paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women?

The mentality that women should take care of themselves and work to provide for their wants is plausible.... that leaves us with the men.. what would these bunch be doing then?

with my previous comments I have been trying to make you reason, but now it is justifiable to say you are daft and the level of daftness is beyond any solution weather medically, academically or spiritually. thank you.

coogar:

the man is not smart -

he should have consulted scott young(multibillionaire). his wife wanted a divorce. he told her if he kept it under wraps, he would give her £300m. she refused cos she wanted more & she went to court.

before the court could hear the case, scott young transferred all his assets outside the UK using some russian connections. he went to court & claimed he was broke! he said he made bad judgement in his investments & he's lost all his money.

the wife insisted he had more than he was claiming. the case dragged for years. the man even spent 3 months in prison for court contempt cos it everyone knew he was lying but it couldn't be proven. the wife said scott promised her £300 initially, scott said he was drunk when he said so cos he didn't even have that amount.

sometime last month, the judge had to bring the case to closure & scott was asked to pay just £20m to his wife within 30 days. the wife has spent close to £10m on this case already. wife lost, scott young won & he saved £280m he would have given an ungrateful wife.

i enjoyed this story to d fullest. my pain is jst this "even if a woman is promiscuous".what nonsense? @op if u say men cheat also, i thought u want gender equality, then d woman should also kick him out and support him financially or wat do you think?

paris10:

Why not respond to the rest of my post. Why is it that you only have issue with the responsibility part?

Because i think this guys are trying to let you know they see nothing wrong in the rest of your post( which is sensible and humble) and they have found somthing wrong with the part of "even if promiscuous" but you have failed to even reason with them probably out of pride, one sided emotions or some kind of sexist mentality

Ibukunjah: Issues of marriage are best handled not by 'fire for fire' approach. You have to play the mature role and never make moves that will tear your marriage apart as I think that should be the last resort. Remember, divorce usually affect the children adversely emotionally and mentally.
Have you tried talking to someone she may listen to, perhaps her parents?
Are you sure she is not reacting to ill-treatment from your parents or yourself?
The point is: Try find out why she behaves the way she does.

All times cannot be quarrel times. There will be times when you both will feel happy together. Take advantage of those times and constructively approach the issue, never with the intention of winning the argument but winning your partner.

I understand that the relationship was not based on heartfelt love but on unavoidable responsibility. That alone is a factor in resolving issues but that does not mean it cannot work out at last.

Why not take this power-packed free email course that is helping many Nigerian marriages. It is available here: http://surefamilytips.com/Mistakes.htm

Pray and work hard, try your best and never think divorce is the first option.

Na so that gospel singer do am so tay e reach wen him wyf slice im pr*ck o. @ op no form mumu o!, b4 ur own case go come worse o! ehen!, is either u take control or find ur square root.

Ibukunjah: Issues of marriage are best handled not by 'fire for fire' approach. You have to play the mature role and never make moves that will tear your marriage apart as I think that should be the last resort. Remember, divorce usually affect the children adversely emotionally and mentally.
Have you tried talking to someone she may listen to, perhaps her parents?
Are you sure she is not reacting to ill-treatment from your parents or yourself?
The point is: Try find out why she behaves the way she does.

All times cannot be quarrel times. There will be times when you both will feel happy together. Take advantage of those times and constructively approach the issue, never with the intention of winning the argument but winning your partner.

I understand that the relationship was not based on heartfelt love but on unavoidable responsibility. That alone is a factor in resolving issues but that does not mean it cannot work out at last.

Why not take this power-packed free email course that is helping many Nigerian marriages. It is available here: http://surefamilytips.com/Mistakes.htm

Pray and work hard, try your best and never think divorce is the first option.

Na so that gospel singer do am so tay e reach wen him wyf slice im pr*ck o. @ op no form mumu o!, b4 ur own case go come worse o! ehen!, is either u take control or find ur square root.

devour129: trust me that's what she is doing ! It's crazy but I fear for that guy

So it is gud for lady to b throwing slaps at thier will and for d guy to kip accepting d slaps with smile nd hope abi? i dnt support beating women neither do i support maltreating of guys, i think u shld b fair in judgements (am not a sexist)

kandiikane:

Well then I guess our forefathers use to prostitute their daughters and the daughters carried it on. Indirect prostitution.

Read and try to understand the question.

If you don't want to earn a punny stay celibate or phuck a goat.

see dis 1 o!, if u tink it is gud to buy ur wyf n her punny then 1 day sombody weathier will also av acess to ur wyfs punny

kandiikane: Lol you wan a woman but you nor wan work for am? Foolish men! Go ashawo joint now. It will be cheaper foe you. Nansense.

See dis maga for yahoo girls, na ur type dey pay skul fees finish afterwards them (d girl) go say u no dey thier class. bf different from hsband if dnt knw

Caracta: See them feel all superior yet they cry when women break their hearts. You begin to hear, "Baby pls don't go. Please." Pffftttt. Just check out the "cry-baby" threads on romance section...always opened by the BOYS!

And do I need to talk about the "rate me" pics? Low self-esteem at its finest.

@mondisweets, I dey your back gidigba.

*spreads mat*

Its true women dnt know what they want. OP said "women dont like guys behaving like gods" and here you are contradicting and supporting @ dsame time and other women are busy liking ur comment including d Op

i pay over 200k for a state government school (lasu) yet over 30% stood while writing our physics exams cos of lack of chairs in the hall and you need to see 100 level halls for lectures xpecialy sciences 'no place to sit, student packed like sardins, no mic no speakers' u nid to see how students are treated. we wrk real hard for ourselves and by ourselves to answer thier very, very tough xsams ?s, and som lecturers will still be xpectin bribe whether or not you wrote ur xsams well ;DThank God i don almost graduate

Lagos=(dumb, wicked 'only for the rich' lawyer) =one word

Kai listen every body, thick is thick, fat is fat. when your yansh and boby is visible and sexy (you are thick), when your yansh and boby is visible and not sexy(iritating or turning off) then you are not thick o!

destino24: Op, will you date your girlfriend without sex until marriage??
Most guys won't

Does that mean the guy is just after sex? because to me it does not. i want to have or feel like having sex in a relationship does not mean thats all i want from the relationship, it does not even mean that it 'sex' has become priority in the relationship

Am so happy with you@ saga, i wish i have the time to argue with "fucktards", i hate aggressiveness so much that i wouldnt want to agure with an aggressive f.....

Dolcilicious: Tips to b a crazy gal plz#guyz view n ladies view#thanks

come to the centre and start to kolo, make we see if you no go carry bele true, true. (2face said it) not me

I disvirgined a girl once but out of all d girls i have dated she is the least when it comes who i have fallen in love with infact i pity her so much for trying to make the relationship work, that i have to swear never to disvirgin a girl again. for those of you who are virginmaniac just be careful or you might not be as lucky as i am, just imaging that i married that girl because she was a virgin, oh God it would have been hell for the both of us.

they only stay on my bed when they are comfortable with sexy business weither frnds or not, and i tell u, i do get a lot of visits even with my rough play. every other wrong Visit can b discussed on d couch or beta outside my door