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I WILL BE VERY GLAD IF I CAN GET INFORMATION REGARDING UNIVERSITY OF ABUJA IN RESPECT OF 2009 POST UME.

WILL REALLY APPRECIATE THE INFORMATION

its baffling me at the rate 0f deaths in daar communications.
why is it that every year or will i say less than six months someone dies in daar communication.
the list is becoming endless,
the correspondence in the senate that died abroad on official duty with the senate( shemenenge sende)
another that died (chriss Anokulu) the one that presents the Igbo programe ya kpo tu wa (dont mind my spelling)
the driver of Raymond Dokpesi just to mention a few.
INNOCENT PEOPLE JUST DIE EVERY YEAR.
THEY REALLY NEED PRAYERS

i feel that deliverance should be carried out in daar communication.

invisible
i agree with you that a woman needs the qualities u stated.
but how many of them are ready to do that?
thats food for thought>

Treat every woman the way she treats you at least that will reduce anger and trouble mind.

life is short so my fellow men Enjoy it to the fullest

different stroke for different folks if u can see the picture above.
the women are doing it happily and without complians

priest should not only give advice when it come to the biblical issues, the can still advice when it comes to the basic principles of living.

but when it come to the very delicate matters which they have little or no experience they should refer it to the more experienced adults of the congregation.

this is based on the principle that you cant teach what you dont know.

i will not say that you read a particular topic,

but be conversant with as many as u can.

you should know that the topics are kind of related.

make sure u are conversant with basic period because its the basis of most tax questions.

know your capital allowance calculations.

I wish you the best in the examinations.

make sure u believe in yourself and the ability that God gave u.

if I CAN u CAN

best of luck

i got qualified in 2002.

jjyou
kanayo is short form of kanayochukwu means let bet God, He will show us his goodness.

for me women should be responsible in marriage and carry their spouse along when they face any difficult or strannge situations

for me my parents did not make a choice of wife for me.

i still dont advice or buy the idea in which parents choose for their sons.

its always better that the man makes his choice and blames no one when it goes SOUR.

MAISUYA

Its better that your mum stays clear so that she does not have any blame form you, just in case u finally marries the onne she suggested.

JJYOU

who chose or wll choose yout partner for you?

for me my parents did not make a choice of wife for me.

i still dont advice or buy the idea in which parents choose for their sons.

its always better that the man makes his choice and blames no one when ot goes SOAR.

JJYOU

who chose or wll choose yout partner for you?

namum
i just see you are shallow minded and one tracked.

if u read the summary i had u will know i said am supportive.

i also said pregnancy should be used as a tool to get lazy and un-supportive at home.

After the Beinjin Conference in 1985 women tend to believe that they are equal to men:

Naturally you know that this is not possible.

God himself defined the Roles that a woman is a helper he didnt include the clause that said

(if pregnant she should not do anything)

Pregnancy as i said is not an extraordinary task for a woman to do,

its what she has been made for naturally.

by baba God himself.

when my mother was pregnant she didnt idle away cos she knew her duty.

if she were to be my sister i will tell her not to see pregnancy as a tool but as a way of accomplishing a purpose on earth

she should do her best in supporting the man by helping out in household chores and not idling away.

so if u think that once u a pregnant your husband has become ur MAID have a change of heart and get supportive.


JJYOU

WHY I NO GO TALK

i see you fight for the right of women.

remember that in Africa we have our cultural values

development should not erode that.

ask older women they will tell you that Pregnancy is not ment to make a woman lazy

but is what shows that u are a complete woman and the duties expected of you should be done.

remain focused and dedicated in all u do.

JJYOU u sound nice

i have seen all your responses.

naturally as expected most women are in support of being idale cos of pregnancy.

they forget one thing that its a natural for them to do.

nobody is telling them to do anything from the extra ordinary.

women that are lazy see pregnancy as an excuse to idle and lazy away.

but in all i believe in support which i give to my wife and i expect her to supportive in all she does.

what ever you want to talk about say it open

this will endeavour someone to know if he likes it or not.



so do the right thing

poster
if u dont know what to do please blow whistle

CHAIRCOVER
i really appreciate all u have to say
when it come to the house hold chores i will say i do most if not all.
what actually pissess me of is to come back and find nothing to eat while she herself is okay.
its quite annoying if u understand what i mean.
sincerely i appreciate that she is pregnant and patterns will change but there should communication from her own part.
you dont just keep quiet and think the other party knows everything.
i try to talk as much as i can but it seem that i talk too much so i decided to just be calm as i can

IFYALWAYS
she prepares her own meal
i have decided to take it very easy as i can by feeding well before i get home.
so she should not say i dont eat at home just in case there is a day she cooks

depends on what is rapr to you?
if he says he wants to do and u say no because uare flying the flag and he does it with you.

