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First off You are a slowpoke for trying to make this personal.

If you like keep being in denial about the increase of aristo activities on Nigerian campuses, or are you not aware that these men that are roam around there picking up little girls actually have wives at home.

no one said that all Naija men are like that but to make some lame comment saying "Only Naija men wont leave a woman blah blah", do you know how many men have legft women just for stupid reasons like not having a son? Going after little girls because the wife suddenly has "stretch marks" or because after child birth she's not as "tight" as she used to be

Simply go to the Health or Family section and see women in distress, asking for advice all over because they're husbands are suddenly acting up because after 4 months the wife isnt pregnant or because she has had 2 daughters so far, various ways to make herself tight again because she's seeing random texts on his phone from other women. It's all there for you and anyone to see so please quit trying to fool others if you have a problem with the truth

Gosh is Nigeria that bad now?

DeepZone:
Divorce? she may have taken that option if it was readily available to her but you never know whether she was afraid of getting by without her husband's financial support.

Rofl. Where's the husband's "financial support" now?

Btw pot heads are way too lazy and high to attack anyone. If he were an alcoholic, that's a whole different story and even then I'd still say she should have left

Cant believe women are defending such nonsense. If the woman doesnt attack back AT THE EXACT MOMENT that she's being abused, then it's murder and not self defense. Case Closed.

davidif:
Only naija man would stay with you even when you blow up and become out of shape after 2 kids.

Yea he will stay with you while patrolling university campuses/secondary schools looking for the tart to pick up that might even be the same age as his daughter.

davidif:
@sistawoman
we love our women, because we don't take them to the moon does not mean we don't know how to take care of them. When it comes to being there in the long haul, no matter what " in sickness and in health, in happiness and in sadness" and the whole 9 yards we are always down for that, we don't just wake up in the morning and say well we need to talk. Well its not working, i think we have grown apart in the past couple of years "and its my fault" so i think we need to seperate(or take time off like they like to say it), days later, the wife or girlfriend is in the club shamelessly flirting with any boy she sees in sight. Nonsense, after all the flowers and the chocolate and the jewelry and because of some lack of "emotional connection" you break a holy sacred convenant.
That right there is why relationships should never be about emotions. At least African men are real, they are not going to buy flowers for you on monday and break up with you on sunday. In some cases, they even break up with you during dinner (yes o, dinner, can you imagine that).

We'd rather be broken up with then have a man bring in a "junior wife" so spare us the dribble.

did she not know he was a weed smoker before she married him?

Now who's gonna look after the kids now that he's dead and she's in jail?

Some people just dont think.

sunej:
Appendicitis!

Not bad. You'll most likely live

That's why I said reply naijacutee not david

Im wiating o *taps foot*

whether you buy 1 or 12, it's all goat food.

what kind of surgery?

penis enlargement? or what?

I was hoping you'd reply naijacutee's post, Sisi

DeepZone:
You obviously have not spent a night together because you may fart 10x during your sleep while he's wide awake enjoying the pungent odour.
I don't think those things should be an issue when it comes to a relationship, shoot, i fart on phone. I can't believe you have to cut off the phone just to fart. You can do that if you are speaking with anyother person but your boo, Flatulence is natural by the way and I don't see anything unhealthy in being comfortable with your natural bodily functions.

I said I get off the phone when people tell me they are going to the bathroom or IN the bathroom. You're the one who brought up farting which has nothing to do with this thread

Mustay, that should say "Too many"

I guess marriages where the couple help each other aka "50:50 nonsense" are fake?

JJay1:
That was a typo madam, should be simpleton_{[/sub]guess you know cause you are one? Just a question, no harm meant[sub]}. And you can use "saying" if you are quoting what some one said, if you open your eyes enough to see that it was a quote from a character in a tv program.

I hereby recommend the following for you:

1. English without tears by Elizabeth Pryze
2. GES/GNS 101 -- Use of English from any University
3. Attention to details

Get back to me when you decide to make sense.

Accept the fact that you made a mistake with the "saying" and stop trying to be a smartass. You are the last person who should suggest ANYTHING to ANYONE. Oponu.

"singleton". Rofl. Ode.

DeepZone:
Are you going to run away from the house during "dump" exercises if you eventually live with him? So do you also hang up if you want to fart while on phone?

You have an unhealthy obsession with flatulence funmi

as for living with him, that's why houses have more than ONE bathroom and whatever I have to say will wait til he's done. Simple. Why would I intrude when I wouldnt want anyone intruding on me?

Opslag:
what are you insinuatin?Nigerian marriages are'nt romantic or what?

That's exactly what Im saying. Which is why wves try to get pregnant 24 hrs after the wedding so they can have something to play with other than their boring husbands.

[quote author=gabe_logan link=topic=159843.msg2654137#msg2654137 date=1218686195]there is always an element of truth in rumors and women are the best liars amongst both sexes. she is probably being economical with the truth.

guy, biko be careful.[/quote]Maybe he should date his friends if he's gonna keep taking their every word over his girlfriend's. After all homosexuality exist in Naija.

Tonim:
Yes, I definitely agree with you on this

you said a month

haba, you can't be serious

Lol go to the Health section, see women just after 5 days of marriage wondering why they arent pregnant yet

na so their husbands bore them

Not really. I'd give that to Dakore who has both a nice body AND a PRETTY face.

and even IF that were true for mercy, she still dresses like a tart.

I believe what they mean is that the title should say

US Varsity Appoints A Nigerian As A Vice Chancellor. Not a "Nigerian Vice Chancellor", one would think the person is presently in Nigeria.

Tonim:
It really is a cultural thing in my opinion because african women do not seek as much attention
from their men (esp. after marriage) as american women do.

That's cos they are too busy dotting on their children.

After a month most Naija women are bored with their married life that they are in such a hurry to get pregnant so as to focus their attention on the children.

meh

Gamine:
This is Grafikdons thingy noww

ofcos na igbo something

Isnt he Ijaw?

Sin City

Wanted too.

4Play, the worst ones live in the UK.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/london/7538377.stm

vadewoyin:
Infact when I first got into this country, my very first job was with a Nigerian woman as a supervisor.
I trust her so much and I revealed to her my educational background.

Why would you do that?

Bunch of jealous and hateful people. Npt a surprise that she was a woman too.

It's annoying isnt it spike?

There's always a catch

davidylan:
don't waste your time, once a man is comfortable enough in a relationship he has very little interest in a "grown up discussion". that is all your own headache.

what's the point of the relationship then?

Thank you.

onynye, stop writing in that format

It's annoying