Lol, someone is really asking this question? How many times should you change boxers? Dirty people!




And for those talking rubbish about women, your penis is far from your nose so you won't appreciate the extent of the smell that can come from your nether regions, I do not blame you. Men hardly shave and hardly wash their parts when they pee, not forgeting that you also have an ass, understand that there will be a smell that you cannot smell yourself. Your pen!s doesn't clean itself either, you penis is more likely to smell than a woman's. When someone is down there, don't assume it will smell like flowers when your pubic hair has captured all the droplets and smell of pee and precum. The main issue woman are most worried about is not the vagina, especially when they clean shave but the smell of ass, which every human has.

safarigirl:
you're basically saying "mind your business". It is because people don't want to criticise others with the excuse of 'judgment' that we have serial killers and abused women. If you feel a person is doing something wrong, you have the right to call her out because we will reap the fruits of that wrong. You mustn't be in a home to know a kid or a woman is being abused there, you make ASSUMPTIONS based on what you SEE, not cuz you're physically there. I expect someone like you to get that logic, afterall, you speak a lot of people being abused. Judging MUST be done, if I'm wrong, fine. Mercy can post a pic of her child's achievements to prove us wrong since she wants to post pix. If you don't want to be judged, keep your private life out of the public eye.

Utter rubbish! You cannot compare apples and oranges especially when you have justified abusers and many sayings, such as," She was walking around half-naked, that meant that she wanted it." This is in no way your business, you cannot tell a mother how to bring up her child. It is because of people like you, that causes others who aren't strong enough to kill themselves, judging and judging but I have learnt from experience that people who feel the need to judge are just not happy with themselves. You grew up to become part of the society that has restricted women for centuries, but I distress.

Are you saying that the child is being abused?
Even if a woman or child is being abused is it because you say so or because you have seen evidence of such abuse?
My point is, you should not be making assumptions, it is wrong to make assumptions especially of someone you do not personally know. So, you have been bestowed with the power to judge people? Mercy needs not do anything, who are you to her, for her to "prove" something to you? Upload achievements, you know, will that improve your life in anyway? What will she achieve from people ordained with the power of judgment if she does?
You see someone's daughter wearing weaveon and you accuse the mother of being a bad parent and accuse her of prostituting her child. Your perception of what is good or bad seems very skewed. As you grow up and have children, I know all this rubbish you are saying would have changed by then because when you do not have the experience, you can only look from the outside and act like you know when you don't know.

safarigirl:
you assume I had things handed to me. You never asked what happened after my mother's death. It has been 11 years since then, I may not be where she would want me to be, but I won't objectify myself to get anywhere. Mercy doesn't need to advertise her daughter in this manner, she has enough connections. Like I said, her intentions are good, but her methods are wrong. Don't assume I'm wealthy today, the death of a parent can change your life drastically.

I didn't assume anything, you spoke of your life during the time your mum was alive, I was referring to that time period. Do not take this wrongly, if you or your family have lost everything or not in the place you use to be after the death of your mother, then, brain power was not used in that aspect. I have not asked you to objectify yourself. What do you know of her intentions, do you live in her mind, the only person making assumptions here is you, assuming that she is prostituting her daughter. If you were taught so well growing up about integrity, someone failed somewhere, they failed to teach you about not judging people, being fair, not pointing your finger at someone and making them look like a horrible person just because you do not agree with the way they live their lives. You need to sit down and look deep inside you, you cannot dictate and judge how someone should live their lives when you do not know their struggles, your beliefs and morals will differ from another's.

For the fact that you may not be as wealthy as you were today should have taught you something. In cases like this people will sit and judge you behind your back, probably judge your mother for not securing her children's future when she had the money to do so. I am just giving an example and not personally directed to you but this is something that people with your mindset would have about people that have been or are in your situation. Whether the wealth was taken by relatives, government or whatever, that brain you so highly cherish should have been used to ensure that whatever or whenever loss may occur, the children's future should and must be secured no matter what.

safarigirl:

My mother's legacy wasn't foolish, material things like clothes or make-up, it was priceless things like a brain, integrity and dignity. She never trained me to get attention with my looks, but with my brain. If many mothers were like mine, the world would not be filled with slutty, gold diggers who are okay with being told they are pretty, but with little or no brain recognition

You may probably have had the opportunity to go through life because you have had things handed down to you and life has been soo easy for you but you shouldn't be sat there judging people just because you were lucky to be born with a mother who had something to her name and knew people.
If people can get by in life with their brains, what is wrong with those who do not have the brains and the only means of survival is because of the way they look? You can have either one or both. Do you think every single woman had the opportunity of growing up with sirens blasting away as they travel the streets of lagos? You were in a minority who had that opportunity so please don't look down on others for it. Do not spit on the struggles or achievement of women who only rely on their physical appearances. If you can go through life and achieve things with your pretty brain then let others who don't have a pretty brain achieve it with their pretty face. There is integrity and dignity in having a pretty face if one wants to, don't paint them with the same brush. Omotola you spoke of, I am sure it was her pretty face that started her journey to where she is today and possibly, her brain kept her there.

safarigirl:
weaves, make-up, clingy clothes....on a 14-year old? Who dey look the girl? Tomorrow people will shout paedophile, whose fault is it?

