@poster

no big deal, even if you are still a virgin at 70!

@jennykadri and karmamod

I'm not saying i don't want to get married to her but i just want to hold back for a while. My girlfriend's has been with me for 8 good years (way back in our undergraduate days). Not my fault for my decision but she made a mistake 3years ago and she is still paying for it. I should have been married along time ago but her mistakes kept my proposal on hold so i had enough time to think about my future. Guys are begging and asking her for marriage but she won't want anything to do with all of them. I bought an engagement ring in Jan while i was on trip to europe but i change my mind (due to some other reasons) and i didn't propose to her, not even now and she is getting restless and scared'.

I like her alot (i don't want to use the word 'love') and she has got all the qualities i wanted in a woman but i can't just give up my freedom and spend the rest of my life with a woman. It is boring and complicated.

learn to trust.
take some time and pay her a visit w/o informing her.

@post

from a year older and above

Capital No,

no sex? (you don try ooo)

religion is not a barrier but you have to find other faults apart from sex and her church so you can make up your mind about her. I believe 5years is long enough for you to know what you want.

some people call it 'catch them young' but it is a case of serious child abuse.

@15 she should concentrate on her studies but with distractions from a 28 yr old, i doubt if she completed school with good grades. It is even a shame to walk up to 15 yr old girl and ask her to be your gf when she know that you could be her big bros.

marriage!

i can't help it but it can be boring sometimes. The same woman all the days of your lives?. I get bored easily and i'm finding it so difficult to make up my mind about getting married to my girlfriend of so many years ( i hope she is not on NL).

I love being single but people will always be curious about your status especially when you are doing very well.

@poster

too bad.

14k gold ring is the standard (at least) for any average engagement ring. (unless the guy is seriously loaded)

Na common/fine/exclusive she wan chop?

dump her,

kick your brother's ass and make him regret his action, i am sure he will want to do it again if he has another opportunity with other girls that comes your way.

there is no love in sharing.

@poster

hey and missing you are totally wrong, at least you should have shown some respect to your girlfriend's mom through that text msg.

apologise to your girlfriend's mom and her sister.

Moderators on nairaland, allow naawee to post on his thread!

don't worry naawee, the moderators are listening and will do something about it.

Tranngirls:

Ujujoan what is your problem i hate it when girls like you
start your crap.Playah P i know that we women are crazy
people but as a man we need you to be our hero and if
you fall we will comfort you( at least i will). So hang in there
as Sean Connery said in THE ROCK "loser always talk about
going their best but winners go home and mess you prom queen"

;

Ujujoan:

Meaningless post

really?

hmm,

you are not really sure about Kelvin's feeling for you. Lust can be terrible sometimes so you have to deal with it.

You didn't tell us if Kelvin is committed to another girl or not, your case is a lil complicated because if you make the wrong move you are going to loose big time.

you said time is running out? don't use that as an excuse to dump your boyfriend for Kelvin.

waterworks:


last night i had a dream about him and things got heated up for the first time only to wake up i find out it was a stupid dream. this has motivated me but i don't know how to approach it or what to do help ive held it in for so long and now time is running out. if i dnt get a piece of this guy i will never rest!

my own view:

do something about your lust and work on your present relationship, if it will work then make it work.

if you can't, talk to Kelvin and make him give it to you (at your own risk)

@playah p

it is not easy my brother

but you have to take am easy.

serious wah oooo

anyway, e get as e dey be

hehehe

Chelsea vs Aston villa will be the decider this sunday.

Scolari made a mistake by not signing a good striker before the transfer window closed.

Anelka and malouda should be loan to Westbrom or Stoke city. I don't see any reason why Malouda deserves a place in the starting XI.

Joe cole-injured
Drogba-may be injured (lost his form)
malouda-complete waste of weekly wages
anelka-can only pounce on loose balls and goal keeping errors
essien-out for six months
ballack-not impressed at all
Lampard-had his best playing days under mourinho, he lost it all. I can't imagine the last time Lampard scored a free kick or a long range shot. Look at Gerard
Di Santo(s)-what is he doing on the bench?
Scolari-time will tell if he is good or not but with Portugal he wasn't that good.
abramovich-waiting patiently for another opportunity to kick someone's ass out.


Chelsea Vs Aston Villa will be a cracker.

give her some time and don't just let her go,

it is part of the game for ladies to act that way

play the waiting game and make the right move at the right time.

What is (was) your (the),
First name: Kay
Gender:Male
Favorite food(s): rice and dodo
Favorite color(s): white, blue
Future child's names: none
Sign or b-day: cancer
Favorite number: 7
Biggest fear: failure
Favorite quote: Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.
Obsession(S): none
Addiction(s): English premier league (EPL), beautiful women, making money, lil alcohol, cars
Biggest turn off: dishonesty, insecurity, low self esteem
Biggest turn on: (lips sealed)
First thing you notice in the opposite sex: smile, attitude
Last book you read:Steve Nison's Candlesticks Methods and Anything by Toni Turner


Preferences,

Chocolate or vanilla: none
Hot or cold: it can be hot, it can be cold
Coke or Pepsi: coke
Truth or Dare: Truth
Rightie or Leftie: Rightie
20/20 vision or glasses: 20/20
Big or small:


Do you,

Speak another language: yes, a lil bit of french, hausa, hindi
Own your room or share with sibling: own my apartment and very soon my house
Have a sibling(s): 4
Think that God should be male or female: no
hink that God should be male or female: no
Think that God should be white or black: no
Like your handwriting: not really
Type fast or slow: very fast
Think you're beautiful/cute: good looking.
Sleep with a stuffed animal("teddy bears" and the likes in case you don't know): No

Misc,
What is/are the thing(s) you miss the most: my undergraduate days in school
Are you straight/gay/bi: straight
Piercings: no
How tall are you: 5'8 (not tall at all)
How tall do you wish you were: 6 ft
What would you change about yourself: height
What wouldn't you change: Personality, my face

july 17th


any birthday mate around?

yes, they are all around.

almost every girl is romantic.

Tranngirls:

Well for we ladies that is not enough but for
guys it is alot cheaper that way

na wah ooo,

@post

Communication between loved ones is important if they live far from each other.

If the guy/girl is that busy and he/she can't call/text more than once/twice a week then there is a problem somewhere.

onyinye2:


I love being female cause we can truly do whatever a man can do and better.

i disagree

he can't kiss (teach him) and he can't last 5 mins,

i don't see any reason why she can't dump him, there is more to that relationship than kissing and fu*king for more 5 mins.

why quit in the first place?

if you are fed up, what else do you expect? no be by force to stay in a relationship when you are no longer interested.

Ladies have the right.

why?

to make the blame minimal.

if na guys first quit, you will hear all guys are this, all guys are that and general conclusion that guys are all the same.

4 years older

A Guy is ready for marriage when

-he has a well paid job
-furnished apartment
-minimum 1-2 cars,
-he lives alone
-phat wallet is always a plus

and he is ready to take up any responsibilities that comes his way.

all other qualities can be manipulated.