THEN JUST ENJOY IT

ilelobola
steppping up is ideal, but not for one party AL0NE
for u to step you have to be encouraged.
not being able to lift a hand bag when u where pregnant should also imply that u could not call when u were pregnant.
pregnancy might be very difficult and uneasy for the person carrying it but it should not be a REASON for LAZINESS and IDLING away.
let suppose it was the other way round the guy could not provide food while she is pregnant, i iknow HEAVEN will be let LOSE.
Now the case willnot be preperation but she can cook but no food.

Think about it.

treetop
if u step up your game cos she is pregnant there is nothing wrong with that.
stepping up your game doesn't mean that you should become her slave and she being pregnant Si not a ticket to laziness.
in a case you do almost every thing and come back from work and there is no food for you to eat all because she is pregnant, i guess to you that's nice?
so to step up your game u go into the kitchen immediately and start cookin cos u want t o still step up your game, that's crap
pregnant women still go to farm u know?

she shouldn't over work her self cos she is pregnant but that does not mean she she be lazy and take u for granted.

ilelobola
when it come to financial contribution she does not contribute.
you work your ass out to earn an income and come back from work your food is not ready.
the food not being ready is not because there is no food at home just that she doesnt want to cook
she has been at home all day
what then do u do?

responsibility a nice question u asked "that who was washing and cooking for the person?
if we go by what u said, some one was taking care of her too before she married, then the man has no responsblity towards her.

TreeTop
u agreed with what JJYOU said then food for thought for u,
if any one was responsible for an action before marriage he or she should continue after marriage
so encourage people you know not to help as they marry

chaircover
does early stage of pregnancy make a woman lazy?
if she is lazy with work will she still be lazy to call or explain issues to you?
i know pregnancy could be quite disturbing ,but it doesn't mean the person pregnant should use that as an excuse or what do u feel?
please educate me more?
i feel it will be better to play along and let the guy do his things himself, and do what ever he likes and she shouldn't complain because what goes around comes around.

ilelobola.
Ur cousin or aunt can be married for 14 years with out domestic disputes that doesn't mean all is well.
if your cousin likes cooking doesn't mean the woman should not know her duty.
she should be there to compliment the man.
or what do u feel?

the parties concerned actually put a lot of things into consideration and an agreement was reached but later breached what do u do?
as u wrote every woman should strive towards becoming a virtuous woman which is true , what then do u do as a husband when this doesnt happen.

i feel that a woman should reciprocate the effort of the husband and the husband the same to the wife.

i believe the duty of a woman is making sure that the house i well kept, and work in union with the husband for a good house and home

I keep on wondering whats the duty of a woman in marriage?
you marry a wife who does virtally notyhing at home,
she cant wash the bed sheet both of u sleep,
she cant cook
she doesnt wash your clothes and so on
when u coplain you u become the nagging husband.

so please nairalanders WHAT ACTUALLY IS THE DUTY OF A WOMAN IN MARRIAGE

keyene
can we hear or read your experience
we are all eyes

yes i have been cheated on emotionally and physically reason i dont know. i felt bad. i had to tell her openly that i dont like it and if she continues that it will be free for all.
i have cheated emotionally. by making her feel jealous. i felt bad cos i knew women cant stand to be compared with anyone else especially being compared to a fellow woman. i told her point blank what i did and apologized for the action.
to me emotional cheating is playing with heart of someone which creates agony for the person concerned.
physical cheating is doing what u promised not to do with your personlity e.g sex with another partner.

so secretz can we hear yours.
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Inspired By Pataki's When Is "cheating" Cheating! Have You Ever:
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Inspired by Pataki's When is "Cheating" Cheating:

Okay, fellow nairalanders, This has got me wondering,

Have you ever cheated on anyone emotIonally and/or physically? Why? How did you feel? How did you handle it?

Have you ever been cheated on emotionally and/or physically? How did it feel for you and how did you handle it?

How do YOU define  emotional and physical cheating?

Come on bros and sis, I want you to open up, share your Secretz with me and Secretz will share hers too with you!

maray
doing the wrong thing doesnt make u smart.
u dont have to wait until u are caught before u believe that what u are doing is wrong.
so please save your self postponed agony by doing the right thing.
being sincere helps a lot and make u principled and helps u cos u dont have to remember something to check how truthful u are

emotional cheating should not be handled alone in my own opinion.
this is because the person involved will never change since he believes it can be handled alone.
by so doing he gets too deep and gets to a point of no return which leads to the destruction of a relationship.
the best way out is to talk about it.
it helps

madam go for proper medical check up.
do u need a diviner to tell u that u should not marry the divorcee.

girl the cain dem take beat first wife na for untop wardrobe them they keep am for second wife incase she misbehave for easy accessibility

which do u prefer;
to be old and happy
or marry due to the mistake u know and be sad.
gilr try and get someone else for a serious relationship
tell the As guy the truth and save your self the agony

pataki emotional cheating can be handle by being
truthful
try not to be too emotionally involved or attached in the things u cant do openly.
and most of all trying to clear thoughts that makes ur heart skip

to me cheating is when u do what u cant do in the presence of the person concerned .
you dont have to have sex or talk but action can also be seen as cheating.