bamidelee:

But male folks are to be blamed for the body count. If you don't have sex with them and dump them after your satisfaction, that body count won't exist.
That's why am against sex before marriage

majormofor:
My only advice for men is if you given birth to a girl with a baby mama or who ever try training the girl yourself... BE involved in it so she wnt come out the same way

ubunja:
loneliness by itself wasn't going to cost Adam his life, home and relationship with God. But companionship has done that.

Look at the mess that Prince Harry has got himself in by marrying a divorced woman, Megan! She found him a prince and has succeeded in taking him out of the Royal family and making him just another guy in Canada. Wake up. Women will separate you from your destiny. Truly women are destroyers of Kings. Saith the Bible.

Its isolated. It's 1 in a million. But 1 is too much already. Cause we only have one life.

Hisduchess:


Babe biko Preach! Preach!! Preach!!! Nah them dey often open yeye threads up and down to bash and talk trash. If you ain't married as a man,no one takes you serious in any gathering.they will always wave your talks away cos you never keep woman for house.this is Africa and marriage is a yardstick in measuring so many things about an adult. In Igbo we call them okokporo and old okokporos often gets senior okokporo kolanut during traditional marriage and nah subtle insult be that

Rapmoney:


Young man, you are very wrong. I don't know your age but from your thread, I don't think you have gathered enough experience in life to gain emotional maturity. The reason why many ladies are still single has nothing to do with the mindset of men of your kind. The main reason is tied to the fact that many young men are not financially placed to furnish the cost of marriage and family upkeep.

Don't conclude on issues just because someone woke up one day and decided to write some stuff without taking cognisance of prevailing societal factors.

Mineisgrace:
Who are the people now getting married every Saturday

aytuns:


Not in Nigeria/Africa. Our laws are still very fair on men, so why won't men here want to get married?

MedicH:


Wimpy is not me men u got the wrong guy. I doubt if u strong in mind reach me. Have u ever held a body till it turns cold in death then u leave it and walk away like nothing happened? I am here to relax and have fun and i love my women damn this life is short. just as i love to use my brain cells in all i do. Next time u have nothing to say just lean learn to shut ur mouth and observe.


I do my thing and you do your thing.
I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, And you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you, and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, it's beautiful. If not, it can't be helped.

I think pocohantas is a great personality i observe her inputs here from a distance i don't even follow her but that doesn't mean im head over heals sort of and even if it is, it's not ur business.

By virtue of the number of years i spent in the uni i can say I've virtually seen and interacted with more women than u but you wont find me come here to bash women and throw in hasty generalizations not minding that my mother and only sister are female because i know better. Majority of what u read here are one sided accounts and some are fictitious but hey no one is perfect.

ubunja:
lmfao. Simps will be simps.

MedicH:


This charismatic controversial pocohantas just mentioned me today lol beautiful. Dont mind these men oo i want to marry. If u are ready, call me

RisenPhoenix:


Lol. Look at someone damaged by Hollywood, Bollywood and Nollywood telling me I'm damaged by Ubunja's miseducation. My friend, I found out the true nature of women before I was 16; probably before NL even existed.

My old neighbour sits outside his house the whole day on a cane chair until his maiguard takes him inside the house in the evening. Where he even gets his food; I have no idea. His wife has been in the States with her grown children who have never invited their father to my knowledge. I never saw him pick a phone call from the wife and children that he squandered his money and youth on. Another old pensioner neighbour is constantly being ridiculed by his loud wife because he can no longer bring home the cash. If you see how this once proud man is broken, you will pity him. If not for the fact that he owns the house and the shop which she uses to sell stuff, I am sure that his wife would have left him since.

Is that the kind of companionship you wish for me? No thanks. Forget that nonsense about smiling old married couples vacationing in Hawaii. It's a myth.

pocohantas:


There is nothing to be ashamed of there. These women couldn't get men in their home countries, but can conveniently come to Nigeria and pick able bodied men You all are the ones that should be ashamed. Dump them were? Only in your dreams. You think that place is Nigeria?

Your brothers are fcking SUBMISSIVE there. Go try your alfaness there and get eboued. Haq haq haq...

pocohantas:


Alfa males like you would be used for anything in your PRIME, all it takes is pali.

Once you commot MM, nobody rate you. So, sit down and be humble.

pocohantas:


They are not dumb, they get young prick and a caregiver. I am sure your fellow alfa males are the ones washing their clothes and reminding them to take their drugs.

My Naija sisters hustle and get pali o.

pocohantas:


Very true. Naija alfa males hate evening newspaper, until she has a foreign citizenship. They'll gladly lick her ancestral toto.

Tell us something we haven't heard.

RisenPhoenix:


We are here trying to educate other men on how to get their masculinity back, we are not looking for wife. If we were looking for wives, why are there so many desperate spinsters still on NL?



Those are pussified men that are still not woke. We will wake all men little by little.



