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fecon:
i are Luke for a wife to marry

This is very hilarious but come to think of it I think he is quite funny.

Ladies give him a chance u know such humour will enhance ur sex life.

The best reply has got to be mama-gee

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=378856.msg5282668#msg5282668 date=1263063234]What is this? [/quote]

adaphik:
These fellows have said it all, N101, Jaylone, George D, Mekana, YME, Redmanns, Pak & Kabna, KUDOS.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My brother thanks alot for your commendations.

Babes late twenties or early thirties is'nt late for a girl oh rather a lady. Now not a girl but lady meaning maturity. However as I always say life is not exactly a text book. Like when we get into a new job we undergo OTJT{on the job training ) you know just like when u are offered a job, they make sure u have enough skills to cope then they train you. So using that as a comparism ( although married life is deeper than marriage) but in some sense ensure you have some level of maturity (financial, academic moral, emotional, spiritual etc) call it skills knowledge or otherwise but have some level before u get into married life. you see the reason people express concern for ladies as they get older is the biological clock thing which is a valid concern.
u see am a biomedical scientist hoping to train in medicine and i know the chance of a woman giving birth to Down syndrome like kids and other complications in child birth increases with age especially around 30. So its better not to keep it too late. Plus you have no control over the entirety of ur life. finally in all ur ways acknowledge him and he will direct ur paths.

If I wasn't married I will have looked for u. ERR AM A HANDSOME GHANAIAN INTELLECTUAL WOULD IT HAVE BEEN A PROBLEM? NOT 4 ME XX.

Am 28 nd ma wife is 26

Gbawe hands down I was gonna give u this lecture but it seems ma boi Benny B has thoroughly educated u.

But just a little to add when Benny Boi talks about been a giant u should know the parameters that he is using to make this assertion.

Not about GDP or GDP per Capita, neither is it about population or geography but rather in terms of the working of social institutions and to a larger

extent the stability of a nation. perharps u didn't care to know but Ghana is currently the least failed state in africa ahead of south africa which is

ahead of you in GDP init mate?

This index is an objective analysis of everything including so called GDP, Land mass, population that affects the stabilty of a nation . so on that basis of that, Ghana officially is the best nation on the continent .

Below is the reference: do not take my word for it

http://www.foreignpolicy.com/articles/2009/06/22/2009_failed_states_index_interactive_map_and_rankings

Mrcrales have checked the reference I gave?

seefor urself.

the IFFHS is an independent body nd it uses the same criteria to grade all leagues.

nigeria's league is right behind protugal.

they assess how local teams far in international competitions like caf champions league.

i know my stuff.

THIS IS THE REF. WEBSITE U CAN READ MORE



http://www.iffhs.de/?b6e20fa3002f70d00ee2d17f7370eff3702bb1c2bb0e

FINALLY WEST AFRICA BEATS NORTH AFRICA TO THE BEST LEAGUE ON THE CONTINENT.

TOP 10 AFRICAN LEAGUES
                                                                    POSITION IN THE WORLD
                                           
NIGERIA                                                                          21
EGYPT                                                                             23
LIBYA                                                                              28
ANGOLA                                                                          32
ALGERIA                                                                          34
CAMEROUN                                                                     36
TUNISIA                                                                          38
ZAMBIA                                                                           53
SOUTH AFRICA                                                                54
MOROCCO                                                                      58
IVORY COAST AND GHANA TIE                                         63

VERY IMPRESSIVE FOR NIGERIA AMIDST ALL TE LESS PATRONISATION OF LOCAL LEAGUES.

I CAN SEE REALLY HAS POTENTIAL EVEN TO BREAK INTO TOP 10 OR MAY BE TOP 5 WORLD LEAGUES. CAN U IMAGINE WHAT THAT WILL DO FOR AFRICAN FOOTBALL?

