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Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Nobody: 6:43pm On Apr 14, 2011 |
Oguagua I can tell u that i myself am a bit tom-boyish, I've played American football and have had not mercy shown on me as I too would be tackled and pummeled and i too am not gay. Horse playing with the opp.s3x = gay? No, that was not what i was implying. I said I was referring to the ones who are NOT flirting with the girls but see themselves are ONE of the girls. It happens. I have some of my closest male friends who have been gay since we were playing in sand boxes and up till now. You cannot tell them they are not female, one even looks like one and is looking for a s3x change. That is how they were from childhood to their early to mid twenties. These men are NOT proud and actually dislike the thought of 'gay pride' and walking with banners. It is THOSE types of ppl I am referring to, not kids (boys and girls) simply playing hide and seek Oguagua. They are not talking or thinking of s3x at five Oguagua. That is obvious, I am as straight as my hair when permed and I didn't think about s3x when I was five but I knew boys chased girls, and girls are the ones who choose, hence the game 'hide and go get it' we used to play (shut up Chima ) not to mention the 'girls/boys have cooties but we flirt' episode. So in a nut shell I knew about the opp. s3x and what I was before actually understanding s3x and being s3xually active, so why would a confused child be any different? He knows he has a weiner and he knows he looks different from the girls but he still feels a sense of kindship with them and he feels he is part of them. He would admire Barbie and frown at G.I. Joe action figures. this is where we get the 'I was born in the wrong body' mentality from. It is not until he gets older and feels the pressures of society that he will do as the guys you discussed did which is to fake it, come out or sorry to say kill himself . |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by jaephoenix(m): 6:54pm On Apr 14, 2011 |
Phew,what a thread Bashir was making some sense mixed wit crap(couldn't wade thru all d bull) Loca made sense D issue of homo is not wat u r born with,but what circumstances made u.there is no 'gay'gene because u would have inherited it from ur ancestors,parents;who r all innocent.if u r into psychology or psychiatry,u would ve known people r a product of their environments eg parent relation(molestations etc),neighbors,friends(learning some vices,pls dont give me d crap dat stealing is hereditary),social acquaintances,even total strangers.we tend 2 'absorb' some experiences n allow circumstances 2 mold us.Eg I had a gf who was in boarding school where she met some girls.at night they ll b touching her erotically.she enjoyed it then(they really hit d right spots)but after a while she stopped them.why?simply because dey r girls like her n it seemed odd.she knows guys hit it off wit girls,not girls wit girls.she was 15 then.am not saying gay is wrong,am portraying her then thoughts.some turn gay because of psychological trauma eg heartbreak;even some because adore some body parts(girls) . I can go and on |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by ShyOne(f): 7:36pm On Apr 14, 2011 |
@ Post YOU ARE NOT AFRICA. Africa is a LARGE CONTINENT. Comprised of GAY, STRAIGHT, BLACK, WHITE, ASIAN, MEN, WOMEN. People are born gay. I noticed my brother at age 4 playing with dolls. He walked like a girl and had feminine mannerisms. So people are born gay. I have another male family member - he was caught kissing boys in a closet in Kindergarten - that is 6 years of age. He hung out with nothing but girls and never played outside with boys. At young ages earlier than 6. So if people aren't born gay. I can definitely say that people are born with TENDENCIES that support gay and/or heterosexual behaviors. You like what you like. You can try hard to NOT LIKE something or someone but you either like the taste of an apple or you don't. On another thread the writer - (Fantastic thought process) - stated the obvious, "Who Intentionally Chooses to Be Gay in a Very Heterosexual Environment," knowing they will be hated, hunted, hurt, killed - who consciously chooses that? Yes!!! People are Born Gay and with Gay Tendencies. I also have uncles that are Gay - who never met my brother or my other male family member - because one of the Uncles died before they were born and the other Uncle lived in a State far away. So there is a hereditary - claim/factor. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by MrsChima(f): 7:58pm On Apr 14, 2011 |
MzDarkSkin: Hide and get it was the shit! Did you pretend like you fell over something just so you can "get it"? I have male friends who are gayer than the infamous gays on this site. They are flammers (out of closet gays who dress feminine and drag queens) They can wear high heels better than the gays on this site and do not wear too little arse transformer shirts like Badonkey in UK. Some of them knew at a young age and some of them knew after forced sexual experiences. There are a few lesbians who said they decided to stick with women after being with men that were no good and abusive. Is it chemical imbalance? Who knows. Is it environmental imbalance? Who knows. Is it by personal choice? Who knows. Is it a birth defect? Who knows. The bottom line is this: They are gay and there is nothing we can do about it. Live your life and do you. I do know there are gay men that are jealous of women in straight relationships. Hmm. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by alisigwe(m): 9:47pm On Apr 14, 2011 |
Interesting topic! speaking outta experience,i think people r born gay.when i was a lil boy,a lotta gays molested the Poo out of me,literally i had like 5 gay boyfriends,i hang out wiv them mainly kuz of the material things they offer me,sometimes shelter kuz am always on the run kuz of my stubborn nature @ home. Since i left ma place of birth till now i'v nt tried such stuffs,i'v met a lotta them here but i laugh at them with their ways.i'v since moved on and never considered ma self a gay.though am shy naturally still i'v gat a gurl with numerous sex partners including hookers.so if we can be gay by choice,then i'm supposed to be 1. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Nobody: 11:23pm On Apr 14, 2011 |
Shy-One: NUFF SAID! I believe REAL gays are born that way. The only 'beef' I have is what I bolded, I do believe actually I KNOW some ppl made the choice to turn gay for example a friend of mine decided to become a lesbian because she was 'tired of men and their unfaithful ways'. Her misguided and deluded mentality is not applicable to her alone. There are many more like her who share the same 'let me try' attitude. @Chima LOL! NO! I as a good girl! The bottom line is this: They are gay and there is nothing we can do about it. Live your life and do you G-Beezy |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by chei: 1:13am On Apr 15, 2011 |
No.
