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Good letter, but which one of them will ever read this ?

benbrains: Does age have anything to do with maturity?
Just a second, can U̶̲̥̅̊ plz throw more light on W̶̲̥̅ђa̶̲̥̅̊† U̶̲̥̅̊ mean by " financially buoyant"? Thanks...

I want to substitute the word "buoyant" with "stable" I meant the man should have a "dependable" source of income, marriage can be frustrating if it is graced with early sufferings and poverty. Both of them should be able to agree that they are ready for the "challenges" be that as it may.

shadrach77: For those of you who have been erroneously quoting Proverbs 18:22, here are two alternatives to that scripture

One night as I lay in bed, I yearned for my lover.
I yearned for him, but he did not come.
2 So I said to myself, “I will get up and roam the city,
searching in all its streets and squares.
I will search for the one I love.”
So I searched everywhere but did not find him.
3 The watchmen stopped me as they made their rounds,
and I asked, “Have you seen the one I love?”
4 Then scarcely had I left them
when I found my love!
I caught and held him tightly,
then I brought him to my mother’s house,
into my mother’s bed, where I had been conceived.
Songs of Solomon 3:1-4

1 In that day seven women
will take hold of one man
and say, “We will eat our own food
and provide our own clothes;
only let us be called by your name.
Take away our disgrace!”
isaiah 4:1

[size=14pt]Bottom line is, contrary to what some people would have you believe, the bible supports a woman wooing a man[/size] :-
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You are bent on making arguments whether it is wrong or right, the question is "TELL US IF YOU WILL MARRY SUCH A WOMAN" I have seen relationships that started like that and the man will always say "that is how you pushed yourself to me" on the long-run such marriage is prone to be filled with NEGLECTS and LACK OF VALUE. If it can work for you, then I wish u all the best

This matter is a matter of personal choice for goodness sake, it's not a debate. Naturally men are hunters, if he chases and catches the prey,it is so sweet in his mouth but if it comes too cheap, 98% of guys won't actually value the marriage on the long -run.

So if I'm a lady I won't do it, and as a man, it turns me off when a lady asks me out, it happens to me almost every week. MaRriage is a far more complicated issue, a man should be careful before making such a terrific decision.

sadeiyare: We should not forget that the writer of that
particular scripture was a man. What about she that finds a husband, like ruth did Boaz, did she not find a good thing ?

Ruth did not propose to Boaz, she only provided a platform for a connection between them. And Boaz being a noble man knew when he found the right woman for him unlike most guys now who are only sensitive to sex and bed.

ƑƟя me I can marry young if I'm financially buoyant, our view towards marriage has always been "it's full of sufferings, so difficult, so bad, so problematic" does it mean no one has seen a peaceful marriage?


Anyway, it's individual difference shaa. But the most important thing is for the person to know for sure that He or She is ready.

I'm getting a training from Jack Bauer to help arrest Boko Haram and also to stop ALUU from happening in this nation.

joeydozzy: who molests idiot, sholly or abil?

The later, the former is such a lovely clown

I will pick Sholly popz and AbiL, I love the way she molests idiots with abuses.

I want to eat all these fruits

Then I will know where I fall in

I will sing " I GO CHOP YOUR DOLLAR" by OSuofia

amiskurii: The silly thing i did was giving my virginity to him at the wrong time, because i felt that it could make him stay wit me, and also win his heart to me. Above al he left.
I had always wished i could ve a 2nd chance, then i would choose right.

Life goes on!!! No need to regret the past, learn from it.


You can't make someone to love you, you can only make yourself someone who can be loved.

Sonye: Yes o! and i will attend his funeral to make sure he does not get up. we were even engaged when he got the job. and then he became a lagos big boi and all of a sudden, his mouth changed to "our stars don't match". God dey

Chai!!! Look at me waiting for true love when other guys are wasting opportunities. Babe God will surely open your eyes to see He [God] has better plans ƑƟя ur life.

vivian chinaza: Well, that was for my ex................I cooked for him with the last money I had on me.

This is not silly @ all!!!!!!!!!!, say it this way, "I cooked the food we both ate with the last money on me" ♈☺υ did not cook 4 him, you cooked even what u ate.

"The winner gets it all, na ulo uka ka okazi njo, when the winner gets it all it makes the looser stand so small."

You directly touched my life , great songs of reflection, the foundation of my youthful morality. I love him so much, such a pity I haven't made it yet.