Did God actually make the Blacks as slaves for the Whites[color=#990000][/color]?

my dear, God never did, u see i have a background both in theology and science so i think i can speak authoritatively on this. there is a twisted theology about Noah cursing his grandson Canaan when Canaan's father IE Ham discovered his father IE Noah's unclothedness and did cover him not. so it is wrongly asserted that blacks are descendants of Canaan and so that's the reason for our sufferring. but if you reasearch well ( eg mathew ashimolow) books u will discover this is a contradiction for many great architect even in the bible were blacks heard of Nimrod? notwithstanding idolatry is a curse and has its peculiar consequences of bondage. many of the very successful Western nations had their faith firmly rooted in Christianity and i believe in Jesus so it follows that the true gospel prospers nd their forefathers held on to it well whiles Africans sadly indulged in occultism. now it was present in the west also but u you see there were powerful Christians that emerged and were able to affect their nations. i can go on and on but from good theology books this notion of the black race is cursed is not true. Paul the apostle in the new testament was a jew. u see he spread the gospel to europe quite well talk of Greece , Rome, Italy, Macedonia all these nations were in Europe. so the Europeans were fortunate to have had the Gospel earlier and by their initial purefaith in Jesus even till today they follow god thoroughly and prosper but the gospel reached Africa late at a time when bondage was all over. did u know that even some tine in history and in the wet thee Re human sacrifices just as in some parts of Africa 2 day. the west is what it is today because of Christianity. please ask more questions this topic is elaborate i will pr fer lecturing talk in than typing amidst all the topographical errors.

Mr man (Tosin), i think u lack a great deal of knowledge about the black race.
right let me try to educate u but u will have to look them up otherwise it becomes too academic being a part of this forum ( i mean trying to reference every point).
first of all civilisation started in Africa ie Egypt. well the whites will want us to believe that oh it was ancient civilisation therefor it doesn't really count. But hey do u believe that knowledge is progressive?
remember when scientist thought the earth was flat then they later revised it?
also ever heard that no need to invent the wheel when it has already been invented just use it and come up wiv something else. so every civilisation and for that matter technological advancement has benefited from previous ones. now when i
Say Egypt u probably thinking Arabs yes but in those days there wasn't sub saharan Africa. and records will tell u that there wer dark skinned Pharaohs.
yes there was a lapse in increase of knowledge amongst the black race as tribes developed many became more interested in survival than anything else. tribes now dealt in trade. have u heard of the great kingdoms of the west African nations? Yoruba, ashantis Mali empire, Ghana empire Songhai empire and in south Africa the Zulus, these had their well developed states . it was the Lucky discovery of gun powder that the white guarded jealousy and mainly use it in slavery to alter African development. i will continue this another time

This thread has been interesting, funny and shows me that most of Africans at least Nigerians and Ghanaians ( being a Ghanaian myself) understand our problems but due to neglected leadership at all levels, the African continent is suffering.

Most people here know that wahala makes it hard for you to focus. Most of the African footballers will struggle in life till they peak between 24-30.

Eh its hard so they have to lie to make money at least big money in football.

The Africans born in Europe often it is their real age, why? because they have access to good infrastructure.

In Africa or poorer regions infracstructure hmmm is less to be desired.

Look at the north African countries, we know they have relatively good infrastructure including football than sub Saharan Africa so as you notice, most of their players hardly even travel abroad. Though playing in their leagues does not earn you big as Europe, it far better than sub saharan may be excluding south africa and others.


so the problem is to do with bad economic state . If economy improves, or if corrupt leaders stop being corrupt and focus resources where it is needed, the lie in football will decrease until we are apar wiv Europe when it might stop. Although some will still lie but my point is this issue is linked to our economic development.
i hope u see my point.

Jarus,

Do u even follow football?

did u even get ma reference?

At the time we played checz in the world cup, they were the second best ranked team in the world just behind brazil wiv the best keeper in the world peter checz, and strikers like Rosicky and other top players,

what is ur probllem?

what is the essence of fifa rankings?

daaaa.

in any case u will sit at home and watch classy football from Ghana. Ivory Coast and Gabon.

why are all you nigerians and cameroonians keeping quite?

all this talk about african football giants?

you leave on a different planet.

in the words of sepp blater : i quote in football today anyone can beat anybody.