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Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Nobody: 1:24am On Apr 15, 2011 |
Any perversion of nature has a source. A source that has been performed or dwelt on for long periods of times, which eventually permeates into the very core of the pervertee(s). It often starts with one deed (as an impressionistic child in that all-boys/all-girls camp) or an idea . . . followed then by an over-active imagination fueled by the power of "what if" to forge a strong mental reality. Add that to orgasmic releases to images from this strong mental reality (or possibly just gay-p@rn), [because we know what you orgasm to, continually, you eventually get attached to] and WALA, you have on your hands a homosexual. Add a few more years and perversion levels to that and they eventually gain the rank adjective "flaming". . |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by ShyOne(f): 1:40am On Apr 15, 2011 |
I beg to differ millions aren't flaming and you wouldn't even know they were gay. i went to a gay club with my brother and i kid you not!!! white guys that look like and act like Brett Farve, as masculine looking and acting as Jonathan Goodluck, The Rock, big football player looking guys. No trace of gay in their features, mannerisms, dress, voice. Very masculine. ALL GAY. And those gay guys look disdainfully at gays that are "flaming" in their appearance, action and deed. And many times to gays - straight people are the perverted ones. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Nobody: 2:05am On Apr 15, 2011 |
Reminds me of one day like this Some time back a girlfriend of mine I visited while in her town pulled a prank on me and took me to a gay club. I didn't know it was until like 30 minutes later when I started noticing some things, and then some minutes later some dude walked up to me and was like, in his exact words "You must either work-out a lot or you've been f@cking all summer . . . . I like . What's your number?" To which my response was: < > excuse me <drop drink > <call girlfriend and cuss her out for being a dweeb > <exit club promptly before my face is seen by anymore people > |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by ShyOne(f): 3:00am On Apr 15, 2011 |
ahahahahahaha ooooooo thank you for sharing i too had a similar experience. i had a very pretty and in shape black female walk up to me and grab my knee while I was sitting and spread my legs open - holding each knee in her hands and she started tsking sounds with her mouth, smiling and looking between my legs. I snatched my legs away from her crazy azz. I had on blue jeans - so I have no idea what she thought she was looking at. She was drunk. I have had the weirdest experiences at different times. Just illogical mess. Lord forgive them for they know not what they do. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Nobody: 7:15am On Apr 15, 2011 |
Early Child Development Homo Prevention Tips 1. A boy must not sit on a toilet unless he is having a bowel movement. Standing straight up, not hunched over while urinating, is a sign of manliness. Squatting on a toilet seat (especially if he hovers to avoid the urine of others or prissily wipes the seat with a square of toilet tissue) to pee is not only effeminate but a sign of shame! It is a secret hobby that homosexuals use in their daily lives. It is a scientific fact that when needing to use the restroom, a male is called upon to engage in the unpleasant undertaking of extruding a poopy in only 1 out of every 3 visits. But homosexuals use all three visits to practice squatting, to limber the cheeks of their bottom in preparation for even the most enormous (Negro) manlinesses. Such calisthenics are neither necessary nor advisable for men who have no intention of squatting over an engorged privates. As soon as your child is able to walk on two feet, you must make that sure he is taught to stand proudly in front of a private or public toilet seat, and to speak not a word, especially in response to the coy whispers of Catholic priests in the next stall. 2. A boy must eat everything on his plate. But if your son pesters you to serve corn on the cob, hot dogs or sausages, that is your signal to change his diet. Try serving meals that more effectively evoke a hankering for the fragrant delights of the female ittybits. An artichoke stuffed with tuna fish will usually do the trick. 3. A boy must always wear socks, except while swimming. So-called, "flip-flops" and "sandals," where the toes and ankles are exposed are products that were created during the (homo)sexual revolution. Creation research indicates that these types of provocative "shoes," were invented by homosexuals in San Fransissyco during the late 1960's with fetishes for little boy ankles. Thwart the perverted delight of these pedo- craddle-robbers with a thick pair of tube socks! 4. A boy must not be allowed to watch cartoons of any kind. He should spend Saturday mornings sitting quietly by his Father's side (with a respectful 3" between the male bodies), watching sports that don't involved male leotards. He must watch Football, Basketball, Baseball and Boxing. Soccer is not a sport for civilized people and often results in alarmingly long, uncut manlinesses escaping from very alluring satin shorts. Soccer appeals only to poor, uneducated halflings from underdeveloped countries where the women grow mustaches twice as fast as the men. Make your child aware of this. When there are no sports on TV, take your boy out in the backyard and throw the football or play catch with a very hard baseball. Under no circumstances: wrestle in shorts, especially if your son is strapping, handsome and sporting a noticeably turgid crotch. 