₦airaland Forum

tpia:
Well, the truth of the matter is, why is it so difficult for naija men to humble themselves when they're having problems in their marriages? Even if its the woman's fault

As the "older" person and the vaunted "head of the home", does it remove anything from a man to bend over backwards in order to maintain peace in the house? Being accommodating does not remove anyone's manhood, as far as I'm concerned, and neither does it reduce his status in anybody's eyes.

As usual I agree with you. As the supposed head and "man in charge", you'd think they'd be the bigger person. Act THEIR AGES. Like I said before, it's a shame.

Tpia, you say they still act crazy even when they arent living together. Lol isnt the order that he just brings in another wife? How many actually do leave? No self respect.

Rofl.

news travel fast

If anyone has attitude it's you.

You're always looking to fight someone and frankly the whole facade is boring.

I asked you that question cos it's obviously you are NOT aware of the trend of young girls going with old men/old men preying on younger girls. Has nothing to do with "arranged marriage" nowadays.

HCH3COO:
Let's not turn this into a naija men vs. naija women topic. Raping babies to cure aids? Who in their right mind would do that (nigerian or not) . . . Your father is a naija man, does he rape babies? Not all naija men are out of control.
The problem here is, a crime was commited by a stupid fellow. As if your grudges with the manners of naija men is going to bring the woman back to life. hiss!

This is what happens when you constantly feel the need to follow me all over the place

All I did was agree with Tpia. How come you didnt question what she wrote until I quoted her? Or were you blind before

and arent South Africans black?

onyinye2:
Ever heard of internet??

can you just answer the question?

onyinye2:
Yeah i heard this on the news. I have to admit, it does sound like an arranged marriage. i mean 50 and 28.

when last have you been to Nigeria?

4 Play:
@TOH

I don't want to "get" anything,I just want to bash Naija women,that's all.

oh? well then I'll bash "certain" Naija men and tell them to stop being such AGBAYAS where they wait to they're in their mid 50s to marry and whne they finally do, they go after small girls then become psychos well the small girl rebels against them

Have about that?

HCH3COO:
Generalizing in return doesn't make it any better. This incident occurs everywhere. White people are no saints either. We should be glad we're not as bad as they are.

Like Raping babies so as to "cure" Aids? Right

and this THREAD is about a Nigerian dude. Stop trying to change the bloody topic.

So sad. 'well at least we're not like", who gives a damn?

Who cares HCOO?

Alot of things arent just specific to Naija fgemales but you guys have no problem making generaliations so get over it

4Play, if you couldnt get what I was trying to imply with that comment well then

How is calling her promiscuous "defending" her?

She's a promiscuous naija girl living in Italy. What more can you say Huh It's not a crime.

Was this really necessary? Unlike you she actually replied the thread so why the insults?

Lol you mean the same Delta that is trying to remove food service from economy class?

tpia:
I[b] wonder why some Nigerian men find it so difficult to humble themselves when going through tough times in their marriages, and try to make peace with their wives.[/b] Very few women will continue to fight a man who shows love and humility.

And in any case, is amicable divorce uncultural? Why must it be do or die, making a tragedy out of an already terrible situation?

I wish I knew. It's a shame really

where did you get the idea that it was arranged?

Isnt it the "nigerian" thing for old agbayas to run after young girls?

agbaya oshi. Loser didnt even have respect for the law. The woman had a bloody restraining order against him.

I used to like them. Used to defend them

But this year they have been complete trash. Im in the process of helping my mom get a refund cos those Air France morons charged her twice

Make matters worse the plane was delayed for 2.5 hrs in Paris.

seriously screw 'em.

BA is retarded too. Delta's losing its' customers. Lufthansa sucks

Only hope is Virgin Atlantic

Ok

some people are way too obsessed with Oyedapo

How are you insulting people up and down ontop some random pastor?

My airline of choice still remains Air France. Screw British Airwaste, Virgin Atlantic & Nigeria, Delta Airlines, Alitalia (really sucked), North American Airlines sucks.

Air France is garbage

iice:
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I get amused easily

I get irritated easily

I get bored easily[/color]

Yep. Me too.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=2990.msg2561548#msg2561548 date=1217087293]I began to understand why people think they're very childish and disrespectful.[/quote]True. Oh so childish and rude. Then again when they have teenagers clamoring on their back, why wont they feel the need to act up?

People need to realize it IS girls that go after them. WOMEN however do not. Quite a difference between the two. They've already been there, done that and realize that such guys arent worth it. The ones who havent, are girls mentally.

Lmao is that what the jet is for?

syren:
Bad guys are usually tough, dominating, protective, and, i must admit, more exciting, etc and women like those qualities, only problem is with those qualities often comes a disrespectful attitude and heartbreak which some (women) tend to ignore or believe they can avoid,

Exactly. Everything has a downside sadly.

The NYer cover wasnt racist

Poor taste perhaps but hardly "racist"

cos Fox News is conservative and attacks any liberal?

lazy?

That's funny. It's that lazy working that allow the parents to provide to pay for good schools in Naija while you all drown in Inner City public schools.

abi he should adjust his own wiring to be at least 80% my dream dude

davidylan:
Its ok, i'm just saying not to assume that your dad shld be the model for the ideal man. The good thing is you at least have an idea of what you want your man to be so the rest of your search is made easy.

Not "model" of course, I definitely perfer someone with a better temper. He passed on his ridiculously hot temper to me. I blame him! but I do love how he treats my mother and it's the little things like not putting a burden on her cos she's the "wife"/treating her like a second class citizen that I'm hoping for in mine.

cos she realise all this after marriage? after the busybody family begged her to marry?

At least he makes sense as opposed to those who dont make "speeches"

"My papa didnt even cry when his parents died, he's THE MAN"

Utter idiocy.

HCH3COO:
I understand this TOH, but that's purely speculative. Can we be sure they're not trying all the positions in the book? Even if they have tried all the positions, her fears and guilt could hinder her satisfaction.

Hope she comes back to more info.

She said she wanst enjoying sex even as far as feeling "pain" BEFORE she heard the voicemail and went on her revenge

What do you have to say about that?