Has Mercy ever posted a picture of the girl's result? Every time fashion, hair, make-up.....she should go and ask Omotola how to train a daughter if she doesn't know how to. At least Omotola's daughter was 16 before men started dragging for her on social network and the girl was Head girl of her school. Genevieve has an adult daughter, people barely know what the girl looks like. Mercy isn't the only one with a pretty daughter, Omotola's own is even prettier and older, but we no dey see them.

Maybe this is how the Mercy's mother trained her before she had a child out of wedlock.


We shouldn't use modernity and the quest to be a chic mom to expose kids to a harsh world. This is not a good way to present your teenage daughter, this is the Kardashian way

Firstly, you talk as if you are uneducated, if you are to criticise a mother for her parenting skills, you should atleast be honest about your facts. You speak of modernity yet you as an African should know that before this so called "modernity" girls her age were given away, degraded and paraded around like cows for men to do as they please with them. This "modernity' is what has given you the opportunity to type this opinion of yours on this website.

Secondly, your first statement is now implying that it is a child's fault if she has been wearing weave, makeup or tight clothes before being abuse. I won't even call that statement ignorant because that is insulting to ignorant people who make ignorant statements out there because they do not know anything. It is a very stup!d and callous statement that reinforces the reasons why our society is not moving forward. It is because of women like you, women who find blame in the victim rather than the offender, you are the reason why men feel it is ok to take what is not theirs, to be justified in their actions because women like you condone it.

Thirdly, I do not think you are in any place to judge another woman's parenting skills as I do know you aren't a mother. I am neither here nor there on whether that child is right for wearing weave or whatever is on her face but if you were brought up in the right conditions, you would understand the needs of a teenage child. What is right or wrong for the child is up to the parents because they are the ones who live with the child and they are the ones who know the needs of the child. Each and every individual differ when it comes to parenting and you would know this if you had children of your own. I honestly do not think you are in any place to be comparing two women's parenting skills just because of what you see on the surface. What exactly do you know about omotola's children apart from what she wants the public to see online or mercy's child? You even questioned Mercy's mother just because mercy had a child out of wedlock? Do not pretend to be stup!d and stop being so free with words.

I think they should be thanking IVF, just saying.....

enstack:


I had to respond to you. Perhaps you are missing the point here. I never said he is too loving or something. If i am to write all the silly things he does in the name of love you wont even be able to read it all. I just put a few.

Even neighbors around have noticed it. They have called me to order many times! His elder sister accused me of giving him a love portion. Its that bad! You call this love? Then I'm sorry i don't want such love anymore. The other day, i asked him to purchase something for me, he had no money, instead of him to talk to me about being short on funds, he went to take a loan to get it. Something that even I dont need so urgently(He is still owing his partner for it)

So sir, read again and understand! Dont be to hasty in talking or commenting. Call me a girl, Its no big deal. After all, this same Man threatened to stand in the middle of the road if i dont accompany him on his field trip. This type of a man can commit suicide if i dont give him what he wants at a given time.

With many of the things you wrote, I did not see anything wrong with it but if from his behaviour you actually think like he would kill himself. This has turn to an obsession and it is not healthy. He will probably kill you and kill himself if you leave. Lol, you better change your mindset. Why don't you do exactly the same thing he does, reverse psychology and see whether it will help?

Divorce am na. He's too good for you. I mean, if he wants to take me to the hair salon and wait for me, let the people gossip who cares. Atleast, you have someone who will go with you to pick out your makeup or underwear at the store willingly without you having to drag them to come back inside.




On a serious note, it can be quite difficult for some people when they have friends or partners who are like the op's husband. We have a saying, "Korno man good don do". Too much good can become overwhelming and uncomfortable and not even relationships, in everyday life. There is nothing wrong with being nice but people like this do things on the spur of the moment without thinking about the consequences(e.g, you buy a dress that you think will make her happy but there are bills to pay at home). For people with independent personalities, people with such personalities can be very suffocating. Op, I understand where you are coming from but mate, you need to relax and understand that is how he is. Just explain to him that when you have important things to like studies, training or when he is at work, he needs to chill abit. If still you cannot handle it, I am sure there are women how there who can handle his love and affection. It has just been one year, you can still leave, don't be the woman to make him turn cold hearted and then he will be running around saying, women, aren't sh!t and treating women who would have appreciated the way he was like shyt.

charlemon:
People are too stupid nowadays. If you are living with her why can't you marry her. Marriage does not have to consist of all those unnecessary spending people do in recent times. Just see her parents, go to the court and marry quietly and continue living together.

Since you don't have money yet, you should not have kids yet. The situation still remains the same as before (living together till financial breakthrough). The only difference is that the sex is now right in the ways of GOD and she won't resist or refuse you.

When you people make money, you can have a celebration of renewing your commitment in form of a marriage. This is too F**king simple except you don't wanna marry her

Why you copy me?

