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[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=90322.msg2596859#msg2596859 date=1217641089]Sorry to say this Gabby.
But Uche, haven't you tasted some Asian foods? Most of them are filled with fat/ grease. Too much maggi and salt.

That's why I prefer to eat chinese food once or twice a month. Not that Naija food is any better with its high rated calories [/quote]You really think the crap they sell to you people is the same food they themselves eat?

If you go around lunch time when the owners are eating, you'll see their food is completely different

You're an slowpoke Milla

Pure and simple

How come in Nigeria people look down at girls who are in relationships with their professors/lecturers

Dude is acting like he's not on planet Earth. Abeg comot from my face

Maybe someone can translate the gist of the m,atter to you in IGbo and then you'll understand.

Lmao

amazing how they all want to marry the "good girls" yet STILL return to the so called "sluts" in the end.

Awon ode.

doesnt teachers marry students anymore

?

Perhaps if you werent busy having wet dreams of your own teacher, your written English wouldnt be so pitiful

davidylan:
That was my point. Nowadays the average woman wants to eat her cake and have it back even bigger. If a woman supports the traditional . . . "well the guy shld ask me out first and PAY" then she should be ready to perform the equally traditional "women must submit to her husband" role in marriage.

I believe they DO follow the traditional roles of a wife, they just DONT like the WORD "submit", that's really all it is. "Submit" has a lot of negativity attached to it. Slaves are USUALLY the ones known for "submitting" hence the problem. We just dont like the word jo.

Sam Milla, were you BLIND when the author of the thread said the girl's 17 years old?

what excuse do you have now?

and the guy in Onyin ye's example went to jaol cos he's a TEACHER. Even in college/univeristy its frowned upon

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156239.msg2595754#msg2595754 date=1217622940]Your point?[/quote]

why do you think a guy should always pay? even if it's a first date?

Do you remember what you type sometimes, alagolo?

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156239.msg2595728#msg2595728 date=1217622644]But if they constantly go out as boyfriend/girlfriend, then both of them should atleast try to pay the bills once in a while.[/quote]That's not a first date anymore.

davidylan:
sharrap dia!

Slightly offtopic but isnt it odd to talk about traditional roles in dating while being against traditional roles in a marriage?

On topic - Most guys would want to pay on any date, first or last . . . but at least show us that you're not just there to eat and run away. Showing an intent to pay sometimes scores you brownie points . . . _{like a certain karma scored.}

as for the slightly offtopic, I don't think we are against traditional roles of marriage or is it because women hate the term "submit"
Just because some hate the "wording" for it doesnt mean we wont do whats needed to be done to make a marriage work or expect the same from our spouses

or do you mean something else

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=156239.msg2595713#msg2595713 date=1217622438]Ok, let me ask you one question, why do you think a guy should always pay? even if it's a first date?[/quote]Didnt you say whoever initates the dfirst date pays?

davidylan:
Its funny how women always expect the "traditional role" when it comes to dates but refuse to toe the traditional role when it comes to the woman's place in the home.

Dont you just love these women who speak with three sides of the mouth?

Um I meant traditional role of guy asking girl

and I do pay for first dates because I don't trust Naija animals that think they are entitled to anything because they spent like $15 on food. I also pay for movies LIKE a certain VANTAGE POINT

This dude is daft

If it's not a crime, why do such teachers end up in Jail FOR engaging in such relationships?

Seriously shut up and just accept that you are ignorant

ibkaye:
It does not happen often, but that does not mean that it does not happen at all

It does happen and OBVIOUSLY since SHE asked the dude out, she should have some cash on hand but I think we are talking of the "traditional" role, where it's usually the HE doing the asking out. Even then it's ok for the girl to put money down/offer to pay but if the dude actually relies on that then he's pathetic

4 Play:
You dey mind them. When Obama was trying to look hip,he didn't realize Ludacris calls women "bitches". It must be the legendary "Obama deafness" which prevented him from hearing Rev Wright's race baiting.

Yea seriously. Cant believe that it's THIS song that bothered Obama and his camp. Was he in Kenya when "I Got Hos In Different Area Codes" was released? Dude's not serious.

ibkaye:
What I am saying is that if the girl is the one who pursued the guy, as in asked him to come on the date, she should not go empty handed,

While I agree with your stance in regards to THAT situation, how OFTEN does that even happen?

IBK, to be honest, On the first date even if the girl suggest paying and the dude accepts. He's shameless.

who cares?

eldee please come and talk some sense to sam milla.

noetic abi kilon pe ara e. Point is as a teacher you have rules to follow. People get arrested for things like this

and I believe your so called "love" is Lust anyway

whoever has money.

Ndipe:
Now, which would you consider to be more touching, a poor woman who willingly gives up her child to be adopted by a rich caring couple, even if it means she wont have any contacts with him/her for the rest of her life, or a woman (like in Africa) who chooses a different route and keeps her child through thick and thin, because she does not to part with him/her.

Same difference. Same respect

The dude is just yarning garbage

It's him that would defend raping babies after all "the rules should change for there is love"

agaba123:
I don't think that it's ignored

No body should expect a submission from awoman you do not treat with love.

Somebody suggested that even a dog will rebel if it is treated with love. If someone does not love then he is being dictator

I wish you could go through al the posts before , lol (_{prison sentence}

You know why most women have a problem with the word "submission", it's because alot of Naija husbands take this "submission" for granted AND DO BECOME dictators. THAT is the problem.

and I like how okija juju completely ignored the point behind Sisi's post and went on to ramble some gibberish.

anyway i stand by my original post

Who gives a damn about what you think is wrong or right?

Rules against such "relationships" are there for a reason. Get used to it.

Sisikill:
Seriously, why do you all conveniently ignore the part of[b] LOVING YOUR WIVES AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF[/b] when you rant and rave about submission! You can deny at all you want but it is what it is.

Are you guys really that insecure in your manhood, you can't allow yourself to love, cherish and respect your wives? Are you such wusses that a woman thinking for herself sends you all scampering into a shell? My God! That is so sad but what's sadder is that you guys don't know how sad it is.

Instead of trying to force submission. . . how about you do what is required of you and spare us the hysterics.

It's cos they're pathetic Sisi. It's that simple.

No you are embarrassing youself cos you are obviously VERY ignorant when it comes to the Law.

Making up pathetic excuses for some agbaya that shouldnt be teaching in the first place

SAM MILLA:
does teachers sign contracts not to date students or is it just what you personally believe is wrong?

Stupid question

Why do you think they get arrested when they cross such boundaries?

Sam milla, I suggest you stop embarrassing yourself.

Dont know what "aboard village" you live but Nigerians marry themselves here all the time.

People need to stop making up lies

celebritee:
Its actually simple. i did it something like it some time ago. Just send an SMS advising her to leave her doors open. She'll get the msg.

Good to know cowards still exist

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=156062.msg2587339#msg2587339 date=1217515300]The lady will break bottle for him head if u say, i am leaving you for another.[/quote]I know which is why I said it's unnecessary information

I just hope there wasnt any "traditional introduction" and what not.

You don't have to tell him/her you are "in love with someone else"

Unnecessary information.

IF you are sure about this other person, just tell your current dude/girl that you've fallen out of love with him/her and you wish him/her well. Thank him/her for the times together and move on

all that "oh I'm leaving you for someone else" is just too much info that is NOT needed to be said and will just cause animosity between you two.

They already give them free checks

-WIC checks
-Food Stamps
-Medicad

They should just stop whining.

where's hero, girl22, sista and co>

Maybe now they'll stop whining