We advice women to stay with their husbands FOR THEIR OWN SAKES, and that of the children. If unmarried ladies cannot get husbands, what are the chances of an overused divorcee finding one?



See above.



They are mocked for their misguided belief that they will always be 'hotcake', and the attitude that they show thinking that because men toast them today, they can get a husband anytime they like. Most women do not understand that because a man chases after a woman, it does not necessarily mean that he sees her as an attractive life partner. 99 times out of a 100, he merely sees her as an easy lay for short time relief.



It has started. Many are not, and more are joining. Even those of us who are married mostly stick around for the kids and are totally indifferent to the women we married, doing our own thing and planning our own futures. And one day soon, 50 of you will hold on to a man's cloth offering to buy your own food and upkeep if the man will only let you share his name.



The only contradictions are in your diehard manner of understanding the changing dynamics that feminists have dug themselves into when even your feminist predecessors have seen the light and are abandoning the misandrist ship en masse. Google former feminists like Cassie Jaye, Lorraine Murray and Mary Kenny and LISTEN to what they are telling you. There is a mass awakening among women about sensibly rushing back to the kitchen to retain men in their lives.



Write a sensible comment first.

LilMissFavvy:
You don Nack and tire, yet you complain that women have many body counts and have loose vjays. If men are the ones nacking and getting tired, then they definitely deserve the lose vjay. By the way, we still have so many decent women, if you can't get one, then maybe you don't deserve one.

From this write up, I feel the failure of marriages is caused mostly by men, I am not interested in going into details cuz many threads on this forum do address that, however, the men should stop the babymama syndrome, because it will turn out to affect men in the long run. As long as the woman is the one who carries the pregnancy, nurtures the child, she can make/or/mar the child, infact the foetoes. She can turn the child against the father. Have we not heard of some women groups abroad who want the emancipation of men and are out to control the number of male child births? Nature created us male and female, children should be brought up properly in marriages, men should appreciate and treat the modern women right, that way, marriages will be beneficial for both genders.

CHoccolaTE:
Those of you against marriage in this thread, oya claim it,
In Jesus name/in the name of Allah,
You will never find wives and never be married for the rest of your lives. You will all die as bachelors, with no marriage or wives.
Amiinnn

So be it in your lives

zexy2030:

How can this one be a wife material? Just thinking...ur character need to be checked if u r still searching.
I just understood why u regularly visit romance section. Good luck.

cerpvad:
Good. Don't you think you will be happier when you go to stadium in the company of your wife, children and grandchildren at that critical old age than to go alone? I watch premier league well and I see people both old and young in the company of their families watching the games and they appear happier than those who have come there alone

cerpvad:
Marriage is part of total success. Your misery go be like imported from hell if at old age it is only you sleeping in your cold bed

cerpvad:
Na the video games go be human company you go badly need at your old age àbí? Na the premiere league go dey fulfil your sexual fantasy at old age? I pity you you bruh

cerpvad:
I keep saying it that those of you who are against marriage now, na loneliness go kill you at old age.

MrCork:




Great news..quit wasting time advisin the planet. I juss found a man for u,Davash222. He said he love lesssbian & that u the best feminist on nairaland.
Please giv him ya nomba & call him so shes even a feminist feminist that is looking for a real man... onye ara

Jewessgratitude:



Lol... I will not be a single forever. I'll soon post my wedding pics here and you'll see it live! Ok?
You have chosen that part so be it unto you.

Real men dont reason the way you do. It because you're not a real man, thats why you have a poor and weak mentality.
Real men dont argue with women and that is why you're backing out cos uoi can live with your fellow woman as you'll have troubles cohabiting like you rightly said. Only sissies like you would support this post.

As for me, I will marry a real man who can handle me like a real man should.

Tot I was talking to a man though.

Designerdollars:
nah this kine news dey sweet me

Ladies, listen up: we men are now the prize
So if you don't toast us, I'm sorry you are gonna die single

Jewessgratitude:



You guys should speak for yourselfs.
I don't know why you're making it look like its a taboo for an eligible spinster to be on the lookout for a man to marry. Should I be looking out for a woman? Or cant you see you're beginning to sound off?

The fact that majority of you are here to flirt away your lives doesn't mean there no decent men out there who still have sense and understand God's purpose for their lives to marry and obtain His blessings.

If we check those of you always coming here to bash women, youll likely be all these dry looking men we avoid in real life. Yes! So what's the boast about? Na una type?

oodua1stson:
Not surprising baby mama ti take over.



Just get someone pregnant, send upkeep money and be free from all bullshit

AfroKnight:


He is right.

You know he is right cos you yourself are still on the look out for a man to marry.

Marriage is no more attractive to men cos of the way society glosses over the toxicity these women bring into their marriages. Sometimes you wonder if it’s a home or a battleground for women against men.

Guys are leaning towards illegitimate children these days. Babymama drama is not as difficult to deal with as crazy wife drama.