BlacK stars we proved it when we beat the checz republic.

at the time checz were the 2nd best team in the world

you seem quite now.

well you will sit in ur nigeria and cameroun to watch classy teams from GHANA, IVORY COAST, GABON ETC.

MOUTH MOUTH YEYE BAD BELLE PEOPLES

in quite recent times and in ghana, the former 3 time african footballer of the year Abedi Pele's football team registered a ridiculous score

line against another local team, ( if am not mistaking it was around 40 goals to a single digit may be 1).

now i do not want any insulting comments such as oh only in omo ghana. stick to the subject. is it then possible for india to beat nigeria 99-1
may be not that goal margin but anywher around 40 will not be strange considering that in this 21st century a football match can register a goal margin of 40 -1.

now in this 21st century it is called match fixing. ( and indeed Abedi's team had to win huge to avoid relegation) so they did that.

in the past and indians been well noted for their juju, could have registered such huge margin.

now get me right not the exact scoreline of 99-1 but perharps a huge one like pele's so an where from 20-2, 30-1, etc.

you know africa and for that matter humans as information spread, it is mixed wiv humour and all kinds of motives. so eventually 20 or ten might become 99.

in my opinion, i will not doubt a huge margin but rather i will dispute the exact score line.

thats what i mean by ther is likely to be little truth in that story.

eh here we go again wiv a ghana and nigeria comparisms.

well nigerians or perharps most nigerians need to know that there is little to choose between nigeria and ghana.

hey thare are slums every where even in america may be not canada. however the slums in the west are relatively better than the slums in africa ( even our most developed south africa).

its is ur empty pride ( some nigerians) that blinds u to acknowledging good things let alone seeing good surrounded by bad as the case is in both nigeria and ghana.

i can go on and on but the bottom line is there is little to choose betwen ghana and nigeria

wasup ya;ll

a fellow Ghanaian mentioned that before ghana must go ther was nigeria must go.

to be honest i new nothing about this untill i came to the uk. from observing nigerians and ghanaians on the whole i was curious as to the reason behind the rivalry.it was only then then i got to the bottom.

peoples experiences have it that the ghana must go was horrific and very demaening hence it was of interests to the international community.

however the nigeria must go was quite civil and received little ineternational attention.

mostly the negative sentiments that ghanaians have towards nigerians are fuelled by nigerians themeselves.

nigerians or to be fair some perharps most have a very ugly opinion of ghanaians.

1. they are ugly looking

2. short

3. unintelligent

4. very dark ie black ( dark a complexion. people who use this argument have an inferiority complex when it comes to skin colour thats why they think black or dark skin is ugly) i wonder do they even know the numerous benefits of melanin?

no individual on earth wants to be put down

so an advice for reasonable nigerians. if u treat people as u want to be treated , perharps there will be peace.


am not hear to talk much 4 it is insane to be wise when everyone is insane.

but i am very ghanaian, dark skined, handsome, sexy smooth voice, intelligent, above all God fearing etc. ther are many of my kind in ghana and worldwide who are very ghanaian.

i attended a good school in ghana an am now a biomedical scientist.

i find it very disturbing( can never really fathom when i compare myself to all nigerians no that am in favor of comparisms being a cristian but in human selfish understanding, if i have to compare i do not see a single nigerian who is better than me) that some nigerians will look down upon me just because am a ghanaian but i know the time is here that GOD ALMIGHTY WILL ELEVATE GHANA as a nation for the sake of what him (GOD) expects from human beings created in his imag and likeness.

to be fair, am sure ther are some ghanaians who also have demeaning opinions of nigerians who also need to repent.

any way this is a football topic

and the fifa record says it all.

ghana on head to head record with nigeria: we beat you and wiv cameroun we beat them too. infact we beat any African coubtry except the pharohs of egypt AND BAFANA BAFANA OF SOUTH AFRICA. SO WHY DOES A CAMEROUNIAN THINK GHANA IS NOT A STRONG AFRICAN FOOTBALL NATION AND HENCE DOES NOT EVEN THINK HE HAS TO COMMEND GHANA.

