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where has your aunty been for the last 8 year? tell her to go back there and never come out.

write some mad stuff on his wall for all his friends to see.

I PRAY GOD WILL GIVE ME THE STRENGTH NOT TO DENY HIM. JUST LIKE EVERY1, I PRAY NOT TO BE IN THAT SITUATION.
@ DYLAN AND NOETIC,

R U SURE U WON'T IF U R GOIN TO BE QUADRUPLETED? HMM, MAYBE GOD IS UNDERSTANDING MAYBE WE SHOULD LIVE TO FIGHT ANOTHER DAY. AFTER ALL IT'S WHAT IS IN THE HEART DAT COUNTS. NOT WHAT YOU SAY TO MAKE YOUR ASSAILANTS HAPPY

JUST THINK,

You sound like a nice person,

Girl846:
When I read the original text (where I got the information from) I was personally scared and shocked! Although some may regard this info as being 'backward' or 'outdated' it appealed to me and caught my attention.
I decided to post it here to see what you all think, and for those that may believe this, let them avoid unknowingly making soul ties with *all sorts*.


Why are you going at the guy? Is it now a bad thing to appreciate your gf, (virgin or not)? Thats not fair!

LOL! well i'm half serious and half joking, Honestly you can wait till she's ready but i'm just letting you see the other side. this has happened to many people and if they could take time back they would have insisted the get the good stuff. I will be fine if the girl honestly waits till she gets married but in most cases they dnt, they just dnt love you enuff to take it the extra step.

And yes we should be careful about picking sexual partners

sofeco:
My chick na virgin and I appreciate her a lot.

I wish you the best, some bad guy would come along and claim your prize. Honestly you should be ashamed of yourself. I honestly hope you are not a serial Self-Service.e.r. b'cos that is the reason some people dnt go around shaking peolpe. Dnt be mad a I'm just being real.

Dnt worry about it. You lost your virginity to a stupid guy, wrong judgement. the truth, alot of us are guilty of wrong judgement and we let all sort of people into our lives.

Just move on. This would show how strong your character is. Some girls have been raped, boys beaten infront of their babes or kids etc and they still find it in them to walk with their heads up.

Be strong, You had sex with an ex not a random guy, No big deal. in a park- even better, we all love adventrous moves like that. life is too short to be boring.

I PRAY TO STOP HEARING ABOUT GUYZ THAT HAVE BEEN DATING GIRLS FOR YEARS AND HAVE NOT SLEPT WITH THEM. ITS NOT LIKE U WERE 10YRS OLD WHEN U STARTED DATING THIS GIRL.

SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT I THINK YOU ARE A SPINELESS M.UMU.

QUICK QUESTION: WOULD YOU HEAR THAT I AM A VIRGIN STORY AGAIN IS U HAVE THE B.A.L.L.S TO MOVE ON?

@ topic
I THINK IT TELLS SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR CHARACTER THAT'S WHY PEOPLE FEEL SO BAD. IT ALL OF A SUDDEN MAKES THEM FEEL INSECURE ABOUT THEIR FUTURE AND QUESTIONS THEIR PAST. ITS JUST PAINFUL. THAT IS WHY THEY FEEL SO BAD

BUT THE TRUTH ( I GUESS MORE WITH GUYZ), YES YOU CAN SLEEP WITH ONE OR TWO PEOPLE AND STILL BE PERFECTLY IN LOVE WITH YOUR PARTNER. HOWEVER, SOMETIMES ONCE YOU STRAY THERE IS NO WAY BACK HOME. YOU GET DISTRACTED AND LOOSE FOCUS.

nah i dnt think so but honestly it depends. If you think its a 1 off thing with no strings attached (which is almost imposible with girls) then give it a tot. but remember she'll most likely keep doing it and make an a s s out of u.
if its ur wife u may have more to consider bt G.F, hmm

ladies, what is your ideal size in inches? you can estimate i.e 9-12, 2-4 etc lol!

YOU NEED TO BE FIRM IN YOUR MIND AS A MAN. YOU ARE 2 DEPENDENT ON YOUR PARENTS. I'LL SAY THINGS SEEM TOO FAR GONE SO TAKE TIME OUT AND LOOK FOR SOMEONE ELSE.

IT LOOKS LIKE YOU GUYZ REALLY LOVED EACH OTHER SO I'M SAD IT DNT WORK OUT. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND MAKE THE NEXT ONE WORK. REAL MEN HANDLE SITUATIONS AND MAKE BIG DECISIONS.
CAN YOU RULE A COUNTRY OR RUN A BIG COMPANY WITH MANY PEOLPE DEPENDENT ON YOU? DNT THINK SO. RAISE THE BAR U ARE A MAN.

