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hannydarl,word!! U are a real woman.N-joy is HIV +ve.Its not her fault.It could have been anyone.She needs psychological support and proper education.@ N-joy,its criminal 4 u to keep spreading this virus.separate love from reality pls!See ur Dr for ARVs and advice.Marry a +ve person if u must!I am not an educated fool.I know about HIV more than ur whole family!

Thanks hannydarl.Imagine this daft(N-joy) calling her father an educated fool simply 'cos I opined that it is wrong to encourage an HIV-ve person to marry a +ve.N-joy,thank ur stars 4 internet.If u were near me ,u would have been in the cheapest morgue! .Dudes,lets always watch our language.Use of foul language on anoda simply 'cos he doesn,t share same opinion with u is poor

Doing things at the appropriate time is ideal.What d heck is d discuss abt being a virgin at 24?How many men will marry a girl they,ve not slept with right away?How will u know who will marry u ab initio so as to allow that person to disvirgin u?Sexual harmony is an integral part of a successful marriage and cannot be established unless u try occasionally many times.Sexual satisfaction is important and how will u be good in what u haven,t done before?Lets be realistic here!

When she is old enough to know d rules of d game!I always believe d university is a place to discover urself.Dating ealier will expose d ignorant girl to plenty risks.Late daters are always porous in terms of meeting up with a mans expectations!

Are u m or f?Love Dr,cure urself 1st! lol!

Sillyboy and Eiregirl .U guys are entitled to ur opinions.Y wont Eiregirl support u when she,s got a kid out of wedlock.One mans shakara is anodas akara.I will not marry a widower nor any woman who 4 any reason had an out of wedlock kid,period!

N-joy:
@Karl ken
You sound like an educated fool, haven't you heard with the treatment they receive now, an HIV person can live as long as you. Pleez go do your HIV research on the net, when you do come back and say something worth saying on the thread, we'll probably stop yawning at your ignorance.

I am not the one that u contracted HIV from.Frustration and denial phenomena(refusal to accept the truth)are integral parts of HIV/AIDS syndrome.Do not vent ur frustration on me.Take this or leave it ,it is absolutely wrong to encourage an HIV -ve person to marry a +ve person.Much as i empathize with ur situation,am not in any way discriminating here.Just trying to give some advice!

@kobe,Word!U just talked to the virtuos woman.How abt the Golddiggers.Those who wish to reap where they didn,t sow.those that put material things 1st.those that believe they can survive by sleeping around.Those who do not cut their coats according to their cloak!Humans are by nature selfish.If a mans selfish ideas gets him his desire,he is smart.Blame the wm most times for their folly!

I will not,I repeat not marry a woman who already has a kid!I,ve got myriads of reasons for that bt most importantly,I cant cope with the thought.My imaginations will always run wild! :oI will find it difficult to love her.

what caused ur initial problem is impt here.what do u really want from her-marriage or an ordinary r/ship?let her know ur plans abt her and she will carry u along.

are there jobs out there.we are jobless here men.

ike ur right! I,ve been wondering.One can be ugly.y not 'cos thats d opposite of handsome/beautiful but beautyis in d eyes of the be(sorry beer)holder!

@Femiluv.Lets not crucify femiluv for sleeping with 2 women at d same time without a condom.He is not alone in that act.My grouse is not that u sleep with both "raw".Both took in coincidentally,its not ur plan 2.The corper took care of herself,she knows she,s got a better future elsewhere.She finally realised ur not at d same level. U are even in school.What do u do for both with ur pocket money?my anger is the ease with which u posted this crap for very many responsible Nairalanders to peruse ur notoriety without any feeling of remorse.God will forgive u if u ask and change now.Put ur sister in those shoes and u see y i am very bitter. .

If u trully love this guy,dont give up so soon.Try get him some cheap(according to ur finance)but useful gifts,send sweet and romantic mails/txts,call infrequently asking after his general affairs(not love always),dont appear to impose urself on him,look good and always.Most importartantly,look 4 d most appropriate time to tell him how u feel(politely).Try to hear him out.He may give u a useful clue.If all this fail,give him some time,he may have other ideas.Time will sort things out!

Am SSSS,single and still seriously searching.I must mingle before i settle

@N-joy.If ur actually HIV -ve and u want marry a +ve person,goodluck to u.Remember we are encouraged not to mary out of sentiments.Its often better to show empathy not sympathy.It is not good to discriminate against PLWHA but thats in terms of Jobs,social activities,sports etc .That doesn,t mean u should accept blood when needed from an +ve person for instance talkless marrying one.Supporting them in other ways is better!Remember u have to be alive to even render that support.Think again,this time keep emotions apart.

This is a very brilliant creation!@Suave,ur good indeed.I,ve gone over this 10x.

LOL.Funniest pix here!

Ignorance is not an excuse .

Nairaland 2007 hall of fame will include us me

Hows US men?still know the road to ur villa? .LOL.Never mind me. .So what have u been doing in US for 28 yrs?NGR is good now.come home.Fuel is only 70ngn per litre,diesel91.FOOd is cheap.Plenty of (Kidnapping) job opportunities.See ya.

how curved is d manhood?y d worry about it?does it enable urinating properly and sexminor penile curvatures are normal.if severely curved,esp' when erect,see a plastic surgeon.

@N-joy.Can u marry an HIV positive person?Give me a monosyllabic answer;yes or no!

I dont get the message at all!

Aisha!am at loggerheads with you on this threadooh!What is the source of your information.You are reasoning concretely on this matter.There is to practicable nor medical reason to encourage a negative to marry a positive person.

doctor b:
@Aisha ART(Anti Retroviral Theraphy) only lowers the viral load, it never gets to a point where the virus is not present in the blood, as far as I know very sensitive methods like PCR(polymerase chain reaction) can always pick it up; meaning it's present and can always potentially infect.
personally i would not marry/date an HIV + person because true true prevention is beta dan cure.
truth hurts

.Truth hurts occassionally my brother.

Tell me more about urself.I kind of make strange choices always.

@doctor b.Thanks men.I actually meant during menstruation(end. being shed).it was d printers devil.Where ar u in PH?I dey ph men!We (me and Aisha) attended Akpor grammer school medical school :oWere in in Oxford university?