Thanks Shalum!

owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

The truth will come out. Try to stay away from making love to her for now. The truth will come out. Man/Husbands don’t usually get jealous, but when they do, it’s for a very good reason. If you know your wife well, study her, you may not say a word. Just study her. The truth will come out very soon. Watch and notice all that has changed in her. From the way she talks to the way she dressed when going out and all. Watch!

truvine:
Yes, it is still available

Wow It looks similar to one that’s close to esuru.

Ibrahim94:



I will advise you to take the bank job, reason being for a station manager you won't have time for yourself. As I'm typing this, I'm still at work since morning being a station supervisor. Albeit, I'm still looking for better Offer just to have time and develop myself.

Think about it.

Do you still work as a station supervisor? I need your assistance please!

truvine:
Invest in this 12 Units of Self Contain Hostel

Location:: Ijebu Ode/Ilese, beside Ogun State School of Health Technology

Available Document:
Registered Survey, Deed of Conveyance and Receipt.

Tenants are readily available. (Students of Health Technology, Ilese) as property is at the back of the school's fence

Asking Price : 15 Million Naira (slightly negotiable )

Contact
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Is this still available?

dosage150:

Thanks so much brother I have a good news ! I secured the job starting up work on 1st of next month The job came with accommodation and an automobile as well The pay isn't bad at all Am really grateful to God

Wow congrats I need to hear more from you

grandpoh:
Don’t be deceived my brother you need to understand if the filling station belongs to an independent marketer or major marketer,if it’s the latter you will be paid handsomely but the former highest you will get is 40k.
Here we pay attendant 10k,supervisor 15k,manager. 30k.

Hello
Please what’s the difference between the supervisor and the filling station manager?

johnnychuks:
. bro this job you are advising him of is not a joke opening to Nigerians, this job they required human head before you can get it, and the more head you offer the closer you are getting to the offer, but with God all things are possible.

Human head? Is that figurative

na2016:


OP take this advice ooo. As a station manager, you can make alot and can even grow to having your own. Shine your eyes and be honest.
Honesty will not stop you from blowing in that place.

I’m interested in keeping honest and yet tapping into the business. Thanks

baba2de:
I applied and was interviewed

You applied Got interviewed And got an acknowledgement that you have been employed And you’re asking if it’s real?
Can you put a call across you them? I’m sure there’s an opportunity for that!

successnwa:
Please house any watsapp group link for Nigeria parents and teachers or proprietor of which i can join.
Thanks.

If something similar exists, it would be on location. You can raise it in the next meeting within the state or the area. (I.e if it doesn’t exist already)

DamZik:


Sorry please, is this a job advertisement? If it is, how can I apply?

No
The advert has been posted early this year. You can still apply anyway but this is for anyone that got invited for the interview.

Lecturer / Teacher at Best Legacy Group of Schools Recruitment
Job Title: Lecturer / Teacher Location: Ogbomosho, Oyo Description We are looking for suitably qualified candidates who will teach the following subjects: Mathematics English Physics Chemistry CRS/IRS Government / Political Science Commerce & Economics Educational Management Computer Science Business Education Agricultural Science Biology Yoruba Social Studies / Civic Education Fine Art Requirement Interested candidates should possess relevant qualifications. Application Closing Date

INVITATION FOR INTERVIEW

You have been invited for an interview with BEST LEGACY COLLEGE OF EDUCATION, Abisara-oke Memorial Estate,Oke- owode Area, Ogbomoso, Oyo state

Remix10:
A multinational Engineering service firm in Lagos is recruiting for field service engineers, must have a Bachelor's or HND degree in Engineering or related field, must be computer savvy and be proactive interested applicants should send their CVs to ikenna.onyedinma@gmail.com with subject of the mail as 'Field service engineer'

is this telecoms?

are goods still being shipped internationally despite the lockdown here and there?

boluwatife2313:
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ejowo, kini oju ojuolongbo

you killed it geez!!!

Ndubuisipaul1:
At the age of 25 I was mocking a man that got married at the age of 33 I told him that he married too late. Now am 32 I don't even know when I will get married because of lack of money.

Many of our Nigerian girls are not married because ,we guys don't make money on time to marry them. Am 32 no girlfriend ( because I cannot sustain them ) and no plans of marriage , and you are blaming the ladies . Will tree marry them?

Meanwhile I am a professional photographer, and videographer.

if you found the person. go marry her. if you are waiting till you are rich or have money, you may never marry. the right wife will bring blessings your way.

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Qualified and experienced Female Teacher needed for playgroup class.
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Must be patient, a fast learner, able to bring out the best in children.
Must stay in Gbagada.

Salary: Negotiable.

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Female sales rep needed

* must be computer literate(Microsoft Office)
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Applicants must reside around Ogudu/Ojota

Interested candidates should send their CV to swifteduconsult@gmail.com with the subject OGUDU

Qualified and experienced Female Teacher needed for playgroup class.
Location: Gbagada

Must be patient, a fast learner, able to bring out the best in children.
Must stay in Gbagada.

Salary: Negotiable.

Send your CV to swifteduconsult@gmail.com or send a WhatsApp message to 08106450944

Qualified and experienced Female Teacher needed for playgroup class.
Location: Gbagada

Must be patient, a fast learner, able to bring out the best in children.
Must stay in Gbagada.

Salary: Negotiable.

Send your CV to swifteduconsult@gmail.com or send a WhatsApp message to 08106450944

For this lockdown

Parents

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

If you would listen to me.
Your life first!
She is your wife!
She’s going no where unless she’s cheating on you.

The main thing you need to do is find another woman to make your wife! She will be humbled!
This second wife will be there to replace her and give you peace!

Don’t divorce her!

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Uyi2017:

Both local and international

Thank you!