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You are really in a very difficuilt situation but don't because of pressure jump into conclusion.but be a little bit patient don't rush yourself and don't bother yourself too much . i cannot tell you wat to do but i will advice you to be very prayerful. i will not buy the idea of you marrying someone you do not love neither will i advice you to marry a man that has a son,i know your Mr. Right is on his way just be patient ok please be patient

kateflow where ARE YOU FROM you are my name sake

Mo ge oooooooooooo
Please oh don't just try it,how can you be thinking like that ,when you know what is about to happen your own blood step-sister abeg o this is an abomination.

pati:
Its obvious your hurt from your tone, therefore i would suggest u don't attend the wedding because it would hurt u much more to see him marrying someone else .

yes i agree with you. don't go ,just forget about him.it hard but with time you will

You can't please him and displease yourself so tell him your mind,but in a decent way e.g well am not really ready for a relationship or i want to focus more on my studies or i need some emotional brake for now e .t .c

cute-ass:
@ katency

There is no one way answer to your question,

Sweetheart, i can only imagine what you're going through because i know how painful it can be to find out your partner is cheating on you with someone else, you start thinking stuff like "am i not good enough"??, "what did i do wrong or what was i not doing right"??

But if it helps any, then you should know that it happens to the best of us lol, and you shouldn't waste your time asking why? because you're not the first and you won't be the last and no matter how much someone loves you, in some situations their flesh takes the better part of hem.

Now honey you have two options, either you find out you can't go on with him because his infidelity brings back bad memories or you forgive him and give him a second chance

Infidelity can never be excused so i guess the circumstances surrounding it is a very deciding factor

Confront him with it, his reaction should tell you what to do, if he sincerely apologizes then you might want to take him back but emphasizing on the pain and disappointment he caused you and that you hope to God it dosen't repeat itself.

Remember dearie nobody is perfect, but that still dosen't mean you should be taken advantage of. Follow your heart and i promise you it shall be well

Thax 4 that

Am talking about the cheating of dating another girl

African womem are more reliable, more submisive, committed,and they are also respective

You know your guy very well so when you notice that he his behaving strange, please don't waste your time ooo,because time wait for no man find another serious guy who will value you the more.because if he loves you he will not want any other guy to take you away so he will engage you on time.

when you started your relationship you guys discussed about it, so when you want to quiet, it most also be the two of you to discuss about it. from my own opinion i think you should call him physically, two of you should talkabout the relationship you will now be in the position to tell him that you are not interested again so you can have a cleared mind toward him,it hard but thats the simpliest way i think you should walk away from him.just walking away is behaving imatured but calling is showing him that you are more matured than he his.

I ended my last relationship because i found out he was engaged to another lady. some guy have the gut to cheat on innocent girls. oga oo

how can you say all girls likes money.what an insult,well let me tell you i can date a guy without taking a penny from him. i am not dating him for his money but for the LOVE that exist between us .so change that impression you have for girls,you will say ''some girls not All girls ok.

As they say education is the best lecacy, i will go for my CAREER first before LOVE because the two are essential in life. for exampple someone got married because of love and left career when her husband died she was left with nothing but assuming she had a certificate she wiil get a new job to keep her child.so you can why the two are very important to life so i will go for my career firt love can still wait and if love come i will do the two together.

As they say education is the best lecacy, i will go for my CAREER first before LOVE because the two are essential in life. for exampple someone got married because of love and left career when her husband died she was left with nothing but assuming she had a certificate she wiil get a new job to keep her child.so you can why the two are very important to lofe so i will go for my career firt love can still wait and if love come i will do the two together.

LOVE is very strong to make someone behave like that, so i don't blame him ,but if he dies he will lose ten times but i will advice him to not die so that when he makes it in life he will let the girl know that life goes on with or without her.she may come back ooo

It is very hard for a girl to say she love a guy, but you will know no matter how she pretend to hide her feelings, she laugh at your funny jokes ,she calls to say hi, she get scared when you are not feeling fine,she ask about your family,she ask about your future ambition e.t.c then you know she is really interested in you.

I think if they are in love with each other no one will even notice how many times he/she has called, so love matter when you start noticing that he/she is not calling the way you like, problem start in the relationship

please oo abeg all the girls run for your life oh the beater is around

The word insultive does not exist in my dictionary!please i was not talking to you mind your business.

Sorry am not ijeoma

when someone  ask a question please kindly answer and stop making the person to feel bad,if you are available please kindly tell him and stop using insultive words to him. this suppose to be a place where we can share what is bordering us and get reasonable people.is n't it

I really want to know what you will you do if you find out your boyfriend is cheating on you.

God is Love.but my own defination of love is a deep affection felt for someone,to the extend that you can not do anything without seeing the person or hearing the person voice.

hello dear i can be your friend

when you guys want something that when you know that you need friend

hello

Thanks for welcoming me. Am just trying to be among you know now,  

I can also be your friend, just be open minded with me please.

Please my dear distance is very risky in a relationship if the person dat want to marry you is far away from you please don't put all your egg in one basket if you understand,please watch before you leap .

As for me it is how inteligent,caring,hardworking,God fearing lastly how handsome and good looking he his

This is a serious issue and you all are joking with it,please dear try and fine someone to be your friend because loneliness kills faster than disease. abeg o