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Nonywendy:
if you can't tell him to stop coming to ur house then you are not ready. Stop complaining or there is something you are not telling us, this one he has your house key

He Own My Key Because At Time He Use To bring His Partner when Am Not Around

frozen70:
Stop giving him those things that attracts him to your house and whenever he comes, just tell him that you are going out, keep doing so to him

good i think Thats The Best Thing To Do

VinnyBaba:
Eat Beans and Eggs Constantly, so that you can Fart Anytime he is Around.

As you Drop the 'Stinker',
Quickly move outside, Lock Door and leave him to Inhale the Smell belleful.

Lolz but It Will Makes me Look Stupid

Autobot05:
Lock your door.. keep your footwears indoors
So when he comes he'll believe you ain't home , even if he knocks don't open

Or buy a dog

Dont make Me To Laugh Abeg, i Should Buy Dog For What Again?

Medianna:
First of all you need to understand his intentions,
Is he genuinely in need of a friend or is he trying to take advantage of you kindness.
When you answer that question within yourself then you will know what to do.
To me if he genuinely needs you, don't hesitate to help out. Its not forever.

thank you so much

mariobalotelli09:
Tell him to borrow you some money, that it's very urgent and u wouldn't mind a transfer. Try to touch his pocket if possible! He will never visit you again!!!

The Truth Is That Anytime he borrow Me Money We must Still Spend It Together Again because At Time I Use The Borrow I borrowed From Him to Buy Food stuff and If i Cook The Food we Will Still Finish It Together

dawnomike:
Start by stop offering him food...

I Was Thinking The Same just that at Time If I Cook before I Come Back From Work He Will wicked My Food because He Has My Key

DWJOBScom:
I have come to realise that there's no polite way of saying things anymore.
Just say it the way it is
Oga or madam stop I think you should stop coming to my house for now
I appreciate your understanding. I don't have an explanation, and you will respect my decision.

And Do You Think Is Easy To Say This To your Friend

I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Abeg has Siofra comment?

siofra:
So, what am I doing wrong

I've been looking for husband on nairaland for thirteen years and I'm almost 40

Just The Play

parcydrix:
It is not written anywhere that you would be the one to marry her. Oga go and hussle you were wasting that girls time her biological clock is ticking

I Dont Know Why You Guys are Not Reasoning Well With Me,am I Not The One Via Said I Will Marry her? I Would Have Marry Her If I Balance na

He Want To Roast the Wife And Eat Her As Meat Since She Dont want To cook For Him, i Dont know Why Muslim People Like Setting People ablaze

Jennyclay:
Oh No! Not again .

Why are Men so wicked and evil? I hate men!!

This man should be sentenced to death immediately!

Including Your Father And That Your careless Boyfriend. How Can You Said You Hate Men

Nazgul:
One secret in life my dad told me to always apply if I want to make it is to learn to keep my mouth shut.

Most especially when good things are coming my way or life starts favouring me, cos those you refer to as village people are actually your friends who might be envious of your progress and start fighting you both physically and spiritually.

If there's anything thing I've learned in life, it's that the more you expose your private life to people, the more problems you'll keep encountering.

Case study our celebrities...most celebrities who's marriage crashed where those who spent their whole life trying to pepper their haters by updating them with minute by minute information about themselves.

I believed What You Said 100%

Illegal1:
My own problem big pass the hand work of village people...


my own nah hand work of the devil himslf..

Lolz gist us small na

Am Working As A Teacher ever Since My People In The Village Knew That i Started Earning Small Small money Don't use To stay In My Hand Again, imagine since Last Three Month Before I could Get My Salary one Or More Problem Must Come My Way To The Extend That i Will Go And Borrow Money to Solve My Problem Then Anytime i Get My Salary I Will Just use To Cover It and I Will Be Empty Without Having Anything In My hand. I Dont know Either They Are The One Following Me

Bluezy13:
I talk am say your head no correct. I wonder why she no slap you.

Can You Just Calm Down And Talk?

Bluezy13:
Your head no correct. Money you no get, sense you no get. You suppose happy say she don free both of una.
2017-2022 approximately 6 years. She for slap you join.

Just See Your Life

Hezzyluv:
U kept her waiting for over 5years now.

and so what?

Manson1:
She did the right thing.. Stop wailing and crying like a child whoose candy is missing, step up and work hard, there are women everywhere..

she did not do the right thing because no matter how i waste her time i must still be the one to marry her

Chris2863:
If this tori is true, they need to shoot you on sight op. How can you propose to someone’s daughter and after 4 years plus, you still never marry her?


You wasted her time and I will blame her for wasting her time with you

Even If I Waste Her Time Am I Not Still the Man That Will Marry Her. Where Is She Hurry To?

NA ONLY THIS CAP HE GET NI?

Am A Kind Of Man That Enjoy Been In Relationship but To My Greatest Surprised my girlfriend Had Shocked Me Today.
There Was A Girl I Toasted ending Of 2016 we Enjoyed Our Been Together So Much To The extend That i Engaged Her January 2017 I Bought Her A Ring To Avoid Being disturb By Some street Boys, she Was Been Disturbing me To Marry Her Ever Since Then As If Marriage is Simple Thing That You Can Do with Ordinary Paper. I Told Her To Endure for Me till 2020 (everybody Knew How 2020 was bad) so i Did Not do Anything. And The Love We Have For Other Is So much nice to The Extend That We Cant do Without Seeing others every Day. She Do Complained To Me That Her Parent were Disturbing Her To Marry, but I Cant come And Rush My Self Because I Have No Money. To Short The Story this Girl Return my Ring this Morning with Tears That Am Wasting her Time without Showing Sign Of Marrying Her, i Wonder How She Want me to Show Her Sign.
I Can Never Trust Women Again In My Life because Of what She Did to me today

jeromestarks:
Are you guys serious?

I Cant joke With Something Like This

Incognito21:
I’ll bro, gotten logs already…

Good For You

It Can Never Be Me. If Na Me many Teeth For done Commot

Charcoal Is Sure And Reliable

Jennyclay:
Use charcoal to brush your teeth and thank me later.

Lol. I'm joking o!

But Thats The Truth

Ordinary shoe 50k trouser 63k back then wow. U spent when u have, u dnt av plan for yourself

Then Start It Again Na

For This Hardship This One The Buy tomatoes of #2500. Now Even If na clean Leaf i See For Bush I Will Go And Eat It am I Worker but Salary Can Not Be Paid because my Boss can Not Withdraw Money more Than 20k to Pay us and Network Problem is Not Allowing transaction To Be Done. Shaiii we Done Suffered For APC hand