I'LL SAY YOU GUYS ARE PRETTY INEXPERIENCED BUT WORSE STILL YOU NEED TO IMPROVE ON YOUR LEADERSHIP SKILL, HOW COME U DATED FOR SOLONG AND DNT SLEEP WITH HER TILL LATE? I'M NOT SAYING YOU SHOULD ALWAYS IMPOSE URSELF BUT LOOKS LIKE YOU ARE NOT DOMINANT AND CONTROLLING ENUFF FOR A MAN DATS Y U HAVE SO MUCH ISSUES WITH YOUR PARENTS,

KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND FACE LIFE IT COULD BE WORSE. SOME PEOPLE HAVE LOST LIMBS AND STILL MAKE GOOD OF THEMSELVES,

smooooooth:
truth is, how many peeps both parties have had b4 they got married shldnt even come up in the relationship, what matters is from dat moment she/he ia all yours and urs only for ever.

I don't know where u come from but r u suggesting one can get married to a "P.rofessional" and just close his eyes and say "F" the past lets live happily 4ever?

She'll "F"the Town and give u somthing u haven't heard of and can't cure

Truth be told it depends on her age, if she is well into her 20s goodluck dnt expect anything less than 15.
it also depends on what age she starts firing.

I'll advise you not to worry about it cos u'll never know just have more than ur own fair share and that will console u.

tell him he wasn't the 1st no matter what he saw. hit below the belt and tell him his idck is small and u were never satisfied. if all that doesnt work, i hate to say this but get close to one of his friends, make sure u dnt sleep with him but keep him guessing, good luck

Pls wait till ur a lil older b4 u continue with intimacy.

MOST PEOLPE JUST FOLLOW THE CROWD AND GENERALLY PEOLPE FIND IT HARD TO GIVE THE CONTENDER THE BELT. TRUTH BE TOLD DINHO IS CLEARLY BETTER THAN ZIDANE.

HE IS MORE COMPLETE, CAN PLAY MORE POSITIONS SCORES MORE, ASSISTS MORE AND HAS MORE TRICKY AND BRILLANCE WHICH UNLOCKS MORE DEFENCES.

EVEN MARADONA WHO IS VERY PROUD, ARROGANT AND WOULD HARDLY COMPLIMENT A BRAZILIAN SAID DINHO WAS BETTER TAHN HIM AND HE WOULD SOLIDIFY HIS PLACE AS THE WORLD'S GREATEST IN 2006. HOWEVER IN 2006 THE COACH'S TATICS, SELFISH KAKA TRYING TO BE AS RELEVANT, FATIGUE AND OTHER THINGS DID NOT GO SO WELL. BUT HE THAT DOES NOT CHANGE ANYTHING. HE SHOWED ZIDANE AND FIGO WHO THE REAL PLAYER WAS WHEN HE WAS IN BARCELONA AND THEY PLAYED FOR MADRID.

NO DISRESPECT TO ZIDANE IS IS GREAT. BUT CHECK THIS OUT
IN 98 RONNIE DESERVED TO BE THE WORLD PLAYER OF THE YEAR. HE WAS THE BEST PLAYER IN THE WORLD CUP AND BEST PLAYER IN UEFA THAT YEAR. IN 2000. I WOULD HAVE GIVEN FIGO AND 2003 I WOULD HAVE GIVEN RONNIE AGAIN. NOTE BOTH RONNIE AND HENRY THAT YEAR HAD MORE NO. 1 VOTES. HE BASICALLY WON ON NO. 2 VOTES.
ANYWAY I CAN GO ON AND ON BUT I GUESS WE CAN ALL AGREE AT LEAST AT THEIR PEAKS DINHO WAS BETTER. (2003-2007)

CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. DNT PICK CALLS DNT TALK ETC UNTIL HE IS MATURE ENUFF TO ACCEPT FRIENDSHIP. U COULD ALSO GET A REAL MAN TO TALK TO HIM SO HE DOESNT KEEP MAKING A FOOL OF HIMSELF. I DNT NEED TO KNOW ALL THE DETAILS, U MAY B MAKING A MISTAKE OR NOT BUT FOR IT TO GET TO NL, BRO SHOULD LET GO!

PLS GUYZ LETS STOP MAKING A FOOL OF OURSELVES, PLS

WELL TRUTH BE TOLD THERE IS A CHANCE SHE HASN'T DONE ANYTHING, YET.
WOMEN LOVE THE ATTENTION BUT I DNT THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE IT LIGHTLY.

TAKE HER UP ON IT LIKE SHE HAS CHEATED B'COS
1. SHE MITE HAVE
2. SHE SHOULD HAVE A CLUE HOW THIS CAN DESTROY UR RELATIONSHIP.

