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Abovebest:
OP
How forgiving are you?
How Tolerable are you?
Let's start from the above
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Marriage is not all about "I LOVE YOU"
Do you see anything in her that will make you to stick with her even when the love is no longer there?

Have you discussed family boundary with her
So that family members will not go beyond the agreed boundaries?

So I will suggest you
Discuss about Money, family boundaries, how to handle conflict, and any other thing you see is not working during your courtship

to be sincere my forgiving scale is on 90%
while the 10% to make me think of what to do and never to let something that have be forgiven happens again.
about tolerance, I have 80% on this one because I have a little hot temper which makes me feel like voicing out my emotion before I will calm down and this takes 20%
about money issues, I don't really get this part,I will love if you make it clearer, thanks .

donbachi:
If na sweeping house daily,go make ur marriage work..sweep.

this is real,just so some wailers will starts talking, his wife is controlling him...
but I choose not to listen to them...thanks so much.

aaking:
Congratulations bro. My advice for u,

Let God be the head in your marriage .

Don't be a dictator or commander .

Make sure you & ur wife come to conclusions about things in the home but not all d time.

Make sure you always come home on time even your Children will love u for that.

In every 3 to 6 month go out together find cool place to always Express ur love 2each other.

During the time of pregnancy cherish her cos there may be changes (fat,be a message , etc

Don't share your family issues to or with parents, pastor, counsellors, neighbours especially house u stay with landlords, even nairaland ,do resolve any arguments to agreement but if necessary share to a Spiritual one pastor or Iman.

Be a giver

From time to time do call your in-laws and visit ,make them your parents this make your wife to love and respect you more(pay homage i.e kola dem don't even let your wife know sometimes)

I love this ,thanks so much.

oloriooko:
Don't marry except you are ready to bear the burden of marriage
I wonder why some people complain of their spouses when they knew what they were going into

thanks
I've known this already.

Sundrus:
Congrats in advice. Excuse me oo, I go like to know wetin make u decide to marry at this time, & why u choose ur partner

no better time for me to get married.
I choose her because of some of her inner quality, her beauty was a bonus to me.
her hardworking attitude in controlling my business affairs while am at work.
her care toward my parents
her faithfulness for keeping me as the one guy she wants to get married to...
and many others.

hello nairalanders!
it was nice to be in this forum,how ever its something I would love to hear from matured minds, preferably married people
I'm 30,I have already set my traditional wedding on 23th May before the lockdown of covid 19 virus.
as its now marriage is not for immature minds as many of my elderly people do tell me,
marriage come with different fashion in life.
please I would love to hear your advise.
thank you

she grew up in your pocket,she is from poor background, seems you are from rich background, she loves you because of your money,if she loves you, she will convinced her mother, she just sight another rich Igbo man.

inside afonja region.

I'm sad about all this Pastors who sees smoke before saying that there is fire there....
if your God is so real why didn't you see it in December.

yeyeosoronga:
That relationship is not going to work and the earlier you realise this the better.
Run for your peace of mind.
It's not your responsibility to meet the needs of his family members, and you are obviously finding it stressful

she might not see her 500k as the guy might feel like using it to hurt her..

Proverbs 11:10 When it goes well with the righteous, the city rejoices; and when the wicked perish there are shouts of happiness

What are the duties of the chief of staff?

What are the duties of the chief of staff?

DarkJeddi:
If you have nothing meaningful to say,then keep shut..

come and drive me.

Mr. Smith had four daughters, each daughter had one brother, how many children does Mr. Smith have?

your girlfriend and your enemies might be watching this,I will advised you take it off, and pleased do ensured you finished one month on your new job first, until then congratulations.

DarkJeddi:
Where you there to know what happened?
Maybe you should wake the dead man up to tell you his own version of what happened..

come and drive me

since I pathed with my ex..I never call her for anything, not that I'm a bad person, but I don't like all this story,trust me you never have a rest of mind in your home with the new girlfriend, because you are always thinking what if the ex show up and threatened to exposed you,you wife will collapse cos she didn't know and you didn't tell her.when a woman open legs for you,its not easy to overcome it,unless you a deeper life Pastor.

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DarkJeddi:
What are you saying?
Some people's job requires them to be moving around in this period..
Should the health workers,Fuel tanker drivers and food item vehicle drivers stay at home too?

why didn't he stop for searched?

andyanders:
I believe that you're in sane for your statement. Food items were among the items allowed movement. Why must they kill the man and you are supporting evil. May you and any member of your family fall victim to either robbers or government official.

seems you wakes up on the wrong side, go and read my reply again...
why didn't he stop?my family don't carried suspected goods.
you never work as a security personnel before...they are always angry against law breakers.

what are you carrying that you can't stop knowing they might stop you.

Nigerian loves abusing an order, they president says stay at home unless you are on an essential service, but some people will abuse it,tell me what make this Driver not to stop for checkup,now he is dead.

forget it, I will never married someone who got me infected with HIV, f**k it, you were sleeping around enjoying your life then just a small nack in a relationship that never even reached anything, then I'm positive, to hell with that partner, I will be single till God take it away from me.

I'm buying gun,since police is not enough to protect us.

audio of NTA is very awful ,they.should do something about it,I can't really get what the president said
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kneel down thank God kneel down proposed to my girlfriend



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the transport fair when price was 145 is the same price when is gonna be 8/litre this country is so special

let us know if your mom is doing what the man wants.

you should be ashamed, come and read comments here, it doesn't make sense when you miss Nigeria but you are always traveling to America, did you have a farm there? or what are you always going there to do.

accepts it ,tell him next time do it exactly as you can see on the original, instead of reject it...its not encouraging.