Why would anyone wonna marry an old divorcee for gods sake

Everyday there's a new simp... why do men tolerate women like yhis.. how can weak men rule the world?

ImaIma1:


If in all these years, the ladies you have related with or been in a relationship with are all the way you say, then I think you might be the problem. You are a magnet to their kind

do you relate with only men you intend to be cozy or romantic with?.. the women i relate with are just friends or we have some business to do together.. hows that a problem I'm not interested in sparking a romantic affair with them?

You just wonder, this isn't the 60s.. stay away from these toxic muppets

ImaIma1:


So you have talked to and related with only guys since 2015?

obviously i have related with women, but not in a relationship or lovey lovey p

ImaIma1:


And you'll keep meeting the bad ones because that is what you expect and choose to believe.

i don't even try to establish any relationship.. haven't done that sinve 2015

ImaIma1:


You have only seen the bad ones and are judging based on your own experiences. Would it be impossible for you to see that there are actually good women?

You should know that some people only have good experiences with women and would argue your stance out with you and you would be at opposite ends.

What I am trying to say is that, it is better to be objective and unbiased so that we don't jump into conclusions and judge people unfairly because we have preconceived notions that impair our judgement.

I have had quite a number of bad experiences with Nigerian men. But I still have an open mind because it would be a fallacy for me to judge everyone based on my experiences and those around me.

maybe you're right. But in this generation and age the good ones are kess than 20% .. i wouldn't take that risk

Just got it, still very clean, no broken screen.. proce 185k, slightly negotiable

ImaIma1:


Even if God comes down himself to say it was a lie, people like Kennedyiheme will still stick to the initial story because it puts women in the bad light that appeals more to him than women being good.

It takes a noble person to admit that he was wrong. But to save face, most guys here will stubbornly stick to what they want to believe.

really now, I've seen alot to know when you give a woman power she gets intoxicated

kokanepyramid:

He said the the guys that slept with his wife respect him.

you see why I'm thinking its probably a social experiment story to see how people react to stories like this cos, I'm just baffled

All you listed are the commandments of simpmen

Michellekabod2:
eyea... I don't meet the criteria of alloysteel so I am not bothered. He said christian and 22-28. I am atheist and not in that age range.

Don't spoil the show for ladies that qualify. You can devote your derailing time to improve on your english

i see you're stylishly looking for a husband.. you won't get one with this your hothead

Omar09:


Simping men everywhere. They make things difficult for us. It's very much appalling. What is wrong in applying?

But tbh this is not the best way to look for a wife. Unless of course they wouldn't get married right away.

i laugh when i see men posting about wives when its nots even a hard thing to get for men... simps are just destroying the world

AlloySteel:


Oh, nice choice...guess you're still in your teens or early 20s. You'll understand when you grow older. Uhmm, what do I know, that's your choice.

P. S: Disregard my joke up there . That a woman is not a graduate doesn't mean she won't be successful as a wife. Most of our mothers in Nigeria didn't go to school and they still raised good children. However, it's good to marry someone who's as cerebral as you are, if not more. In marriage, communication and compatibility is key.

and i guess you're still immature to think nairaland is the right place to get a girl.. damn simps have taken over our generation

kellycute:
my bro, something need to be done about this set of people asap. I'm literally upset by his stupid action. He doesn't even see anything wrong with his wife and he is still trying to paint her "good".. What effrontery!. Both the man and the wife are mad!!.

i dont think he's ready to take anyones advice.. just wants to return being a simp, i cant help someone like that

francesco01:

if person just impregnate one girl and she born like 2 or 3 ,and guy will be taking care of my kids, that's all I have achieved the most important thing in marriage be that oooo,I go dey enjoy my life dey go

ah swear... I've made a vow I'm never getting married

francesco01:

plus nacking babes and plenty oloshos regularly

i tire my broda...dem one black mail us into marriage

kellycute:
get out of my sight blue piller!

you see why the blue pill men are the problem of this generation?

whatdowomenwant:


How do you want me to prove that I am telling you the truth?

i dont know, its just not what we see in movies, your reaction, your attitude, are you a nigerian?...

Why would you want to confront the men she had affairs with, you're only mocking yourself, i told you before, any idea of getting back together is just a waste of time, the damage is done, you cant do anything about it, you're already a laughable as it is, you're not respected, just let it go, let the marriage go, somethings are not meant to last forever, people gi through divorce everytime, let it go bro

whatdowomenwant:
I know this is not right, but is there any need to confront some of the men she cheated with, as I do know some of them. At least, two of them are my friends. Though not very close friends. But they respect me and know me well.

How do I handle myself with these men. I can't begin to think what they did

for some reason I'm thinking this story is a fairytale story.. its not real right?

RisenPhoenix:


It pained you so much? Ok sorry.
Now please get off my mention. Find someone your level to play with.



Definitely a simp bro. Definitely a simp. Only a loud mouthed one with mummy issues and a little dick. Oh, and he's crushing on someone on NL. Not fair to mention her name since she's not to blame. He thinks he's impressing her with this. He also seems to know all the agbalumo and moi moi sellers in his area. Probably been crushing on them too; since he knows all their names. Bet you my bottom dollar that none of them knows his.

this simp men don't know you can't get a woman when you're a nice giy trying to impress them

Organs:



You are the stupid one. You think you are in the generation of your forefathers where Men feel entitled and always and forever right and a woman is supposed to be subservient? Unless you meet a mumu virgin girl. Again, you have no right to open your mouth and say you want virgin if you have been busy yourself. So, who should marry the ones you slept with? Most guys with your mentality have small dicks. So you carry your mumu small prick shook here and there then at the end come say that mumu small dick dey find virgin.

you're either a gay man or a simp