ALSO TALK TO HER ABOUTR BEING NAIVE B'COS ITS JUST WRONG TO BE CALLIN A MARRIED WOMAN AT THAT TIME.

YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF, IS IT A ONE OFF? OR SHE SHE BEEN SHOWING TRAITS OF WEAKNESS TO GUYZ? IF ITS A ONE OFF DNT KILL URSELF OVER IT.

MOST WOMEN WILL CHEAT AT ONE POINT IN TIME OR THE OTHER JUST MAKE SURE YOU DNT LOOSE YOUR RESPECT AND SHE DOENT FEEL COMFORTABLE ABOUT IT. LIKE THEY SAY ONCE YOU KILL YOU'LL FIND IT EASY TO DO AGAIN.
GOOD LUCK

SHE ISN'T FEELIN' YOU PERIOD. FROM WHAT I KNOW ABOUT GIRLS I CAN TELL U THAT THEY ARE ALWAYS READY TO BREAK RULES FOR A GUY THEY LOVE. IF THEY START GIVING EXCUSES I.E MY MOTHER THIS, MY PASTOR THAT, SHE ISN'T FEELIN U.

I HEAR ALOT OF GIRLS SAYING THIS CRAP ABOUT SERVING GOD AND RELATIONSHIPS, ITS REALLY CRAP. GOD WANTS A WOMAN TO BE HAPPY AND NOT BY HERSELF. PASTORS ALSO USE IT TO MANUPULATE THEIR INTRESTS (CHICS THEY HAVE EYES FOR OR ARE FIRING)IN THEIR CHURCH. IT DISGUSTS ME.

BE A MAN AND GIVE HER D SPACE SHE NEEDS AND MAKE SURE U DON'T SOUND PATHETIC. U MUST ALWAYS KEEP YOUR RESPECT. THAT WOULD EITHER BRING HER BACK OR SAVE UR REP/ HONOR.

GOOD LUCK

TO BE HONEST I HOLD THE CHURCHES PARTLY RESPONSIBLE. THEY ARE SO OBSESSED WITH THE PHYSICAL/ MATERIAL IT SHOW EVEN IN THE WAY THEY DRESS.

I ALSO DNT THINK ALOT OF PEOLPE GET THE LAW OF FORNICATION RIGHT. IT HAS MORE TO DO WITH SEXUAL IMORALITY (PROMISCUITY, HOMOSEXUALITY, INCEST,CONVERTING YOUR BROTHER'S WIFEAND THE LIKE.

I SAY NO TO ADULTERY. ONE SHOULD NOT BE THE JUDGE OF ANOTHER MAN'S MARRIAGE, BUT THEN AGAIN WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE WHEN ALOT OF WOMEN ARE ABUSED PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY AND HAVE THE RIGHT TO PURSUE HAPPINESS, ITS A TIGHT CALL.

dnt take it personal, dats on a lighter note.

stay away from people like that, that is if you are not the one lol!

I DNT EVEN KNOW WHERE TO START. I'LL TELL U A FEW THINGS
1. LEAVE HER AND GET ON WITH LIFE- SOME PEOLE HAVE LOST LOVED ONES AND THEY MOVE ON HOW MUCH MORE SOME1 WITHA DEATH WISH
2. YES I THINK SHE ISN'T A SAIT BUT U DNT HAVE TO STOP TALKING TO HER- THAT COULD BE HARD JUST TRY NOT TO SEE MUCH
3. REALLY HOE DID YOYU AVOID GETTING HIV/AIDS? YOU WERE NOT SLEEPING WITH HER OR YOU WER USING PROTECTION WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVED FOR SO LONG? I DNT THINK SO FESS UP!
4. TAKE SOME TIME FOR YOU- CLEAR YOUR HEAD OUT AND FIGURE OUT WHAT FROM LIFE.

BY D WAY PLS TELL US THE TRUTH ABOUT YOU ONLY SLEEPIUNG WITH HER FOR NINE YRS, YOU HAVING HIV ANDANY THING ELSE. WE DNT KNOW WHO U ARE, YOU DNT HAVE TO LIE,

Well i guess you could say it's nothing but more importantly you should be worried about how smart she is. Why would any one do something so stupid. By the way i dnt think its nothing. i'll tell you two things:
1. She has cheated on you with the said guy or
2. she will if she gets the chance

Think bout this,

listen and listen good. you need to take some time and think about it. she may feel sorry now but she'll soon get comfortable with the idea and do it again. please i'm curious, have you been unfaithfull as well? is that why you find it easy to forgive? whatever the case just take your time assess the situation think about what you can live with and get back to her.