personally i hate it when.i do most of the calling and my calls are not returned,it makes me feel stupid.i think its ok when the ratio is balanced.

well
in mines he does da callin
most of da time
i dnt really care , n i guess it dont/shudnt matter

Well in my situation my man calls me alot I mean alot.


But is should be 50/50

I think if they are in love with each other no one will even notice how many times he/she has called, so love matter when you start noticing that he/she is not calling the way you like, problem start in the relationship

It all depends i call my guy an average of 6-8 times a day, i call to ask of anything u can think of, he calls once or twice but spends hours, all my calls put together does not amount to his.

that is y some ladies always xperience heartbreaks cos they tend to take we guys for granted especially when he is obviously in love with the gal. why should a guy call more than the gal? it shoulb b 50/50

@ soulchild and others who have made comments like this,


is it an unwritten (well, now written) rule that the guy always provides the phone credit in naija? I'm just wondering because it seems to be

Well what if its international and the girl is in the UK like and has more credit and inclination than the guy in Nigeria.
Me and my boy had an argument about this last week. I call him more and I began to wonder why he is not calling as often as he used to, he said he doesn't call many people and even his family complain about it. To me it just felt like he's lost interest in me. What do ya'll think?

is it suppose 2 be a contest? pls if u miss ur man or woman u call, no big deal.

Well, i believe some guys don't really believe that it develop relationship

I think the calling thing is not particularly meant for a boy or a girl most, girls should take the 60% of the calls.a man is always a man.don't get me wrong.

@ zam u are very wright men 40% woman 60%

my stingy boy freind calls me only on free midnight call, lol,
i call him during the day time. is that 50/50 or 100/0 ? i think the later.
am not calling him anymore.
its cheating.

@post
there s no fast n set rules about who should call most,and i reckon if they r both in love i gues it ll be like a competition on who calls more rather than the other way round however
when that starts being an issue in a relationship,then thats a yellow card approaching red(break up)

Both of them should call each other.since relationship is a mutual thing,it shouldnt be a one-sided thing so that the parties involved wldnt take each other for granted.cos if d guy calls the girl more,the girl wld becum used ti it and vice-versa.though it actually depends on the people in the relationship.

the truth of the matter is dat the two people involved should always call eachother.one thing is dat once a lady decides to take d lead in callin,most guys tend 2 relax,,,,always try to give d men freedom,i assure it works cos most of dem are not worth d stress.

Cal wen u fill like,no time table in it.

the girls should call most of the time.

but the guy should speend long any time calling.

Their parents shud do d calling!

Tos87:

Cal wen u fill like,no time table in it.

i feel u bro, but we all know guys do d calling n many girls sabi flash,

guyz should do d callin

!@ poster (Ollami ) pls wuts ur no
mine is 08086070014

who every want to call should call

The truth is most men hate the phone and most women love it. So the guys always call a lot in the beginning when they are chasing the woman then once they got her, she has to call them more. Its just how it is, however men are better are making an effort to meet up whereas women will sit on the phone for hours and not go out. So men will make more effort to come and see you. Somehow it kind of evens out.

Well my girl call all the time even from the beginning of our relationship, cos i know she really the one in love lol but now am actually reciprocating my affection for her with several calls & text msgs cuz i love independent lady who don't believe men should always do the calling etc

Who should call?, anybody,depending on whom the luv shacks d most.For me,I don't enjoy voice call for long period unless for business.I tell my friends earlier to be exonerated when allegations of no calls come.I send text messages only when neccessary.Though I don't believe in calling to fulfill all righteousness cos I don't pretend.