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playboy19:
Here we go again lol    '

Okay we've heard you miss ruler. You can as well come and take me to the altar.

The earlier you start facing the reality, the better for you guys. When it comes to men and women issue, it is purely a domino-cracy issue, not a democracy. Like one comedian rightly said, it's a dicky-dikk world.

The word is "dic-tatorship" not puxssy-tatorship

and to you Mr Chi-vita or whatever, they could applaud you all they want online and make your lil dikk rise, yet, they know deep down you're one of 'em puxxsys they've been craven for all their lives.

emmatok:
So who is always right and who is the husband.

Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything. (Ephesians 5:22-24)

[b] Sex - Sexual Intimacy / One Flesh Relationship - Cor 7:2-5; Eph 5:31; Gen 2:24-25

Without sex, a couple co-exist as room-mates, not lovers.

Leave her father and her mother

Sexually please her husband - 1 Cor 7:33

Meditate sexually on her husband - SoS 5:10-16; SoS 7:10

Desire him, respond sexually to him without embarrassment

2 Submission - submit to his authority and leadership as her covering, with heartfelt obedience

In everything - not only in what she chooses - Eph 5:24

As to the Lord - Eph 5:21; Col 3:18

Rebellion towards your husband is equal to rebellion against God who gave him the responsiblity to be your covering

Demonstrate your love through obedience from her heart

Remain under his "covering of authority" by submitting to him

Accept and respond to his evaluations and his correction

Be responsible towards her husband

Not dominate, manipulate, control, boss or scold him, nag, argue, against his delegated God given authority

3. Reverence - give respect and honor to her husband - Eph 5:33

Do him good and not evil all the days of her life - Pro 31:11-12

Honor him by accepting his leadership

Use words that honor him, not insult or depreciate him

Listen attentively to him, and remember what he said. It is important because he said it.

Make his priorites her own priorities

Not speak negatively about him to family members, friends or people at church

Ask for and value his opinions

4. Godly behavior - chaste and respectful speech - 1 Pt 3:1-6

Use words that are helpful, and without reproach, along with good behavior - Tit 2:3-5

Always rejoice in the Lord, and in the husband that he gave her

Not be fearful of anything nor anyone - (this is mentioned in the bible over 365 times)

Think on things which are good, true, holy, - Phil 4: 8

Not gossip, not complain

Avoid sinning

5. Support - a helpmeet - Gen 2:18

Helpmeet is a technical word used in the construction of buildings. The substance which is added around a column to strenghen it so it can support additional weight/stress.

Strengthen him by praising and thanking him for what he does for her

Encourage him through her actions and her words

Uphold him in ways that show her confidence in him

Raise her husband's self-esteem by delighting to spend time with him

Surround him with her haseed love - with all her being: body, emotions, mind, spirit

Fulfill well her other own responsiblities in the home (children, kitchen, housework, )[/b]

[b] Sex - Nuture their sexual relationship / Their Oneness - 1 Cor 7:2-5; Eph 5:31; Gen 2:24

Leave his father and mother

Enjoy and Rejoice with his wife's body - Pr 5:15-19

Please his wife - 1 Cor 7:33

Console (emotionally comfort ) his wife by lovemaking.- 2 Sam 12:24

Maintain the frecuency and passion within their sexual relationship

Protect them both from sexual tempatations

Faithfulness / fidelity to her in both his thoughts and his actions

Value and cherish sexual intimacy with his wife

Priorities - God is #!, Wife is #2, then come children, ministry, secular work,

2. Headship / Covering / Leadership / Authority delegated by God - Eph 5:23-24

Set aside his own wisdom in order to use God's wisdom

Be a responsible husband - passivity is sin

Teach his wife to be submitted in her actions, reactions, and choices she makes

Take the responsiblity and right to instruct and correct her

Provide positive and negative consequences

Not tolerate rebellion, manipulation , control, against his authority

3. Haceed Love - Love her with Haceed/gape Love - Eph 5:25-33

Help her grow and mature in her walk with the Lord/teach her His Word

Not be bitter towards her, forgive her - Col 3:19

Be best friends and lovers

Motivate her to become more godly

Have daily chats with her about issues before they can become large problems. Deal with these things - don't passively ignore them

Encourage her, praise her

4. Honor - Give honor to her, ask God for wisdom to understand her, pray with her- 1 Pet 3:7

Respect her as a gift and a treasure from God

Not look sexually at other women

Use good words towards her in agreement with the Bible

Ask for her opinions, ideas and thoughts

5. Provide for her and your children (financially, emotionally, spiritually)

Be the priest within your home - 1 Tim 5:8

Be responsible for her and the children

Know that what she wants is not always what she needs

Allow her to talk with you, and listen attentively to her. She needs to share her feelings with you - not bottle them up.

Provide whatever is needed in order to attend church services and activities, along with Christian fellowship with other believers

Iniciate prayer and Bible study in his home

Protection[/b]

Omolola1:
talking 2 moi?