5. A boy must not play with dolls. If your boy has a young sister, forbid him from entering her room except for the purposes of the type of ordinary heterosexual experimentation that occurs in any Christian household. If you catch your male child playing with dolls, Landover Baptist Child Psychologists recommended that you shave his head, and sit him out at the end of the driveway with a sign around his neck that says, "I'm a Sissy Boy Who Plays With Dolls – Mailman: Why don't you just go ahead and stick something in my mouth?." This method of prevention has a 99.5% success rate (unless your particular mailman is young and attractive). 6. A boy must not refer to his parents as "Mommy" or "Daddy." As soon as your boy is old enough to speak, he must be taught to call his Mother, "Ma," or "Momma" or "Mommie Dearest." When addressing his Father, he should refer to him as, "Sir," "Dad," or "Commander." "Mommy" and "Daddy" are what fey, spoiled boys weaned on effeminacy coo, embarrassing you in front of the neighbors by never keeping the palms of their hands below their waists. Get more at http://www.lifechristians..com |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Pweety4me(f): 7:25am On Apr 15, 2011 |
Inked_Nerd:Sounded rude. Well i don't sit down thinking about anything gay(lol), & ofcourse nobody thinks about why the opposite sexes are attracted to eachother?because thats how it is supposed to be?duh! |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Nobody: 8:39am On Apr 15, 2011 |
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Re: Are People Really Born Gay by MrCork17: 9:26am On Apr 15, 2011 |
Pweety4me. pliss madam can i have have 3some with you & MzDarkskin? |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by ejeba(m): 2:47pm On Apr 15, 2011 |
guy u too much, datz very correct |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Nobody: 6:52pm On Apr 15, 2011 |
El Guapo: WHY ARE YOU STEALING MY FONT COLOR?! @Cock, hell no. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by MrsChima(f): 3:53am On Apr 16, 2011 |
In order for it to be a choice, he would have to want or prefer to do it not ordered/dared to do it. Please refer to the dictionary for the definitions of choice, order, and dare. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Katy86(f): 6:06pm On Apr 16, 2011 |
El Guapo this is why people do not want to be Christians again. To much stupid things are coming out of their mouth |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by ebumowa(f): 1:12am On Apr 17, 2011 |
Being gay and Christian are two different things. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by desholah(m): 2:03am On Apr 17, 2011 |
ROTFLMAU@ASK REALITY419 . . . . . . . op. yep.Some are unfortunately born GAY! |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Centino: 11:00pm On Apr 17, 2011 |
It is always a choice to be gay or whatever. Because we live more than once those who chose to be gay now wake up in another life realising they already have a sexual preference. Because they do not remember details of their former existence they conclude they are born that way. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by ShyOne(f): 12:50am On Apr 18, 2011 |
Centino: After hearing your thought process - the way you explained it - then YES I DEFINITELY DO AGREE WITH YOU on the explanation of "choice." It is FACT that "there is no death" - We as humans define "death" as leaving this level of existence -when the FACT IS - that all we are doing is moving on - God lives forever and MAN as God's reflection, reflects GOD - so WE LIVE FOREVER TOO. We just leave this level of existence for the next level. So from that point of view. I think THAT I WILL HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Kelvin0(m): 1:37am On Apr 18, 2011 |
kinda funny to c dis kinda topik in dis thread, i belive the Creator of Heaven and earth, d unmoved mover, unshaked shaker, d undesigned designer, unneccessitated neccessity d master architect Created man and woman for a purpose, he created eve to be an help meet to adam and not another Adam. I despise homosexuality, gaynism, lesbianism and bisexuality with great passion and if i kum in contact with any such person in that act i will descrimate because it's devilish act and a sign of the end time. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by MrsChima(f): 1:39am On Apr 18, 2011 |
Wow. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by ShyOne(f): 3:04am On Apr 18, 2011 |
Kelvin0: Remember a MAJOR SPIRITUAL LAW - everything you put out in the universe COMES RIGHT BACK AT YOU! So discriminate at your own risk. God is the creator and judge - NOT YOU. |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by MrsChima(f): 3:45am On Apr 18, 2011 |
[size=88pt]Word sista![/size] |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by MrCork17: 12:26pm On Apr 18, 2011 |
is Mrs Chima now a Man? |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by 190: 1:03pm On Apr 18, 2011 |
Yawns, Boring topik |
Re: Are People Really Born Gay by Katy86(f): 1:21pm On Apr 18, 2011 |
Being gay and Christian are two different things. I did not say that it is the same |
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