true talk.

I have met just two, one was my ex and the other was a good friend. My good friend gave me an inspiration way back in 2003 when i had my father's pension (15million buck, my dad worked for an oil company). I didn't know anything about stock but that was a life changing experience. I had to learn by force and i was surprised when she won't leave me alone, then we were both in our final year in the university.


Now we are miles apart and she is happily married with pickins, i will always remember her for as long as i live. Believe me she contributed to part of my success (i made my own money too).

the money invested on stocks wayback now give a yearly part-time wealth of Bleep millions (dividend).

Y
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S

as long as i can afford it. One of my close pal did that when he was getting married but in his case he built one for his wife's mother.

china is already overpopulated,

i know nigerians are there strictly for business.

but anyone could find himself/herself in unusual situation and that definitely means you have to face the consequences of your prolong stay.

nigerians especially suffer alot when they travel out of the country (with that niger passport), we are well known for scams and drug trafficking.

how i wish our government could make this country a better place.

my smile


@victorian

wow!

sistawoman:

Thank you. No i am not Nigerian I am african american.

hard to believe,

but you act like you are one of us.

sistawoman:


so it is like putting mins on your phone here like a pre-pay account?

Do they offer post-pay accounts?  Like you get a monthly bill and pay that but your phone never goes off?

No

me i no know oh!

keep it up girl, get some poems online


when you don get tired, you go know wetin you go do.

@opelovely


i won't be where i am today if i have a low IQ.


i am grown so i won't trade any harsh word with you.

i know it's a tough decision to make when it involve someone you love.


but

are you sure he loves you the way you do.

if yes then do what you think is the best for you.

i know you love him so it's out of it if you end the relationship w/o getting your things back.

@post

i don't understand why she won't return his missed calls.


all these are based on suspicion.

tell him to come to Lagos and look for a job. That will solve all his doubts

assure him that getting your things from his place doesn't mean that you will be dumping him. If you can convince him enough then there won't be any trouble. It's a game and if you play along, you will definitely get what you want back from him.


i don't really agree with calling the police. it's not a rape case or something.


just my opinion

you said it here

beautyfine:

i need a second opinion (am not sure i truly love him before now)

so what do you want to hear again?
do u have all that time to wait until he get his acts together?
if you don't love him then get out of the relationship.

tope2000:

we also chicken

menix:

They don't only beef dey also Pork,

@desiree1


hey you made a mistake by leaving your email on your profile.


trust me, most guys on nairaland are single and searching so you will get loads and loads of emails and IMs

where you get your stat from?

it's better your heart hurts right now than later. You have to make a choice and that means to face your studies and take good care of yourself. Good men will come your way so don't get stuck to him, he lied about the other girl. what else do you want to hear?


sistawoman and topup will help with their advices.

he won't want to let you go so he has to hold on to your things.

@desiree1

hey is that the[i] real[/i] you on your profile (pic)


damn!

you look so gorgeous

Fighting the other girl off won't change anything. You know you love him but what about his feelings for you.



advice:
Move on with life and forget all about him before you regret it.
don't be fooled by the marriage thing. He's trying to deceive you by promising to marry you, face your studies and learn to be independent. Other good men will come your way

don't listen to your heart

@michelin89

sadist? i fear small oh

that word is under-rated


i believe you don't really mean it.

@post

a bad cook can always learn to be a good cook while body odour can also be taken care of,


other qualities should be considered when making a choice. It varies for different individuals

@geolabious and tope2000


una wan start again?



na wah oh!

@forbidden5





serious talk

a house for sale
2 children involve
intruding mother in-law (mistake made by buying the house in his and mother's name)
confused husband
frustrated wife


the children will be affected.


where will all this end?


if she want peace in her life, she should just walk away (for a while) or else the problem will be settled in court.

75k USD is tempting but all parties involved won't just let go.

@tope2000 and geolabious


if na play make una stop am

@moyola

i know it's not that easy but he can't file for a divorce (on what ground?)

maybe he's intimidated by the big privates he saw on that scene. Inferiority complex could set in and he may be afraid he won't live up to expectation.

He has to get over it or get use to it.

He should learn to get over it.

There is nothing he can do about it or else he will be unhappily married for life.

It is a difficult situation, as long as the wife is not pregnant or infected with HIV or STDs.

marriage is for better for worse.


i know a similar situation where the wife got pregnant and refused to abort the pregnancy. Her reasons was that she has vowed never to kill any baby from her womb (did i get that right?). This was a serious case and the husband couldn't handle it, so divorce was the final solution to their problem.

Time will tell.

He gave you the go-ahead to inform him if you find another man.

that is a clue that he is not sure if he has a future with you.

Wait and you will find out.

shine your eyes well.

She lied about her past so why are you still confused?

i dey 'dig' diamond and fidelity bank type.


@poster

nice one