REST in PEACE sir!!!!! You are truly a GENERAL, GOD's GENERAL

Oahray: *exasperated sigh* havnt you heard people say 'why wasnt it me?'. Its not because they wish to die. Its simply an exaggeration to show how much it hurts them. He isnt trying to paint himself a saviour, just showing he felt the horror of their deaths. That is pure poetry you see there. Stop hating on it.

Thank you my brother!!! You really did not waste your school fees, leave that guy alone, he's so biased.

No EX. I must not have one.

idowuswap: Igbos dose nt value thier life.so let them die like animal.yin mirin.they just dey do any how 4 outside imagine how prison occupied by igbo with senseless act.all na business but then dey live life reach 35.b4 they kpai.anima thieffffff

Is this English you typed or Swahili, IBU EZIGBO ITI BORIBO!!!

Nice one M I, the song is so deep and cool, may their souls rest in PEACE.




I suggest TONTO should sing ƑƟя them too

slimyem: i don't see any guy who has done anything out of the ordinary on this thread except for the one who died jumping from the 4th floor....

Let's talk about what you've done, what have you done for a guy?

I did so many silly things, oh! Lord pls 4give me.
1. Bought her a phone with my feeding money in school.
2.Always shared any airtime I recharged or someone sent to me equally with her[without asking].
3.Make call of atleast 10-20 mins daily[not night call ooº°˚˚°ºº°˚˚˚°o].
4.Always apologized even when she's wrong.
5.Scared all other girls that were nice to me away[so she won't reject me].

The summary of the whole matter is that we were not even dating, I was just trying to win her heart.I didn't date anyone thru out my stay in the University cos I was hopiing she will say "YES" one day.

So where are the babes that complain that guys are wicked, I can say emphatically that the ladies make us wicked in most cases.
I hope to love again but not soonest.

In my own case, most of the "beautiful" babes I've met are so proud and rude, but they hardly notice it, they misjudge the male folks easily, they think that when you say "hi", u mean I wanna Bleep u here and now.I've already given up on the so called too fine ladies cos I'm a quiet person, and d jealous lover, don't think I can really cope with seeing many men eyeing my babe.

Gilbus1: Please can anyone give me a link to download Nathaniel Bassey's song titled "is your name in the book of life". I'll appreciate it a lot cos I've searched on google but couldn't get a good link.

If u are on BBm, I could add u, send u the songs and delete u. Agreed?

berem: Who gives a fucck?

I'm 80 per centum sure the husband gave the Bleep, now we see the result
Sharp guy tho

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Reyginus: In my school, their are 5 schools/faculties:soht, sosc, sat, seet and smat.
I have this neighbour in my year two who is the undisputed king of lying.
His lies know no bound. He devised a way of collecting money from his parents with the names of all the faculties.
In addition to other solid lies, He will tell his parents he is to pay soht fee, smat fee, sat fee, seet feet, and sosc feel, each 5000.

FUTO guys are too bad when it comes to lies. Too many guys inflate their fees just to measure up, and in most cases, the parents are too poor. #Smh

I can't measure up shaa but I thank God.

Thank God I'm saved, now I understand what the otherwise are passing through. Thank you Jesus once again.
For many of you who the devil has already deceived, he will laughed back at you one day when he has accomplished his missions; to steal u away from the truth, kill you with ignorance, and henceforth destroy you with sufferings, suffering only comes to a man who is ignorant about anything in life.

Billyonaire: There is nothing evil about sex. Not at all. Religion gives bad names to issues and tells people about existent iniquities just to induce the guilty sentiments, and go behind to control you in a chain or sinfulness and repentance, a perpetual cycle to keep you in church and milk you of your resources. Think of it, Hospital is for the sick, and when you get well, you check out and go home. Church is for the sinners, when you are cleansed, you are supposed to go home, but unfortunately, you will never have to go home, cos pastors say, you were born in sin (iniiquity). Sex became sin, so in sin, you were born. It is silly to believe all that bullcrap!

I'm so surprised that we still have people from the 1920s still working around with ignorance, I understand that some people will never know the truth because they hate how it hurts, if this truth has found ♈☺υ out, all ♈☺υ need do is confess your sins and God will have mercy on ♈☺υ. Stop fighting the truth!!! And a word of advice, a man who commits atrocities with his mouth against God and his servants will undoubtedly be subjected to mockery and shame in this life if he doesn't repent. Hold your mouth!!!!!!!!!!