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merieam16:
lik seriously sure

Liar sisterAhmed!

lovelyronke20:
Pretty good and urs

sorry I responded twice, network palava

lovelyronke20:
Pretty good and urs

cool

lovelyronke20:
Pretty good and urs

To God b d glory

lovelyronke20:
Am sure jare

Ok o, so hw has ur day been?

yomanovic:
So I heard bro but it could have been in the past. the deal of the matter is that the allegation against her of having an affiar is with people that are known to me. I asked her of what she has with few pple around but she said she is close to the. These people are bosses at my office. By the time you are close to about 3 of my bosses, your level don pass my own na. No be so? In the course of the relationship, she has reported me to two of them that I accused her of dating the. I have to apologise to this people and explained my position which they reasoned with me. So I feel its better to just severe all ties with her.

bros, from what u wrote here I think she is TOO much 4 u, RUN, FLEE.

yomanovic:
Begging me! Sorry you got it wrong. I showed you a man frustrating my life. If you read the conversation very well, you'll see places when she was more or else telling me ' we are still on'. You'll also read the place she said the relationship started by 'force' and you'll see the place she said 'wetin dey do you self? I luv you pass al these one wey u dey do'. Now ask yourself. Is that begging? NO. She aint begging me but out to frustrate me. And I sense her next plan is to trap me with pregnancy. You can see she asked me if missed if I miss and I told her ' I moved on' but she wanted me to tell her I missed her by force when I didn't. Now you can see she is not begging me but frustrating me through self-imposition on me. For your information, the whole lasted for less than 3 months so you should not think bleep her tire and I wan dump. So don't just assume. Read the conversation word for word.

she must have dated some of ur colleagues.

MarthaK:
Things happen... When a couple break up, neither one of them will wanna accept that they were at fault.
As long as you were cool while dating her, you shouldn't be bothered about what she tells people.
She'll paint you black to hide her faults but remain calm. You have nothing to prove to her or anyone she has lied to about you.
Rumors are carried by haters, spread by f00ls and accepted by idiots.

true!!, he shouldn't have sent d conversation 2 d people she told lies(about wanting her back), he doesn't need to prove anything to them.

lovelyronke20:
Of course not his money biko.. He seems like a very nice and caring guy..

oohhhhkkaay,"He SEEMS like" so u aren't sure yet.
All the same, He is a nice guy, I love his music, he is among d few dat write dia songs b4 singing in nigeria.

Tallesty1:
Lies?


I haven't met a taller woman

are u upto 7ft?

lovelyronke20:
abi now.. I will continue to say it until we marry oo..lol

I pray he realizes one day dat he has some1 seriously crushing on him on nairaland. So what qualities made u want him?
Am sure it's not his wealth

YVONE .......okoro



Anyday



IF not married, then Omotola any week

lovelyronke20:
Banky W

u really Banky W, dis z d second time I have heard u say this.

Fkforyou:
Any man who dumps a fine, sweet, fresh mullato like this for Ini edo surely has a problem.

Marriage is not about those qualities u listed above

cole265:
I know some schools who pay fresh graduates 80-100k. As NYSC, they pay up to 30-40k. An average staff in some of these schools gets up to 250 - 500k monthly or even more. It was a shock when I discovered.
I know lots of bank staff that have used influence to cross to these schools as teachers being opportune to know what the staff of these schools get as take home.

what are the names of these schools

Nice one

Tallesty1:
Before I start this, I want to make it clear that I'm not a sexist.

People say it is a man's world, and honestly, it is. I will show you how.

Nature gave us some bonus and women gave their support. Even if a man forgives a cheating wife, the women(society) will not.

Here are the few reasons some men find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife(They are what I heard men say. I didn't author some of them)

1: EGO:- It certainly has alot to do with their ego being bruised. The thought that another man was able to sleep with Someone they believed they had "ownership" of breaks them to pieces as most of them think the women incapable of sex without emotions, meaning the woman loves another. Remember men are like a lioness that can kill most animals for its cubs but will not allow another animal to even play with its cubs.

2: GUILT:- If a woman cheats, the man will never forgive not only the woman but himself no matter whose fault it is. He feels he has failed as a man to protect and keep his own.

3: THEY CAN'T FORGET:- When a man is making love with his wife, it is a sacred rituals the way she moan shows that his sacrifice has been accepted. So if she makes love with another man he will be thinking the temple is no more sacred and when he make love to her and she moan, it will be disgusting cause it will be like that is the way she moaned for the other guy!

4: YOU HAVE LOST HER IF SHE CHEATS:- Female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the beginning of the end of the relationship. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic—they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally. In fact a man can sleep with a woman today and not remember her again but for a woman to have sex with you(in most cases)you must win her heart to win her body.

5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE:- I guess i gotta be blunt here. I know we call it marriage but I think women are being bought in a way. Don't kill me yet, let's analyze it. He buys engagement ring. Proposes to you, you accept then he decides to see your people. Your people accept him and give him a list containing heaven and earth. He agrees to pay, he pays for everything and when your parents feel they have collected enough, they hand you over to him. Then you automatically change your name(Change of ownership) which confirms that you are now his own.

I have seen where women sponsored their marriage and the men don't care when they cheat soI believe the day you stop asking for head-cutting bride price for us to marry then we won't bother much, imagine paying all that money and she gives it to another man..

