't KILL people but now? there's no excuse and if a BW takes that huge risk of sleeping with a STRANGER then she better protect herself -- sexually AND emotionally.

Show our azz the door if we pressure you for sex too soon. Don't be afraid to be alone. After you give our azz some you will probably be alone anyway but now you feel like a fool. In other words, take your time and check us out. if we REALLY like you, we'll stick around. BUT if you decided to sleep with a man you hardly know, PROTECT yourself and keep your expectations to ZERO. We do not owe you a relationship or another date just because you had sex with us. That's not how it works, ba by.

I have TOO many female friends who give me horror stories that could have been avoided if they'd done their homework first OR moved SLOWER before giving up the undies. I try as a BM to give them the best advice I can but that won't mean a damn thing if BW continue to live in a dream world. You are TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE for your own sexual behavior the same as I am. Blaming the man won't change a damn thing. BW have to look in the mirror and take SOME of the blame for what's wrong with BM/BW relationships. Let me end by saying,

SEX DOES NOT = A RELATIONSHIP

GIVING A MAN A READY-MADE FAMILY WILL NOT MAKE HIM COMMIT IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO

A MAN WILL NOT RESPECT A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT RESPECT HERSELF OR HER BODY

IF YOU TRADE SEX FOR MATERIAL THINGS YOU ARE PROSTITUTING YOURSELF

IF HE DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS OTHER CHILDREN WHY WOULD YOU HAVE A BABY WITH HIM?

IF YOU REWARD A DOG WHY SHOULD MEN STOP BEING DOGS?

BRING MORE TO THE TABLE THAN YOUR BODY. NO YOUR P*ZZY IS NOT MADE OF GOLD. IT IS ONLY AS GOOD AS I THINK IT IS. BELIEVE THAT.

BW are going to have to raise their standards if they expect BM to do it. The question is, are my beautiful BW up to the challenge? Are you willing to be strong and stop taking the easy way out? Ladies, ladies, ladies, hit me back with some truth, not some bullshyt. I don't want to hear: "What you said don't refer to me 'cause I got my shyt together and I'm a proud black woman who intimidates men and I never made no mistakes, it's those other women who do things like that."

No, no, no!  I don't want to hear you putting yourself on a pedestal because I KNOW you've made mistakes. I want you to hit me back with some TRUTH. What are BW going to do about these shady, shaky relationships that wind up in divorce court 60-70%% of the time, that's if we bother getting married at all? What are BW going to do DIFFERENT to make this shyt better? Hit me back, ladies.