simple ghana is not better than nigeria

accra may be better than lagos but lagos is changing u know

abuja fab better than most african cities.

lets hope its stays so or even improved.

kumasi is not fab.

in ghana the only city i will perharps be proud ofis Accra.


it can do better.

but hey accra is a modest city of 5million people .


lagos about 20 mil.

but i love accra more than lagos .

is ghana better than nigeria?

i dont fink so

is nigeria beter than ghana?

ehh no'

guys which one amongst u will like to be dictated to after having acquired so much knowledge either through experience or schooling?

i know i want to live a free independent responsible life.

it is not the democracy whether western or otherwise whcih is the problem, it is the participants.

to be humanly honest, democracy has a better chance of succeeding where ther is a majority, ( i mean ethnic group, religious group, intellectual group< some class groupins etc)

it is still likely to excel in highly fragmented societies but might take longer. u will reaslies that where democrayc is working, the masses are been united around some philosophy eg, american, westerner, arabian, muslim, christian, the commonest one being the nationality of the people )

in addition, civil liberties are also been protected then democracy survives.

its is not democracy which is on trial , it is the self ineterests of partcipants that makes it unworkable. hence we should seek ways of reducing self interests and seek to promote patrotism service to others and the good of humanity. these values are the life of any system of government in cluding democracy.

ayanfe u are describing precolonial days.

u seem to forget that cultural values are dynamic and as a result of global interactions the average african is diffrent now. societ is always evolving and its impossible for us to return to precolonial attitudes. thats why we must encourage this system of democracy. what u call westen style is no different from what we as africans inherently practice. yes ther are flaws to the system but that asa result of human fraitlities not the afct that it is western. we could have taken the sysetm and perfected it.

concensus building brouth about by objective reasonin and less prejudice as OBAMA proposes will lead to the majortiy making the right decisions.
the problem is the attitudes of the masses and leaders are self seeking. yes the westerners diguise this well but we are not good at hiding it in our democratic systems that is why its seems so obvious.

ayanfe good

what u have suggested id the western style democracy.

u are rewarded when people continue to validate u throuh the ballot papers either as a local MP or the President.

consensus bilding through diferent forms of dialogue. yes

but ayanfe

in africa corruption will not allow consensus building people will pay or buy their way through.

so ther is no problem wiv the western style system it is the people at the center of affairs and the attitude of the masses.


simply put wee need to embede good values in democratic systems only then will they work.

Do you know anything at all?  

yes i know a lot.

democracy is not a perfect system.

in heterogenous human societies one group, people will alays seek to outdo the other except ther is a commonality shared amongst majarity of the people. what democratic establishments try to do regardless of wheter it is wetern or otherwise is to cretae the need for objective analysis and the need to do away wiv prejudice. when those 2 things improve ( ie more objective awareness and less prejudice ) people are able to focuss on relevant issues in order to demand accountabilty. until a society reaches such stage, the quickest route to any meaningful thing been achieved is to unite people around a commonality say faith, human rights, culture or common intersets.

the western style we re practisisng is not very diffrent from what is practised any wher on earth. what we should be concerende abotu are pressuer groups in democratic systems and alos demand accountabilty. first we sholud ensure that our eloectoral systems are free and fair. then when leaders mess up we chane them. by this they will know they are accountable to us the electorate.

oga not all africa is democratic. democracy works best in places of heterogenous mix.

what alternative democracy do u propose?

this is what i mean by africa needs jesus not democracy,

democracy is workable if there is tolerance amongs different groups and enough objectivity without prejudice.

no tru democracy on earth in my opinion is admirable not even america for if it wer, many of the problems within that system would have been dealt wiv not manages as we see every where.

so is about what works.

wiv africa's issues wee need jesus not democracy

Africa needs Jesus not Democracy

remeber many of these established democracies are christian nations by origin u know.

democracy does not work it is faith that works but the question is which faith?

all the successful rich democracies are guess what chrictian nations.