Kobicove:


Of course people have faults but if it took him 7 years to find out those faults then end the relationship with the lady after wasting her time then that's being cruel.

Which reasonable guy in Nigeria would want to marry a lady who was in a relationship for 7 years?!

you dont believe people change as time goes on?

etrange:
You guys just prove the need for feminism with every chauvinistic thread you create. To think that grownup men would read such a sexist writeup and nod in support is alarming. The worse is that when you want to engage them in a meaningful conversation, they call you "a stupid feminist".

Why is it always about men?

When a man cheats; don't worry, he still loves the wife. (how the wife feels doesn't count). When a woman cheats; ah! She'll kill the man (it's always about the man). How do you people even feel justifying cheating with such dumb excuses?

Tomorrow, you'll still insult the same women you cheat with for sleeping around. How brainless...

its its reality

Mstick:
But, but the men are the ones shaming the stay at home mom. I’ve not seen any woman shaming housewives because that’s a WHOLE JOB on its own but you mean men feel once a woman isn’t contributing financially to the upkeep of the family then she has no right.

And no! No woman goes out from her home to sell in this dirty markets just to indulge her extravagances, heck most of you wouldn’t have seen the four walls of schools if your mothers didn’t step up.

now thats a lie.. i watch alot of feminists videos, and also good morning brittain, there's alot of instances where feminists shame stay at home moms..

RisenPhoenix:


I have already answered her. Ask someone else to explain my answer to you if you still don't get it.

i suggest you leave her alone.. feminists are unrepentant arrogant pricks... its a waste of time indulging them..

ePoster:
A man wouldnt get emotionally attached to a woman he had a one night stand with
A woman wouldnt get emotionally attached to a man she had a one night stand with
A man would get attached to a woman he is having an extramarital affair with
A woman would get attached to a man she is having an extramarital affair with.
Be specific

we are done here

yanabasee:



My point is intact and not digressed.


I maintain that, cheating is both ways... And whatever makes a man to cheat and discontinue in a relationship is the same thing that will make a woman cheat and discontinue the relationship.


If it is disastrous for a woman to cheat, then, it's also disastrous for a man to cheat as the reason for cheating is always flimsy!!

ok

yanabasee:



And seeking comfort from another person, other than your partner is cheating...


And it's that very comfort that took away his attention...

you probably missed the point.. the point is men dont get emotional attachment from sex.. it is more disastrous when a woman cheats because of sex than when a man does.. yall find it hard comprehending things on here

Kobicove:


Of course he jilted her!

How can you date a lady for 7 years then suddenly say you don't want to marry her.

Look by the time a relationship is 6months old any serious gut will know if he wants to commit or not

you don't believe people have faults?..

RisenPhoenix:


They are not all irredeemable. At least, she should understand that one party cheating does not justify the other retaliating; which was the general focus of the question she asked me earlier.

most of them are feminists online.. I've met a few of them, its all hypocrisy

yanabasee:



Someone dragged his attention away.

In many cases of separation in relationship/marriage. One person goes down without a partner and the other goes on with a partner. Which often is the reason for the breakup.


It's usually when one person finds joy in their side-partners that they'll begin to find faults and lack of interest to discontinue in a relationship.

his attention wasn't pulled away because of the sex... his relationship was probably in rocks... he only found confort in her company.. not because she gave him good sex

RisenPhoenix:


The roles of marriage are not interchangeable. It is the duty of the husband to take financial care of the family and the duty of the wife to keep him sexually satisfied and bear him genetically true children.

Secondly, if she's the one taking care of the man financially, he's cheating her and she has a right to leave him, but not to cheat back on him. Likewise, if she fails to reserve her body for him or satisfy him sexually, he has a right to leave her, but not to cheat on her by cutting off her maintenance while still calling her his wife.

dont bother, shes a feminists.. doesn't understand all this

comshots:

Your opinion

the reality

yanabasee:




Emotions have direction too...


Haven't you heard, where men send their wives packing over another woman?

You can't justify cheating. When someone get too attached to sexing his/her side-partner and feel even more happy and comfortable around them, They will begin to lose interest in their first found love. It's a two ways thing.

Staying happy in a relationship or marriage is key... Finding that happiness is what leads to cheating!!

no it doesn't, in most cases before a man marries another woman, he musy have told his wife he isn't interested anymore.... but the woman still assumes they are still in a relationship, men are tops, men aren't afraid of doing away with relationships in most cases... i know of a case of a family freind who was dating this girl for 7 years, he told her he wasnt interested anymore in the relationship, after a year or so he got married to someone else, guess what she came out saying he jilted her and got married behind her back

Ceenelly:
you can forgive but don't keep the relationship, if you don't forgive you will be hurting yourself

yes surely forgive...