If she wants to get married and you are ready too, go have a court wedding. You guys already live together, doing everything else, aren't you? You can still continue on your studies, work and she too can. You can hold on with the kids until you are both financially stable and if you want to celebrate your marriage, you can do so when the money starts flowing. It is not as hard as you want to make it out. I don't see the big deal. She wants marriage take her to court and have her on birth control for the next 4 or 5 years. If she doesn't want that, you go your way, she goes her way.

jomoh:
So what now happened.



Dirty girl. Defecating after bathing.

Lol

Find Friends to chat to and occupy your mind. Live your life, if you want, walk away.

Where was the father!!!! He's there blaming the mother, if you were home, I am sure the teacher won't have had the audacity to look at your daughter funny.

If you were not raped then it wasn't mistake. When you were screaming and moaning, you were not thinking about mistake.

[s]What do you mean by you don't want to be like other girls? Mate, other girls don't want to be like you. You are the one that got duped. If you aren't a beggar, a beggar man should be a complete turn off for you, not you trying to prove sh!t. [/s]

Fake story

I don't understand this picture, so because you won't go with your riches, you must now live in poverty or not even bother at trying to live a life filled with success? Na wa, this should even motivate people to be successful and live life to the fullest because at the end of the day, you don't know what will happen when you die. Enjoy your time and when your time comes, all your possession will move down to your next generation to also enjoy life to the fullest. It will be a great regret if I was to go to my grave, knowing that I have not enjoyed the most of this world.

Anyway, whether you help people with your success or not that is between you and your GOD when you die, if there is anything like an afterlife.

bjprodint:
Make she dey tie wrapper because she don marry?abeg free d woman.lovely dress!

I agree with you but the actually dress doesn't suit her shape.

Bini, yoruba, igbo, to outsiders, you are all Nigerians and that's what I see in that video. Nothing really to see there, just Nigerians with no regard for human lives killing each other as usual.

PunkyVeer:


Whaaaaa? 22!!!!!! If that's 22, then I'm an embryo

Congrats though

Lol....

sukkot:
mad man. am sure if it was a black woman he would have pushed her in front of the bullets lmao

Lol...

I feel somehow about this. Was he fed up with life? Some black men sef.

TonyeBarcanista:

Bros, you say wetin?

This is great injustice to men folks

Show me exactly where boobs without a bra are suppose to be stand. Diagrams and pics will help.

TonyeBarcanista:

Guy, I never dictated to her, neither did I condemn her. I only stated the obvious that "Her Olympus has fallen". Is it not glaring? Or don't I have the right to make my own observation? Perhaps, there would not have been need for the comment on her fallen olympus if she hadn't worn that outfit or something revealing.

She has her inalienable right to wear whatever she likes(which I respect). I also have my right to comment/observation. Abeg, no change am for me jare.

Where exactly has olympus fallen? It's not suppose to stand right underneath her chin.

You people are such hypocrites. Ra.pists, paedophiles, murderers and perverts on here throwing stones when they live in glass houses. Bunch of fanatics! Even if she had gone to church naked to praise her God, he will still accept her prayers. Evil people with disgusting hearts.

That land is full of perverts, paedophiles and murderers.

If you know you are not spending out of the goodness of your heart, why spend the phuck though? Disgusting!

What a chauvinistic title on frontpage. Mtchew!

What utter bullshyt!!

donphilopus:




I don't know why these two guys have not been taken to the rehab for medical attention.

In case you don't know, Aisha Buhari was born in 1971 and got married to Buhari in 1989. She was 18 when Buhari married her. So why are you spewing gibberish?

Wait so she is in her 40s? Looks older than 44, all that stress of marriage at a young age...

Simitrendy:



The patient dog eat the fatest bone


If you'll wish to wait.


Wait!


God will definitely remember you soon!


U might be under employed today, But be an employer tomorrow


Be Patient!

The patient dog eats the fattest bone because the swift has eaten all the meat leaving you with a dry and hard bone for you to break your teeth with.

yorke1:
Go and set it ablaze

@op, this...


Don't sit and try to manage, set it on fire!!! They are there eating fat whilst oppressing the little guy talking about no market, bullshyt!

So the pervert rather record this and post it on the Internet instead of actually beating the shyt out of the maid and taking her to the station? Ok na. That whole place is full of perverted individuals and paedophiles.



Where is the child's FATHER

chocolateme:
Eyaa.. Your brother must be terrorist to the animal kingdom..
So he can really look into the eyes of this cute poor animal and have the conscience to eat it up?
Pls take it back to the area it was found so the mother can protect her. It is too tender for you to take care of unless u get help. It can be home friendly once you give it a chance to life.
I will not forgive you guys if that animal dies in your hand, first protect it from cold.
Tell your brother I said that if he dares kill this pet, that he will become strangely pregnant. But don't tell him I don't mean it tho.

The guy below me..smh



FTC
Chocolate cream

If he takes him back, the animal would die. I doubt it can still fend for itself. The mother has most likely moved on. If anything, he can still take it back to the farm and wait around to see whether the mother would be around back(doubt it).


@op, Do you guys have any animal sanctuaries? That is the best thing because they will probably look after it until it is able to look after itself and set it back into the wild. I won't recommend a zoo.