On a serious note. A cheat is a cheat and you can't quantify cheating. Who is cheating doesn't matter. Stay Faithful

Zammy123:
There's this girl which i dated for 2years..we loved each other so much. Last year she gained admission into ladoke akintola university{LAUTECH}..few months after that she changed towards me. One day she texted me and sed she lost her virginity b4 nightfalls she called me dat it was a joke,weeks after dat she broke up with me..may 6 ds year,she called me and start begging me to cum back to her and also she already lost her virginity to her new boyfriend..please what should i do? Accept her back or decline her plead?

Guy may be she was never a virgin all those time u guys were dating. She is now ready to give it to u so she gats lie dat she just got deflowered.

sexzskil:
Apologies accepted my guy. Actually am just a mere girly girl in real life. Am sorry for being so rude!

tnx dear, u r nice after all.

aspirebig:
Op,
You need to wake up and know that you are in a serious problem and face it.
How can one be depressed because you are 30? I think there is more to it.
What do you do for a living? Have you graduated and no job? Have you learned a trade and no money to establish yourself? Are you still living with your parents? Are you frustrated seeing your peers doing great and you are have nothing to offer? Are you comparing your self to others? Are you thinking of that woman / man that left you for another person and got married and you are still single? Are you thinking of when are you going to rent your own flat,build your own house,buy your jeep or travel abroad annually for holidays?
Do you want to relocate to abroad?

Whatever it is,pls bros,calm down. Such thinking has led many to early graves. Better plan yourself,your time. Write down your plans,table them before God,before you know it,it will become past tense.

You should thank God that you are alive,people that have acquired all those things that you are looking for now die everyday.A triP to the hospital will make you apprecaite God better.

At 30,you can plan yourself towards a better future,it is not too late.Remember that time and tide wait for no man.

Clubbing,womanising,partying will only take away your focus and resources from you. For how long will you club,womanise,party? The earlier you wake to reality the better. I know guys that graduate from uni at 28 to 30,did nysc,got job,marry,buy ride and by 40,they have the 2 or 3 kids they wanted and are already living in their personal house. It is about focus.

Just like u stated, I have seen people dat has acquired anything u can dream of getting and dey end up committing suicide in their mansion. What is it in this life dat we should kill ourselves for? No matter how rich u r, no body will ensure ur happiness but you, so bro live life and enjoy it and like a guy said earlier "Don't spoil ur 2day with d thought of how ur future will be." Me too will b 30 by nov next year and dat doesn't mean I should kill myself b4 I get to 40. If a guy is feeling depressed for turning 30 then what do u want d girls dat r nt married at 30 to do?

farano:
Lolz Good morning...hope you had a good nyt rest

Dsame2u, yes tnk u. Do have a nice day

barcanista:
Another Jonathanian zombie on the loose

Is dat all u can say? Guy u can do better dan dat

jaydee87:
its funny how we act in Nigeria now they said its legal after so much accusation on the wrong people
ques 1: why use the CAN president to transport
ques 2: why did it take S/Africa more than a week to tell us this
ques 3: why isn't Jonathan saying anything about it
and finally I tink our president shud give a speech on this cos it has done more arm than good...
and let's not forget that a meeting was held closed door BTW Mark, Obj and Tinubu..
food for thought: why is this coming after the meeting?

How does OBJ n Co meeting relate to this? Pls b logical abeg

barcanista:
Propaganda cum propagandum. Monies have changed hand. After almost a month? How long does it take to verify the legitimacy or otherwise of a transaction? How can a legitimate deal be made by flying cash around undocumented without the presence of senior officials from the office of the National Security Adviser nor Ministry of Defense nor any of the Service Chiefs. What kind of a deal that will contravene the laws of Money laundering and the CBN cashless policy.. What kind of a "legitimate" deal that will use a private jet belonging to a "Pastor" and Jonathan's ally, ex Armed robber(lols) and controversial figure rather than one of the over 12Presidential Jet? Very funny

It doesn't add up at all. This Jonathanians are not smart at all.

Guy go n sleep joor, ur type just wake up every morning n all u do is to pray 4 antiFEG or antiGEJ news, n when u eventually find one, u cling 2 it no matter how false n stupid it looks. I pity ur likes. A wise fellow knows his or her boundary, when a rational being sees dat he has been proven wrong all he does is to stop talking or accept defeat like berem did above but urs is 2 keep vibrating in nothingness.

DivideUs:
Story story, na now documents commot? This govt sef!

guy, govt issues follow protocol, do u expect d investigation 2 b concluded in one day?

berem:
Front page please! I knew Government was right after all!

GEJ till infinity!

Is this u saying this or someone else is impersonating

aboyaji:
only if you know what that laptop and car symbolizes respectively. The girl with car has been settled. The car will not generete income to her. But the intelligent girl with laptop will see this opportunity as a key to read, browse , write down ideas that will fetch her millions if she works harder

So if u r to choose between d two u will go 4 lap top? to b frank with u, the world in general value entertainment far more dan anything. They don't encourage reading and dey r d first to complain dat nigerians don't read

My course mate in uniport dayz dey dere sef, "canon". May b I will start watching it now.

Bovamm, am d first to like ur dp o since nairaland no dey show who like each dp, lol

cococandy:
See question

Answer am na or u still don't get d reason just like me

sexzskil:
Dumbstar

Apologies, I just said dat as a result of what some guys do, like I said, am sorry.

Cococandy pls what's it in dat ur dp dat pipu r liking? No offense, I just want 2 know

farano:
You're welcome. Blushing?

U r humorous, just noticed it from most of ur posts