Lies and emotions playing out thats why men shouldn't bother being in relationships

Oluwaphemite:

Cheating is cheating, don't add sugar to it.

no its not, i wonder why you people never use your head

Davash222:
A man may be having side chick, but that won’t deter his love or feeling for his wife. But, once a woman starts cheating, she automatically hates the husband and can kill him.
Women attach too much emotions on sex, once your sex game is good, she loves you more than her husband.
No matter how good you are on bed or caring, a man can never love you more than his wife! You’re only a side-chick.

spot on

Its simple a man that cheats on his wife or gf does it just for pleasure, men don't cheat with their hearts or for love, men are only investing in sex, but for women, unless shes a sex worker, women cheat because they are no longer in love with thier spouse, they cheat with their hearts...

A cheating wife can kill her husband... i watch forensic files and 2 out of 3 times a wife kills her husband is because of extramarital affairs...

Thats why the first time you catch your wife or gf cheating , break up immediately dont do any forgiveness as she'll see you as a weak man...

I pity men that forgives cheating spouses.. if you're not redpill and all for marriage ritual, take this advice

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Michellekabod2:
you are a wimp, a weakling with no guts. So you depend on the society approval before having sex? Where are your guts? So if the society frowned at your having sex you will close your thighs? This is cowardice! The society should not be a sheriff of your pants. you are not man enough .Despite the society disapproval of me having sex,I will have sex if I wish(albeit I am choosing celibacy for now,for personal reasons) and tell the society to go fukc themselves. So who have more guts here between you and I?

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fieryy:


Actually YOU are the ignorant one here. The vagina is an ELASTIC tissue, supported by pelvic muscles. Although the length and width of the vaginal canal varies, this doesn't affect it's elasticity.

If a vagina is elastic enough to hold a TAMPON and menstrual cup, it sure is as hell capable of holding a D!
The feeling of “tightness” during sex is due the pelvic floor, which is in turn based on how aroused and relaxed the lady is.

A weak pelvic floor in ladies (by the way men can have it too) is usually due to pregnancy and childbirth, but since these are muscles than can be exercised, in this case with Kegel exercises, it can be strengthened again.

As long as she's not suffering from urine leakage, her pelvic floor is totally fine.

You claim it's not the fault of guys, who have small ds, that it's natural blablala.

Well this is as well.

In this case, the man was indicating the reason the lady has a wide vagina is due to her sleeping with various men... Lmaooo!!!
"The man who dropped his wife at her parents house in ubiaja in a green coloured golf 4 told his in-laws that many people must have slept with Edeki for her virginal to be that wide"

Sorry but no amount of D in this world is capable of having an effect on the pelvic floors of a woman, unless there's one as big as a newborn's head.

disgusting..

J111333:
I disagree. Kids are involved and what divorce does to kids is better imagined than experienced. Sh1t happens but a wise man takes decisions based on so many considerations.

no, the kids can be taken care of.. its only a weak man that would continue that kinda marriage, what has happened to men of this days.. my god

doggedfighter:

You too is forming red pill. Joker

lol i see the redpill market has spoilt alot of things for ya'll, alot of ladies on my whats app status keep complaining about not having a BF eyaaa

whatdowomenwant:


The psychologist,a lady says:

Forgive then separate temporarily. Or

Forgive and start over on one condition

That she opens up. She believes that my wife is not telling me all the truth. The only men she has ever accepted and insists that she slept with are the ones I have evidences.

So the psychologist says she must open up if we must go ahead.

i suspected the physiologist is a woman, she's sympathetic to your wifes predicament and would only give you an advice that would see you both together.. separate permanently

doggedfighter:

Very bitter and and angry boys

go and sit down abeg

You see why we tell me to swallow the red pill?? these bitches need no mercy

whatdowomenwant:


Thanks for this. I'm shocked at what practical things I could have done in the past other than just forgiveness. The psychologist I called today also insists that forgiveness is okay, but practical steps must be taken.

She also agrees DNA is the first step. And I'm doing that asap.

Regret: Never knew I would come to this point in my life.

forget the psychologist, if he's insisting you forgive her and start afresh, don't listen to that advice.. if he's saying forgive but dont continue the union, thats fine...

J111333:
DNA test is the first step in the right direction. Your wife will stop the madness when she sees that you are damn serious about her stopping it.
How can you keep flogging a dead horse with rubber stick when there are iron chains around.
Sit her down and warn her that this will be the last you'll ever tolerate her madness and if she starts her manipulative moves of shouting back at you, tell her to sit her ass down and listen to your rules here.
You can't keep asslicking and loving a woman who manipulates and disrespect you.

stop that last time shit bro... the marriage has been over long time ago

Hisduchess:


This female hater is here.una go wail on top woman matter till y'all drink sniper.i knew I was gonna see you and omar9 here cos this kinda matter both of you will jump in here to show that ya both are redpillers abi bluepillers with so much hate for the female folks.awon nairaland internet warriors. Our matter go dey pain una sotey una nyash go commot. As for the op that fabricated that story biko go get sense,there are real intelligent people here not itiboribos and broke female haters.see them shouting yen yen yen.

STOP PAINTING THE FEMALE FOLK BAD NAIRALAND BOYS.YALL SHOULD GROW UP

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